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>Age
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
>Number of sexual partners
>Number of relationships
>Something random about you / how you feel

22
Journalism
3
4
When I was a kid, I didnĀ“t have a lot of friends or a very dynamic social life, so I spent a lot of time practicing the piano and learning about music with my grandmother, who at one point was a private piano teacher
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>>17365825
>20
>I've a profession (winery) but I dont work in it, would like to learn languages and something engineer lel
>0
>0
>I feel like shit
fuck
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>>17365830

You fucked yourself up and he wasn't even trying to fuck you up.
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>>17365825
26
Attorney
over 20
1
never want a husband or kids
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>>17365829
What languages? Why do you feel like shit?
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>Age
32

>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Fine Arts, painting

>Number of sexual partners
11 (penetrative sex)

>Number of relationships
3 official (11 months, 5 years, 4 years)
+4 unofficial (dating for 2-3 months)

>Something random about you / how you feel
I have been sleeping in my studio for 3 1/2 years. I'm moving out aws. I just lost my part-time job. I have massive amounts of dept. I'm not worried, but there's a general sadness overshadowing my every day life. I can't seem to access my youthful energy, and I'm a lazy fucker with a lot of talent, but little inspiration. I want someone to love, but I don't want commitment until my economy improves and I'm out of dept. The last couple of years the amount of sex partners has more than doubled since I lost my virginity 14 years ago, and I still love my ex. She's the only one I really want to be exclusive with, but the one that deserves it the least.
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22
Unemployed
0
0
Superficially I likely seem like a disjointed mess. Internally, and from a wider perspective, I make perfect sense. People forget that that's the way it goes.
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>>17365848
Because I have no social life and never had
when I was younger I could at least talk with fellas but now I cant even make fellas
And now its that ,I cant communicate no matter how hard I try, its not even that I never had pussy, its that I cant even start my life, I cant talk about anything else but my problems and all that whiney shit, been bullied when I was a child and now I fear from being bullied at workplace if I gonna have one so I'm not employed

I'm one step away from the mythical NEET state. I'm going to school tho and somehow I'll have to go to uni next year. Shits scary


I've tried many languages, that insipiration came when I heard of duolingo and I was like "nice", since then I tried at least 10 languages and now I tryna fixate on a few, Hebrew, Japanese, and maybe swedish or danish in the future.
Hebrew is going well, tho now I'm stagnating, Japanese is also fun to learn even if kanji is hard af.
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21

IT and Telco sales and technical repairs

2

3

I wear the face of a happy-go-lucky dude who loves life, but i put my true emotion into songs and in truth i hate everything about myself
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>31
>somehow ended up in Accounting
>0
>1
>wish I was fucking dead lol
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21
Studying medicine
0
0
I'm bored all the time, pretty much all I do is study and I haven't found any activities/hobbies that actually keep me entertained
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>Age
25
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Systems Administrator, 3 years now
>Number of sexual partners
0
>Number of relationships
0
>Something random about you / how you feel
Would like to met people but just too busy with work so actually go out and do things despite having the money for everything. No student loans or car loans and still living at home, so I've just stockpiled my money and have at least 30k in savings.
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19
Unemployed
1
2
I just wanna cuddle
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>>Age
31

>>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Correctional Officer

>>Number of sexual partners
2

>>Number of relationships
5

>>Something random about you / how you feel

I'm fairly content with the direction of my life.
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what's the point of these threads?
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>>17365934

Some semblance of context.
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>>17365825
22
Neet
0
0
Life sucks
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>>17365934
Free information for the shills and marketers
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>>17365825
>26
>HR Assistant/MA in Applied Psychology
>0
>1

I love Nintendo games and I long for a wife both playful, motherly and down to earth. I am currently feeling relaxed and looking forward to the following week.
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>>17365883
Sounds like you need a muse..
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>25
>Just graduated with a Master's in HR
>3
>1
>I feel really, really confused about a number of things.
>1) Around these days, I was supposed to go to SEA for a backpacking trip with my then-girlfriend. She broke up with me in March and I've not been really over her since then, it takes so long.
>2) I am really, really, fucking proud that I graudated from University but I'm a bit afraid of what lies ahead of me. I might have a job opportunity in October, but this is sitll very vague.
>3) Last night (on my graduation party), one of my female friends basically said to me that she likes me with 'more' than just friends. She's in a stable relationship for 1,5 years. She's good friends with my ex. I think she told my ex about this last night, but I did (never did) make any advancements.

I'm just gonna go for a nice walk and get some ice cream.
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>>17365961
She's 5000 miles away.
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>>17365825
>19
>CompSci (I hate it)
>0
>0
>I hate my life. I want to die.
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>22
>linguistics/translation
>0
>0
I'm bretty handsome but apparently too fucked up. I want to go all these summer holidays though and date grills from tinder and other sites as well as put myself out there more, also do some pleasant drugs while doing that to be less of an assburger.
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>>17365906
Can you show us some songs?
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>>17366016
I LOVE YOU JESUS CHRIST
JESUS CHRIST I LOVE YOU
YES I DO
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>>17365982
Is she hot?
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>>17366025
I like that, keep it up anon
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>>17366030
Not really my type, and I don't think I would tap her.
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>24
>Modern languages and literature
>5
>3
>Afraid to share my tastes among my friends because listening to classical music and studying ancient literature by yourself is weird and snob. tired of this. I never put myself over the others because of it, and i dont judge anyone. yet, I feel i HAVE to be interested in what the others think is cool.
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>>17365825
>>Age
>>Professional occupation / Area of studies
>>Number of sexual partners
>>Number of relationships
>>Something random about you / how you feel

>21
>Music/No studies except highschool
>10
>1
>I play more instruments than I have fingers./ Unsure about dating a girl or not, in general feel good though
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>>17366118
I sorta know what you mean man. But in all honesty, if they're really your friends they'll accept it. If they act like dicks about it. They're not worth the effort in my opinion.
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>>17366118
Nothing wrong about classical music.
In my opinion, the type of music closest to the same kind of listening experience, is electronic, IDM, EDM, ambient techno, etc. Try that, and you'll have something in common with more people.

Surely you can find other people interested in literature.
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>>17365825
>20
>security guard / tech school for network engineering
>0
>went on a date once
>lonely but gave up caring, studying to be a grandmaster wizard
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>>Age
32
>>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Medical Engineer
>>Number of sexual partners
2
>>Number of relationships
2
>>Something random about you / how you feel
I hate these threads and how they make me feel like loser for my inability to reel in pussy.
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25
Programmer
0
0
I want to fucking kill die but I'm too much of a pussy to do it myself
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>>17365837
>i fuck chad for self validation
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>Age
29
>Professional occupation
Financial advisor
>Number of sexual partners
2
>Number of relationships
3-6, depending on what you count (don't ask)
>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm basically /pol/ incarnate, except that I'm not Christian. I'm currently celibate. I work every day, do I feel kind of tired.
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32
none
none
nothing
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23
Teacher
0
I don't know, a few
Nothing.
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>Age
24
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Programmer
>Number of sexual partners
3
>Number of relationships
1 (~6 years)
>Something random about you / how you feel
Starting to give less of a fuck about how everyone feels and am doing things for myself while I can (such as traveling and working normal hours when I can).
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>>17365825
>>Age
20
>>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Electrical Engineering student
>>Number of sexual partners
0
>>Number of relationships
0
>>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm fat and depressed.
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23
Teacher's aid/sociologoy
4
2
i should be writing my thesis right now
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>>17365825
>Age
30
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Operations Administrator
>Number of sexual partners
4
>Number of relationships
1
>Something random about you / how you feel
My tastebuds have evolved from enjoying really sweet stuff to really bitter stuff over the last 2 years. Now I can't help but drink my coffee black, eating dark chocolate, and drinking really bitter alcohol.
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>>17365825
21
Recent grab, scheduling interview Monday
2 serious, the rest were school shits
I hate socal
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>Age
20
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Studying to be a vet with specials for little and excotic animals
>Number of sexual partners
About 40
>Number of relationships
15
>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm a huge animal lover and have dedicated my live to save animals.
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>>17365825

>Age
25
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Studying Veterinary Medicine
>Number of sexual partners
0.5 (kek)
>Number of relationships
4
>Something random about you / how you feel
My entire world is crashing down to pieces, but I think I'm holding just right, you know, just waiting for the storm to go away.
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>>17365825

>Age
18
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Fourth grade of IT high school
>Number of sexual partners
0
>Number of relationships
0
>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm waiting for that special someone to make love with.
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>>17365825
So do you still play piano?
>>17365829
Stop feeling like shit and start learning languages or engineering then.
>>17365837
Then don't get those things.
>>17365883
You probably lack inspiration and want someone to love because you're not getting over your ex. Do that and things will solve themselves.
>>17365890
You're only 22, life is a disjointed mess by that age.
>>17365906
Learn to love yourself.
>>17365907
Learn to find where to go next in your life.
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>Age
26

>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Nothing

>Number of sexual partners
0

>Number of relationships
0

>Something random about you / how you feel
Empty, numb, trapped, dead
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>>17366446
>>Age
>20
>>Number of relationships
>15
When the fuck did you have the time?
Or rather, what constitutes a relationship in your opinion?
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>>17366518
>probably lack inspiration
I literally said that.

Anything else? I've sold paintings for as much as $1100. I've been selling my work for the last 14 years. I can paint both realistically, figurative and abstract, and people in general are more often than not very impressed with what I do.

But I don't do it, and I hate getting praise.
I love to paint, but I just... don't. And I'm poor as all fuck, and could most likely improve on that, if I just brought my work out there.
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>19
>Studying physics
>0
>0
>Not suicidal. But I'm tired of this fucking life and don't want to go on. The only person I've been open to moved out and probably won't be seeing her again.
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23
Psychology
0
0 :(
Scared that I will be a dysfunctional failure for the rest of my life. I can't relate to people and I'm horribly depressed. Tomorrow I'll probably go and buy supplies for an exit bag to off myself.
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>>17366526
first boyfriend was when i was 12, about 6 months, then 13 lasted about 8 months, then 14 for 6 months, then 15 for about 1,5 years and 17 so far going on third year.
in between the "long" I've had many short relationships lasting everything from a month to four
some of the relationships were open hence to why i have had so many sexual partners.

my on going is one of my few not open relationships.

a relationship is when two people agree to either be only each others or well agree to be together, because it seems like a good idea at the time.
i was a troubled child so i lived with most of my boyfriends.
and my lack of self-respect and control in my youth is due to a trauma i experienced, so i didn't really have a limit with myself and just did what people wanted me to do.
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>Age
20

>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Software Development intern?

>Number of sexual partners
0

>Number of relationships
2

>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm a prude desu.
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>>17366506
0.5 sexual partners?bi would consider sex with a dwarf as a 1.5
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>Age
23
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Quit a STEM PhD, I've been a NEET for 2 years
>Number of sexual partners
4
>Number of relationships
3
>Something random about you / how you feel
I'm living a fucking miserable cancelled life. I skipped 3 grades, full ride to great schools on grants and scholarships, excellent grades, but no "network" of mediocre bros, so no job. I have just given up trying. I'll have to work at Arby's when my parents die.
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>Age
19
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Comp. Eng student
>Number of sexual partners
0
>Number of relationships
1 (lasted for 2 days since had to leave country)
>Something random about you / how you feel
no comment
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20
None.
0
2

I consider myself to be a broken intellectual of sorts. I can (sometimes) rationalise things and help people through their struggles, but fuck if I can make sense of my own screwed up head. I am trying to find medication that will help to consistently bring out the better parts of my mind, to steady this crazy train ride, but I often wonder if I'm just chasing shadows.
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>>17366620
I think this is the only really sad post in this thread, anyway:

>age
20
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Production engineering intern / Mechanical engineering student
>Number of sexual partners
0
>Number of relationships
0
>Something random about you / how you feel
Feel angry at people worse than I am who've got scholarships while I work jobs every moment I can spare and my family still struggles with money. None of the scholarship kids have a job this summer, they're all going on an expensive holiday with the friends they made at university (mostly each other) while I work and try to provide for my handicapped brother and unhappy parents. They got the scholarships because they're women / ethnic minority / gay, that makes me feel angry.

Probably so alone because I'm interminably bitter.
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>Age
28
>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Chemical Engineer

>Number of sexual partners
0

>Number of relationships
1

>Something random about you / how you feel
I keep pushing people away/locking them out as they start to get close to me and I don't know how to stop it.
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>>17366312
Dat jealousy and bitterness.
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>>17366746
You are a degenerate, can tell you've come from /soc/. Not the person you're repling too, but if you're going to start insulting people then whatever get out you abominable slut, no one would marry you.
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>20
>English student
>2
>9
>I was picked on a lot as a kid and teased for being ugly as a tween because of that I can't find myself attractive and refuse to have sex.
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>Age
24

>Professional occupation / Area of studies
Erotic illustrations(porn)

>Number of sexual partners
4

>Number of relationships
2

>Something random about you / how you feel
People told me that I should enjoy life while I'm still young like the it's going to suck once you grow up.
I find it's the otherway around so far.
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>27
>Just Graduated with a Degree in Political Science, gonna take the LSAT soon
>2
>2
>Everyone is getting married and having kids and I feel left out. Time is running out.
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