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I'm lonely and due to various problems in my life unable
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I'm lonely and due to various problems in my life unable to socialise. This means no friends or intimacy.

How do I get over this? I feel like shit 24/7. During my early 20s I didn't give a shit but now I feel fucking terrible and am constantly longing friendships and relationships.

Is there a magic pill I can take or something? Video games and anime no longer help.
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I only have friends because I joined a church group. You could try that.
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>>16555918
One of my problems is agoraphobia. I only leave the house when absolutely necessary (medical reasons), so I can't join a church group, unfortunately.
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Nothings going to change until you stop making excuses and actually deal with the things you don't like about yourself.
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>>16555923
Agoraphobia? More like Hypochondria. Sounds like a made up illness. Also
>anime pic
come on man idk I'm still socially awkward too and you don't gotta go out and make friends thats fucking creepy but at least in your class or wherever you're studying you can make friends. It's very easy to. Just talk to someone about homework at first and bring up other shit it's not hard. Many people have talked to me in class or when I'm at the library for hours simply cuz I talked back and listened and asked questions if I wondered something. It's basic communications. Or get a job it really helps get out of your shell just do it man you can't be cooped up forever I know your mom would probably say the same. Just take it from an anon that knows
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>>16555980
>at least in your class or wherever you're studying you can make friends
I wasn't exaggerating. I haven't left the house since August when I got sick.

I know that a lot of 'NEETs' and others on 4chan claim to be as such but aren't really, but that's not the case here.
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>>16555914

>literally asking for a magic pill
>people still respond
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>>16555987
I just googled it. "usually self diagnosable". Stop making excuses man. Are you home schooled then? Where in the functioning planet are you not going to be embarrassed? Your house? If youre really buying into this tumblr made illness then idk what to tell you man, you're a lost hope.
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>>16555995
I'm 22, I'm haven't been in education since I was 16. I'm currently on a couple different forms of disability welfare (not sure what Americans would call it) due to mental illnesses including agoraphobia and have a therapist that comes by once per week but we don't discuss things like loneliness. The state pays for my therapy. The only diagnoses I have are from this therapist (as well as a GP I had to visit monthly a couple years ago).

If I were into the whole Tumblr thing I would be posting on Tumblr.
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>>16556004
I've been talked with a couple therapists they usually don't know what they're doing. They disagnose from what you tell them so ofc they're gonna say you're agoraphobic if you say you hate going out. First thing they want to do is usually get you on some pills that make you feel worse. I don't know many ima leave this thread. You come for advice and don't heed the advice. Good luck in the real world
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>>16556004
Sounds like you got a shitty therapist if they let you whine about how its not your fault.
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