I'm 27 and a virgin. Lately I've gotten in shape and had a job that forces me to talk to people all day, and I feel like I've gotten better at rudimentary social things. However, relationships and sex still elude me; I really just feel like I have no idea how that whole aspect of dealing with people works. I'd like to be in a relationship more than I'd like to have sex, but I'm starting to feel like the lack of the latter is making it hard to get the former.
Recently I met an 18 year old girl through work. She's attractive, but not really someone I want to date. Blue hair, tries a little too hard to be lolrandumb, tries to get attention all the time. I'm pretty much the only one that doesn't give the attention to her, which only made her try harder and harder to get me to like her. Now she's pretty much stated explicitly that she would fuck me.
My question is, should I do it, just to get this out of the way? I'd basically come at it like I'm using her to level up my sex skills for an actual girl I care about. She knows I'm a virgin but I don't know whether she wants something out of me besides sex or if I should even care about that anyway if she does.
>>16449924
Just fuck her.
>>16449935
Just like that, huh? Well alright then. I guess I was overthinking it.
yes this won't cure ur autism btw.
>>16449968
Obviously. But it might make me better at faking it? I keep hearing that you learn sex doesn't matter once you've had enough of it.
>>16449978
>But it might make me better at faking it?
Probably not. You'll spill your spaghetti all over again when you get with a girl you actually like and want to sleep with
>>16449959
Overthinking is generally a problem we run into dude. Just fuck her.
>>16449978
Correct. you can experience sex with this girl sense she obviously wants it from you. She'll teach you and may become more confident and eventually get in a relationship with someone and be able to please them.
>>16449987
There will be no reduction in pasta quantity?
>>16449993
Should I be concerned about her motivations in this at all? I don't really know if it really is just because I was the only one not responding to her attention-whoring. Should I try to set ground rules here first at the risk of making her change her mind? I guess if she gets the wrong idea I'm not really concerned about the potential consequences of that, but maybe I should be?
>>16450048
if you don't work with her, just do it. There's no reason not to.
>>16450130
Oh, I do work with her. There's not a rule against that here, though.
>>16450146
Then it might be awkward. Do you work the same shifts? I'd be hesitant in your position.
I was thinking of getting two escorts to get the double bj I've wanted since 13. I'm 33 now, this needs to happen.
Advice on hiring whores please. I live near Niagara Falls so supply is decent
>>16450156
Yeah occasionally. We both work tomorrow morning for example, I'm actually giving her a ride to work.
>>16450294
what.
If you are on your couch or hers, offer a back massage.>>16450294
>>16450294
Start a thread. Also, call girls are reviewed on theeroticreview.com
>>16449935
Yeah.
Make sure it's explicit that it's just sex though. Fuckbuddies maybe, but not fwb, and not a relationship. No feelings.
If you see signs that she's develiping feelings, abandon ship. You don't want to mess with dating a coworker.
>>16450002
Sex is a minigame
Relationships/dating is the rest of the game.
>>16450048
>>16450978
Relevant, didnt notice before.
>>16449924
FUCK her. It's just a simple fuck and if you don't think that a relationship will happen between you two, at least you got laid. It will totally help your confidence and she will be able to get what she wants. If she's expecting a relationship, you could always just booty call her up.
