This is an experimental attempt to see if we can have a peaceful les gen with some decent troll control.
Rules:
1. No tripfagging, no namefagging
2. transbians are welcomes but trans related topics are not allowed and should be discussed at transbian general
3. Bisexual girls are welcome but topics related to men or sex with men is not allowed and should be discussed at bisexual general
4. Ignore all bait.
let's see what happens...
Some important information regarding inflammatory posts, bait, and general bile and hateful discussions:
If the poster sounds ridiculous to the point that you are personally offended or think that the poster may be a troll
DO NOT RESPOND BACK TO THEM.
Troll posts die when no one pays attention to them. Be smart, be savvy, and remember!
Do not respond to posts that offend you, do not respond to bait posts.
I'm down to clown.
Sounds like a promising experiment. Hope it works out, and that the ground rules get followed. You're doing good work, OP.
>>6003738
Chill Les gen can only stick around if another anon decides to take up the mantle while enforcing the rules. I can't promise that I'll be on /lgbt/ long enough to make this next Chill Les Gen. I'm not even sure if this general will hit 300.
>>6003698
Speaking of chill, today marks 2 weeks since I jammed with a band for the first time. My cousin has an improvised music studio at his place and him, me and my bro decided to mess around a bit, with me on the guitar.
I ended up pretty surprised with my own skills, I actually managed to carry an improvised tune. It was great.
When did you guys realize you were gay? I only just accepted that I'm a lesbian, but looking back, there were signs early on. Like when I was really little and I watched Aladdin and I told my mom that I wanted to marry Jasmine.
>>6003792
Probably like 1st/2nd grade, I was infatuated with girls. Around the same time we stayed at a family friend's and their daughter kissed me and I fell in love. Held her hand the whole weekend.
I-is it safe here?
>>6004037
Nowhere is safe.
>>6004037
As a straight dude, I'm wondering the same question.
>>6004054
just a question, but do you guys hang out at /cgl/ considering that board has the most fem anons there?
>>6004052
This. There is no safe space. Not on 4chan, not on any of the four corners of the globe, not even in the cold reaches of space. The Spiderlord is always watching. Waiting. You cannot escape. Your time will come.
>>6003792
Took me a long time; I was kinda a late bloomer sexually and first experienced attraction to girls around age 16/17.
Looking back to elementary school, I was maybe just a bit too into playing "boyfriend and girlfriend" with friends and wanting intimate tickle fights and massages at slumber parties. Female intimacy in general was always something I craved, and I never really had male friends, or any reason to care about men.
My first celebrity crush after my gay awakening was Alex Kingston, from watching Doctor Who in high school.
hello I am troll post
>>6003792
Sailor Moon and Xena, I guess.
>>6004058
It's going to sound pathetic, but I've always secretly wanted a lesbian friend so I lurk here and pretend.
>>6004058
I used to be a seagull back when I was way into Japanese fashion.
>tfw no gf to be elegant and gothy with
>tfw you feel like 29 is too old
>>6004088
what's your gender identity, anon?
>>6004083
hi troll post.
Welcome to our safe space.
Here's your complimentary (You)
Hope you enjoy your stay.
>>6004086
I was literally going to mention Xena before I saw your post. I think me and you met in another thread.
>>6004111
I'm male. Why do you ask? I'd rather just go back to lurking.
>>6004135
Just curious.
>>6004106
>29
yeah that's too old to do crazy Japanese fashion. Only time that's acceptable is if you're a vampire who looks 20 in your 30s or 40s. Or if you're really really old like in your 80's, then you can really wear whatever the hell you want.
>>6004106
Lesbians age like wine, anon. Everyone knows that.
>>6004139
Most people think I'm in my early 20s when they see me. I've worn some kind of alternative fashion for so long that I guess I'm having a hard time adapting as I get older.
>>6003792
Had a friend growing up who had a swimming pool, and we'd always change into our bathing suits in front of each other. I think that started it.
>>6004193
Pools are probably great for this. I was like, I dunno, 10 or something and we went to the pool with class. Me and my best friend were swimming and goofing around, and I just started crushing on her and thinking about cuddling/kissing her in the pool
I think I have a thing for swimsuits now because of it
>>6003792
Had some moments when I was younger. Always had male friends growing up and it wasn't until middle school that I made my first female friends. They were adorable and we're much more interested in me as a person instead of just playing video games or our rough housing like it was with my male friends. Then my best female friend drowned over summer break right before we were to enter high school. Fucked me up way more than I realized. Then my best male friends moved away. From there I was absorbed as the designated white girl into a close group of Chinese girls. Got my first crush on a girl, then my second, but was an awkward mess of a person. We'd do shit like holding hands, dressing each other up when shopping, lift weights, just cute bullshit. They all turned out straight now. I didn't take sexuality seriously and never really questioned it then. So when I was still a dateless virgin at 21 I got into a bad destructive relationship with a guy, because I never thought anyone would be interested in me. Lasted 2 years and I picked up horrible habits. Tried other things with guys and it was all bullshit. Never fell in love, never really enjoyed sex except when stoned, really just happy to have friends even if they were only nice to me because they wanted to be in a relationship. Then the dungeons and dragons friend group feel to pieces after one dude chocked me in his apartment after I told him I didn't want to date him for the third time and I lost all my friends.
Only recently did I accept that my girl crushes were real crushes and my time spent with women was the happiest time in my life.
Tl;Dr didn't take the hints my body gave me in hs, got into a string of bad relationships with men, only now at 23 do I understand what the fuck is going on.
Now I'm in cocoon mode, improving my life and body before I try asking pretty ladies out.
>>6004427
*fell *choked
Whatever.
>>6004427
That's rough.
Hope you find a pretty lady to be your gf soon, anon
>>6004446
Thanks anon. Really looking forward to that day myself. My family won't mind. They're chill. It'll be easy once I get the ball rolling. Helps to have two cool as hell lesbian aunts.
>>6004434
gold star demigirl here.
>>6004463
Do you know where you are?
>>6004472
don't reply
>>6004476
S-sorry
>>6004495
reported for animal abuse
>>6004463
Sometimes it takes a while to find yourself and accept what you are. I wish the road leading here wasn't so bumpy and full of detours, but now I'm on the lesbian road and it's full of sunshine and rainbows.
Quick question for the thread: who's your current celeb crush?
I got a thing for an indie wrestler right now. Goes by Heidi Lovelace. Short dark hair, deep tanned skin, brilliant smirking smile, and tiny enough to carry like a backpack. Body as tight as a bowstring too. 10/10 in my book.
>>6004501
Mods don't give a shit about that rule, otherwise they would ban anyone who bullies trannies.
>>6004495
Go back to the FERS thread (frog exclusionary radical snails)
>>6004495
TERFgen is that >>>6002418 way
>>6004434
I thought this was a myth
>>6004516
don't reply
>>6004521
Maybe they're lost, anon.
>>6004534
reported for animal abuse
>>6004534
I'm amazed they have pics and gifs for literally everything.
>>6004579
Trolling is a full time hobby.
>>6004548
Yes mistress I'm complete trash. Garbage water in the gutter. The sludge left at the bottom of the garbage compactor.
Pl-please degrade me more, mistress.
>>6004506
Chloe Bennet is qt af
>>undefined
uhh
Thanks for including the T in this thread!
Still on the hunt for a girl to date. I've come close to scoring with 2 or 3 girls recently but I don't want to bark up the wrong tree. I'm going to ask for their number the next time I see any of them, I guess. I just want to figure this out without using an app (like last time).
>>6004670
so like if we had sex, what would i even do? eat your ass?
>>6004682
not that one but i tend to just get my partner off, not too fussed about having an orgasm myself.
>>6003792
In 7th grade, I knew because I fell fucking madly in love with a girl, it hit me really hard.
Aaaand that's when everything went down.
There definitely was signs before. I thought I liked boy, but never fell in love with any, I used to always want to be the prince or the dad or whatever in pretending game and all, it was natural to me, but that never alarmed me, I mean, there was absolutely nothing at all hinting at the fact that I was attracted to females. I gave absolutely 0 shits about other girls.
excpet maybe one time I could have realised, I had a dream where I was a dude and a hot girl wanted to kiss me but I pushed her back, when I woke up I was really confused and wondered if I actually wanted to kiss her, then I forgot about it because meh.
>tfw no gf
>>6004851
Have you tried catching one in a gf trap?
>>6004878
what do i use as bait?
>>6004957
Depends on what traits you'd like her to have! Tegan and Sara cds outside a record store, Girl Friends outside a book store. Decide what subtype you'd like to attract first.
so there's this girl who's super funny and witty and cute as all fuck and I want to ask her out but we've not known each other long and it feels weird/desperate
also I am entirely not a catch at all so I feel the chances of her going 'Yes, we should do couple things' is insanely unlikely, and I don't want to do that and make things awkward
>tfw no fart box to tongue punch
>>6004506
Googled. Description sounded 10/10 but image search did not live up to expectations. Oh well, different strokes...
>>6004599
Conversely, image search confirms qt af.
>>6005094
>there's this girl who's super funny and witty and cute as all fuck
Hey anon I didn't know you knew me irl!
Jk, awkwardness incarnate representin'.
Let's do this here too.
What's your gender and your sex assigned at birth, /lesgen/?
http://strawpoll.me/7340423
>>6005771
Well this is awkward.
>>6005858
I think it's kind of appropriate.
I started this on nazilesgen, by the way.
>>6005771
>male amab highest
can the terfs at least focus on these guys instead if they have to be angry all the time
>>6005771
top fucking kek
>>6006021
You seem to be lost, anon. This is Chill Les Gen, we don't discriminate people here.
>>6005771
>only 25% say they're cis female
>>6006037
I don't discriminate. One size only dresses with a 70cm waistline discriminate.
>>6006059
That's why you should burn those types of dresses.
>>6006051
I'm more confused by the 3 agender/non-binary AMABs. At least post pics; I wanna see if you're qt or P.T
>>6005771
>less than half female in any way
>>6006142
I'm a demigirl so I voted as non-binary.
Sexually I identify as a lesbian, that's why I'm here, if that's what's confusing you.
Obviously I'm not posting my pic on 4chan of all places, lol.
>>6006173
>AMAB demi-girl lesbian
Hoo boy thank god this is chill lesgen and not cislesgen. Thanks for clearing that up. Not really confused, I just wanna c the cute non-bins (I'm kinda bi but I'm heavily les leaning so uhhh lol)
>>6006190
>Hoo boy thank god this is chill lesgen and not cislesgen.
Yeah, thread is much cozier without the nazis.
I wonder how long it will last, because usually trolls just wanna troll regardless.
>>6006068
But they look cute. I like them ...
>>6006241
I don't like dresses as much as I like work jeans and a flannel. If I could find a girl who dressed like that, I'd be content.
>>6006252
My friends mock me because I'm literally constantly in jeans, a t-shirt and a flannel shirt, unless it's a very special occasion.
>>6006282
I think it is a very attractive look, but there does seem to be at least a little stigma against it. It suggests a fun, but level-headed attitude from my experience.
This is all cool in theory and shit but can I post lewd stuff? Cause I just wanna do that
>tfw no stronk metalhead gf
>>6006467
pls do
>>6004063
I got no problem with lesbians.
I kind of wish I was one.
>>6006497
Yoou can be whatever you want to be anon, I believe in you <3
>>6006497
Why aren't you one, anon?
>>6006530
my cis partner actually dresses like that more than I do, I tease her about it but she teases me about plenty of stuff too
>tfw only attracted to cute, soft fat chicks
>tfw only gross, hairy men want to date me
>never get hit on by girls IRL
>only ever get hit on by girls online that live super far away
>not even attracted to them anyway
>>6006530
That's nice...?
So, the email thing isn't working out. I guess the admin is dead or something. How do I join the Skype group?
how can I meet girls outside of any "LGBT spaces"?
>>6006566
We should probably make a chill lesgen skype group now.
In your experience how many girls are actually lesbians, not confused straight girls or bi? Like how many girls would actually get married to another girl?
>>6004160
They only get more bitter and it's only through financial desperation and the constant screaming of cave citizens staring at shadows that their false value is transmitted and poorly acted upon?
>>6006587
>In your experience
Zero
>>6006587
Bi women get married to other women with higher proportions than gay women even exist. You need to drop that hateful thought, anon, it's only self-destructive.
>>6006591
lol same 5ever alone
>>6006593
Kekek no. Someone post that statistic that showed like 90% of bi people are with the opposite sex.
>>6006948
pls, no bully
>>6006587
>tons of cute real lesbian wedding pics all over the internet
>tfw you think this
>>6006955
Get on your knees and lick my pussy right now, you worthless 4chan loser.
>>6006966
yes, mistress.
thank you, mistress
>tfw thugdere
>>6005624
She doesn't photograph well for some reason. She's cute as fug in real life. Her stats are exaggerated. She's more like 5'2" or even less and maybe 110 soaking wet. Her nose doesn't look that weird in real life either, though I like sharp distinguished noses. For some reason her face looks strange in all the photos I could find. This is the only picture I have of her right now, sadly. Had a really bad spot during the match. The photo is shit, but even from behind she's a qt to me.
>tfw no chill gf
http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-35978328
Can we have a /ChillLesgen/ edition of this?
If not, sorry for shitposting
>>6008677
template in case anyone needs it
>>6006948
Yeah, exactly. 10% of them end up with women. And only like 3% of the population of women are gay. That's a huge markup. It's like they're going out of their way to find cute girls. It's truly disproportionate, just like I said.
All you're doing is making your dating pool even tinier, more hopeless, and incestuous.
>>6008920
girls are better, what can I say...
>>6008920
Bisexuals are statistically about 4% of the population, so we're talking 10% of 4%.
Even if lesbians are only 2% of the population, that's still much more than 0.4%. So you're still wrong.
The number of bi women that end up with women is closer to the total population of transgender people.
does anyone have that picture thats shows a "spectrum" of butch to femme?
>>6009062
Anon, you are really bad at math, and also at knowing how many bisexual women there are.
>>6009064
would someone even make such a thing? i would imagine it would trigger half the internet.
where would you put an MtF on that spectrum? can they be femme with a penis?
>>6009330
>MtF
You make a separate spectrum for them
>less passing to almost passing
Oh, I was thinking about it and someone actually made this thread!
No one talks.
>>6009689
Since no one has this thread opened no one will see my fuckup.
>>6009836
I saw it.
>>6009836
I seen it senpai.
I seen it.
>>6009826
That's what happens when retards split the slowest thread. Skype addition when
I want to talk to cute girls
>>6010232
Nobody talks on the nazi thread either.
>>6010326
Exactly.
>>6010337
Meaning most non-NEET lesbians and trolls are at work.
The NEET ones are probably gaming or something.
>>6008677
it's gonna be a long time until we can marry in polandball, misiek... i want to get married too
>>6008677
Hard Candy is breddy gud taste. It could be better, but it could be a lot worse.
Anyone got the docs page?
>>6010454
The what?
>>6009258
>muh most women are a little bit bi meme
No. Stop shoving your identity onto monosexuals just because you want to put your sexuality on a pedestal.
anyone else here have some serious body issues that feel like a lot of it comes from being a lesbian? I've always felt like such a failure of a girl for being gay and all those "lesbians are ugly" jokes/stereotypes have gotten to me really bad. Like I have to prove myself of being worthy of being a girl by being MORE feminine, MORE obsessed with looks, MORE beautiful than straight girls to make up for my huge flaw. I just don't want to be a failure of a female.
>tfw had three plastic surgery procedures by the time I was 18, still can't wear cute clothes bc I feel it makes me look ugly by comparison
>>6010497
I used to have severe BDD when I was around 19. Mostly I've grown out of it, but if I had the $$$ I would have definitely had plastic surgery around that age. I do think a lot of it was not wanting to represent an "ugly lesbian", feeling like I have to be an A+ human being because people will project all of my flaws not just onto me as an individual, but all of lesbiankind. Which probably was a feeling that stemmed from seeing people actually *do* that all the friggin time.
>>6010497
>i like checkered shirts but i can't wear them because i feel like i'm fueling the stereotype
>always make up on
>/fit/
>do girly shit even when i don't want to
>>6010497
>try to tell myself I don't care at all
>most of the time it works
>but sometimes when I'm down I think everyone must see me as the stereotypical butch dyke although I know it's isn't true
I have pretty convincing reasonings to make this line of thinking go away, but since it's omnipresent no one can forget it, and it's always there to further feel you bad about yourself when you need it the least.
Chilllesgen!
I'm going to my first lesbian bar this week. Is it stupid to go alone? What should I do? I just turned 21.
SHE MESSAGED ME FIRST AAHHH
>>6010663
Tell us more about her. What does her hair smell like? How does she laugh?
>>6010663
normie
REEEEE
>>6010497
Yeah, I feel ugly as shit though I know objectively my skin, hair, eyes, and bone structure are very nice on the eyes. I'm a poor student working my way through college so I don't have more than two pairs of pants and maybe seven shirts and two sweaters. Only one oversized men's jacket, a (admittedly nice) giant green parka with removable wool liner. I'm too embarrassed of my appearance to be openly gay, since I don't fit into any lesbian subcategory or niche.
Muscular, wide boned, long wavy blonde hair, no makeup ever, mostly wear men's clothes, defined jaw+cheekbones, plump lips, more masculine personality and interests. I have no idea how other people think of me since I can't nail it down myself. A couple of men have assumed I was gay, but my one lesbian coworker always assumed I was straight. It's all so ambiguous.
>>6010745
her hair smells like lavender and it drives me crazy. and she has the cutest laugh i've ever heard
wtf2lesgens
>>6010858
This is the cozy one, the other is for nazis and trolls trolling trolls
>>6010867
Yes but this one has anime posting transgirls.
>>6010485
It's not a meme, it's the conclusion based on decades of formal and ever more specific investigation. Look at the studies of M.L.Chivers, Elizabeth McClintock, and (infamously) Kinsey. You're just uninformed, you shitposting loon. It's increasingly likely that the VAST MAJORITY of women are bisexual, or at least that their romantic and sexual interest is highly contextual instead of categorical like men.
Which means you're not getting laid because you're a shitty person. More fine, bi ladies for me.
>>6010894
The other one has qt femme lesbian weddings, so I think that one wins. Unless you want to also post qt femme lesbian weddings hint hint
>>6010894
I'd rather have anime posting transgirls than a bunch of shitposting terfs anyday.
>>6010918
Why does it have to be one or the other, why can't we have neither.
>>6010911
>Kinsey studies
>legit and not heavily flawed
Y'lost me.
But desu the only studies that say most women are bi are also ones that lump "fulfilling sexual and romantic relationships with women" in with "will kiss a woman in a bar for attention" and "had a little curiosity once when she was 16 so that means she's bi forever".
Studies say 4% range, and t b h familia if you say otherwise, you're literally invalidating and disrespecting women's self-identities and saying you know their personal preferences better than they do, so thanks for being an elitist and self-righteous binazi.
>>6010939
No, faggot. The ones where they show people a bunch of stimuli and check for genital changes with a doodad. Not self-reported surveys. Christ, I gave you names and you still didn't bother.
>>6010911
So lesbians aren't real? Wow, why didn't I realize that before.
>>6010947
Be honest, do you have a diagnosed mental disorder that makes you incapable of reading something without first inserting whatever you want into it, or did you have to train yourself to be this retarded?
>>6010947
If lesbians aren't real then how can their eyes be real?
Hey, guys.
Chill
This is chill lesgen, remember?
>>6010585
It's not stupid to go alone, but you have to be willing to approach people instead of waiting to be approached. It's pretty unlikely that you'll be approached as "new blood." Bars are for old people, though, so only bother if you're eager to get fucked by Baby Boomers. Private parties, random happenstance, subculture-designated cafes, and (of course) the internet are how young dykes find the right clam bakes.
>>6010945
God, are you even female? You should know that those studies are flawed at least for women because they falsely equate the vagina with the penis, whereas for female -arousal- the clit is the only true measure.
Unless you think women are sexually attracted to monkeys too?
Wow, so this is what happens when you let """"lesgen""""" fill up with bio men.
>>6010916
Okay but instead, and stay with me here, qt tomboy lesbian weddings.
>>6010986
What do you even think CAUSES vaginal tightness changes and moisture production? THE SWELLING OF THE CLITORIS
IT WRAPS AROUND EVERYTHING
YOU KNOW LITERALLY NOTHING ABOUT YOUR OWN ANATOMY
>>6010986
You're like the crack-kun of lesgen. I would only be half-surprised if you actually were him.
>bio men
Oh, see, mutliple robots from space, like in this super sentai: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJ8drguzLaQ
>>6010996
DA but porn studies meaning things for sexuality is.....stupid desu. Let's say a straight girl is aroused by lesbian porn, you don't know what is going on in her mind. Maybe seeing women receiving pleasure is hot to her, it doesn't matter in fiction who is giving the pleasure. That doesn't come close irl to meaning that she wouldn't be grossed out by an actual woman's tongue on her pussy or vice versa.
One of the studies said that women got wet looking at chimp sex, so unless you're proposing that women want to have sex with chimps too, you should analyze the consistency of your views.
>>6010996
That's utterly false.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_lubrication
>>6011030
I would fuck a large dog or wolf of either gender, to be honest. But I'd only have sex with human women.
>>6011046
>I would fuck a large dog or wolf of either gender, to be honest.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
>>6011050
Stop invalidating their identity as a wolfkin thx and #staychill lesgen remember to respect ALL identitties
>>6011046
So you fantasize about a wolf knotting inside you? That's pretty hetero desu.
>>6011044
>ended up looking at a messy deep dissection showing the clitoris in full
>not disgusted at all but interested
Wow, a few years ago I wouldn't have reacted like that.
>>6011046
Would you or have you?
And if you haven't, why haven't you?
I would a snail.
Phew, just the promises about cf-serverd to learn, I will know a large chunck of cfengine, and clearly enough to use it with ease.
it's been nearly two years.
Why do I still feel hollow inside when her smile pops in my head?
I'm never going to be worth dating again if I can't get over her
>>6011717
iktf
>tfw going to sleep alone again.
>>6012059
we can sleep alone together
>>6010977
>Bars are for old people, though
That doesn't sound too bad to find an older woman to show me the ropes, to be completely honest.
I'd like that a lot.
>>6012370
I hope you have a chance do do it
>>6006468
>tfw no gf to convert into a metalhead
Are there a any women with a fetish for being someone's Lesbian Experiment? That would be useful.
>>6012370
>i want an aggressive alpha male wolf to put his penis inside me
>I'm a lesbian because i said wolf, not human!
??
Also are you trans?
Have any of you been to your local LGBT centers/meetings? I'm considering going to one next week for the first time. Will it just be a bunch of tumblrinas or could I make friends? I'm really nervous.
>>6012624
Most are simply sausage fests. Last time I went it was quite nice though, but still a sausage fest. They're not meet-up places, but where people try to help others in need, inform, listen, organize the local annual pride (it's a big undertake)...
>>6012970
Should even I go? I don't know anyone who's gonna be there.
>>6013378
Not her but it depends on what sort of thing its advertised as - if it's a support group, then it's going to be a different thing than a social group might be.
Are there any sort of indications what it might be like?
>>6013435
It seems like more of a social meeting... And I know a girl who went and said that people just hang around and talk afterward.
>>6013487
Well that sounds pretty good then!
Even if there arent any qt grils, you'll at least have some new local lgbt friends, and that can be pretty good.
>>6013824
Yeah. I hope so. I have an lgbt club at my college that I've tried to go to, but it's just a place where they hang out, and everyone already knows eachother. I walked in, awkwardly sat there for about tens minutes and just left. Hopefully this one goes better?
>>6012595
Maybe these categorical labels are inadequate to describe every possible sexual context that a human being can enter or imagine! Fancy that. It's almost like they're made up specifically for the most drastic shorthand and propagated mostly by power structures alienated from those being described. Also are you autistic?
And no, kek, I'm cis.
>>6014210
Or you're just a freakish bisexual.
>>6014297
Not really. The bestiality appeal is mostly that I can't tell it's male or female for the most part. It's just large, and warm, and is down to fuck. I think the whole predatory eyes thing is supremely fucking hot with women, too, but I get skeezed out hard if a man has similar expressions. Even in the case of getting knotted (lewd) it would be more like a strong woman with a permanent toy takes what she needs and could at any time rip my throat out -- but she isn't.
Doesn't smell like men, doesn't look like men, doesn't act like men, doesn't sound like men. It's only equivalent if you ignore literally every single part of the context and situation and maintain myopic hyperfocus on a specific detail, which really says more about your crippled ego than my sexuality.
Even if I were bisexual, it wouldn't be a big deal. The only reason we're talking about this at all is because one of the nazicuck terfcancers from the troll thread wandered back in to spit some myth anyway for the ultimate end of saying bi women are undateable. I don't buy that. It's senseless fear-mongering and self-destructive for your love life besides. If I were bisexual, I'd have every right to be in these threads as anybody else, as long as I were talking about lesbian things, and a day long argument about if lesbians are justified in not making their tiny dating pools even more hilariously tiny is exactly the kind of subject these threads are supposed to be about.
So maybe you should stop talking about dicks so much, anon.
>>6014350
>nazicuck terfcancers
ayy lmao
would it even be anti-trans to just point out we're talk about dogfucking now?
>>6014404
But potentially sapphic dogfucking.
>>6014350
Pls be a troll
>>6014440
You can stop being retarded and fearful at any time. It's within your power.
>>6014447
not fearful, not on 4chan. not even surprised at all.
one of the things about paraphilias is their comorbidity and the consistent overlap across them, and into plain exhibitionism where males seek to shock women. this seems to form an unspoken basis of much of the demand for "inclusion" but okay whatever, so let "inclusion" run its course.
>>6014523
You sure are using plenty of words you clearly don't know the meaning of. Does that make you feel more confident?
>>6014548
leave women alone and get a life, dude.
>>6014571
You're definitely showing that paranoia you claimed you didn't have.
>>6014440
>>6014523
Is this the same anon that was so freaked out by fetishes a couple threads ago?
Should I go on again about how much I love to be strangled?
Less to be amused by making people uncomfortable, and more that I haven't been choked in a while and I miss it. And I like discussing choking with other girls here.
Especially with girls who like to do the choking.
>A coworker showed me a video of one of her gym friends
>I thought it was a wrestling video
>I was confused when the opposing girl was on top of the gym friend, and then went limp.
>"Wait, what? Your friend won?"
>Coworker explained that that was a judo choke hold and the gym friend had just choked out the other girl
>Have to hide my arousal
>>6015217
That's adorable. I'm way too submissive to be the person to pin you down and choke you out, but this everyday fluster is just the cutest possible thing. I empathize.
Please help /lesgen/, my girlfriend "partially" broke up with me and I don't know what to do. I made a thread about it on the other server at >>>/adv/17026220 but almost everyone there said I should just give up and leave her but all I want is to get back with her. What should I do? Why does being a lesbian suck so much?
>>6015278
They're right, anon. Normally I'd say go for it, but
>haven't had sex in months and we kept getting into arguments over small, trivial issues
this means there's no hope. She's been over you for a while. She feels guilty about it, probably because you are supportive and caring, but she just isn't into you. About a year and a few months ago, I was in the same place you're in now. I still hurt over it sometimes when I let myself think about it too long. I posted about it in here. I was devastated. I had nightmares, my health was bad, and everything just seemed hopeless. But little by little, over a long time, I got better. Now I'm with someone new, and although I don't love her as intensely, I love her more healthfully, and it feels like there's a future there.
You have to give it up. And there's no way to get around how much this is going to tear at you.
>>6015278
It seems like you're just desperate for a relationship, rather than for this specfic girl.
She's rude and patronizing. She isn't considerate of how you feel yet expects you to bend over for her. You deserve better.
And to do this while she still lives with you?
I'd suggest going to a relationship therapist together or have her move out. In fact, if she's resistant to seeing one, phrase it that way to her.
>>6015245
Aw, thank you! It was awfully embarrassing. I really want to meet this gym friend now.
Have you ever been choked?
>>6015278
>She repeatedly told me that she didn't feel like I appreciated her and honestly I felt the same way too, I just never mentioned it.
Well, for the next relationship, remember how communication is important, but express your feelings, not criticisms.
>local lgbt center made a list of "gay-friendly" places
Nice.
>>6015217
There's a difference between a fetish and a sexuality. But don't expect bisexuals to understand that. They're basically just heterosexual with a fetish
>>6015414
Yes. My girlfriend did it the last time we hooked up. It was really hot. We've done breath play before, where I'm eating her out and she traps me with her thighs until I tap out, but this time her hand was on my neck and squeezing and I could see the black start to creep into my vision and it just made it so much more intense when she was fingering me. It's not top shelf gotta have it with me but it's definitely sexy. And I know she gets off on the power aspect.
>>6015558
>sexually repulsed by masculinity and the biological signifiers of men
Yeah, meme addict, that certain does sound bisexual! You're such a rube.
>>6015564
>here I'm eating her out and she traps me with her thighs
Must be the only kind of breath play I enjoy.
>>6015564
>, but this time her hand was on my neck and squeezing and I could see the black start to creep into my vision and it just made it so much more intense when she was fingering me
Heaven.
>instantly fall head over heels for this chick I met through mutual friends
>we hit it off as friends instantly and hang out together a bit
>she opens up pretty quickly about how messed up her life is right now and how she's been single for a long time to fix herself
>still feel insane attraction to her, get some balls after a couple months and ask her if I can take her out
>she says "yeah" but that she's got so much going on right now and feels like shes gotta focus on that til it's over
>tell her it's totally fine, I can wait. She just says she appreciates it and then we never really mention it again
>it's been a few months now, her stuff is almost over and I just really wanna tell her how head over heels I still am
I-is there a chance? The logical side of me says she was just putting off hurting my feelings.
>>6015749
The logical side of you can suck a dick. It's jumping to conclusions based on no evidence and being highly emotional, to be honest. Tell her that you're still into her and give her a definite date and time to do a definite thing that you know she will definitely enjoy. You got this, anon. You're gonna make it.
What do you do when you're hit with the best friend feels lesgen?
>>6015834
I just feel like the fact that she's never brought it up again means she's not really interested. She most definitely needs a friend and I pretty much sacrifice anything I can to make friends feel better, even if it's to my own detriment. I don't wanna make one of her few available friendships complicated with my selfishness.
>>6016025
You're overthinking this. She was just getting her life in order, that doesn't mean that she never thinks about it. If someone confessed to you while your life was falling down around your ears, would you want to drag around their hopes and make things weird by talking about it before you felt comfortable about acting on it?
And you know what's better than a friend?
A girlfriend.
So shut up and win your woman, idiot.
I hate my life and feelings
>be at uni
>meet rly qt girl
>she has a gf
>we get along really well
>become good friends and stuff, she's cute but i just see her as a friend
>she breaks up with her gf and i find out about some of the shit she was going through
>help her through rough patch
>a few months later she appears with a few friends of mine on a night out
>Really freindly with me, hugging me and all sorts
>Kisses me in a club
>im kinda weirded out but shes hot and im drunk so w/e
>end up making out all night
>go back to my place and we strip, about to do the dirty, but i realise just how drunk she is and leave it.
>things kinda weird the next day
>we meet up the week after on a sort of date thing to talk about shit
>she says how pretty i am and all this shit, end up going back to hers and watching anime all night and snuggling
>she makes me breakfast and we sit around watching disney movies before i have to go back cos lectures the next day
> kinda think me and her are a thing now
>meet up again next week and we kiss again and we do lewd things
>I go on a trip to Berlin with some friends
>come back and apparently shes found some other girl who was like an old flame
>talk about it with her and im pretty fucking hurt, whatever we were friends so its kinda awkward for a bit
>see shit about her and new girl all over facebook
>I find new gf kinda try to get over her, but i know new gf is just kinda rebound girl
>after a year me and new gf move in together
>me and qt uni girl still talk occasionally
>still have feelings
>feel bad for new gf because im stuck on this girl who fucked me over
>uni girl is still kinda suggestive with me and stuff
>find out new gf had a thing for her as well
>so im just like, fuck. Idk what my brain is doing
>Have feelings for uni girl, like new gf but not as much
>feel like a piece of shit
>because of feelings for old girl, cant be sexual with new girl.
>its been a year and a half and me and new gf havent had sex once.
Fuck.
>>6015564
I'm jelly
>>6016058
What a fucking saint she is to put up with your melodramatic ass for more than a year without even an orgasm.
>>6016058
>>after a year me and new gf move in together
>>its been a year and a half and me and new gf havent had sex once.
WTF did I just read?
>>6015299
>>6015407
>>6015546
This seems to be the general consensus all around. Honestly it's really not what I wanted to hear but I guess there's probably some truth to it.
Right now I don't care that she was condescending or that I felt unappreciated, it's hard to care about any of that anymore, I just want her back. I'd be willing to put up with almost anything for the sake of this relationship and I just don't know why she doesn't feel the same way.
What did you do today, /lesgen/?
Myself, I went to the water park and saw a million qt grills in bikinis.
>tfw they're all straight.
>tfw every woman in the world except me is straight.
Fuck this straight Earth.
>>6016203
I got an even gayer haircut than I already had.
Had a short bob and now its a full blown pixie.
Other than that, I ate chocolate and worked.
>>6016383
Don't beat yourself too hard, anon.
But it is really weird.
Why don't you surprise your gf tonight and lick her pussy really nicely?
>>6004784
I'm the same way. I didn't give a shit about boys or girls growing up, but I fell in love with a girl when I was around 11 or 12. And that's when shit went down.
>>6016488
What kind of chocolate?
>>6016203
I woke up at almost 12:00 PM, washed my face, was going to take my dog for a walk. Then it started raining, so I stayed in and watched the X-Files.
And, yeah. Pretty much every woman on this Earth is straight. Where do I even find women that are not? I have no idea.
>>6016546
yeah, i mean im romantic and stuff with her, and i take her out to nice places and stuff, but yeah maybe i should try, i'll try tonight and see how it goes.
>>6016552
I had some hazelnut praline esque things which were nice.
Aaand then I ate pocky whilst watching anime like the fucking weeb I sometimes become.
>>6016594
Please tell us how it went.
>tfw I'm jelly of both you and your gf tonight.
>>6016628
i will.
desu you shouldnt be jelly of either of us. I mean i guess we have a good life together, but i def dont deserve her, she'd probably be a lo better off with someone who isnt as fucked as me.
>>6016203
Worked, mostly. Had a chat with my mother, who brought news of my childhood friend and how happy she is with her adorable children. Talking about that girl always makes me feel all mopey and shit so I exercised furiously and now I'm drinking.
>>6016691
What are you drinking, anon?
>>6016739
Wine -- a red blend that my mother opened. I'll probably switch to bourbon later, have been enjoying Eagle Rare lately.
>>6016760
Nice
I wish I had some alcohol.
>>6016784
Why don't you?
>>6007035
Oh wow that dude on the far left taking photos is at every fuggin Midwest wrestling show.
>>6016813
I'm poor,
>>6012549
Would also love that, but would hate to hurt a woman's heart if I want good enough for them or couldn't perform to their expectations. Anxiety is a bitch and is keeping me from being strong enough to give up my virginity. I'm 23 and a successful student/geologist and I can't fucking identify flirtation or work up the strength to do online dating or join the LGBT club at college.
How the fuck do I work up the ovaries?
>>6015217
That is unbelievably hot. I wish I had the cash to take judo lessons. I would secretly relish fucking girls up and then get all the hotter having my ass handed to me.
>>6016882
Oh, well that sucks. Good on you for not wasting money on alcohol anyway though, a lot of people still do.
>>6016203
Watched Carol with a friend and had a few drinks. Got high after she went to bed because I am a poor decision maker and she wasn't up for doing drugs tonight. Do counsellors mind if you show up for your session on a come down?
Carol was pretty awesome incidentally.
>>6016058
Sounds like uni girl is attractive enough to be able to pay such games and still get what she wants. She does not sound like a morally healthy or introspective person. I wouldn't hurt myself trying to pursue someone who is so thoughtless. I know from experience that it leads to heart break. Of course I have a crush on a busty TA that really cares about my emotional wellbeing to the point that she made sure to apologize the next day when I was stressed over the people in the club that she's president of started complimenting my drawings. She felt bad because she made a joke about how I couldn't accept compliments well. That's the kind of thoughtfulness that really helps a relationship succeed.
WHY THE FUCK DOES SHE HAVE TO BE MARRIED FUCK.
>>6016191
That's self destructive. You are worth more than that. Focus on your own passions outside of her for a while. Build your own self worth by building up skills that you enjoy and put importance into.
hi lesbians
i'm gay but also drunk and high and i would like to be friends with you
>>6016987
That is a pretty kitty
>>6016203
School, studying, homework, listening to 8tracks with obscure as fug music that tickles me, and finally drinking beer while vaping and reading steven universe fanfiction. I like stimulating myself in as many ways as possible at the same time. About to go on a walk and listen to TED radio hour.
Still can't find a gf, and looking at all the bs I did today, I can easily imagine why.
Fuck my sultry voice. The people I talk with get this perspective that I'm all cool and shit because of my deep voice and garish clothing but they don't know I'm completely void of self confidence.
>>6016987
hi gay,
I'm a lesbian but I'm tipsy and I have gay brothers and you posted a cat so we can be friends.
>>6016993
>>6017000
>>6017006
wow you posted my favourite nuclear corvid so we're definitely friendds now
>>6017006
