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>tfw met a cute girl from here >she is just as crazy as
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>tfw met a cute girl from here
>she is just as crazy as me and have things in common
>she doesn't start to reply as fast as she use to
>now worried she found other friends to be around with

I'm scared she might just ditched me for her other friends. This has happened in the past with other people. Is there a way to stop it?
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>>16620561
Are you sure it was actually a girl?
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>>16620571
Yes we have done voice chat.
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>>16620575
she found more people to talk to
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>>16620561
>>16620575
Fuck, you are pathetic.
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>>16620611
Well I tried to kill myself so I guess you could say that.
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>>16620680
are you a brown loli
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>>16620561
You do realize meeting ppl online has a VERY small success rate? Fuck off
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>>16620611
>Going on /adv/ just to shitpost
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what animu is that gif from
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>>16620685
No, why?
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>>16621254
Just wondering desu
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>>16620561
>Getting emotionally invested in a girl you have no exclusive relationship with
>Not looking for more than one suitable girl at a time
>Surprised she isn't acting the same way
>And you haven't even met in person

Nigga, you did everything wrong.

She's grown used to you now. Talking every day is cool for friends, but for a non-exclusive romantic interest, you have to maintain a level of exclusivity. The only time girls can get a good taste of you is when you guys go out. That's when you wow her. During the time. In between, you keep contact, but don't give her all of your time. If you show a girl she's your priority, she'll lose interest. It's the cat & string principle, Anon.

Cut contact with her, mourn the loss, suck it up, then ask out multiple girls. Between dates, don't give them all your attention.


Until they're exclusive with you, a girl is an option, not a priority. That's romantically speaking, at least. Friendzone the fuck out of whoever you want, just know that you're friendzoning yourself if you give them all of your attention 24/7
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>>16621403
But it's hard to find someone as crazy and same personality as mine.
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I understand the temptation, but LDR shit almost never works out. One or both parties gets frustrated by the distance, and for good reason. They grow distant, and stumble on someone new that seems like a better hope, or hell they even find someone irl.

You're better off putting your nose to the ground. Conventions and online dating are a decent way of finding women with alternative interests, and you'd be surprised at the number of women who don't really have their shit together either.
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