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A QUESTION FOR FEMANONS
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When guys talk sex, they ALWAYS lie and exaggerate their experience and prowess, to make themselves look like king studs.

What about girls? When you talk sex, do you make yourself sound more wild than you are, or do you hide your experience and play more demure?
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I don't bother lying

I have a traumatic sexual history, i make sure my partners know that so they're not horrified by my weird behavior in bed

Oh well
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>>16551989
I think all genders do this and in my opinion it's just to make yourself look more approachable/desirable.
Usually it just makes the guy/gal you are boasting to more uncomfortable, especially if they are inexperienced.
In this case, "just be yourself" usually works (but don't go mentioning how big your last partners dick/tits were, that's just dumb).
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>>16551999
please tell us more about your sexual history. it sounds tasty.
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>>16551999
Nice trips.
Now tell us about your sex life.
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>>16552033
>>16552008
I was over sexualized as a small child. Molested, saw porn, not sure, just know I fantasized about horrible rape scenarios instead of loving mutually pleasurable sex

Then my first BF at 13 discovered I was to embarrassed/humiliated to ask him to stop touching me too many times in a row

Like he's try to take my shirt off and I'd manage to say no to that but somehow I'd end up with his knee pressed hard against my clit

It was extremely confusing and eventually I started sleeping with him

He forced me to have sex in public, in close proximity to our families, etc. 2 yrs with him

Then I swapped myself between a trio of best friends for 2 yrs

Self-imposed celibacy for a year

Then I was really slutty in an attempt to reclaim my sexuality, for about six months

Been with my partner for almost 3.5 yrs and he just gave me my first happy orgasm two months ago
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>>16552043
You sound extremely self absorbed. No mention if you were actually molested.
And if you actually fucked a guy near your family when you were 15 then you should be the one ashamed. Disguisting.
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>>16552060
Thank you, friend
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>>16552060
>>>/r9k/
>>>/r/theredpill
They'll be awaiting you.
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i usually hide my experiences
some guys i talked to in past would get mad at me if i weren't
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>>16551989
It's biology. Men want to exude strength, and ability to provide (even if it's an orgasm). Women want to make their eggs as valuable as possible, having sex and sounding like you're the best as a woman does not elicit those qualities.
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I usually don't talk about my sexlife with somebody that isn't My bf. I would just tell my closest female friends if i have slept wirh a guy for the first time and maybe if we had mindblowingly good sex. But other than that, i like to keep it private. Also because i don't want my friends to be in this awkward situation where you meet somebody you never saw before, but already know how they moan, how big their dick is and so on. Embarassing.
And if the topic is on the table, we only talk about stuff like where we have sex, with or without condoms and how often. Not in details, like if you prefer facials or creampies or if you are into anal. Which positions you like or how loud you are in bed. I consider those things something that stays between me and my bf.
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>>16552099
This is the first reply that actually answered OP's question. The rest of you get an F in reading comprehension.
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>>16551989
>When guys talk sex, they ALWAYS lie and exaggerate their experience and prowess, to make themselves look like king studs.

I'm a guy and I don't think I've ever done that... But then... I don't think I've ever really talked about my sex life to anyone, except my girlfriend, and even then, not in any graphic specifics.

In my head, all of that's only business between me and them.
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>>16551989
Except I don't talk about my sex life with others, besides on 4chan, and when I do I'm completely honest.
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>>16551989

No. That's like sharing your strategy with the enemy in a time of war. We're constantly trying to steal one another's boyfriends, and sex is the weapon of choice. The guy we're competing for is ultimately going to stick with whichever one of us is fucking him the most frequently and gives it to him however he likes it the most. The thing is, figuring out how he likes it is harder than you'd think. They're usually too focused on trying to make us orgams to enjoy the experience for their own pleasure. So we gotta work at getting them to stop trying to strategize focussing on us and get them to just go cave-man and fuck us however they'd really like it. Then we gotta figure out how to move and behave accordingly to maximize and enhance that as much as possible such that when he climaxes, its like a fire-hose going off on full blast between your legs almost throwing you back into the headboard. Its like picking a lock. Very complicated and time consuming and a lot of work. Its information you worked really hard to get and the last thing you want to do is share that info with the competition so that they can use it to steal your man.
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>>16552368
any stories?
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I don't talk about intimate details like that with people who aren't my partner. He and I were both kissless virgins, so that's all there was to say. We didn't lie. And I wouldn't have dated him if he had previous experience.
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>>16551989
>When guys talk sex, they ALWAYS lie and exaggerate their experience and prowess
Not always, not every guy.
I have been pleasantly surprised before.

>When you talk sex, do you make yourself sound more wild than you are, or do you hide your experience and play more demure?
That depends on who I am talking too. In general, I am shy when talking about sex unless it is my partner. I am also shy at the beginning of a sexual encounter, but I relax pretty fast. I'm an enthusiastic lover, pretty vocal, and willing to please.
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hello rionach. i know youre here
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If you're a fake hoe then you fake being a hoe sometimes, fake being dressed like a hoe, fake the hoe sex prowess, fake everything till you make it.
Some people are kinky and honest though.
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