My confidence is shit /adv/. I don't believe in myself at all. Even when playing video games, my first instinct in a 1v1 situation is to just run and try to get the upper hand in some other way. I never like to commit to anything.
Women apparently dislike males with no confidence too but no one can ever answer me when I ask how to improve it. How is confidence improved?
I never think to myself "I CAN DO THIS!" I always think "I am not sure I can do this..." or "Something is going to go wrong, how do I foresee it?
Can anyone give me some advice?
Get some hobbies or skills you're good at and can take pride in. Try to take leadership roles when you can (even if you don't feel comfortable at the time). Become better at talking and communicating with people.