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Help me /pol/ I dont know how to proceed my life is turning a hell
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I was addicted to porn however in a long battle I got porn substituted by a platonic love in which I only masturbated to her.

Slooowly I got my ejaculation disorder healed and started feeling a lot better.

The problem starts here:

Platonic love has started to eaten myself like porn did. I cannot stop thinking about her. It generates a lot of anxiety knowing it is almost imposible for me to get her.

At the beginning the idea that I could get her even at the most significant posibility was a healing idea that pushed me throught my day to do things.

But now this all has turned upside down, the idea that I could ever meet her and even don't know how to react, all my insecurities started attacking my platonic love turning it into a source of anxiety.

I cannot even eat properly like in my porn addicted times if I start thinking about her I just cannot continue eating.

Even at work I am starting to feel I cannot concentrate.


Please help me someone how to proceed I want to love her like the old times, because HOW CAN I DROP HER WHEN SHE WAS MY SALVATION OF PORN.

I CANNOT LET MYSELF DROP HER.

Please Help
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>>78012582
>her
>her
>her
>her
You could stop being a gigantic beta faggot
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>>78013242
How should I proceed? Are you saying I should drop her?
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>>78012582
If you build your life around any girl, you are going to end up very fucking unhappy.

As far as "addicted to porn," nigger please. If I stood by you with a cattle prod and branded you each time you searched, you'd stop.

you get addicted to heroin, not porn. As far as GF...you're born alone, you die alone. you live in Spain. Get a fun hobby. Steroids are legal there, find a fun gym.
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>>78013497
Thank you canadabro.

I find it correct building the life around someone will end up fucking unhappy. It is specially that part where now I am trying to disempower a bit my platonic love, and starting doing things by myself that the anxiety has started again like it was in the times of porn.

I already go to gym in fact it is very frustating that I cannot eat due to anxiety so it is useless my gym time.
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>>78012582
why is it impossible to get her you beta cuck.

Oh wait, you're from spain, its probably some waifu shit from an anime.
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How the fuck does this have anything to do with pol?
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>>78012582
> the idea that I could ever meet her
do you even talk to this person?

1. stop overrating masturbation as some ultimate evil. you're not a buddhist monk and you have biological needs that have to be taken care of. what's important is balance.

2. get over the idea that women are goddesses with more value than you. they're just flawed human beings like anybody else

3. if you're lacking confidence for bullshit reasons get therapy and more life experience. if you're lacking confidence for real reasons, fix them. start lifting, feel strong.

4. get laid in the real world ffs. preferably in the context of a relationship with a person you feel kinship with beyond physical appearance. the best step to achieving this is to leave your basement and socialise in groups that are interesting to you. you'll naturally meet people.
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>>78013686
no, you do not need to eat if you can search online for good prices what you can drink.

Try myprotien impact sometimes it is free shipping and $27 / kg which is a good price for whey protien

you just mix it with water and drink it is easy to get many calories and nutrition just from drinking and dont mix with milk too much milk will upset the stomach
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>>78014072
thank you poland bro
>>78013722
no es una anime waifu shur es una idol japonesa
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>>78013722
lmao, why is it so popular there
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>>>/adv/
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>>78014190
Degeneracy is encouraged in this shithole
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>>78012582
>tfw your not addicted to porn and not a lovesick beta

Feels good to be emotionally stunted
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>>78014275
thank you i'll seek help there
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>>78012582
rape is your only answer amigo

or

pic related
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>>78014173
>una idol japonesa
No female is an "idol." What most guys don't realize is that the more you ignore a girl, the more she wants you.

If she's some nip you've never even met, get realistic. Guys her idolize japanese girls-- not that great. Have had better lays in Spain.

Until you are comfortable on your own, nothing else will matter. If you want to jerk off, jerk off so long as you aren't actually rubbing your dick raw it's not a mental illness.
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>>78013447
You must undergo intense psychological torture.
Everyday you must watch 3 hours of gore videos and force yourself to masturbate to it. 2 hours you listen to your favorite music and look at more gore.
After you're getting good and have no emotional response to the gore you must start killing little animals and after no emotional response to that move on to bigger animals like niggers.
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All you did was replace one addiction with another. I've heard that in AA, you can't get into a relationship for a year after you stop drinking to avoid what happened here. So basically no love and no fap
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>>78014502
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKFKl22j1RY

him on the center
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You sound like a fuckin psycho. Hope you don't go Christina Grimmying whoever this elusive "her" character is.
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>>78012582
>Stupid, pointless, faggot.

Stop whining, start working out, at least 3 times a week, eat balanced meals in sync with your workout plan. Increase your protein intake, drop ALL processed foods, specially and I mean SPECIALLY all forms of sugar and drink nothing but water or protein shakes. Increase your test levels and spend a little bit of money on grooming...but not too much, you don't want to come across as an obvious beta faggot, which you are.

Forget this bitch, think nothing except yourself and before long you will be flooded with pussy.
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>>78012582

If the woman you are talking about is your own nation then I don't see a problem with what you are doing.
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>>78014669
I'll never understand how people can get attached to others
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>>78014557
>you're free of your addiction!
>now never do anything that makes you happy ever again
>o-okay

AA is shit for this exact reason. Some people just have addictive personalities and there's nothing they can do to change it. Might as well pick the least harmful addiction and get on with your life.
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>>78013497
Your ignorance on addiction is amusing. Please spew more bullshit
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>>78013447
dude if she is literally eating away at your life let her know if she says no then thats it deal with it if she says yes make it fucking count
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>>78013447
You are obviously to obsessive to be around women.

Back to the darkness!
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>>78013447
You know what you have to do. That voice in your head telling you to do the unimaginable? Yeah that's me. And I'm telling you, you need to end her life. Kill her or let her kill you.

It's up to you to make your decision.

Don't fuck this up
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>>78014502
if you've idealised someone so much in a one-sided way it's incredibly unlikely they're going to live up to that image even if you do get to meet them. if you're going into these things with the attitude "you're great, i'm shit" you'll end up unhappy.

if you really want some jap waifu, you can have that, but it should develop naturally. learn the language, study there, join manga clubs if that's what you're into.

just don't turn a girl or a country into some utopian ideal where your problems will be solved without working on your anxiety problems as they exist now. it's probably not really porn or the waifu that are the problem, it's the way these anxiety disorders give you a tendency to naturally FIND something, anything in your environment to worry about.
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this isn't Platonic love
it's called unrequited love

you have a passionate personality so you must replace this love with another love

the answer is: pray to the Blessed Virgin Mary (this will be a truly Platonic love without lust or anxiety)
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Relax, itll only be an 80 year war

HAHAHAHAHA
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Focus your passion on the gym, disregard that beta personality completely
You don't depend on anyone, or orient yourself according to anyone. You are your own man
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>>78015070
>>78015096

exactly I have been reading the AA disorder maybe this is the root of all things

the funny thing is that it is imposible to change but at least it tends to develop good leaders like alexandre the great and otto bismark

at least is something
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>>78012582
All women are whores. Stop thinking of her as Human. Because she's not. I have platonic love for my dog because it is a very loyal friend. But my wife? She's an enemy that I once impregnated, nothing more.

Also all women taste and feel the same. Sex is for reproductive purposes and warfare, the pleasurable part is due to the same adrenaline that makes you smile when you stab your first enemy. It's all the same.

Don't be emotional. Find another interest. Contribute, don't loathe.
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>>78015608
>But my wife? She's an enemy that I once impregnated, nothing more.
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