>19 years old
>married
>she lives with me and my mother
> getting papers next week (I was undocumented)
> doing bad in community college
>not motivated
>don't want to live with mom anymore
>live in jersey
What do I do? I was thinking working full time with ups and take one or two classes. Trying to do computer science but I would like an IT job. I love my wife and just want to move out and be in peace with her.
Get your shit together
>>16564014
I'm trying anon. I just don't feel happy living here with my mom and not working and shit. I wanna move out and live alone with my wife and a roommate.
>>16564006
>19 years old
>married
how?
why?
>>16564263
>I was undocumented
I don't think we need to read into this more.
>>16564291
Shotgun marriage? Kill yourself you fucking faggot.
>>16564006
If you're going to move out, you're taking on the responsibility of a grown-up. That means that providing for the two of you is the first priority. As admirable as it is for you to go to school, that's a luxury you may not be able to afford right now. Unless there's a good reason not to, she has to get a good job too.
When you've got a place to live, and furniture, and one or more solid incomes big enough to pay all your debts, and some savings, then you can take a couple of night classes.
>>16564980
Shotgun marraige means he knocked her up and was forced into marraige you faggot learn what a shotgun wedding is.
Bein undocumented, implies he wasn't a citizen of that country and married her for citizenship.
>>16565252
She's almost done with college she's a senior. She can be working full time being a teacher and I could work part time to help with the bills. Or just work full time and take at least one class
>>16565430
We married cause we love eachother and she wanted to help me with my status in order to speed up our lives together
>>16564006
Get a full time job in Philly if you have a means of transportation. Plenty of jobs available, especially if you have connections.
>>16565907
Philly Is a long ass drive. What if I just move there?
This thread appears every day. OP's got some kind of mental issue. Don't waste your time.
>>16565941
I mean yeah, of course, after you land a job of course. Places are pretty cheap here too depending on what part you live in.