men, if your woman wants sex and you're tired or not in the mood, do you decline or perform half assedly? Do you pleasure her till she gets off?

>>16535722
If I'm really tired, I'll say not tonight and go to sleep.

>>16535743
my man does the half ass thing. I've stopped initiating because if he's not in the mood I'll end up fucking his body but Buster Keaton's face

>>16535722
>>16535783
Man-whore here, its always about the girl. Sexual reputation is everything.

For you, my advice is to grind on his cock if he's too tired to get you off. Or sneak a Viagra in and ride him?

alright neetgen is worthless so I'll try here

I'm not quite a neet but I will be fairly soon if I don't get a job

I'm in my senior year of High School. Target is hiring for seasonal positions. Will they even consider me for seasonal if I have to go to school during the day?

>>16536090
If you can compromise by working weekends, then you should be fine. Nothing to lose by applying anyway

>>16535864
>Or sneak a Viagra in
Because secretly drugging your partner is a great start to a healthy relationship.

>>16536090
Sure, if you work weekends and/or nights. I'm able to work fridays and weekends only really and it hasnt been a major issue.

Both men and women: do you seek an intellectually inferior, equal or intellectually superior life partner?
Why?

>>16535699
When is it ok to start farting in front of your boyfriend?

Trying to make it simple. I dated a girl for 6 months and she broke it off because she was undergoing something harsh in her life and I took the breakup hard and didn't keep contact until a few months later when I was finally able to talk to her and not be a little b about it, she gets with some guy but I pretend now to care. Casual talking at this point, not always but I still think about her. I confess what I've been hiding since she dumped me and she tells me I'm amazing blah (she still has a bf) and she wants me to be her friend for a long long time. Then she says she wants to hang out even after knowing I am this passionate. Straight up girls does she want to just have a friendly hangout or is she giving me a chance to show her how amazing I am and have her reconsider? Plz help

>>16536114
equal or superior.
I always end up with superior that seem to think i'm equal. I must be convincing.

>>16536114
man here.

superior.

because i wouldn't respect an inferior in the long term and i would resent my equal. it's also nice to have someone better than you around to help you.

>>16536114
Equal. If they were inferior, I'd get frustrated at being unable to discuss intellectual things, and if they were superior, I'd feel stupid and inadequate.

>>16536115
When he starts farting in front of you.

>>16536114
Woman here. Very close to equal but leaning on superior, especially in things like math, technology, money, general fixing shit, ect.

>>16536115
I think it's just polite and pretty easy to not do that around anybody if you can

>>16536114
Equal ish. I was with a woman a good bit slower than me, and it was just a frustrating experience. I want someone that can take care of themselves, learn at a reasonable pace, and be able to think on their feet.

Christ I remember she gave me a saw when I asked for a screwdriver, after a while it felt like she was an infomercial given life.

>>16536119
Assume she means what she says she means (be friends) unless she does something to contradict that. Girls are not a hivemind - only she knows what she wants.

>>16536114
Superior. It irritates me how stupid I am, don't think I could handle a partner like me.

Target dude here, another question

I don't smoke. At least, not regularly.
Recently, I visited family up north. I smoked weed 3 times over the course of a week. Prior to this, the last time I'd smoked was a year and a half ago.

This means the last time I smoked weed was last saturday.

Considering Target is known for doing drug tests, should I be worried? I'm overweight but not incredibly fat, and not particularly active. I've been trying shitloads of liquids all day

Girls: Do you have racial preferences in partners? Any races you are very hesitant to date long term?

>>16536199
White/Jewish guys. I've only ever had one partner, and he's white and a quarter Jewish so jackpot.

If I take a girl to the zoo or a movie and when its done and I'm dropping her home, what do I do?

Assuming everything went swimmingly, do I go in for the kill and kiss her? On her mouth? cheek? Is it time to kiss her if there's a long pause where we just face each other?

>>16536199
I don't like black dudes and sort of prefer asians

Girl I like
>Get number
>texting always awkward never get too far
Girl I don't like
>Always texts me back right away super fucking helpful and loving
>Don't even fucking remember her name and its way too late to ask (It's been like a year)

FUCKING WHY?! Why is it always so difficult to get the girls I want I don't understand... I'm about to just give up and get /fit/ as fuck but once I do that I know I will see women as shallow tools. I mean how can it be that one girl is willing to travel the world with me and another just thinks I'm weird? What kinda of fucking standards do I abide by?

>>16536250
Think of it like a Venn Diagram. One circle is filled with all the girls who are attracted to you. The other is filled with all the girls you're attracted to. The smaller sliver where they overlap is full of girls who are both. It's a numbers game. You've got to keep trying until you find one.

>>16536250
Also how the fuck did I get away not saying her name for a year? That's some shit man.

This girl wants to like stuff that I like
What's that about?

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>>16536268
Classic body snatcher seen it a million times.
>Girls flirts with guy
>Starts to take his interests
>Goes to his home meets his family starts to ask more questions
>Goes on a date in a isolated area
>Begins kissing
>At first it's good but to the mans horror she does not stop sucking
>Sucks so hard all the mans skin is ripped off
>Now skinned alive the man is on the floor in pain
>After consuming the man and adorning his skin she goes back to his home and lives out his life until she needs to shed again
Run while you can man you are lucky you asked here who knows what might of happened.

>>16535699
A girl I have a crush on had a bad day, I tried talking to her at the end of it, she only gave short, clipped answers and all the rest, really had no interest. Said sorry, tried speaking to me again after that a day later. Is that a bad sign? If I were having a bad day I'd enjoy talking to her, it would probably make me feel better. My idea is she probably doesn't see it the same way.

>>16536221
Always the mouth for a goodbye kiss on 1st date, really seals in the night

What do guys find charming in a person?

For women: how should guys treat you when you're on your period?

>>16536360
Don't be obnoxious, easily irritable.
Just be yourself man. Don't coddle the girl.

>>16536360
Hm. I guess the most important thing is don't be loud or jostle me. Treat me like someone who is sick, because that's how I feel.

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>>16536340
A really kind person who smiles often and makes the people around them happy(high energy,honest,caring,good hearted etc..).
When you have a good heart and think about others often it shows. At first you won't notice it but higher quality guys will start to want to be around you all the time ( as in guys who want a gf not a fuck). Even if you are not so attractive it will make you seem so much cuter I know several girls like this one was really fat but I know she can get a bf no prob because of her personality another is average and all my friends like her hell I even like her but she friends zones everyone. The last one is literally perfect super smart super kind and she is a little below average in looks but her personality is so amazing when you see her in person she just becomes beautiful it's such a weird effect her smile just makes me glad I told a joke or came out when ever I think of her I regret choosing a different girl she could have stolen me at any time if she wanted even though my girls friend was much more attractive physically.

>>16536296
Hahahaha

So the girl is interested in a guy if she does that?

Are there natural ways to increase breast size?

>>16536464
Pregnancy

>>16536464
Drink a lot of milk. But don't worry about it too much just go on /b/ and you'll see it does not matter as much as you think.

For women: Any advice for a guys first time?

>>16536479
First time what?

First time having sex

>>16536482
Fist time having sex

>>16536495
Don't stress.

>>16536495
1.Get one out before hand so you don't finish early
2.Foreplay is super important make sure you find her g-spot it will feel like a small bump on the top or bottom wall
3. Don't be greedy start slow and go on make sure she is always enjoying herself and kiss her often
Have fun and let your animal instincts take over when you can. Also make sure you eat a lot of carbs like an hour or 2 before hand they will give you stamina don't do it with an empty stomach.

what does a girl mean if she says she's taken but doesn't have a boyfriend?

>>16536495
Please be safe

>>16536517
I have no idea

>>16536514

Do some women like inexperience?

>>16536517
She does not like you try another don't worry rejection is common for guys get up and try again. I know it's hard sometimes when you think you really like a girl but in reailty if she says shit like this you barely know her and she does not consider you close enough to be honest with. I know that feel but just get up and try again my friend.

>>16536533
Yes

I am lonely as fuck because I'm a KV autist.
I seem to attract men that I don't want, as in we might be compatible with humor but there's always an element of
> clinginess
> possessiveness
> being a petty dick
> the reveal of some deep skeletons early on
This doesn't make me feel good, so I run once I see it's going to be shit. I've got a friend and her boyfriend is my worst nightmare, he's a cunt to her, hits her and never leaves her alone. I just feel like if I got a boyfriend, that's what he'd be like. Where can I find a sane, normal boyfriend in my mid size town?

>>16536533
No none not even virgins hide it. If you use foreplay correctly and follow these tips you can last long enough and make her feel good enough for her not to notice. Do some research on positions to use, fore play etc... But more importantly remember to enjoy it. It's normal to get a bit nervous but make sure more then anything you have a desire to make her feel good because that's what will make it enjoyable and fun for both of you.

>>16536548
The guy your looking for is most likely a bit shy and need a bit more motivation to flirt with you. See>>16536431
If you have these qualities eventually you will have guys who have good intentions around you. I'd suggest the guy that seems drastically different from what you are used to personality wise. Not only will these traits attract better men but they will give you better friends in general.

>>16536550
Should I focus on things that turn me on, or focus more on what turns her on?

>>16536431
Thank you, I appreciate such a long response.

>>16536452
No

>>16536568
Both a lot of the time it's the same thing. It feels good for a women's breasts to be massaged it feels good when you grab her but the right way(in the small area right before it becomes leg). When you kiss her on the neck etc... Take time to learn about her body and see what gets her really turned on it's fun and will turn you on as well. Once you start to please her she will desire to please you. Just don't force oral sex first time if you are comfy with it fine but you don't have to it will earn you extra points but it maybe a bit too much all at once if it's your first time. Just really remember to find her g-spot during foreplay and aim for it during sex and have a lot of fun with it.

>>16536580
No problem I know how it feels to be uncertain about what others want.

>>16536603
Thank you for the advice

>>16536609
Just want you to have a good time no need for thanks.

>>16536340
Varies.

Honesty and kindness are decent first steps. If you treat others well, at the very least I'll respect you as a person even if we don't really click.

>>16536340
Confidence and wit.

I was interested in this chick through a mutual friend, but then I found out her idea of breaking up was ignoring her ex until he basically rage blocked her on various accounts. Then she acted like a victim even though he did exactly what she wanted.

What runs through these peoples heads? Maybe I just have friends who hang out with bad crowds but I keep running into this sort of shit in college. I'm just hoping it changes once I graduate at this point.

>>16536712
I find its best to talk to the people who care about doing well. Volunteer work, studious, kind etc... I used to hang out with people who did nothing but chilled partied etc.. I still hold on to them as close friends but recently I've been making a lot of new friends with people who came from other countries and are trying hard to achieve, people who want to help others, people who just want good friends. Honestly I know a lot of girls now who are virgins or have never had a boyfriend I did not think that was a thing in college but it is when you start hanging out with these really straight edge people. Basically start making friends with people that really care about school and more importantly other people. Show you also have a good heart and you can find a lot of really great girls.

Men: would a girl with permanent and noticeable laceration scars on her face repulse you? Could you still consider them pretty if they had an otherwise nice face, or does that ruin it?

Like, aside from KS fags (who obviously get off on stuff like it), would anyone even mind much?

>>16536767
I'll need to protect that smile

Girls:

I met a girl at a party. We make out a lot at the party and had some fun. We chatted a lot before we started drinking. I slowed down/ended the make out session after I started sobering up and her getting more intoxicated (she was wobbling and was about to hurl, etc)

I got her number for her friend because I found out she knew one of my friends really well and have had a past history of this blowing up in my face.

Then outta the blue she mentions that party and was like " I was so inebriated I couldn't remember anything" I made a joke about remembering me at least and then she talked about the night again, she gave me a gawk/judgy stare completely different to her usual looks. I understand that she wanted to explain herself that she isn't always like that. BUT it changed the entire vibe of the date for me, it felt like she only wanted this date to prove to herself that she isn't always like that. I just felt a bit used...to clear someone else's conscious.

I talked near the end about meeting again and she was really open to it and told me her schedule. But I felt it was honest at first but Idk now.

I know I am reading a lot into it but I was really annoyed after the date. I haven't been on dates in awhile, due to family issues/work, but I wanted to try keep communication and willing learn more about each other ahead of heavy physical touching/contact that might give ONS vibes.

I texted her right after that I hope she got home early + joke from our date (something I rarely do because I though I should've done) and she didn't text back. My friend warned me about an odd and peculiar date with our age gaps but I'm really confused. I don't want to ignore her and get in trouble with our mutual friend but I don't want to be reaching out for someone six years younger than me, idk im lost and its annoying.

Should I text her back for a second date in a few days? Just to get it done with or should I just move on and hope it doesn't explode? Thanks.

>>16536767
Possibly, how severe is it though? If you don't want to post a picture, I'd appreciate a comparable picture.

>>16536767
See>>16536431
KS fags like girls like this (from what I know) because of the personality behind the scar. Of course you cannot say this for every single guy but a lot of men melt at a soft heart. I don't know how big your scar is or how you face looks so I can't tell you how attractive you are but you have to remember we are all trying hard to get somewhere in life dealing with our own problems and some times the most attractive thing you can do is give someone a really nice smile and treat them with a lot of kindness just to make it a bit easier. I'm sure you can understand that even if you are not a man. So do not worry your scars do not mean you cannot find a good guy for yourself.

Girls

Would you think less of a guy that writes whiny, depressing music?

This girl seems interested in me but doesn't really help me
Like she'll walk past and not hold open the door and shit like that

Should I not have anything to do with her?

>>16536831
Sounds rude

>>16536830
What a loaded question

>>16536199
I like white guys, but I also hesitate to date them. I'm not too picky, but I don't prefer asians.

>>16536360
No different. I don't really get symptoms. Lay out a towel or something for sex.

>>16536517
She doesn't want to date you. Or she's dating a chick.

>>16536830
I don't date musicians.

>>16536831
....what?

>>16536831
That's your choice I've had women pay for my means and vacation before then still turn out to be bitches or the relationship not work out. I don't like it but a lot of American girls are raised thinking they don't have to do the polite shit men do and are never even taught to do so.

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>>16536792
Here's a reference I drew onto this manikin

>>16536850
>>16536846
She was texting one time and pushed open the door for me the other time before letting my shoulder shoulder the burden of keeping the door open

>>16536847
In what way?

>>16536864
>would you think less of someone who does something negative

>>16536830
I like Crywank's stuff so no.

>>16536870
Hmm, guess it is

>>16536860
She'll just walk past and not hold the door open

>>16536874
Thats what inspired me to start

I'm texting lewd with a girl and she's into it. But I'm physically shaking. How do I stop. It's freaking me out

>>16536894
Why?

Guys last night i went partying in Korea and I was completely shit faced. Now I danced with 2 girls that night but one i was dancing with the girl on some sort of stripper pole. Im seriously regretting how fucking gay I probably looked. Would you guys or girls suggest I never go back to this club? I mean im sure its not a big deal, but fuck im embarrassed as hell.

>>16536897

Why what.

I'm texting lewd. She likes it. But my whole body is like shivering as if I'm cold. But I'm not. I want it to stop, how do I stop it

>>16536894
I get the shakes when getting lewd texts too. Doesnt help, but at least youre not alone

>>16536899
do you know how gay Korean culture looks to much of the outside world?

besides, you were drunk. it's understandable. it might be embarrassing but you'll get over it.

i'm assuming you're not gay so it's no big deal.

>>16536902

That makes me feel better. The awkward part is I'm shaking like crazy and people are looking at me funny

>>16536905
Get an energy drink or something to blame for the shaking.

>>16536907

Ok I will.

I hope I don't shake like this when I meet this girl

How do I ask an introvert out?

>>16536853
Doesnt sound that bad then, especially if you have bangs.

>>16536850
>I like white guys, but I also hesitate to date them
Why?

>>16536894
Just take a breather and slow down. Whenever that's happened to me, it was usually due to anxiety.

This whole post is basically the common sense answer to everything. "Hey Anon, did I put <insert object> in the wrong place?". OP: "Maybe, maybe not. Depends on the object or the place you put it in. Life finds a way."

>>16536953
>Just take a breather and slow down. Whenever that's happened to me, it was usually due to anxiety.

Yeah I'm trying to. It's weird, I've been texting this girl from Tinder for 3.5 months now. We've never met. But through text we seem to have a ton of common interests. Anyways, I decided to be lewd out of nowhere and she went with it. I'm still shaking. Maybe it's just because I haven't been with a girl in 4 years. I don't know, but I hate this shaking and I want it to stop.

Also, on a side note. This girls seen pictures of my face, but never seen my body. I'm a really skinny dude. I hope she doesn't lose interest when we meet because of my body size, it's something I'm very paranoid about.

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Girls:

Why do so many of you turn into turbosluts after a breakup? I've seen it in both the dumpers and the dumpees. (Not to say guys don't as well, but I've noticed it happening a lot more consistently with girls.)

>>16536938
'hey do you want to go out with me sometime at <place that isn't jam packed with loud shitty strangers>'

source- I'm an introvert

How do I slow down when fooling around with girls. Everytime I've done anything with them, from the point of when we start making out to the point im pulling her panties off is too fast. Like I think I do it cause I'm freaking out. I really dislike making out. Having my face in someone else's is awkward and uncomfortable for me. But I know that's how you're suppose to prepare oven. But I never do it correctly. I always make out for like 1 minute then start tugging off her panties and begin fingering her.

How do I slow down?

>>16536953
>if you have bangs
Okay, thank you.

I do the "le cover half of face with hair meme" to hide most of them. Is that a giveaway? I don't want to drive people away by making them suspicious that I'm hiding something like a lazy eye or serious disfiguration.

>>16537048
>Is that a giveaway?
If I notice them under the bangs, I'll assume you're trying to hide them. If I don't, I won't really put much thought into it.

But I mean, they're mainly on the forehead. I was thinking you had a significant gash along your cheek or something at first, it's not a big deal either way imo.

>>16536965
>I've been texting this girl from Tinder for 3.5 months now
For what purpose.

>>16536968
A lot of people seem to think the easiest way to get over someone is to start fucking someone new. It's easier for a woman to get casual sex if we're honest.

>>16537063

>For what purpose

I mean, no real purpose I guess. Text buddy? We text about politics and stuff all the time. Just never met up.

>>16537011

Anyone?

>>16536968
If you were free to have good sex after a period of bad sex, wouldn't you too?

>>16536192
Straight up. Ur fucked

Guys I'm still shaking. In fact it's worse. i look like I'm epileptic or something. All the lewdness is killing me. Make it stop!!!

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>>16537209
pic related

>>16537218

I can't alcohol right now. I'm armed, and at work.

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Women:

I have a date this Saturday. If she asks me what music I listen to, do I tell her the truth, that I only listen to video game OSTs? This is really the only thing I'm particularly worried about.

>>16537233
Tell the truth. If you lie, your bullshitting will catch up to you sooner or later, and if this is going to last more than a few dates then you're going to have to reveal your power level sooner or later

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ok lewdness should be done now.

I need advice though, how do I not shake when I meet this girl. Like I said before, it's been 4 years since I've even cuddled with a girl. The last time I did, the girl even mentioned "wow your heart is beating super fast" and that really embarrassed me. How do I avoid this?

Drugs are not a option btw

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>>16537233
Why bother hiding that? Game soundtracks comprise quite a few of my favorites. Your tastes may not agree, but if she looks down on you for your taste in music, she's probably a snob.

>>16537233
I alway's ask about music and this is more common than you think. Music's music, don't be embarrassed about what you like. I just danced round to Beyonce and I'm meant to be cool.

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>>16537233
>only
There are a lot of good videogame osts but restricting yourself like that seems silly.

>>16537239
The shaking should calm down as you get used to it. But the heart racing isn't necessarily a bad thing. Personally I'd find it very cute. It's a way that your body shows you're into her; if anything, it would feel nice knowing I made someone feel that way.

>>16537239
Why does she call you daddy?

That's fucked up

I know texting is usually the norm and stuff, but is it OK to call a girl/guy during a Holiday?

>>16537274
People are generally busier. Maybe text first and ask if it's okay to call?

This chick seems to be interested in me
Noticed that she'll walk past an open door and not help hold it open

Is she oblivious or selfish or?

I'm not expecting help or a thank you for doing that, but find it weird regardless

>>16537266
This!
Heart racing is cute, she'd have liked it.

>>16537274
Texting is fine.

>>16537280
>>16537266

>heart racing is good

I guess that's nice to know. But I'm shaking again, she's calling me daddy (as a joke) but it's catching on. And she's making me shake again. I hate thisssss

When do you tell your boyfriend more details about past relationships?
Hae hasn't asked much, he knows I had a serious ex but that's it. I was pregnant when I was with him but lost the baby. Is it something that I need to disclose straight away or do I keep it to myself? I don't want to throw it out there so soon as I don't want to appear like I have mental issues with it. I don't, it was for the best. But I don't want to keep it from him if it will cause an issue down the line.
Guys, how would you feel if your new girlfriend told you this? What if I didn't tell him at all and I mentioned it further down the line? Is that a lie? Would it put you off her?

>>16537288
if the joke is making you uneasy then tell her

>>16537288
You need to chill out a bit. It's text, she can't see you, just say embarrassing stuff back. No one is watching apart from her and she's caking you Daddy so quite clearly wants it. Grow a pair.

>>16537292
Normally I would say it's really none of his business what your past relationships were like, but I think the miscarriage thing is pretty significant to mention. Maybe if the topic of babies ever comes up, you could use that as a segue into the miscarriage? Assuming that happens pretty soon. It's definitely not something you should keep from him

>>16537288
Tell her she's a good girl, she'll love that shit.

>>16537297
Already spoke briefly about kids but nothing serious. Fuck, I lost my chance.

>>16537292
I'd save it for whenever the relationship is getting serious, and talk of marriage and children start popping up. I wouldn't consider it a lie, unless you falsified information.

I mean, there's stuff I'm not entirely sure when and if I should talk about, but I certainly wouldnt consider it lying anyways.

>>16536953
>Why?
White guys, in my experience, tend to not get what "no" means. They also are the people that most ask why I'm not into them, and think I'm a cunt for not answering, or even worse if I tell the truth. Generally just bad experiences, you know?

>>16536968
It's encouraged to have one night stands after breakups, that's our society. Girls actually get laid, rather than having to try for it.

>>16537233
I'd be honest, but try to downplay it as if you're not that into music, probably.

>>16537274
Text to ask if you can call.

>>16537292
Girl, but I don't disclose those details ever.

>>16537312
Are you white?

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>>16537303
It's not a now or never thing. You can always talk about it next time you guys breach that topic. There's no particular rush, I assume all of that stuff is over the horizon for now.

>>16537312
>Generally just bad experiences, you know?
Sure, but I used to live in California. To be blunt about it, a disturbing number of mexicans and blacks struggled weren't exactly great about understanding what no meant either.

So the line of logic just seems a bit odd to me.

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>>16537298

If she broke up with her partner and had one night stands, would you still pursue her?

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>>16537293
>>16537295
>>16537298

I'm not uncomfortable she's calling me daddy. I'm uncomfortable from the shaking lol

>>16537318
Asian, US born.

>>16537323
I have not yet encountered a situation where a black guy did not know what "no" meant. I don't really get attention from hispanics. Washington here.

>>16537310
I'm glad it isn't seen as lying.

>>16537312
I wasn't going to disclose but I feel a bit guilty. It can wait though till having kids subject comes up...which won't be for a long time hopefully.

>>16537279
Head in the clouds?

Or just rude

>>16537331
Are you used to the dom thing? I have a feeling you might be a bit out of your depth.

>>16537337
>Washington here.
Small world. Unless you live in Seattle or something there arent really any blacks up here to begin with though.

>I have not yet encountered a situation where a black guy did not know what "no" meant.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Personal experiences would have me advise any woman passing through Oakland to get a stun gun.

>>16537356
I spent a lot of time in Lakehood, plenty of blacks there.

>>16537337
I've only encountered one 'no' experience and he was black. I had to run away, and hide in a hotel. He then spent the next 2 months phoning me every day, called me names when I told him I wasn't interested and he only stopped when my brother started answering my phone.
I think that's why I'm scared of black guys now. That & their huge wangs.

>>16537353

I honestly don't know.

>>16537378
>That & their huge wangs.
People put too much stock into porn.

>>16537378
They're attracted to fear and that sound you hear is the sound of their lightsabers lighting up

>>16537384
You need to practice. Go on omegle and search for dom in interests. You need more game.

>>16537388
That was just jokes.

>>16537389
Viiiisssuuuuuuuuu.

Ok guys maybe you can help me out. I'm Italian, so forgive me if I made any grammar mistakes. So, long story short:
I've met this girl in uni and she was acting friendly and flirty first, but then she became distant and aloof.
At first I was a little sad, but then I started acting aloof as well, having no interactions with her whatsoever, besides greeting her whenever I meet her.
But I noticed her staring at me sometimes, in a non-malicious way, and when I looked back at her, she would immediately break eye contact.
Any suggestions about her behaviour? I'm not even mad at her, but this situation is just strange to me.

>>16537392

I hope she just wrecks me to be honest. She's cool, like we click on a personality. So even if it's alittle awkward. I feel like it's something we could laugh through and joke about it as we go

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>>16537406

Well read this. A Italian girl told me this. I'm jealous of you

>>16537406
I just love it when boys stare at me in a non-malicious way.

>>16537410
If that's the case what you shaking for? What's making you uncomfortable?

>>16537406
Oh shit, are you me?
A girl is also acting this way towards me

>>16537435

Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one experiencing this.
My sixth-sense tells me that she might be into me, but I can't be 100% sure

>>16537414
That didn't answer my question, anon, but she told you the truth.

>>16537425

I think it's been so long since I've been with a girl I practically forgot everything. I feel like a virgin again

>>16537443
I think there's still hope for us, bro
I think we're just a bit slow in getting the girl's hints, and she doesn't want to get hurt
What do you think?

Good luck

>>16537451

She wants your Italian sausage in and around her mouth

>>16537467
If you're shaking now, what'll happen when you guys get intimate bro?

It's usually the girl who starts panting heavily

>>16537467
That's sweet. But it isn't very daddy dom.
You should be calling her mommy instead

>>16537476
Guys should pant more, it's hot.

>>16537470
I quickly noticed she was "too" friendly with me and I reciprocated as well, but why is she acting distant, then? Is she thinking things are escalating too fast?

>>16537473
I hope you're right.

>>16537490
How did you respond to her acting that way?

I think this chick got slightly pissed off at me because me and another female friend got too happy, then another friend asked to do stuff, then got distant with me after that
Maybe she was waiting for me to ask her to do something?

>>16537490
She wanted you to do more stuff with her, maybe she's playing hard to get

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>Meet girl at work
>Its Ad Hoc work in a stadium so its really unpredictable when you'll work, and where (get moved to a different kiosk every time)

>Spent shift with her then went to another shift with her, we kept hanging out and seemed to really enjoy each others company

>Walked her back to her campus afterwards

>Felt a connection, said to her "I really liked hanging out with you, I'll hit you up on facebook and we can stay in touch"

>She was all for it
>For some reason couldnt add her, button didnt work
>Hugged her and we laughed about the fact it was over the top of her bike and said bye

I really like this girl, wanna hang with her some more. Problem is I think her fbook profile has some weird privacy settings that stops people adding you? Not sure if shes even aware of it, she thought I couldnt add her because of no internet connection

Whats the best/least creepiest way of contact her again?

Should I just send her a message? Despite the fact that she even said she didnt get a message before for some reason for someone and she didnt know why

Like I said, shes really cool and I'd hate for something as silly as facebook to prevent us from meeting up

>>16537477

Well she doesn't know that. And I think the "daddy" "baby" thing is more of a joke. Because the conversation started about that. But either was, she wants my dick, and we are meeting during the GOP Debate and Chill on the 15th. Maybe it'll be easier fucking her with all the energy I'll have from political discussion?

>>16537479

Really? You recommend I do that?

>>16537514
>>16537479
No, that person's trolling

>>16537515

Girls panting is hot af tho

Then again, girls can do lots of things and be hot as fuck. Most things even. I think its just the male libido percieving it as hot

>>16537496
I responded in kind, being playful and flirty like she was doing.
And I think your girl is jealous, or at least acting jealous. Probably she's waiting for you to do something.

>>16537508
Maybe you're right, if she was mad at me she could just not stare at me like that.

How much better does an actual vagina feel compared to a fleshlight or something like it?

>>16537515
I'm not trolling! It is hot.

>>16537514
I bet the daddy thing isn't a joke, just sayin.

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for girls, since guys would never be asked for a date.
what would make you want to go on a date with someone/accept an invitation?
what would make you decline it?

>>16537552
First impressions, if they are amusing and I feel relaxed I'd say yes. If they were a bit intense and pushy about a date I'd say no.
Calling it a date usually puts me off too.

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>>16537549

There's a girl in class that I haven't talked to at all in the 2 years we've known each other, but she helps me with tests and looks at me often and shit I think she likes me, what can I say to start up conversation without sounding weird?

>>16537580
You believe that?
You boys are so dumb. Like shes gonna be all upfront about her daddy issues, she's gonna break you in slowly. This is what's happening here.

>>16537582

Talk about class, or something related to your campus that she probably has knowledge of

>>16537585

Shit... Her dad is dead...

>>16537593
Kinky bitch.
Every time she calls you Daddy call her Mommy and see how she responds.

>>16537580
I'm not gonna lie dude, but this is creeping me out

>>16537597

So she's going to be expecting me to rail her, huh?

>>16537598

I don't see what's creepy about it

>>16537604
That's exactly what she's expecting.

>>16537539
She may be acting a bit distant to see what you might do bro
What you're doing is good though, which is acting distant in kind, I think she's still interested in you because she's still checking you out and she immediately looks away. That shit is good

Maybe wait a bit more to see if she warmer to you again, or if you want try to get closer to her again

Hopefully!
Or she might have found another guy lol, we work together as well, so dunno if that's a good idea

>>16537610

Shit. 4 years of no sex might not help me too much. I'm gonna have to start watching more porn.

>>16537614
Don't learn from porn. That really is like a virgin, I embarrassed myself with that one.
You don't just forget sex, don't try too hard and relax.

>>16537611
gets* warmer

>>16537611
Thanks mate, I really appreciated your help.

Should I get together with a girl from work?
We're in permanent positions

>>16537669
yes.

>Girl at work tell her she love you
>Hug you like lover
>Tell you she love you
>More hugs
>More I love you
>Ask her if she wants to get breakfast, she say yes

What does it mean? I'm so confuse.

>>16537677
kek

>>16537671
What if it doesn't work out?

>>16537691
So what? Don't make it awkward and work should be fine.
How close do you work together? Is it just the same company or do you sit next to each other or something.

>girl takes 24 hours just to text "okay" and "yeah" to two separate things/statements I told her at the same time
So what's this logic then? Don't you usually just not respond by now if this much time passes, you have nothing to say and/or you're not interested?

Should I drop conversation or bring up something new? Like try and liven things up?

>>16537723
I never understood the delayed replying game. I say if she's being boring & sucks at replying that you should leave it be and find someone who is interested in you enough to respond.

>>16537726
Yeah, me neither. She usually doesn't do this, and I don't really think it's a game. Beforehand she did say she's pretty busy this weekend and she isn't feeling too well. I thought I'd try to cheer her up a little and show her I'm thinking about her. That was yesterday, though.

So I should just assume I've done enough, ping through the "seen" notification and call it a day?

>>16537734
Well if she's not normally like this maybe say something else? It is quite close to pestering though, especially if she's pre warned you she's busy.
I'd maybe leave it for today & message her Monday if she's not said anything to you.

>>16537740
She's busy all the time, really. Been that way for months now. She didn't explicitly say she's busy now, but I assumed she was since she says (and shows) so every weekday and weekend. Usually she isn't that talkative either, but it only rarely gets to one-word levels. That she actually wanted to do that twice at once confuses me. I mean, once gets the message across already, so why twice?

>>16537749
Because you kept speaking to her after the initial one word reply?
I dunno, if she's always busy she might just be letting you down gently hoping you'll get bored?
I'm pessimistic though, as you can see.

>>16537718
We're in the same department, I'm friends with her friends and her friends are sorta friends with mine
It's a pretty close knit department

>>16537754
I think you should just go for it. If you like her so what, just try not to go full aspie and creepy and work should be okay if it doesn't work out.

>>16537757
I've kinda been distancing myself from her cos of potential awkwardness, but she got a little upset because of me doing that
I dunno, it's kinda complex

>>16537752
That's what I'd normally think too. Usually I drop any conversation which returns a one-word reply and drop anyone who consistently returns them, but this girl's different. There's a lot of context to her that may or may not excuse it, and I don't know where to begin with all of that. She's genuinely busy, and she has a very strong single-targeted mind. The target used to be me (we've gone out before) but after the reality check that was her work catching up to her she shifted her focus.

You may be right, though. I've tried hard to be there for her and stay on her mind, and in the process I may have become too pestering towards her. I'll keep a distance.

>>16537776
Can you not just outright ask her if you're wasting your time? I can't stand being in a position where I don't know what's going on, I'm usually quite good at reading situations though but if I can't I just ask. She'll probably respect you more for being direct.

>>16536452
yes

Do people with divourced parents alwaya want to have kids of their own? (ie. start their own families)

>>16537789
Tried that a few times. We never see each other alone at quiet times anymore though, and asking such a thing over text is useless. I never really got the chance so far. Definitely going to try it again, though. Status quo's nice and all, but at this point it's just limbo

>>16537856
I think it's dead in the water, bro.

>>16537850
Why's that?

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Is $55 for a pair of new balance shoes too much as a Christmas gift for a girl? I have been dating this girl for 6 months now but have known her for almost 3 yrs.

>>16537862
Probably, but like I said, shit's unusual.

Besides, it's closure.

>>16537897
Nah that's fine, do something romantic too though.

>>16537897
If you're willing to spend that money on her then sure go ahead, I'm sure she'll be really happy. But maybe don't expect her to give you something equal

Any dudes or ladies ever been in a Long Distance Relationship or is in one now?

If so, how is it/was it?

Curious dude here.

How do girls move on so quickly? Just two weeks after my girlfriend left me, I hear she's already dating another guy. We were together for two years.

>>16537915
LDRs suck.
I would do better with them if I wasn't needy. I'm sure they work for some but I can't do it very well without a meltdown every 30 minutes.

>>16537920
Gotta get that pussy wet bro.

>>16537915
Trust. Some can make it work but I wouldn't recommend it.

>>16537920
Rebound, the best way to get over your ex is to find a new one. Some girls just can't stand to be on their own.

Been in 3 "dates" with a girl but haven't been able to make a move, I feel too awkward. I've just hugged her when saying goodbye on the last date, and we don't seem to flirt much. Still she seems to wanna meet again.

Am I already just a friend?

>>16537936
Possibly. You need to make a move next date if you like her, smack her on the ass or something.

Posted in another thread, but it 404ed.

A girl from my college class recently started inviting me to go on lunch/coffee during our lecture breaks.

Is she just trying to become a friend with me or?

>>16537941
She might just want to be your friend, yeah.

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Guy here, asking all Girls

How do I tell a girl I've had sex with twice, that I'm not interested in dating?

I want to end it with her because:
>I just got out of a bad relationship 2 weeks ago,
>wanted to wait a little longer before jumping straight back into a committed relationship

>I have told her this ^ and she said that's fine. we agreed to keep going on dates to see how it goes (BEFORE committing)
>except I've already met the family, (mum, dad, both brothers)
>plus, she's already talking about buying me a christmas present
>(she spent $5000 on her ex, including a $220 watch, so it's not going to be something small)
>she wanted me to have dinner with the family tomorrow night (just cancelled)
>so it definitely feels like she's rushing me into something I'm not ready for

Having met her three times, I have realized
>there isnt much real chemistry
>I need to be tipsy to be comfortable talking to her/conversation doesn't flow
>we don't really have much in common anyway
>the photos she put up on Tinder were misleading, so Im not as attracted to her as I thought I would be

Obviously the easiest way is just to send a text: "sorry changed my mind have a good life lol"

Except:
>she's a genuinely nice girl, I don't want to hurt her

>her dad and older brother are very protective of her,
>they've met me and know where I live so I don't want them on my ass

>she knows one of my secrets so I don't want her on my bad side either

How do I tell her its going way too fast, and that I want to stop seeing her,
while MINIMIZING pain on her end.

>>16537986
Maybe keep your dick in your pants and stop sleeping with her?
Just tell her you aren't ready for a relationship and this is going too fast for you and you want to back off for a while. Job done.

Thoughts on guys and girls playing hard to get?

>>16537850
Please don't be a troll

>>16537915
>>16537925
>>16537930
Alright, asking since I met this girl on some dating/friend making app and met each other this Friday.

Women:
If I work part time I "can't afford to have fun".
If I work full time I "don't put enough time into the relationship"

Is there even a happy little medium here?

>friends with this chick
>not dating yet
>she may have had one night stands

Should I quit that?

>>16537920
They move on BY filling the void.

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How do i find girls that like white guys in the USA?
IF there is another sub i could ask questions like this on point me in that direction...
>7/10 face maybe higher, but just say at least 7
>fit body
>job in Tech
Im not looking for a girl who jumps between races of men, just one who is into white guys.
Thanks in advance.

>>16538153
Statistically most all women like white guys the most.
Just get out of the ghetto I suppose.

>>16538153
Every white girl that's not a liberal feminist or a slutty attention whore.

Girls:

I had a study meeting with a classmate last evening, which turned into kissing, making out and dry-humping (got too drunk for anything more).

She seems to like me, wanting to meet again, but she also said that she's not looking for something serious at the moment (seemed to have come out of a relationship some time ago).

I said that's okay and that we should take things slowly.
Did I mess up?

>>16538296
Just bring alcohol, fuck and be on with it.

>>16538296
Nah, she want's the d

A guy I'm into:
>is confident and flirty over text, plenty of sexual jokes, still asks about my personal life and stuff
>kinda cautious around me irl, always looking at me though
>asks and accepts future proposed dates like "we should do this sometime" (never actually gone out though)

I know this is subjective and depends on the guy, but entertain me with these questions:
1. what's the likelihood of him wanting to date me vs just wanting to fuck me?
2. why is he so cautious irl, maybe because there's more people around us?
3. how do we break the ice irl, already been broken over text

>>16536968
Most people's self esteem takes a hit after getting dumped, and even if you dump someone you need to regain your balance and identity, especially after having been with someone for years. This can make you want to see the effect you have on others and get confirmation that you are still attractive. Even if the idea does not spontaneously come to mind, others will tell you to live it up to forget about the ex, or to celebrate that you're single, whatever.

Men would do it more than women if they had an easier time getting laid on demand. Instead they just go lift and TRY to have sex.

>>16538340
He's not into you but don't want to risk loosing out on booty

>>16538349
/fit/izen?
maybe if we lift enough someone will love us

>>16537011
>>16537113
Maybe too late but in case you still see it. I can name plenty of things like teasing, grinding, switching the place where you are etc, but it sounds to me like your problem is that you just want to stick it in and don't like actually dealing with the person. If you find it awkward to have your faces close together, chances are you would find the rest of foreplay awkward as well. During sex you can still get away with not looking each other in the face, plenty of people find direct eye contact weird during sex. But if you have foreplay without intense eye contact, teasing smiles, pecks in between, it'll feel like you are clinically preparing her body for being penetrated... instead of like you are relishing in being attracted towards each other and feeling the sexual tension and looking forward to it going further and further.

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What do girls think of flannels?

>>16538359
Nah not myself, I've just seen the "go lift" advice thrown around countless time as soon as a break up is mentioned.

>>16538362
What everyone else thinks, it's hipster city territory.

>>16538365
it makes you feel in control of something, it's like your safe space, and you do get more slutty chicks flocking to you after you lift for some time

In sex do girl like getting railed or riding more?

>>16538367
mmmm hipsters.

>>16538370
I like getting railed more, I'm not against riding though.

>>16538368
Oh I understand, I don't think it's bad advice. Most people want to re-invent themselves after a break up and working out gives you a very tangible way to do so and see yourself change. Plus it's way harder to worry when you're physically exhausted.

>>16538268
upper middle class in the NorthEast
>>16538294
so not that many...

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Guys: why do you dislike it if a girl calls you/something you do "cute"? If i like a guy, he can be heartmeltingly cute and pantydropping hot at the same time. In fact, if i don't think you are adorably cute in one way or another i'm clearly not into you. So, why don't you like hearing about it?

>>16538391
not a guy but I think it's because they think the word "cute" is friendzoning them, and they think cute and hot are mutually exclusive

Why the fuck are women so selfish?

This relationship I'm in feels like she just doesn't bother her ass. She's all lovey and has nice things to say. But she never seems to do much in return for how much support I provide her.

It always feel like, as the man, you need to be constantly creative and experimental. Never become dull or repetitive and always be romantic.

But women it seems they just need to be a hole to fuck and not be fat. They barely have a standard to be held to at all. It's like looking after a fucking child sometimes. No pressure to get a high paid job or anything.