How do you deal with instant regret after ejaculation? Even if I masterbate to something weird after I'm done I'm so disgusted. Same happens with women. How do I stop myself from being disgusted? Or how do i make myself not do stupid shit while I'm horny.
>>16616075
Come on their faces, so they'll always look stupider than you feel.
>>16616075
That's your brain telling you that masturbation isn't right for you.
I used to get this a lot when I was younger because I was raised Christian and taught that masturbation was inherently wrong. I tried to go without it and, after about a month of no-fap, I would always start having dreams where I raped women I knew. I'd cum in my sleep and wake up feeling horrified, literally sick to my stomach. I decided I'd rather mitigate my carnality than ignore it because the latter clearly didn't work, and just started masturbating whenever I felt like it. When I was a teen, that would sometimes be multiple times a day, but it's way less often now that I'm much older. I don't feel any guilt at all when I cum now, but I've never actually fucked someone. I would've this one time but she was on her period and didn't want to go all the way, and I felt deep regret after that but it was because I knew I was just lonely and using her for physical intimacy. I broke up with her the next day and felt a lot better. Maybe your experiences with guilt are similar?
>>16616173
>broke up with a girl the day after she refused to have sex with you
I know you had your reasons, but this is how sluts are born.
>>16616209
I've done that too
>>16616209
It wasn't like that. I had actually told her I didn't want to go all the way like an hour before we got to the point of taking off clothing. She just mentioned it later as a reason for wanting to keep her pants on (literally) and that's when I realized that I didn't give a fuck about anything because I was so horny. I had been feeling the regret for weeks, but it took that night and a car crash the next day for me to snap out of it.
>>16616245
I'm 21 and I may have been sexting a girl that is 17. Is that illegal? Met her on an app that says she's 19 tho