Femdom
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Is femdom actually real? I'm beginning to believe that there aren't naturally dominant women who want to control and completely sissify a man, that these "dommes" are just fulfilling the wishes of these desperate betas and are actually pretty pathetic themselves that they weren't desirable enough to be picked up by a real alpha male.
I'd really like to be proven wrong here. I'm sure people will argue and I will agree that there are dominant women, but I don't think they really get off on emasculating men.
>>28867699
They exist but the majority are middle aged women who actually know what they want out of sexual relationships.
Most are pretty fucked up too so there's that..
Have to agree with you OP. None of these girls get pleasure from it, like 99% of them. If anythijg , makes them even more cute, like a role-playing little girl
They're extremely rare and mostly polygamous types. Literally asking to be cucked.
>>28867699
>the "any woman that chooses to be dominant is just to ugly/undesirable to get a chad" meme
I'm dominant and my boyfriend is very attractive. I'm not dominant because I'm undesirable, he didn't even know I was until after we started dating. it's just the way I like to relieve stress sometimes, it's that simple.
>>28867926
But do you enjoy this sort of thing enough to keep it up, or will you be flipped by the first alpha chad that comes along? Is it a BDSM thing for you guys, or is it just the dynamic of your relationship?
>>28867984
like I said, he didn't even know I was into it until after we dated for a while.
I've been in a different relationship before and I didn't enjoy that, it made me feel off and bad about myself to the point where I couldn't get off regularly.
There have got to be a few.
There are always exceptions.
>>28868013
Sounds pretty casual to me, like you got into it by accident. I think femdom like what OP is thinking of, like what you see in porn does not exist outside of dungeons or the most damaging of relationships.
>>28867699
I don't know, I tried to met some throught metlife a few years ago but they were mostly "findoms" or into cuckold, so I just pay for asian dommes to let me worship their feet and get spanked a few times now.
op here
>>28867926
>>28868013
I'm sorry to have insulted you, miss.
If you don't mind, I wish to hear more about you. Please reinvigorate my belief in dominant women who want to have their way with me.
I know it would spoil surprises to tell me outright, but I wish to know what gets you off and what kind of beliefs you have. If you all of the powers of a god and could dominate Earth however you saw fit, what would the world be like? Where would men be? What would they do? What would you do to get the most pleasure out of it?
This is an open question all dominant females who may be reading this post as well.
>>28868065
I mean fetlife*
>>28868064
Oh, yeah I don't like dungeons and neither does my incredibly subby bf. In fact he's into gfd in specific. No cages or dungeons here.Maybe cages.
>>28868072
Dude I'm not going to provide you with jerk off material, I don't care if you believe people like me exist or not
>>28868065
You've got to watch it on those sites. Lot of people just out to steal your money, and I had some bad experiences with it. But it's pretty much the only way you will realistically meet someone into this particular sexual subculture.
>>28867926
If I could find a chick that even just preferred being top I'd be happy. I'm so fucking sick of having to play caretaker and decision maker for every fucking relationship decision. I ask the girl out, she says yes, then I spend the next few months escorting her around to fun places and deciding the fucking weekly schedule for everything we do. I have to initiate sex. I have to ask for a bj. But then I need to fucking guess when they want me to eat them out. If you want me to eat pussy, then fucking say so then jam my face in. I have to say where we're eating and when. If I don't their solution is to sit on their ass until I come up with something better. I'm so tired of it.
Look, I'm sure actually assertive women exist, but for some reason they're impossible to find. So many are just fish in a relationahip.
>>28868072
You could not sound more pathetic, OP. Please stop this.
>>28868126
>decision maker
Kek, even in our relationship I make him choose all the anime we watchI don't want to offend him with my shit taste.
Do you not talk to women? Maybe if you're hitting up Stacies, yeah there's not going to be a lot of dominant women, but it's pretty common with "weird" girls. I'm happily dominant with my submissive boyfriend, but he's a good boy and doesn't think I'll run off with the nearest chad.
>>28868072
you sound ugly OP
>>28868183
>>28868127
probably right
>>28868097
Well it sounds like you have some fun anyway. That's probably where femdom is at its best, as a thing in the bedroom mostly not as some kind of extreme S&M or radical feminist lifestyle thing.
>>28868158
Goddamnit then maybe they don't exist. I'm not even talking about sex really (though that's a big deal) I'm just tired of the girl holding veto power without contributing ideas. "What do you want" has become a meme but it's totally true.
>girl wants food
>all your ideas sound bad to her
>she doesn't have any ideas
>"fine, then I'm getting x, you can figure out what you want"
>now girl is pissed
Replace "getting food" with every decision ever and you see my frustration.
>>28868278
It's so fucking hard to be the sub in a relationship, at least it was for me partly because I need to feel like things are not entirely out of my control. I'm fairly certain a healthy relationship has to be based on a sort of mutual respect, both partners feeling as though their interests are represented. You're not just some slave, after all.
I feel I will have to be dominant in my next relationship and that femdom as the robot believes in it is a myth.
>>28867699
we're all fat bisexual tumblr tier feminists. Thats your real, legit answer from a femdom. You want something we're not. We exist, your fantasy woman does not.
plus I hate pretty much every male sub i've met so I just dom lesbians instead.
>>28867699
Sissification is predicated on the notion that women are inherently submissive, and to be a submissive man you must look like a woman. Dominance is not natural, it's learned behavior, and much of male dominance over women is because of male hatred of women. Women don't hate men like men do, and women don't want to fuck men who look like chicks.
You fetish is garbage.
>>28868542
I'll bet you hate anyone who is a switch. Too stubborn to be happy as a sub, not aggressive enough to be very dominant.
>>28867699
Oftentimes a woman will be dominant for a moment, for a novel experience in bed, but a continually dominant woman is incredibly hard to find.
>>28868619
>I'll bet you hate anyone who is a switch
You'd be spot on. I dont personally care if they're switch, but i'd never want to be in any form of relationship with them. I don't sub, ever.
>>28868674
You sound like my ex-gf to be honest. Lifestyle dominant, whereas I wanted something where I could still have a say in the relationship. I can really take some punishment as a good slave should, but I needed to be heard when important things were being decided. I guess I can't have that though, sadly.
>>28868548
>Dominance is not natural, it's learned behavior, and much of male dominance over women is because of male hatred of women.
>being this much of a feminist cuck
>>28868937
Dominance and submission are inherent to human behavior, much as they are in the animal kingdom. The difference is we construct elaborate and sometimes bizarre scenarios to act out these roles.
>>28868902
I'm not lifestyle dominant, shits too tiring to do every second of every day. I tend to lead relationships, but I value input and decision making from my partners as well
>but I needed to be heard when important things were being decided.
Your ex gf must have been pretty unhealthy if she didn't let you have any say. Compromise is important even within a bdsm based relationship.
>>28868997
She wouldn't let me speak out on anything. She humiliated me in front of my parents. And I'm pretty she was sneaking around with someone else.
>>28868987
That is true to an extent. A full BDSM scene is not inherent to human behavior; a guy plowing a girl the way he wants, and the girl giving in is.
>>28867699
>look up domination services in my city
>only one
>they literally charge $600 to leave you locked in a cage for a few hours in one of their unused dungeons
If dominant women existed this shit wouldn't be allowed. Any amateur domme could buy a cage and undercut the greedy kikes and make a killing.
>>28869038
Hot. Post details?
>>28869038
Yeah she sounds like a fuckin nut, sorry you had to go through that anon. I've read some pretty fucked up stories from bdsm based relationships going sour
>>28869072
you're paying for your fantasy. You have no guarantee's that a femdom you get into any kind of relationship with will do what you want.
Let me fucking tell you about femdom
I am a sexual degenerate sex addict who has spent the last five years fucking girls as a "hobby," and I have a femdom fetish. 35% of my brain is devoted to tricking girls into dominating me. I have seen every stripe of "domme," vanilla, and submissive you could possibly imagine.
- Actual dommes are fantastically rare. I've met maybe two or three where I was dead certain.
- Much more common are girls who can enjoy domming you if you're in a relationship. Some even can't do that.
- The worst ones are the billions of broads who claim to enjoy being dominant but, really, they either just want to seem exciting and kinky and woooo I'm so #liberated XDD, OR they literally want money from you.
- The actual dommes you will (never) find still won't have your kinks. They will only be into specific shit, with a smattering of bland BDSM garbage. You will never live out your ideal fantasy. Ever.
- Women are insane histrionic attention seekers, and being a domme inflates their ego exponentially by saturating them in suitors. Women are also all conformists, and they love to absorb BDSM culture's idiotic norms and rules established by 55 year old swingers with no lives.
- They all think being a whore is rad! It's great! Haha, men give me money! I'm a sugar baby! #liberated! What an exciting time we live in! Did I mention I'm a whore? Don't you find that cool? LOL!
- Whatever you feel about femdom being inherently emasculating or not, women definitely do tend toward seeing you as a pathetic permacuck for your fetish. Watch out for subtle signs of disrespect.
HERE'S MY BIG PROTIP FOR YOU: MOST VANILLA WOMEN ARE SURPRISINGLY SUPER NICE AND ACCOMMODATING, IF THEY LOVE YOU. WOMEN ARE INSANE IN THE BRAIN AND WILL USUALLY GET OFF FROM PANDERING TO YOUR MOST SPECIFIC, RETARDED FANTASIES, AS LONG AS THEY LOVE YOU.
DISREGARD DOMMES
ACQUIRE ACTUAL GIRLFRIEND
TAKE IT FROM A GUY WHO SPENDS 117% OF HIS TIME COURTING """""""DOMMES""""""
>>28869109
I just hope it isn't representative of how things go in this sort of relationship on the whole. I know people who reported similar experiences, and it seems the outlook is not good for male subs. It's what I'd prefer to be, as I don't particularly enjoy being in charge all the time. But I'm still afraid of being cheated on or exploited by someone who is literally sadistic. I don't know how else to retain a measure of control.
>>28869169
>I just hope it isn't representative of how things go in this sort of relationship on the whole
It's not.
The best way to avoid getting yourself into those kind of relationships is making yourself aware of red flags, communicating your boundaries at the start and only getting involved with people that have a good track record.
Also dump their asses at the first sign of shit going south. Otherwise you end up the perpetual victim to nutjobs who take advantage of you.
>>28869250
I hope you're right. I suppose that is the risk of looking to sub for someone though, as there's a high chance of being matched with a genuine psychopath. Do you think I should stay away from radical feminist types?
>>28869117
>ACQUIRE ACTUAL GIRLFRIEND
The whole reason I want a domme is BECAUSE I don't know how to deal with an actual girlfriend.
>>28868937
I'm right, though.
>>28869117
>women will never live up to your ideal fantasy, the whores
Men need to calm down.
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>>28869008
I know a few dommes, most of them financial dommes and so far I can safely say
>yes, they enjoy emasculating men
>no, they don't get off on it
They're mostly sjws who are taking your money to beat you up. It's fucked up. They definitely don't feel pleasure from it, they just find it entertaining to abuse men and take their money.
Hopefully that doesn't ruin the kink for you, man.
>>28867699
No, women are servile and subservient. They want someone taller, bigger, stronger, faster, smarter and better than they are to lead them into a bight future. They never take charge and want men to do all the work while treating them like resources.
>tfw no strong willed lady satsuke queen to lord over me in all her superiority.
>>28869117
This guy knows what he's talking about.
Source: normie gf who mommys me and entertains my crazy fetishes out of love.
>>28869535
Men have a diversified portfolio of desires, attractions and fetishes. Fat, skinny, dominant, subservient, equal, ugly, pretty, short, tall, smelly, black, white, asian, eskimo, alien, animo... the list goes on and on.
what women want: taller chad with big hands and will take care of me lol hehe.
Men need a better gender. We got stuck with you. I can't wait until we replace women with sex robots and vr.
