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Repairing burned bridges
2015-12-26 08:29:48 Post No. 16605334
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Repairing burned bridges
Anonymous
2015-12-26 08:29:48
Post No. 16605334
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Hi /adv/,
A few months back I got somewhat involved with a female friend of a group of friends I hung out with often.
We got really close and flirted a lot to the point where I started giving her a mess of attention. She sent a lot of really strong signals. Really late into everything I found out she had a boyfriend the entire time though, at which point I confronted her and told her it wasn't a good idea for us to be flirting or for me to be giving her so much attention, though I hoped we would remain friends. She got really mad and started giving me the cold shoulder, as well as what appeared to be her trying to mess with me by including herself in activities I took part in as well as flirting with other guys when I was around. I don't know what all that meant, but oh well.
It drove me crazy that she refused to remain friends, so I did the pathetic guy shit, begging her for forgiveness and what not. It got to the point where I felt like I was getting a little out of hand contacting her, so I had to stop and remove myself from the situation.
The entire time the group of friends her and I hang around could tell something was going on between us. They seemed to not really talk to me as much anymore, which made me think maybe she was trying to turn them against me.
Regardless, I got fed up of everything so I just removed all forms of contact between the girl as well as my group of friends and just completely avoided everyone for the past few months.
I've been getting the idea of trying to make a reappearance and attempt to contact my friends here recently, but I'm really scared that everyone hates me or misunderstands the situation and thinks badly of me. Whether she really did turn them against me or I burned bridges by avoiding them I'm not sure. I'm just not sure what to do in this situation. Is it too late?
Thanks.