So ive decided im gonna ask this girl in one of my lectures out. I was just wondering how i should do it. Weve talked a bit before but we wouldnt be cgood friends yet. Ill only get to talk to her for a few minutes after the class cause she has another right after it, so i was wondering if i should say "hey you wanna get a coffee sometime?" or be more direct and say "hey i like you/talking with you do you wanna get a coffee sometime?". I was thinking of asking her an open ended quetion and then when she answers say "oh, do you have class now? Maybe we could meet up and talk over a coffee sometime?" Would this be a good tactic or not?
Go with the direct one. Stating intentions right away is better in the long run.
Just be ready in case she's not interested.
>Ask a girl you hardly know out during lectures
Has this ever worked?
Succes stories, anyone?
>>16489625
Actually weve spoke for a good bit sometimes. Ive made her laugh a few times its just were not exactly best friends yet
>>16489625
Uh, yeah? I did that all the time during college. Good looking girls like good looking guys. It's a pretty reliable assumption.
Depends how you made her laugh....
You are seriously overthinking this. Just do it, don't have it scripted out beforehand because that's weird
>>16489869
Yeah maybe i am...
Dont go over board with telling her you like her if you do
>>16490127
Definitely this
>>16490127
wish i had of known this earlier
Just ask if she wants to meet for a proper talk o ver a coffee
>>16491111
Yes, don't overthink it so much
