I want people to rely on me for small things so I can feel better about myself and have them see me in a better light but my problem is that I never can get the mindset that doing these small things are worth it in the long run, or I will become the bitch of the group that everyone starts to use for things and i get nothing in return. How can I change my views on this and make my friends rely on me more for things and actually WANT to do it and not feel weird doing it.
Adopt, then you'll have someone relying on you