I got dumped today. She was my first Girlfriend ever and it lasted 6 months. But then she had to move away about 4 months in and she couldn't handle the distance.
I've never felt more alone in my life.
Post things that are lonely, sad, abandoned and hurt.
After all, you guys are the only ones I have to talk to.
Someone please say something.
>>6578652
Due to lack of words to say, I say this and this only:
something
>>6578657
good enough.
the best way to never get dumped is to never get a partner
look at me, i've never had a girlfriend and i've never been dumped in my life
quit your whining man, you've only got yourself to blame for not following this simple trick
>>6578670
How do I not feel alone then?
>>6578671
Listen here OP, Getting dumped sucks. But its better than having to let eachother go eventhough you guys still love eachother.
You'll find someone better
>>6578678
that's technically what happened.
I say dumped because it's my fault I couldn't go visit her.
I know that feel bro, had to broke up with my bf a few days ago, 3 years togheter, felt like half of my life
Being alone is the most convenient choice you can make
>>6578902
4 months in faggot. Can't you read?
That sucks OP, hope you're okay man
>>6578945
thanks man
I just don't know if I can find another like her.
>>6578930
he's a cuck, he can only understand so much.
>>6578629
my gf broke up with me 3 months ago, dated 2 other girls but they both were nowhere near as great as she used to be
life sucks, but it'll get better eventually
at least i don't cry myself to sleep anymore
>>6578978
I hope I can figure it out soon
I don't want that to happen.
>>6578982
well, I got to the point that I considered going to a prostitute just to lose my virginity, then I met my ex
talking with girls and everything is a lot easier for me now so I hope I'll just meet someone soon
the strange thing is, my ex texted me today
>hi, how are you anon?
I didn't really feel the need to talk to her again, maybe partly because I didn't want to risk falling in love again. I know she isn't the one I'm looking for but fuck, idk man
sucks for you especially because you have the distance to blame for your relationship to end. don't get fooled by that, though, don't try to get back to her if she ever returns, get a "new life"
>>6578991
;_;
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6jN5hT3a_k
>>6578958
Don't look for someone like her dude, life is about improving, you gotta open your mind and move forward
>>6579011
I wish there was a version of this pape without a person sitting there
Sorry OP, cry it out.
https://youtu.be/ZA-RUfE1MOg
>>6579057
Holy shit that's a photo from my b/w roll I posted a while back, really glad someone enjoyed it
>>6579061
Nice work man, it's pretty cool. I didn't know it was oc from anyone here.
Here's an OC I took, my Nexus 6 goes out of focus a lot, so I use it to take some cool out of focus pictures a lot.
>>6579069
Nice one too, I took this set of photos with my favorite compact analog camera and an expired b/w film roll. This one is also from that roll
Thanks guys. But one thing she said that really hit me was She wants us to be close but I can never be a romantic partner.
>>6579232
You're gonna tie yourself in knots for a while anon, that's just sorta how it goes. Take your lumps, listen to sad music...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoitegszoRc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7T5hYlUsQ0s
and some day you'll be ok. If she said she wants to be close but not a romantic partner, it frankly doesn't sound like it was meant to be. It's okay man, life isn't some grand tragedy, it isn't a rom-com, she's not the only woman you'll love, and when you look back on it all you'll be glad to have grown.
Hey anon, just letting you know people are out here rooting for you! Everyone has a first one, and it's always horrible –– don't let people tell you it's not shitty as fuck. Take your time. I went through the same thing, and then two years later met my wife –– we've been together a decade and she's a total badass. Your gf may have been right –– distance is just as hard as breaking up sometimes, sometimes even harder, and at least you're spared that.
>>6578629
i spent the last year and a half with and amazing spanish girl who made me fall in love again. two weeks ago she moved out to move to a different city with her friend while i stayed where my band is based. we gig a lot and just finished recording a cd, so i am here for a while.
she visited last weekend and we had an argument. she has been distant all week and sent me a nessage on wednesday saying we might need some space and time apart so we love each other more.
last night she finally replied to 3 days of unanswered texts. she had been spending a lot of time with two guys who she met who sell drugs, and hadnt had time to text me. she was busy last night too and said goodbye in her only text.
im really numb. it doesnt feel bad but i thinkit will when everyone here goes home. nobody knows im dumped..
>>6578629
Sorry to hear that bro. I was with my first gf for about a year, but then she broke it off because she became obsessed with WoW and I refused to play it with her.
Honestly, the easiest way to deal with it is to hate her. Find every little thing you can think of about her that pissed you off, and dwell on it until you become mad at her. That's what I've always done when a relationship goes south. It's a pretty good way to stop feeling broken up about it.
>>6579505
The problem is that we have nothing against each other. I understand why she broke up, but I don't get why she couldn't have been more patient with me.
>>6579508
Sometimes I think there has to be a difference between allowing myself to be emotionally vulnerable with someone and giving them control over my state of happiness, but that difference is hard to find at times. I guess I would tell my younger self not to assume someone has greater emotional intelligence than yourself. They're working through their own issues with just as many set backs, repeating scenarios and characters, etc.
Ended things with a gf of 1.5 years a few weeks back.
You'll be alright, just give it time.
Have a shitty phone wallpaper that I love more than my ex.
>>6578639
This one is a favorite.
>>6578629
I've only had one girlfriend, and I'm 19.
Been trying with so many other girls, I guess it's just not that time for me.
There are plenty of women out there dude.
Just work on yourself.
cheer up m8, shit happens, chin up and carry on
i broke a 3 year relationship with an ex because of differences in where we wanted to go in life, had 4 months of shit until she started dating an old friend of ours and coming out about how she had been cheating on me for a while, shit sucks, never trusted a woman since, just be glad you ended on relatively good terms m8, there will be others out there for you
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>>6579703
>>6578629 I went through something like that not to long ago. At first I tried to be mad at her, but I could not even become angry at someone I loved. So after sobbing a couple of days I picked my self up. Made some big changes in my life, started working, training and even started playing the guitar. Whatever happens make sure you learn from it and do something positive. I hope you can do it, have a nice day anon
Anon, I was in a similar situation, but our relationship lasted only 1 month and we were mostly talking on the internet, because she had already been gone. I feel you anon
>>6579061
its that photo from Portugal or Spain?
signal looks like the Spain ones, but the cities are Portuguese
Been through a few bad relationships myself anon. Hang in there. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
Il will let some for you op.
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>>6579920
We are all gonna make it
Hey OP, you gotta cry a bit and then you can start rationalising everything between you and her. It works against the pain.
I don't know if I wrote this understandable, but hope it works for you. <3
Im scared of OPs situation, im scared that itll happen to me, in a few months I have to move away an shell stay here, what do I do to not lose her? :( also sorry OP I hope youll get through this okay without too much time passing, dwelling is scary too imo
>>6579496
Holy shit man thats terrible, something I like to do when sad is write it out, might work music wise for you. Remember that eventually the sad feelings will pass after you've accepted it, in my case the writing is a way of accepting I guess
>>6578629
look it sucks now. believe me i know. but you need to always have you. your going to be alone you are an individual. and if you are patient enough things will all fall into place. everything takes time for a reason.
I know that feel Anon. You're feeling alone right now but everything is not over. You'll make it and find the true love.
Keep it up bro, everything is not over.
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>>6578679
just broke up with my gf of four years. She wanted to move to new york and look for work but i already had a good job right out of college. I'm still in love with her and dream about her every night. I just wish things could have found a way to work themselves out and we could be together again.
>>6578991
please do yourself a huge favor and dont respond anon.
>>6579678
>I've only had one girlfriend, and I'm 19.
>Been trying with so many other girls, I guess it's just not that time for me.
I didn't even get my first gf/lose my virginity until I was 21. I'm 28 now, only had 3 real relationships since then. Had a couple of flings.
It's too much trouble to worry about finding a partner. Get some hobbies, get a pet, whatever. At this point, even when I get horny, half the time I get too distracted by other things to even bother fapping. A partner is great and all, but it's not worth going out of your way to find one.
>>6580597
I feel your pain man.
I really do.
It fucking sucks when the hormones are raging and you see everyone else with their girl.
Keep going.
>>6580597
But, I'm not 28 and know how that feels.
I'm sorry dude.
time heals wounds, no matter how bad. do some shit you love and let time run its course. /wg/ has ya back boi.
let time run its course. time heals all wounds. /wg/ has your back.
You're a man now. It doesn't get easier from here
Damn, OP. I feel you. Me and my gf split last week. I loved her more than any other woman I had ever met.
>>6578652
Hey, OP. I'm getting here a couple days late, but I hope you're okay. Being lonely sucks, but you'll get through it
I feel ya OP, these song always help me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AWIqXzvX-U
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goDd02TTxBA
>>6578629
You'll get over it familia. There's billions of girls out there.
I had my gf of 4 years break up with me a couple months ago. It bothered me obviously but it kind of felt inevitable. We still talk and act friendly and I think she wants back but honestly I'm okay with either.
I really sympathize with you dude. I'm with my first girlfriend now, just been six months too. Only difference is, we've been long distance the whole time.
>>6582143
Careful man. Make sure to visit often or else you'll end up like me.
Honestly best thing is get back on that horse... asap
Here's some feels music for you, OP.
It'll get better for you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wxI4KK9ZYo
Actual photo from Hubble telescope, those are galaxies, not stars.
>>6582205
another
>>6582205
and another
>>6582205
And finally
>>6578629
here bro hold ya head your better off now trust me
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>>6582231
Bumping for sad op
>>6579505
That is an amazing wallpaper. Slaughterhouse 5 is one of my favorite books. Wow. That caught me off guard.
You will be okay brother.
Don't sweat it. I'm sure she's whoring around swallowing tons of nigger kawk and drinking spooge on an hourly basis. But she loved you, I promise...
>>6578629
Hey Anon. I guess you are like 15 or 16.
Love at that age is a bitch, because you have no idea how the chemicals in your head fuck you up until it hits you like a freight train.
Trust me anon, the pain will fade, and it will fade quickly. Soon you will meet new girls and fall in love again. In a few years you will be smiling because of the insignificance of that relationship compared to the once that came after and so on.
It hurts like hell now, but do not do anything stupid about it, it will go away. You will feel better. You will be okay. You will love again and you will be very happy with another girl.
Keep your chin up bro!
>>6578652
Hey bro this happened to me aswell. The first love is hard to get past. Everyone told me tha I'd be fine and that it would just take some time, but I didn't believe them. And I did good by not believing them, because here I am almost a year after, feeling worse and worse.. Yea bro it sucks right now and it won't get better.
>>6582850
I'm 18. She and her parents moved so she could go to an out of state college for cheaper.
>>6582850
And I sure hope so. Girls that aren't bitches or sluts are hard to come by here.
Moving in to college soon so I hope that I'll find someone. The college is about 65% women and about 20000 students.
>>6578629
Same shit happened to me. You get over it man. Every day gets easier
>>6582867
Well, hate to say it, she IS a cum-guzzling slut. Will start shitting out welfare babies any day now...
Hopefully, she'll get Zika or something and fucking die like the useless cum-catching piece of festering shit she is.
>>6582850
>>6582862
First Loves are a bitch. I was 20 when my first love and I went different ways. It did make sense and was rational to do so, but I the feeling of not beeing close to him anymore, or the feel of inferiority when he found a new gf was hard back then, I couldn't quite process it. Now I have a better fitting one, so it's cool i guess. It wasn't even bad being alone after a while
I feel your pain bro, my gf broke up with me few weeks ago, but we were already making plans for the future, like weeding and stuff. We even knew where we will held our weeding in few years time. We were together for 3 years and were living together for 2 years. Now she moved out to her parents and is planning to move to another city. I'm a total mess, i dont know what to do, i would give everything to make the things right. I just want everything to get back to how it was...
>>6583614
And she took only part of her things from the apartment so not only place where i live bring back memories of our living together but also her things still lying where she left them because i dont have enough power to pack them or anything.
>>6578629
Here you go OP, I'll dump some things that might fit.
Some of us been where you are now. It hurts like a bitch now, but - even though I'm sure it's pretty hard to believe this right now - it WILL get better. You WILL find someone who was "designed" just for you, and you for her.
Do what I would do - BELIEVE IN YOU.
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>>6583616
dude I'm sorry. It's kinda shitty of her not making things clear and leaving you in that uncertainty. I know someone who was dumped by his gf only a month before their marraige. He was a mess for a couple months or so but he turned out fine later. Don't hold your feelings in, if she really leaves you and look for your old buddies and your family to fall back on for a while. At the end my friend got his fire back, turned some things around for the better, came back as a better person and so will you. It's ok to be weak now, take your time.
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>>6583588
I don't hate her man.
I wouldn't wish that on her. She was always really kind to me.
>>6579016
SAME
OP you have the right attitude man.
It sucks now but time does heal all wounds.
Other girls will take her place and you'll be good.
But you have to remember: there will be others.
Not having something sweet to hold, and fuck is awful at first and this is the time when a worthless cunt is most likely to move in your life, just keep your eyes open and you'll be fine.
Good luck man.
>>6582818
>/b/
Keep moving on, op. Things get better but they don't get easier, but you can do it
>>6579819
In the European Union, the signs are basically the same ones everywhere*, specially the Highways - which is the case, I think that's the A1)
That's Portugal in there.
(*Some countries may use some signs that others do not use anymore, but that's more some "old-habits" and everyone understands them, as they are officially teached/learned).
Just choose your next ones wisely. Continuing to make the same mistakes and keeping yourself in a loop of heartache is no way to live. . . trust me.
This... is a good thread.
Thank you OP, and thank you all Anons.
All I can say OP is don't do anything dumb, time heals and a wound won't scar if you keep touching it, but if a lot of time has passed and the wound hasn't closed yet, may the best of odds be with you.I was dumped about a year and a half ago, I still can't get over her, probably because she and I are best friends and I realised that I prefer being a cuck rather than not talking to her again. So... boy, you'll be fine.
this too shall pass.
Chin up, buddy. Don't ever regret this experience. You live life, and that makes you stronger. You get out there, you win, you lose. It's part of the fun!
>>6578629
Save the good memories, and learn from this experience. The world is a vast place, and you'll have plenity of opportunities to keep growing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y95ru7q6DDA
dont be sad that its over
be happy that it happened
moments of joy followed by moments of despair is still better than constant unchanging loneliness
Take a willpower check motherfucker.
You're not out of the dungeon yet.
>>6578629
I'm not one for the "pity me" bullshit. But I know the feel OP. You'll be alright, sorry about the break up man, but it happens.
Current pape, dr feelsbadmanhattan
"I am tired of this world; these people. I am tired of being caught in the tangle of their lives."
