Ok guys,
I am sincerely confused.
I'm in my 30's and just recently "lost my virginity" and it was the most overrated boring waste of time in my life. Other than finding out sex is a waste of time.
So, the green text
>Be 30yr dirty fat neckbeard
>Do tech startup with friends
>Two years later I am "rich"
>Develop relationship with qt jr.dev I am training
>Play vidya with her, watch tv, shit like that
>I move over seas to oversee new offices opening
>qt jr.dev and I talk on phone a lot now
>qt jr.dev phone sexed me but I am a virgin so feeling very awkward
>qt jr.dev wants too come visit me IRL to seal the deal
>hire high end escort to show me the ropes of sex
>escort girl is amazingly hot 9/10
>escort girl puts on amazing show and gets me off
>oh wow that was fucking boring and a lot of work for 5mis of rubbing
>start to wonder if all sex is this boring and a waste of time
>think it will be different with me an qt jr.dev
>meet up with qt jr.dev
>qt jr.dev has amazing body as well and 10/10 tits , over all 7/10, legs are a bit short
>qt jr.dev acts all turned on, rubs her self and makes noises and stuff
>qt jr.dev and I fuck like 3 times over the span of an hour
>qt jr.dev does anal and all kinds of dirty shit with me
>qt jr.dev and I go play video games
>playing with my new HTC vive much more fun than sex
>we order some steaks and wine and shit then go to bed
>determine the sex part was the low light of our evening
>wonder if she feels the same way
>question meaning of life
What in the actual fuck guys?
Why do people make sex out to be a big deal? It is a fucking boring waste of time. I have a better appreciation of porn stars in a "circus olay" kind of way.
I feel like a lot of my world views are shaped by a preconceived notion that sex was awesome and a life goal. I've bee super numb to like everything this last 3-4 days after.
Can anyone enlighten / red pill me on this?
your thing was tl;dr but to address your initial question
Sex is really boring. I've done all of my kinky fetishes IRL that are possible to do IRL and I have found that I just do not enjoy sex. I enjoy writing and reading smut more than I enjoy actual sex.
First few times always really bad. Gets better the more you do it
>>28856900
>Why do people make sex out to be a big deal?
They don't though. This is how I can tell your story is fake. As a normie I can tell you that literally nobody except basement dwelling r9k tier weirdos think sex is a "big deal". The average bro would rather have a beer with his buddies than fuck his dumb fat ass wife.
>>28856945
>Gets better the more you do it
This. The first 10 times or so weren't too great, imo. Then, I started to enjoy it more. It also depends on the girl you're with. I didn't care much about the girl I lost my virginity to. Sex with her was okay but not mind-blowing. I had a deeper connection with other girls, and sleeping with them was much more satisfying.
>>28856900
>anal on first sexual encounter
get checked
>>28856900
yeah it gets boring
not really a lot in it for men whereas women seem to enjoy it a lot more
you can try dressing it up, or "making it more exciting" but at the end of the day it's still the same and you have to wonder how boring something is if you have to go to such lengths to make it exciting
>>28856945
>>28856989
I disagree. I've had sex hundreds of times (only two partners in my life though) and I am firmly of the opinion that it did not get better. In fact I grew to enjoy it less and less with time.
All these fucking normies talking about having sex is nothing REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
at least its way better than jerking off alone
>>28856930
Sorry for the text wall. Yes erotic fiction springs me more now than porn. I've like... had a disconnect with my porn collection now that I know it's been lying to me the whole time.
>>28856945
>>28856989
I wouldn't call it bad. I mean, i got an erection, I fucked, I climaxed, I released semen.
I wouldn't even say it felt like a chore.
It's just like... sex or ski ball? About the fucking same to me!
I have as deep of a connection with my qt dev girlfriend as I have with any female. I mean, I still love cuddling her and I still care about her, it's just like sex with her is a chore.
>>28857007
second encounter, didn't pound the escort in the ass.
>>28856900
You're too much in your head. Not really strange as our culture destroys souls and renders young men virtually crippled. Mulatto content farmer future.
>>28856981
top kek
have you ever been with people?
Their whole worldview seems to be about sex and relationships.
Dont believe me? Just go to a store and look at a random womens magazine.
Also
>implying a robot could become a successful entrepreneur and still post here
of course it's fake
>>28857065
>a girl who gives anal on the first sexual encounter you have with her
GET CHECKED
>>28857065
Even though sex sucks (I'm the first one who replied to the thread) in the end, there is something to be said for doing it with someone you love. The physical pleasure doesn't get better but there is an emotional connection and I think that only erotic fiction really captures that. Most porn I've found just shows body parts to get at animal parts of our brains and turn us on but it doesn't show the love.
>>28857015
Men need to learn to enjoy it, contrary to what our culture will have you believe, men and intelligent european men in particular, are very sexually frigid.
>>28856900
>Why do people make sex out to be a big deal?
Because the masses will never find something more meaningful than sex, just like how bovines can't find something more intresting than eating grass.
>>28857064
But is it really?
You can jerk off on your time fulfilling all your kinks without having to deal with any of the awkwadness and off-putting stuff of real sex.
And who wants to have to deal with women anyway?
>>28856900
your expectations of sex were unrealistic thanks to all the hype around it. and maybe your age has something to do with it too (as in you stopped giving a fuck about sex after you hit 25).
but, like the other anon said, it's still better than jerking off alone. I really want to now how warm and tight pussy feels like, and women are so soft and nice to touch...
>>28857087
What do you mean by "learn to enjoy it"?
Have more sex and bury feelings of lack of enjoyment until you're mentally unstable and turn into some beta cuck who does anything for his woman?
You don't "learn" to enjoy cleaning up shit and vomit from public bathrooms (as an example) simply by doing it more
>>28857096
Intellectualism is extremely dangerous and quite possibly the single most destructive force ever introduced in the lives of aryan men. You should especially be vary of jewish-influenced satanists like Huxley, regain your physicality to develop your spirituality white man!
>>28856900
OP I lost mine at 25 and had similar experience. I'm hoping that it'll be better if I find a committed lifetime partner. That's what I tell myself, anyway.
>>28856900
Sex is pretty great though, you obviously are just low energy
>>28857064
at least jerking off gets the urge out the way quick so you can get back to doing what you want
you know that feel when you've just cum and porn looks gross or stupid? it's still there after you jizz in a woman (but less so)
>>28857113
My girl friends was uncomfortably tight and hard to keep in.
The hooker's pussy was quite a bit better, seemed to grab my dick a bit more.
>qt.jr.dev.
Is that some kind of fetish for programmers?
>>28857127
You're desensitized, your pineal gland is calcified and your body is wasting away, you barely recognize yourself as an entity in the material world, when you have sex it is always with detachment, you yourself as a sexual entity is inherently voyeuristic, analytic and masturbatory.
This is not your own fault, this is the result of decades of inactivity, alienation, poor diet, pollution and jewish propaganda. You need to regain your sense as a physical being, a conqueror. Learn to live in nature, and carry violence and sex.
Fix your diet, start lifting, swim in the ocean, spend time walking the beach and in forest, climb mountains, maybe a train a martial art with lots of body on body contact etc. Learn to exist in the physical realm.
Read this book for the basics and for inspiration.
>>28856900
I also had a similar expirience, decided that it's not worth it to chase after women
>>28857189
i aint gonna read some weeb shit, bruh
>>28856900
passion you fucktard you need passion
>i did this my first two times and i didnt have sex for 6 years because no one told me that
>>28856900
Sex tends to not be as great if you don't experience it before 21 at the lattest, mid-teens is the ideal age to first start experiencing it though.
>>28857258
He's honestly not a very "japanese" writer, he wrote and thought almost like the ancient greeks.
>>28857189
My diet sucks. Not going to argue with that.
But I do own a beach front property where I go swimming most weekends.
I will agree I do not view my self as a material entity and as more of an observer.
I did enjoy Judo when I was younger. It was fun.
Now I mostly enjoy alcohol and benzos and programing.
Maybe the jewish propaganda has just fried my system. After fucking those two girls I honestly have lost interest in racial preservation.
It seems really ridiculous now.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gmd1HVGBzk
>>28857189
Fuck that, I'm nearly 50 - I'd rather upload my brain and be done with my failing human body. Intellectual stimulation is the one, true way otherwise you might as well be a moronic reproducing amoeba
>>28856981
I disagree, "you gets no pussy" is like the most common insult from socially adjusted people to dorks
>>28857165
That is what used to be called a snappin' pussy.
>>28857366
"hur dur, with all your intellectual pursuits you're no longer being a simple animal following instinctual needs to reproduce like all base mammals, you dork"
hmm really insulting
>>28857189
All of these books that attempt to explain the nature of existence are ultimately broscience of the highest order. The flawed vision of one man; one perspective; one secular idea.
Ultimately life is charting the unknown posibilities of existence - no set path is paved.
>>28857345
Immediately stop taking drugs especially, alcohol must also be purged but can eventually be reintroduced in controlled quantities (red wine is quite good for your system). Also spend as little time as possible at the screen and reintroduce physical hobbies, lifting especially is a panacea.
>>28857355
Your kind will be purged in the coming storm, I advice you to turn back.
I agree that it's is overrated if it's not with the right person.
Unlike the other anons here, I don't think it's about having strong positive feelings for the person though. The best sex I've ever had was with an ex who I couldn't stand but she was exactly my type physically and was a perfect sub who'd do anything I asked and loved it.
It's more about sexual compatibility and chemistry. If the girl ticks off all your fettish boxes in terms of looks and what you're in to, and you do the same for her, sex can be hot as fuck and way better than any porn.
Congrats on the startup btw. Being successful in your own business probably feels 100x better than any sex will anyway.
>>28857395
I only meant to use it as a primer on anti-intellectualism and emphasis on physicality.
Eventually you will need to do lots more reading and practice to grow as a physical and spiritual being. This book is only used to break people out of the cage that so many inhabit.
>>28856900
ITT: Things that never happened
asd
>>28857391
Here's the thing:
They're not mutually exclusive. You're still a failure for having one and not the other
>>28857404
>It's more about sexual compatibility and chemistry.
This, definitely. Though sex even with a hot girl can be disappointing and awkward if there's no mutual understanding and passion. Some of the best sex I had was with a fairly dumpy 6/10
>>28857434
No no no.
Life doesn't work that way. It's like a game where you only get so many stats points.
So since normies put points into having sex that means they're not as smart, if it wasn't like this then things wouldn't be fair.
>>28857472
>life has to be fair
top keque
>>28857086
this sex itself isn't that great. I mean getting your dick out for a girl is pretty nice but it's mostly about the emotional thing. you can't really know it until you get those feelings.
Sex is fun but there are a lot of boxes that need to be checked before it can be considered that. If you are just feeling obligated to do it and you didn't really want to in the first place it's going to feel more like a chore. Women complain about that more than men but I'm here to tell you as a man that you can feel it too. If you don't really want to you're probably going to have a bad time. Other things have to do with your partner, also how much effort you put in, the more time it takes me to cum the better I feel. I kinda get off on making my partner achieve orgasm too.
So it's a mix of your own feelings and the amount of exercise you're willing to get out of it.
>>28856900
You ruined yourself by excess fapping all these years. Congrats.
>>28856900
maybe you're circumcised or something? sex is easily the best part of my day. but i've heard people who do a lot of drugs say differently.
its nothing like masturbation at all. if you think jacking off on VR porn is better, you're probably just not used to sex, but i don't know how it works in your 30's. it took me like 5 months of fucking every single day to really get comfortable with doing it, and i was 20.
>>28856900
I think is boring too.
Normally i have to do all the work at bed. I have to pound my life away in her vagina (they just want to be pounded without doing anything). It's fucking boring.
You have to "watch" her too to verify if she will orgasm. Most woman orgasm in missionary position in a specified angle so its fucking boring to do this all the time for them to get off.
When i had shemale sex or sex with men its much better. Its much better to just enjoy things in a passive way.
> yes i'm bi, men and shemales are better at bed
>>28858333
>bi
>likes fucking men more than women
yeah you're gay buddy.
You must be low test. Sex isn't a want, it's a need.
Did you use a condom?
Did you bareback and ejaculate inside her vagina without a condom ?
Are you cut?
>>28857345
>benzos
Stop it right there. This shit makes you disconnect from life, the bad stuff AND the good.
You have chemicals in your brain that stop you from reacting too much to your environment. Of course it doesn't feel that good.
Did you eat her ass?
>>28858376
You're allowed to have a preference and still be bi, I like pizza and cheeseburgers but I like pizza more, but if I eat pizza too much I get sick of it
>>28857397
Advise* (faggot)
>>28858646
>his obsession with pizza is comparable to his love of cock
>>28858646
>ever getting sick of pizza
>>28856900
Here's what happened, since you can't seem to put two and two together even in your 30's:
>decades of masturbating to retarded shit tuned your brain to expect something else out of sex, something which doesn't include a real woman
>deathgripping for decades
I also bet you still masturbate daily whilst claiming sex is a waste of time. You sound like a millenial, mate.
>>28857189
Why should I care about what some faggot wrote.
>>28857923
It's way worse when the dude isn't into it because it's entirely obvious by the limp dick. My first times with sex, also past 30, were also kind of crappy due to PIED. I was lucky to have a really sweet girl work with me on it though
I think my third time is when I really had built up enough confidence and experience and it all really clicked, and then it just kind of keeps getting better as we explore more stuff
I refuse to believe you actually hired an escort to show you how to have sex. Girls would think it's fucking disgusting and would be fine with you not being good at it. Not that one time with an escort would change anything.
>>28859279
>were also kind of crappy due to PIED
Fucking this. Most of you faggots over here don't understand the damage that over-consumption of porn can do to you.
It's because we built it up for long in our head, the real thing could never compare. I lost my virginity when I was 20 and spent a lot of time fantasizing about it and it just wasn't the same. Felt like I was watching myself from out of my body, like not really experiencing it.
You learn to get into it once you really like the person you're having sex with it, but it's pretty amazing. We're having sex but it's not the same as people who started having sex at 16 or whatever, that's an entirely different story.
>>28857321
How does one into passion?
>>28858395
I did have low test, but have been taking test replacement since I could take the day off whenever I wanted to go to the doctor.
I'm on test replacement for a while and am a little above the normal range now.
>>28858571
Condom with the hooker.
No condom with the qt
I am cut, but it is recently ( 3yrs ago ) because I had paraphimosis, and its not like all cut off.
>>28858978
Haven't looked at any porn or fapped in about 4 days, which is when I last had sex. Have decided I'm only going to fap if I have a perma-boner.
>>28858111
Sex to me is like jacking off into a very nice hand. I am cut, but kind of recently ( 3yrs ago ) due paraphimosis, and then i'm not completely cut.
I enjoy the HTC vive's archery game and seeing my qt girl friend's boobs bounce while she plays it more than sex.
All the people who like to tell you sex is something more than jerking off are all full of shit.
>>28860195
Quit the drugs. That's probably your biggest issue. Keep up nofap though (or at the very least no porn and fap less often), and I'm sorry you had to get your dick mutilated.
>>28856900
you just graduated to level 2 of depression.
its something virgin cucks dont even understand.. when you still have hope in relationships or sex to finally make you whole, and make life worth it, then youre golden. once you've gotten those things and realized nothing changed, now your hope is gone and you're seriously screwed.
welcome to stage 2 anon. it gets even worse but i dont want to give you any spoilers..
>>28856900
It's because your fat, lose the weight and you will be much closer and free to her
>>28860418
level 2? I'll bite.
Do you have a scale that is posted somewhere that you're working off of?
I can tell things could get way worse if i didn't have a few streams of residual income.
I literally didn't get out of bed today. Didn't call anyone at the office and tell them I wasn't going to be in or doing anything. But it will take my partners about a month of me doing that for them to find out.
On the other-hand, I do feel more like getting into shape and taking care of my self because it just would let me do more things and have more fun.
I also feel less bitter and more sad for normals because I thought I had been missing out on something great due to how shallow sluts are ( ultimategentilman.jpg ) and this thing that the core of their identity is built around... all the marriage and sexual identity and romance and cheating and.... its just a naked people basically sitting on each other.
I used to be opposed to "fitness" due to societies obsession with it and the connection of it to sex.
So, spolier me, how far does the hole go?
>>28857039
>only two partners
There's your problem. You honestly might as well be a virgin if you haven't had sex with at least 5 different women
dont jerk off for 2 weeks and then have sex or get a BJ. mind blowing.
God damn, I'd hate to be this depressed.
If you can't get pleasure out of sex, what's the fucking point?
>>28860792
Not much man, not much.
I defiantly have a new perspective on reality and how I fit into it.
I could see my self going full patrick baitman in about 3-5 years of more and more detachment from reality.
for some people, sex needs to have passion and intimacy for it to ever be enjoyable. you're never going to get that feeling from a whore, no matter how attractive she is.
>>28856900
Enough about the sex, I'm a programmer and want to make a startup too
What did your business do? I'm more of a low-level/systems type of guy, so I would like to focus on that
>>28860904
That's... really sad.
Dumb question, but have you ever spoken to a therapist about this?
I don't know if anhedonism has a cure, but fuck... that's no way to live.
>>28860907
I feel that. I always thought the whole smarmy "sex is better with someone you love" line was another bullshit platitude. Fuck me if they weren't right. Hormones are a hell of a [cocktail of] drugs!
>>28860966
Honestly, I think it's not just love but reproduction. I think there's something inherently unsatisfying about sex where you don't come inside knowing you might conceive
>>28856900
Normies who don't want it, can have it easily. Meanwhile us, who would appreciate every second of it and cherish the woman, won't ever get any.
t. person who almost had sex
>>28857096
He looks like Elliot Rodger
Am I an intellectual? I pay more attention to memes than poon.
>>28860907
My qt.jr.dev girl friend is a solid 7/10 , I really care about her.
It was enjoyable, but no more than say ski ball or air hocky. It was just very "meh, ok that was a lot to do about nothing".
>>28860966
I guess I don't have a real reference point for happy so I don't know if I can say if I find it sad.
I see two shrinks semi-regularly, I might bring it up, but I don't either one would know what to say.
>>28861022
How Freuden of you.
>>28861053
You'd be let down bro
>>28861022
That's a tough one. Ultimately, love is just addiction to the brain chemicals that millions of years of evolution has caused you to produce when pair bonding. But it feels good, so I'm in.
Ultimately, she's got my back, and I've got hers. We've got mutual trust, and all that shit. All of the above obviously means it hurts more when one (or both) parties fucks it up. As Neil Young said, "...only love can break your heart."
I've been with my GF 5 years. We want kids eventually, but not now. She can't go on any kind of hormonal contraceptive, so it's still condoms at this point.
In the rare times when she's on some other kind of contraceptive, there's less thrill to it, for sure. Still nice though.
>>28861111
>You'd be let down bro
Yeah I doubt it. I already went to the stage of cuddling with the girl and mutual masturbation and it made me feel like the king of the fucking world.
>circus olay
lost it.
sex is good when it's passionate. if you don't like it you don't like it. I think some people that think they like it just don't have anything else that they also like
>>28860965
low-level/systems is dominated by major mega-corps and value i.e. new companies are created when you can create value that doesn't exist.
There is very little possibility that a lone dev or even a team of devs can "create" a valuable enough thing to start a new company.
When I think of low level systems startups, there have been like two good ones in 5 years... purstorage and arista.
The truth is if you don't already have an idea, if a spark never hit you, you're not ready to start.
Anything else?
I got a gf at the end of last year, was a virgin beforehand, have had sex a lot, its usually kinda fun depending on how you approach it. I only cum about half of the time and sometimes I might have sex 5 times over X amount of days before i might actually cum but that's on me. The most fun I've had and the most enjoyment out of sex is a time when i wasn't able to cum but didn't really mind because we went through so many positions and were constantly changing the flow and speed of what we were doing; it was probably one of the most fun times i've ever had and even though i didnt finish i had such a great time i didnt care. I think it's just about a) how turned on you were when you started, and b) how you utilised the time you had.
>>28861351
>so many positions and were constantly changing the flow and speed of what we were doing; it was probably one of the most fun times i've ever had and even though i didnt finish i had such a great time i didnt car
Yeah, this. It took me a while to actually get there with the girl friend as opposed to the hooker.
I mean, I still like having a naked girl in bed, I like naked girls, I like smacking a ass, but adding my dick to her pussy doesn't make it much better.
it is way over rated.
>>28861475
Do you use a condom? I've always used condoms but in about a week we're just switching to birth control so I'm hoping that at the very least sensation will increase.
>>28861569
Used a condom with the hooker.
Didn't use a condom with the qt girl friend.
The sex with the hooker was actually better.
>>28856900
You should go to doctor and check out your hormones and stuff. Also loose weight fat fug
>>28861277
>>28860965
No more startup talk?
I honestly think this has really cleared my mind to think more about business and less about being liked by people.
>>28856900
I lost my virginity when I was 32. Here are some key points:
1) This sounds meme tier, but sex is pretty weak if you don't care about who you're fucking. Having sex with escorts and FWBs feels A LOT like masturbating. I have no idea why normies love FWBs so much.
2) If you get a proper gf, and you actually care about her a lot (and she cares about you too) sex finally becomes interesting as hell. It feels like more than just getting off, since you enjoy the time you spend with her and the time you spend fucking her.
Give it some thought, fellow post-wizard bot.
>>28861624
yeah but hookers are professional sex toys, you would expect an escort to give you a good time probably because they themselves only care about you getting off
>>28862014
I enjoy sex with my qt. girlfriend, but the sex with the hooker was better.
I think my girl friend is almost as inexperienced as I am.
I think "getting off" is probably not the most fun a couple could have together.
>>28857366
Cause it works on them. And only them.
People use that insult on you, that hurts you.
>>28862480
>I think my girl friend is almost as inexperienced as I am.
Wishful thinking. Girls outside of porn just don't know how to have sex, they just sit there like a fish. But trust me she has been around.
Because everything is worth more than the sum of it's parts, sex alone with a stranger is alienating, but if it's combined with a good night along a person you really like, it's actually good, not that I get any, so this advice is probably worthless.
You left it too long.
I'm almost 25 and can feel my sex drive is not even 1/10 of what it was when i was 16-20
tl;dr ya dun goofed
>>28856900
Yes sex is boring especially when you get older. Unless you're absurdly healthy you won't really have any quality sexual experiences past 30. Really nothing is fun after 30 and that includes drugs
>>28862782
>I'm almost 25 and can feel my sex drive is not even 1/10 of what it was when i was 16-20
This. I'm 28 and I feel like a eunuch compared to when I was 18-20.
>>28859230
>Why should I care about what some faggot wrote.
k
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>>28862630
>But trust me she has been around.
savage
>>28863031
this makes me hate that I had to waste so my youth years living in small towns. Never got laid, had to put up with religious hypocrites, and currently unemployed because my car broke down in a bus free zone
>>28862630
I wish she had been around more, her pussy is actually too tight. It is an effort to keep it in.
I get why chads like girls who have been around now.
>>28862782
I'm actually very happy I didn't do anything at 16 while I was a hormonal emotional train wreck.
Basically what you're saying is though the lenses of a inexperienced at life teen boy sex appears to be much bigger and important.
However thought the lens of an adult, it really is quite boring and was never really worth it.
i "dun" won the game?
>>28862898
I still fucking love drugs, especially amphetamines and hallucinogens.
Its really kind of dissapointing. People praise it to high heavens and after fugging two girlsfriends in the past, I ended up thinking that a fleshlight or just my good ole hand is far better. Havent wished to have sex once after I became a shutin.
>>28858749
Britcuck, it's advize.
>>28856900
1. Porn. You watch waaaaay tooooo much of it, OP. Search pic related and you will see what I mean. I'm not gonna explain it to you. The post would be too long and I don't have the patience.
2. Sex is overrated. Yes, it's good. It's fun. But it's not that great that it blows your mind and creates earthquake. Porn isn't real. It's VERY bullshit.
>>28863219
same, after getting a gf at a mature age of 23 I got bored of sex in under 6 months, didnt initiate anymore, only humped when she literally started to stroke my cock and make out passionately
masturbating wins everytime, its so much easier and pure pleasure, not some full body work-out or massage session
>>28863202
>Basically what you're saying is though the lenses of a inexperienced at life teen boy sex appears to be much bigger and important.
That's because you now have low testosterone levels. Sex drive is testosterone and nitric oxide. You're losing both so you don't value it anymore. You haven't really matured so much as you have weakened
>>28863468
Actually I have higher than normal test :D
You sound butt hurt.
Did you throw away your life on some chick you knocked up in high school?
>>28863584
>Actually I have higher than normal test
I guarantee you have never been tested. You definitely have low test levels
>>28863629
Your just a sour looser.
Are you employed?
Please let me try to enjoy your failure as a human being.
>>28856900
>>28856900
Depends what kind of kinky shit you're into. Regular sex is kinda boring, but since you were up until recently a virgin, you're still sort of inexperienced.
>>28857189
Mishima was a literal faggot who killed himself because he was fucked up in the head. He only lived a deluded samurai lifestyle because the samurai would have sex with young boys and that's what he wanted to do.
>>28858978
Well he's in his 30s so he is a millenial by definition.
So, is rape overrated too?
t. Virgin
>>28857064
I disagree.
I have more fun alone using my imagination than with actual sex most of time
From a purely mechanical perspective sex is meh tier, the only thing about it that's better is the emotional "hey someone let me do this"
>>28863747
Aren't we all just deluded faggots though?
The more you share your delusion with others the more real it becomes.
Obviously there are constructive and destructive delusions.
The company I do does a lot of software training.
I had a delusion that one of the core pieces of value in our company was our amazing technical training.
Now we're partnering with Samsung. So Samsung now shares my delusion, soon many many more will.
>>28856900
Sorry you missed out on sex for 30 years. I thoroughly enjoy it.
>>28862765
No you're right if you actually like the person it can be intense. OP is probably only fond of that girl and isn't infatuated or anything at all, that's what's missing.
I heard my parents fucking well into their 30s (the fucking horror) too so it's not age, it's passion
>>28864407
>This
Don't just fuck to fuck. You can do better than that on your own.
>>28857077
>"You're too much in your head"
>mulatto content farmer
Elliot Hulse?
>>28860195
>I am cut, but it is recently ( 3yrs ago ) because I had paraphimosis, and its not like all cut off
So is the feel you get from masturbating any different than before the circumcision?
>>28856900
Quite easy to understand.
All this sex is evil morale stems from the christians priests, which are all paedophiles and faggots. They despise their own sexuality for obvious reasons, but also have the power to force their selfhate on others.
tl;dr I declare that every sex is evil because I'm a faggot with power.
>>28857189
i am 22 and i have the same exact problem.. but my died and my body is healthy as fuck..
im still a virgin, only recently have i made out w a girl for the first time and i always worked it up in my head as being the shit and it was really boring and uncomfortable, fingering her was also really dissapointing because its like plunging your hand into warmed up fish guts, suckin her tits was aight tho
Nearly every single drug feels 100x better than sex.
>>28860580
stage 3 - slowly realizing everything is like your sex experience: over-hyped and unfulfilling, resulting in a complete loss in motivation
I'm 19 and thinking about just going to Amsterdam, fucking an escort and getting it over with.
Should I do that?
I don't even care about sex that much.
I just want to know what it feels like, and not be a virgin anymore. That's it.
/r9k/ - sex and normies
