I don't know how i should feel about my girlfriend getting a vibrator. we are going to be doing long distance for about a year and i think it would help to to get a sex toy to fufill her sexual neeeds.
but i also wonder if i wont be good enough when i get back
>>16610967
Better than her cheating on you to fulfill her desire
>>16610967
You're pretty much getting cucked.
>vibrator
>posts pic of a huge dildo
Chill. It's just buzzing on her clitoris. If that, or even a dildo for that matter, can replace sex with you then you are a terrible lover. If not (more likely), the emotional connection, physical closeness with another person with smells, taste etc, sharing in sexual desire and so on far outweigh any physical sensation.
1 year long distance
she's going to throw the vibrator out the window and get a real one during that time
>>16610980
who's to say that dildo doesnt vibrate you cuck
>>16610994
Then you still call it a dildo. Vibrator is for the clit.
>>16610967
Get a fleshlight and see how she feels.
>>16610999
what the fuck that's so arbitrary
>>16611060
Why? Vibrating adds something but the main thing about a dildo is still that you get penetration. Actually I should've said vibrators are not meant to simulate penises or the kind of penetration from a dick... there are bullet vibrators but that is the biggest thing they have in common. And you can have a pretty strong preference, if you get little out of penetration and want to buy a sex toy, you sure as hell don't want to wade through dildos to find what you're looking for. It's just a marketing thing I guess.
>>16610985
Kek
I'm just imagining a vibrator tumbling down from 10 stories and bouncing off a car window.
>>16610967
My fuck buddy (im 18 she's 24) has sex with me alot, im 5'6" inches and the dildo is longer and thicker
I felt bad the first time I saw it in a drawer but she keeps calling me for sex so its allright anon
These threads come up now and again and I don't get it. I've used vibrstors on my gf. It's no big deal. It's a machine, it can go faster but can't replace cuddling and shit. I never felt like less of a man or anything.
>>16612091
Honestly I think it's mostly just people without that much sexual experience who haven't quite grasped the 'point' of sex, i.e. what makes it good. I don't say that to be insulting at all. I used to be insecure about dildos & vibrators too. Like, "my penis is smaller than those dildos and it's literally impossible for it to stimulate her clit as much, what's even the point of me being here?"
At some point I realized that the actually interesting parts of sex are all the extraneous stuff, the buildup, the foreplay and the kissing, the dirty talk/moaning/hair pulling/softly staring into each other's eyes, you know, whatever the fuck you're into. The actual mechanics of penis-plunging-into-vagina are such a small part of what makes sex good or bad.
>>16612184
Yeah, idk, even when I was newer I thought it was hot, granted this is different, I was in the room, this is long distance. Still, she's not going to fall in love with the vibrator, anon it's no big deal. I guess maybe it's the female jealously equivalent of looking at porn. Most girls don't look like that our do those things but still, we love our gf's.
