Relationship issues
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Guys, I'm stuck in a serious dilemma here. Sure, I'm about to sound like an absolute faggot but here me out and give me your honest opinions. So this girl and I have been video chatting recently as we live a decent distance from each other. She's clearly into me and I'm into her. We have a relationship going. Here's the problem. She always drops sex talk at the end of every conversation, asking me to join her in the shower and whatnot. I don't really want sex tho. We've talked every day for a couple of months but it still feels unreal. I don't know if I love this person or just the concept of being in love with someone. Is it wrong for me to want a not too sexual, loving relationship? Am I a faggot because I want to love something other than a voice on a screen? Please help.
TL;DR A girl wants to get into a relationship but I think it's too fast.
u gay bro
>>16630261
Yea, you're fucking gay. Go fuck an asshole already.
Guys I'm attracted to women. I'm just not comfortable fucking a girl I barely know.
>>16630304
As a girl, this is admirable. I wish there were more guys who didn't immediately expect sex from someone they barely know.
>>16630699
Yeah, but that's got nothing to do with turning down sex. They like it when you turn down sex, at first, but not for more than a month or so.
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Dreading fucking a girl is pretty gay. There are ways to warm up with foreplay and cuddle, and there should not be any *demand* for you to have sex if you are not ready. Don't ignore her advances though. Try to be positive, try to have some fun.