My daughter came out as asexual but I can still hear her masturbate(the walls are thin and her vibrator is very loud) , is that normal?
Serious question.
Thank you!
She sounds like a special snowflake tumblrite. Asexuality is bullshit like 90% of the time
Yeah plenty of asexuals masturbate, they usually still have the biological process that we call libido/sex drive, it's just not directed at anyone. The body biologically still desires sexual release.
>>5240855
Asexual means not attracted to anyone else. She can still Jill off.
Asexuals don't get aroused so she may just be confused
>>5240895
You're thinking about non-libidoists, something which it's very hard to be "confused" about (you either get horny or you don't). Plenty of asexuals get aroused, it just doesn't equate into a desire for sex for them.
>>5240855
Asexuality usually denotes lack of sexual attraction, not necessarily lack of sex drive. She could very well have a normal sex drive but be completely unattracted to other people so she just uses sex toys
>>5240907
>non-libidoists
Tumblr please
>>5240938
I actually learned that term on AVEN, and I think it was used there even before tumblrqueers were really a thing. The concept originated in the earliest online asexual communities which considered ONLY nonlibidoists to be "true" asexuals. AVEN promoted the sexual attraction definition and came up with the "non-libidoist" definition to describe people who don't get aroused.
>>5240855
I honestly wouldn't think anything of it. Don't treat her as if she's just a heterosexual special snowflake, but she will probably consider herself something else within two years.
