I've suddenly began to dislike some of my close friends, particularly my best friend. Is this just a normal thing that comes with time? Will it iron itself out? I've hated myself for a long time and I could just be projecting this loathing onto people who are close to me, maybe. Anyone else gone through this suddenly? I don't feel like we've changed a lot since we've known each other, but things just feel weird. I'm starting to think none of them really like me, shit like that. I'm 23, if this somehow helps.
I'm 22 and have had a lot of really close friends that I've grown apart from, but never out of hate, more like a perpetual disinterest that set in.
In my experience - hate usually means that you still care about them, at least in some form. If you haven't seen/talked to them in a while - it's entirely possible that your own insecurity or fear of them abandoning you has turned into "fuck them, I don't need them" kind of attitude that you're just misinterpreting as hate, when in reality it's just that - fear and insecurity.
