unsubstantiated insecurities
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>get bf
>he's amazing
>we have sex a lot
>I am intersex with predominately male genitalia
>he doesn't ever mention it
>lately hes been touching my balls more and more during sex
>yesterday he let me be on top he jacked me off as I rode him
>increasingly worried that he enjoys the fetish aspect of my body to the point where he'd lose his attraction to me if I lost it
>I will be losing it in about half a year
>surgery date is growing ever closer
>>16618411
talk to him about it. if he is, do what you like more. you cant do something for or against him.
if you want it gone cuz it will make you happy then cut it off. you can of course always save the money, cancel the surgery and just get the surgery if anything ever happens but i don t think its a great idea to change your life so much based on a guy.
there will be other guys after all, especially after you cut it off.
>>16618422
It won't cost any money. Fully covered under insurer. I'm pretty sure I'm with you on the, "just do it", thing though. Just trying to dissipate my unfounded worry.
>>16618433
>unfounded
no its likely this will shake things up. he might even break up with you. moral is just do it he doesnt love you for you anyway.
>>16618411
if he's willing to put up with your bullshit so far i'm sure your new fuck hole will be entertaining enough to keep his interest.
