Alright, so i started talking to a girl I used to see
To start with, it's just talking nothing special
About two weeks in, talking everyday and we start getting into much deeper topics
It feels like there's an attraction between us again
been about a month and i started slipping in that our conversations would be better in person, e.g. in bed
says she agrees
doesn't want to come see me though
because she's not certain of her feelings
What i'm thinking of doing is telling her to have a few days to think it over, and then get back to me. I figure if there's feelings she'll miss me and it'll work in my favour. and if not then i can stop talking to her with a bit of closure
I want advice on whether i should tell her to do that or not, and if so how to word it the best way possible
Seems like she just wants someone to chat with, and you're that guy. I had a girl I used to talk to regularly and I had her over at my place with no issue.
All that "unsure of her feelings" talk is pure shit. She's saying that to keep you around because you'll hope that those "unsure feelings" turn into actual feelings.
Cut her off and talk to other people, you don't want this chick to be your oneitis, or yet make it even worse.