any dominant or non sub women on /soc/ ?
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any dominant or non sub women on /soc/ ?
>>23611240
in b4 asking what i mean by non sub.
im talking about women that not into a dom/sub relationship or sex
>>23611250
none?
dominant women are pretty rare dude, especially here
>>23611240
Interested in the same thing OP.
You're not the only one chasing unicorns out here.
Yes but we're probably taken already, like me.
>>23612155
Some guys have all the luck.
>>23612159
Some yeah. But that means we exist, at least! There's bound to be ones that aren't taken.
>>23612165
That does give me a glimmer of hope. It's nice knowing you all are out there SOMEWHERE. Even if unavailable like in your case.
My appearance doesn't help matters. Am 6'3 and bearded manly man looking dude so everyone assumes I'm a Dom.
Here's one.
>>23612233
Oooh, you'd be fun to domme. I'd make you my pet.
>>23612240
I'd Love to talk to a dominant women if you wanna chat
Can confirm they dont exist here in the UK.
>>23612241
Hnnng. So mean. So rude. Please continue? Haha.
I'm glad to know some Dommes out there aren't only interested in tiny femme boys. You're just giving me hope all over the place, and I'm not sure how to feel about it.
>>23612240
Holy shit, that's two dominant women in one soc thread? New record?
What a glorious day this is.
>>23612286
Hahaaaaa, I actually dislike fembois because I'm prettttyyy straight. So I love domming manly men, especially with my feet and facesitting. You'd be my pet to use when I please and you'd be a good cockslave for me, isn't that right?
>>23612268
Taken, sorry :P There is hope though!
>>23612286
I'm not straight at all but I feel like it's a bigger "achievement" to dominate big, manly guys over small, feminine guys. Any gender/body type's still fun though :)
>>23612301
>feet and facesitting
Ugh, you hit me right in the kinks.
I've never even been crazy into feet themselves, but something about being forced into worshipping them is so deliciously degrading how can one not love it? Especially if they're sweaty.
As for facesitting, yes yes please yes. I'd rather have my face sat on than receive oral myself ten times out of ten.
Fuck. I really wanted to play hard to get and bashful but you're not really giving me the chance. Yes Mistress, I'd be a good little cockslave for you. Thank God you can't see how red my cheeks got just typing that.
>>23612354
Would you happen to have kik? I'd like to use you.. privately.
>>23612354
>I'd rather have my face sat on than receive oral myself ten times out of ten.
fuck same here
is this normal?
I'm a virgin so I don't actually know either of those feels, but I want to BERRY my face in a pussy.
>>23612366
Giving oral is so much better and more gratifying than getting IMO, as a guy. Half the fun is pleasing your partner, and having your senses overwhelmed by pussy is great.
>>23612321
That's part of the draw for me too as the masculine submissive. Being forced to my knees and worse by a smaller feminine figure is an enormous turn on. Especially because public perception would assume at a glance that the roles would be reversed.
The only irl Domme I've ever had used to give me long spanking sessions, in the house I shared with roommates. They all assumed it was her making those girly moans and whose ass was being slapped into oblivion which was fun.
>>23612372
Absolutely. It's hard for me to orgasm from receiving oral for whatever reason but if a girl is nice enough to sit on my face and let me jerk myself off, I go all Jimmy Neutron and gotta blast.
Glad someone else gets it anon.
>>23612363
I do, I didn't want to be presumptuous and ask for yours.
Mine is yespleasefemdom
>>23612399
Right? Nothing gets me going more than knowing I'm being used for my partners pleasure. It makes me enjoy it more too.
>>23612301
>facesitting
Omg I love this. I love burying my face in a woman's ass and licking her asshole.
I'm a passive, mutable guy, and I've always been the most attracted to strong, dominant women in and outside of the bedroom. Feminine in looks (long hair, makeup, dresses/skirts, etc.) but masculine personality as far as assertiveness, drive, positive attitude, and extroversion. My mom is like this, and so are a lot of my female relatives, so maybe it's a Freudian thing.
I'm not into BDSM, so I don't like being tied up or whipped, but I love woman on top sex, being facesat on, and the woman leading the way and wearing the pants in the relationship.
Am I weird/degenerate, /soc/? I personally think I'm atypical, but not weird.
>>23612548
Also, I don't mind being told what to do especially if the woman is nice about it. I don't like bitchy, abusive women and don't go looking for them, but because I like dominant women, I have to be careful because I naturally tolerate bossy behavior from women without thinking about it.
>>23612575
Atypical but not weird is actually really good phrasing for it. Atypical because most guys are expected to be the dominant one in relations with women generally. But in terms of your interests, I don't think even most vanilla women woud find those all that weird. Take it from a guy on the far more extreme side of the femdom spectrum, you're as 'normal' as male submissives come anon.
>tfw 5'6 120
>basically made to be thrown around
>can't find any cute tallish girls to do it
>cute butt
>back dimples
>no one rly cares
life is hell
Would any dominant ladies like to message me sometime? I'm 22 and I'd love for a girl from somewhere far away to toy with me till I bust. Kik: Domnjillinger
>>23612301
Wow way to be perfect. I love being forced to do it rather than just blindly obey. It's even better when I lash out and disobey and get put back in my place.
Of course we exist, it is just hard to find us as it is to find you. A.
>>23613622
Thank God for threads like this, eh? Even if we're all on opposite ends of the earth at least both sides know the other is actively seeking what we each desire.
>>23612685
I would teach you how to cum on command. And how rewarding it is to give me a rimjob on all 4s.
>>23613632
I did not say you can speak.
>>23613657
Sooo relevant to my interests
Muscled many, man here. Why is it so hard to find domme chicks?! Haha
>>23613671
I wish more women were like you
>>23613671
Dear god.
Yes ma'am, I'm sorry.
>>23613784
I opened a thread on soc, this thread reminded me I didn't abuse a man for a while now. Find the thread and show me you are worth my time.
>>23613797
Of course
>>23611240
fugg
I'm desperate and need a girl to control me and make me her bitch. I'd do anything including getting fucked up the ass and forced bi. I'mI'm a virgin too, so you'd be my first!
Skype/Kik is dongfacemcgee
>>23613725
u r looking in all the wrong places.
I opened up my GF to the idea and now she loves it. It's great to not be in control sometimes. It took some time to get her comfortable with some stuff but you've gotta be patient because your s/o might find out that having the power is fun. She loves orgasm control and denial, serious teasing, face sitting, some light ball busting and slapping me around a bit. If you think that dominant women don't exist or are rare you'll never find what you're looking for with that attitude!
>itt: desperation
>>23613846
>i love david so much that i saved this pic of him and posted it on soc more than once!
do you have a folder dedicated to me, or do you just keep this in your download library?
> shy, naturally submissive girl with not a ton of sexual experience (only 2 longterm partners).
I've been with a guy who indulges my submissive tendencies really well, he's great. but he's majorly into cuckolding and wants me to take charge more. I'm happy to oblige, just out of my depths.
advice from you sub guys on good ways to ease into domming? even just little things would help!
>>23614575
Think of what you might want as a sub, and do that to him. Some other tips: initiate. As a sub he would probably love it if you were to, for example, climb onto him and start undressing him or whatever when he isn't expecting it.
Also, don't be afraid to tell him what to do in order to pleasure you or make you feel good. Even if it seems he won't get any pleasure or gratification from it, he'll probably be enjoying just the act of doing such a thing for you.
Hope this helps.
If any of you lovely Dommes are into petplay and looking for a puppy to push around, Kik me @ StonerPup
I'm 26, chubby, bearded, and a -very- good puppy!
I'm a dominant woman. I have a male pet already, but would also love a female pet.
Too bad that's never going to happen.
Fat redhead dominatrix here from California
Especially into buttplay
>>23615271
408?
>>23615271
Want to see your butt
>>23615280
510.
>>23615247
I want a another male pet to play with my other one, but he's extremely picky when it comes to men.
>>23615281
not too far...its raining hard in the south bay. love those lips
Tfw met the submissive guy of my dreams on /soc/ and now he's disappeared and I didn't even get to sit on his face
>>23615414
sit on mine instead
>>23615271
You look like a hardass.
In a good way.
I've always wanted a woman to put me in my place. I usually Dom
>>23615652
I've been Dom in most of my relationships out of necessity. It's not the worst, I can do it and still enjoy our sex life but if I had the choice I think I'd choose being put in my place over the alternative every time desu
>>23615271
HOW CAN WE LEARN MORE
>>23615414
We can change this lady, lets get some contact information?
Domme here, we're around. It's hard for me to find someone I click with I'm in the same boat as >>23615414
Met a perfect for me sub but he's never around :(
>>23615762
Kinks/contact info?
22/male/USA/virgin
I'm mostly submissive but can sometimes be dominate
I have a huge interest in Latex, bondage, butt-play ect.
I would like to Skype chat/voice and get to know someone who has similar interests.
Skype john.haas61
>>23615774
I just posted in the kink thread
>>23615462
>>23615782
>pegging
>chastity
I volunteer as tribute.
>>23615782
Cool, messaged on kik
Some of these replies have got me rock hard, I just can't stop thinking about submitting. I'm a fit guy, with a pretty big and thick dick, very successful career and so on- generally everyone assumes I'm the Dom. Trouble is I'm not and my gf will never, ever go down this path... I'm happy with every single aspect of my life but this... So frustrating!
>>23615804
I would domme you when your gf isn't around and it would be our little secret.
>>23615417
I would but I'm too sad to
>>23615882
Well, that's fucking hot.
>>23615882
Info?
>>23615890
do it. youll feel better
>>23615271
kik,snap etc? i'm m 18 btw ;)
>>23615804
Sounds like heaven...
Oops, that
>>23616058
Was meant to link to that
>>23615882
>>23612286
>only interested in tiny femme boys
I bet you are ugly and bearded. Lol. You will never get the top dom girls.
>>23613846
Are you willing to make a normal face for a picture so we can see what you really look like?
I love the idea of having a woman sit on my face but thats probably because I like to please. I like to bring a smile to the other person's face.
but also I like to give up control a bit. As a guy i feel like its always expected that i fill the dominant role.
>>23612286
>I'm glad to know some Dommes out there aren't only interested in tiny femme boys.
'the fuck did you get the impression dommes were like that?
In my experience dommes are pushing harder for masculine men than vanilla girls are.
eg. A skinny hipster guy can get pussy reasonably easy but that same guy is going to have to lift hard before he can get a domme.
>>23615271
I would let u shit on my chest to get a sniff of your cunt
>>23616299
That man know what he´s saying
>>23616299
lmao
>>23614575
My advice is, never pretend to please a partner. You need to find what you are comfortable with and what is natural to you. I am naturally dominant, yes I can adapt to a man who is not a sub, but I stopped hiding my character. It never ends well, no matter how hard you try. And if there is one area when people cannot fake, it is the sub/dom relationship. Look at some sites about domming, especially femdom, to understand the psychology behind it...but if you do not get wet when you dom him, its not worth to pretend...he will know anyway.
>>23615804
My ex bfs who were not interested into being dommed let me play with other men, online. They understood I need it. Maybe you can satisfy that part of you in that way, without cheating. Of course, live action is better, but when you cannot do it, you find other ways :) Nothing makes me drip then a man on all 4s waiting for my next command.
>>23616427
you gonna stick your hands in me Ms.?
>>23615271
I would dip my balls in liquid nitrogen just to hear you quiff in a tin can
gosh I feel like it's hard to find submissive men
well, submissive men who don't want me to peg them and weird shit but just who like "soft" femdom :^(
I just wanna grab a cute boy's cock from behind and bite his neck
>>23616436
How good have you been today?
>>23616440
M or F?
>>23616446
Yes Miss, of course.
>>23616288
It's just not true bud. You can't generalize an entire group of men or women. Some like muscle guys, some like feminie guys. It's about personal preference.
21/f/mia
idk what this is considered as but i love
'half engaged sex' like if im watching a movie and getting oral sex at the same time omg
>>23616474
Kik?
>>23616459
I don't know why people like you exist in such great numbers. Generalizations are useful and you're wrong to think people using them don't believe exceptions exist.
Of course some like X and some like Y. But you're dead wrong if you don't believe there is a trend.
Dominant women as a group are much more likely to go for buff "alpha" guys.
If you want a good shot at getting yourself one you need to become as "alpha" as you possibly can.
Now I bet your next trick is to whinge about me using the term alpha, isn't it? Don't be obtuse.
>>23616486
nice evidence you got there bud
>>23616452
Answer my question.
>tfw when 6'1, 180lbs and ripped
>confident, social and dominant personality
But
>ended up being sexually submissive
>in a country where every girl/woman is incredibly submissive
Why
>>23616493
What country?
>>23616493
Move here, I'll pee in your mouth because I hate to hear my slut puppies whining.
>>23616490
Believe what you want. But remember my warning: that bird that wants you to be a "sissy" for her is looking for guy for her husband to fuck.
She isn't interested in giving you special attention, it just gets her off to see her husband dominating another man.
>>23616500
Sweden...
I've gone through so many girls trying to find someone with at least -some- dominant side, yet it seems absolutely impossible to find.
Regular sex just doesn't do it much for me and it just feels shallow and boring, can't bring myself to enjoy it very much.
>>23616508
Where are you from Mistress?
>>23616522
Did I say you can speak?
>>23616482
no. dont have one, sorry
>>23616530
No you didn't, I'm sorry, please forgive me.
>>23616519
Imo you should get it out there that you're submissive so that the dominant girls can come to you
Tell your friends, put it on your dating profile, whatever
Don't be ashamed about it
>>23616508
Yeah, every dominant woman seems to live so far away it'd require moving..
>>23616544
Not really. You just need to be open about it. Add a few "M'am" and "Yes Ms" during your dates. A domme will get the picture. Also, use places where you can find them, I bet there are some places in Sweden. Also, fetlife :)
>>23616541
Can't, I'd still be ashamed about it around my friends, to be honest. My choice of career isn't very compatible with my sexual preference either, to be honest.
As for having the dominant people approach me, it's not like they are in hiding. They just don't seem to exist, or when they do they tend to be somewhat unattractive and/or overweight. Sometimes it feels like they are only dominant because it's the only way for them to feel "desired" as they aren't conventionally attractive, but insecure and submissive guys will throw themselves at them over nothing.
My ideal, dominant girl would be a confident person who goes after what she wants, she shouldn't be concerned whether her target is submissive or dominant. She'll go for it anyway.
>>23616538
Tell me, how does your cum taste?
>>23616552
But you say you're submissive when you come across as dominant
How do you know there aren't sexually dominant people who don't come across that way?
>>23616553
My previous Domme made me taste it a couple of times, it doesn't taste that much but the aftertaste is bad.
>>23616519
swedish dominant female here
I'd like to think it isn't that uncommon
>>23616560
A lot of girls come off as "dominant" here, but it's just an appearance people tend to have here. Sexually, they seem to all be very submissive. Based on the people I've met, anyway.
I'm not really looking for the oversexualized type of femdom anyway, what with the sissifications and strap-ons.
I'd prefer the mental connection, with someone confident and who knows what they want.
If I were to be "submissive" in the stereotypical way, outwards, I imagine I'd only attract the type who want to peg me and make me wear a dress. Not exactly what I'm after.
>>23616572
As another Swedish sub I can confirm that female doms are rather rare here.
>>23616578
fuck I have the same problem except reversed man
every guy I find who is open about being sub wants to dress up as a fucking girl and to be pegged/abused/etc
>>23616572
>>23616566
Jag antar att du inte är mellan 18-28 år? Det verkar finnas ett fåtal dominanta kvinnor, men de är i princip alltid över 30 och är redan omringade av män.
>>23616584
är 19 faktiskt
>>23616583
>>23616588
Normalt sett skulle jag anta att du var en catfish eller ute efter någon form av "financial domination", men eftersom att du inte envisats med Kik eller något, så antar jag att du kanske kan vara äkta!
Känns bra att veta att det ändå existerar, då.
>>23616492
Very good miss.
>>23616614
Good boy. What kind of a reward would you like today?
>>23616601
yeah jag är inte speciellt intresserad av att ragga killar, speciellt inte på /soc/ lol
men kommer hit ibland för sånt här är hett och det ger mig hopp att veta att det finns killar som tänder på att jag är lite mer dominant, speciellt i sverige :^)
>>23616622
could I drink your pics miss, I have been so good for you.
>>23616626
Samma här, är inte särskilt optimistiskt ställd till utbudet här, samt att jag inte är ett stort fan av att träffa folk online. Föredrar att möta människor i verkligheten, kanske lite gammalmodigt.
Jag förstår vad du menar, hade faktiskt inte räknat med att få veta att sådant jag söker existerar. Är också här för att det kan vara intressant att prata om "femdom", även om man inte kan få uppleva det. Hett är det sällan, då majoriteten verkar gilla sådant som i meddelandet under ditt och över mitt. Pissdrickande och pegging liksom, hahah
>>23616649 jag är dålig socialt men håller med, är ännu sämre på att "lära känna" folk online än vad jag är på att snacka med dem irl, plus jag litar inte på någon från /soc/
HAHA aa fyfan, den här tråden gick rätt snabbt lite för långt för min smak :^/ det här är problemet jag menar, att det finns undergivna killar men att de är alldeles för hardcore om det
>>23616667
Trots detta så verkar alla föreslå Fetlife (eller Darkside, för oss i Sverige). Finns nog inget mer deprimerande än sådana sidor, där alla antingen är helt sjuka eller bara rent motbjudande.
Hade trott att sådana killar oftast också var typ 30+? Måste vara jobbigt att vara attraherad av undergivenhet, men att dessa oftast är viljelösa och osäkra killar som bara vill bli styrda och förnedrade.
>>23616440
depends on how soft you'd want it to be. I like pegging, but it's definitely not something I'd need in order to be in a fulfilling femdom-type arrangement.
>>23616694
mmmm, tyvärr brukar dessa killar ofta komma med alla möjliga sjuka fetischer och mentala problem
tänker inte försöka leta efter dem online för onlinedating är redan skit, ännu mer om man söker killar som inte vill att man ska kalla dem daddy/vara liten och söt
jag har, otroligt nog, en kille på gång just nu som är lite blyg och oerfaren som jag kan vara lite lätt dominant mot men jag vill inte skrämma iväg honom och är rädd för att han bara skulle acceptera vad jag gjorde utan att faktiskt gilla det bahaha
>>23616631
You may drink my piss, slut.
>>23616745
Jo, har märkt det. Vill inte "outa" mig själv som undergiven då jag inte vill bli förknippad med diverse toalettdykare och fotslickare.
Har i princip gett upp hoppet om att träffa någon på det sättet på grund av den anledningen. Orkar i alla fall inte anstränga mig lika mycket, får se vad som händer helt enkelt.
Med tanke på att du inte verkar vara intresserad av de "sjuka" sakerna, så tror jag nog inte att du skulle skrämma iväg personen, tvärtom så tror jag han skulle uppskatta det. Du låter omtänksam, jag hade i alla fall tyckt om det.
Great E-domming and E-subbing in this thread guys, don't even know her name and you're already calling her "miss"
24 M here, typically in New Jersey, but in Pittsburgh for the weekend.
Super subby, open to most things. Got a kik of rdmqq and Skype of rdmqq23 if anyone wants to chat, but I'll be around here as well!
Smh at these pissdrinkers calling dumb sluts itt miss
You can still have some pride as a sub you know
>>23617481
love it
>>23616128
that person posted a pic of me bc they're a master trole, but I did actually post >>23612701
I look like this usually
femdom here, but Im fat.
>tfw all I want is qt sub bf
>>23618245
real talk, how fat are we talking? cause like some chub isn't bad on a dom
>>23618258
I said fat not chub, shit.
>>23618245
Where you from, anon?
>>23618281
OKAY JEEZ
but like are you thick tho
>>23618281
Ah we're all friends here.
Do you happen to be the anon from the "foreign country" with a guro fetish?
>>23618287
nz same as usual, its always me.
>>23618328
>i said fat
>>23618330
Probably.
>>23618339
thick and fat are not mutually exclusive
>>23618363
Thick is not fat. idk why you're not getting this man. Im fat. Fat belly, rolls, thunder thighs, fatty tits what else do you need for me to tell you Im not chubby or thick and that I am fat.
>>23618371
crush me with your weight pls
where you at?
>>23612372
It seems like you've received some pretty shitty oral dude
>>23618245
I'm from Australia but more than happy to have a chat :)
Throwaway1_xd
>>23618339
Can you import me to New Zealand? I'll do anything you say.
>>23618853
I only talk to people with face pics as I have one on my kik. Nice arm tho, would look good bound in rope.
>>23618912
I'd actually do that for the right person desu
>>23618948
I'd love to chat, if only NZ weren't the literal other side of the world from the UK :(
>>23618948
Do you have kik? I'm in New Zealand and I'm a switch, but feeling more submissive as of late.
[Kink.com has such great femdom stuff I can't help but want to explore that side of myself again,]
>>23618965
iktf.
>>23618968
I do but read the comment you replied to, face pic only. I tend not to mess with switches because I have absolutely 0 desire to ever be sub and feel that switches dont have the right mindset like a 100% sub
>>23618984
kik is moenaut if you're interested. Can understand if you're not though given the distance.
>>23618984
Face pic? I can probably do that, it's reasonable. I'm a mostly private dude, but I'll make an exception.
Also that's fair to generalize about switches. I don't think I would ever want to dom a mistress I had, if that makes sense? But a different submissive girl? Sure sign me up.
sub 18 years old nice cock and fit
Kik: Alex3killa
>>23618339
>NZ
Never mind. She was from Eastern Europe, and rather ...troubled. Hopefully she hasn't offed herself.
>>23618948
>I'd actually do that for the right person desu
What sort of person would be the right one? Would you add me on Skype?
>>23615271
Kik: snowbro95
>>23616745
Jag måste bara fråga, kan inte låta bli att tänka på det och jag vill bara få sinnesfred; du råkar inte bo i Stockholm?
(Snälla svara "nej" så att jag slipper känna ångest över att ha missat den enda vettiga dominanta tjejen i det här landet).
Jag är:
>>23616778
>>23616694
>>23616649
>>23616601
>>23616584
>>23616578
>>23616552
>>23616519
>>23616493
Dommes please Kik me I'm male chubby: aeldercs
>>23615271
Kik taypink510
>>23619292
Oh my god a strap on <3
>>23618948
Arm here,
Message me and you'll immediately get a face pic.
>>23619045
Someone I'd want to marry. If I was gonna import them it would have to be someone I was in love with and they felt the same desu.
>>23619464
face pic as display pic is the qualifier. If guys cant even follow that one thing right at the start of communication they're not a sub I want to talk to.
>>23619691
Hm, add me on Skype and I'll send a face pic?
>>23619723
What the fuck did I just say.
I'd love to talk to a Dom woman on Kik. Maybe she can actually put me in my place
Kik: NecrosDante
bump?
>>23619010
So sad you are too young for me...youngish men make me act real real bad
>>23621841
>youngish men make me act real real bad
You're just baiting subby young men to reply to your post with that statement
>>23621846
good conclusion.and?
>>23619292
That is incredibly hot. May I add you on kik?
>>23621856
Well, I may have been baited.
what are these "real real bad" acts?
>>23621895
Have you deserved to hear them?
>>23621902
well obviously not, all I've done is reply to you twice
>>23621902
>>23621856
>>23621841
Who are you?
>>23612233
There are dom ladies who like the alpha LOOKING sub. don't lose hope.
>>23619810
I have to say, I love how you know what you want.
I'm a lady switch, but as soon as I let on that I don't mind being dominant, it's all my sex relationships become and I end them out of boredom. Sub guys are SO THIRSTY and often don't understand what they're getting into with a switch. Just my two cents. I would honestly rather just keep having unsatisfying vanilla sex than keep hooking up with needy guys who claim to be able to dish it but only want to take it.
>>23612685
>Atypical because most guys are expected to be the dominant one in relations with women generally.
Exactly.
>But in terms of your interests, I don't think even most vanilla women would find those all that weird.
Most women I have been with think my excretory fetish is a little weird, but were happy to entertain it for me.
>you're as 'normal' as male submissives come anon.
I mostly agree with this statement, but what about me loving facesitting and licking women's assholes? People IRL tell me I'm gross for the latter one, because "poop comes from there".
>>23613657
>And how rewarding it is to give me a rimjob on all 4s.
hnggggg! do want
>>23615271
>fat redhead
I love fatties! <3
>Especially into buttplay
receiving or giving?
>>23622006
who am I?
>>23622572
Well there's a difference between being sub or switch and having mommy issues.
>>23618371
> Im fat. Fat belly, rolls, thunder thighs, fatty tits what else do you need for me to tell you Im not chubby or thick and that I am fat.
I'll be your sub, baby
>>23622572
>don't understand what they're getting into with a switch.
What is it then, 50% of the time Dom and 50% of the time sub?
m19 here looking for a mistress , im tabooless slave willing to do everything to please you and im into mild to even extremer stuf
kik : ripturtle
sc: brsub
>>23623001
hello dinner
>>23618224
Ugliest guy on soc.
sorry for speaking without specific permission but might i have the honour of knowing more about You ?
>>23618245
i would still love to be your humble sub x
>>23623077
I look best when I am sitting on your face.
>>23623164
mmm that sounds so great
do you have kik my queen?
>>23619225
heh tyvärr ett ja på den
>>23623236
Har du nån vodka?
used to be with this guy who had a really sensitive dick. I'd cuff him to the bed and ride him until he came, then afterwards would slowly stroke and suck the tip since it was so sensitive it made him whine and beg me to stop. it was a lot of fun
>>23623274
I wish
>>23623045
>1 post by this id
>thread completely unrelated to me
>that post isn't one you can see when this is on the front page
at least be subtle about samefagging
>>23623357
Ah. Jag med. Dricker du ofta?
>>23623394
nej, jag får sällan tag på alkohol och är inte så mycket av en utemänniska men det händer
>>23623305
As a guy with a very sensitive dick I'm actually happy to hear it can be something that isn't an annoying inconvenience :s
>>23623495
Är inte särskilt utemänniska heller, utom raves och dylikt. Säg till om du behöver någon som kan köpa ut, ha.
>>23623603
skulle behöva någon som köper ut men vågar man verkligen lita på dig
>>23623634
Vadå "lita"? Tror du att jag tänker sno din hundralapp och springa ut genom bakdörren på systemet eller nåt? Mitt i dagsljus.
I'm a girl who is interested in learning to be more dominate. What are some good tips to help get started?
>>23623812
Sorry if any of this sounds obvious but I'll try to give a little advice from my experience as a sub.
First and foremost make sure you are familiar with the limits of the sub and that he/she knows yours, it spoils the fun very quickly if one of you does something the other doesn't like. Discuss it at length with new people and do stuff like setting safe words for more intense things.
I'll also add that for me, one of the things that makes a good domme truly great is confidence and knowing what she wants. If you know what you would want your sub to do to pleasure you (and, of course, you would both be okay with it), then don't be afraid to demand or sternly ask it. The majority of subs at least that I've met love being bossed or ordered around, especially if it means pleasing their domme. Even if it seems like the sub wouldn't get any actual physical stimulation from it while you would, they're more than likely enjoying it psychologically because it's serving you.
Again it varies from person to person but another thing I personally find makes submission more enjoyable is when there are punishments and rewards from the domme for doing or not doing what he/she says. As a basic example, if your sub enjoys face sitting, you might use that as an incentive to get them to do what you tell them, and threaten to deprive them of that if they let you down.
Sorry if I am rambling here, but I just want to stress again the importance of really knowing each other's likes, dislikes and boundaries. There's nothing wrong with trying new things but if you don't discuss it a lot, things could go awry pretty fast.
I hope this helped, and good luck.
>>23623870
Oh, and another thing: if you are being dominant towards someone, don't let them become lazy and complacent. They should be working just as hard to please you as you are to dominate them. At least I find its the best when it's like that.
>>23623236
Helvete.
>>23623634
Jag kan också köpa ut åt dig, men man ska inte lita på folk från internet. (Mördare, psykopater osv.)
Om du mot all förmodan ändå känner för att göra det ändå, så är min Kik: sam.doe931
(Pratar gärna mer med någon som faktiskt verkar dela min syn på femdom och relaterade ämnen).
The last sub I've had and me have parted ways, it's about time I acquire a new harem.
22/M/NorCal
I'm more of a switch than anything else and I'd like to experiment, but I like doing sub-ish things in general.
Also, virgin. Wouldn't mind being a sub for my first time.
>>23624565
Word? Where ya at?
>>23623691
var jk men aa
>>23624329
stranger danger
>>23622523
If youve ever met a femdom who didnt, run in the opposite direction.
>>23622775
Send me your resume
>>23623812
Do whatever the fuck you want, you're in one in charge, it's your opinion that actually matters. Thats the great thing about femdom, you do what you want.
(Just respect boundaries and shit, but thats common sense)
>>23625037
>virgin
fuck I want to ruin you for any other woman and turn you into a completly spent degenerate
>>23625177
Oh god, that sounds dangerous.
Dangerous, butt fun.
Guess it depends on how much you wanna break me.
>>23625203
>Guess it depends on how much you wanna break me.
until you're a sobbing mess.
>>23625272
Sounds like a fantastic time.
Would you make sure you put me in my place, no matter what it takes?
And where on this Earth are you located?
>>23625306
>Would you make sure you put me in my place, no matter what it takes?
Of course, I'm a femdom
Click my ID, I'm in nz.
>>23625382
Fucking balls. Why are all the good femdommes so far out of reach?
Every time I go out and look I get shit. People are too far away. It's not like I'm unattractive, or too much of a social degenerate. I just haven't had a good stroke of luck. Should I just give up and have a normal relationship? I've been holding out for a while now.
>>23625407
Mate if you think you have it hard, swap places with me. nz is a kink wasteland. Ive been holding out for years with no luck. Even if you fell into a "normal" sexually vanilla relationship you'd still hunger to be a little sub slut, its just how you're built. However, it would be easier for you in a hetereo vanilla relationship to dominate a girlfriend, as thats most women's general inclination, so you have a lot of luck in being a switch. I have none because Im 110% dom and the thought of being dominated repulses me.
>>23625447
Well guess I could throw myself in.
5 ft 6 in, a bit thin, tried gaining muscle but I just don't. Weigh about 120 pounds.
Male. Virgin.
I'm pretty much into simply being commanded up to (short term) chastity, I assume anyways.
If a domme wants to kik, protemanon.
>>23625511
Woops didn't mean to reply not sure how that happened...
Sorry.
any dominant females from belgium looking for a new slave ?
>>23625447
But you also have the advantage of being a female, which means that naturally all of the men will gravitate to you because you're like a fucking unicorn.
When you're a guy in this position it's just nonstop chasing after unicorns and hoping they'll see something in you that makes them stop and take an interest.
>>23625542
>But you also have the advantage of being a female, which means that naturally all of the men will gravitate to you because you're like a fucking unicorn.
loooooooool, what fucking men? The only men are 50+ creeps that i have no interest in. Young sub men are just as much unicorns as dom women, at least in my country.
>>23625511
Also 21 and in Ohio
>>23625558
That just seems so weird to me because it seems like everywhere I go on 4chan or FetLife there are always tons of other guys like me asking to be dominated. Maybe your men are all too busy fucking goats. Is that really a thing there? Do they do that?
>>23625447
Holy fuck. You're so stuck up.
"NZ is a kink waste land,"
A saying comes to mind. "If you see an asshole on the way to work he's probably an asshole. If you see assholes everyone, you're probably an asshole."
You likely can't find anyone because you're hugely stuck up. Christ alive.
>>23625576
Actually there are loads of femdoms in my fetlife community. Guess we need to start importing subs form the states.
>Is that really a thing there? Do they do that?
I went for a coffe with a fet friend and she had a very interesting story to tell me about a guy she met at a play party with that exact kink. But the stereotype is that its sheep, not goats.
>>23625578
Yes, please tell me more about the country and community I live in and how it's all my fault. You obviously know so much more about nz kink community than I.
I don't even know how saying nz is a kink wasteland is stuck up. its a very vanilla country where traditional male gender roles are still pretty important to the general populous.
>>23623691
>>23624329
Well, somehow you guys managed to go from "omg domme in Sweden!!!" to "I can supply you with alcohol from the state-owned monopoly store you need to be 20 to buy from"... guys, that's pretty creepy.
Nu är jag förvisso finlandssvensk och inte rikssvensk, bor desstutom i centraleuropa med min sub, men jag tänkte ändå upplysa er om att jag existerar.
>>23625610
I've always wanted to go to NZ... But I'm way ahead of myself.
Don't you have Lord of the Rings over there? And good healthcare?
And why do NZers want sex with sheep?
>>23625625
>Don't you have Lord of the Rings over there? And good healthcare?
yes. Healthcare is decent but its got its own problems.
It's a stereotype because NZ has more sheep than people, its one of our top exports.
nz is beautiful bby, come visit. you wont see any of it as you'll be caged for the majority of your stay.
>>23622018
My observation is that there are more dom ladies who want a sub with a classically masculine appearance than there are dom ladies who want femmy and twinky boys. This is coming from my own observations of the Nordic online kink community in particular.
Personally I really dislike the "alpha look", particularly with a shaven head, long hair is a prerequisite and ottermode best mode.
>>23619292
Nice, any more strap-on selfies?
>>23625637
Maybe you could take me on a caged roadtrip through the country, I'm sure I could get a nice feel for it that way. From Auckland to Christchurch all the way to Mordor. I'll be good.
>>23625679
I'll take you hiking
>>23625690
Looks pretty warm there, I bet there won't be any time for clothing.
Speaking of which, you got any nude beaches out there? I'm sure there are plenty.
Sub boys are just as rare irl. It makes me sad every day:'c To think that anybody could be content worshiping and licking every inch of my body is such a dream. Or someone that could easily snap me in half getting on their knees in front of me. Ohhh just kill me now
>>23625846
Info?
>>23625846
i would want nothing more than worship you
>>23625861
Nope. As badly as id like to post my Kik it's not worth sorting through the kinda people who add me and get rude or are too pushy every single thread. If anyone else responds with Kik I might add you.
>>23625869
DozenTrace
>>23625869
i would love to be your slave and worship you , my kik is ripturtle
>>23625846
>>23625869
Throwaway1_xd
18m very skinny
>>23625177
>Send me your resume
I've never done this before. What do I put?
>>23625869
I've got broad shoulders, muscles, and I'd love to get on my knees in front of you.
Kik: Tacos4evar
>>23625447
I wish more women were 100% dom like that, everyone I meet seems to either be switch or completely sub, which sucks as a guy who is 100% sub. I couldn't imagine myself being dominant and enjoying it. I feel your pain.
>>23625846
I would lick every inch of your body, spending a disproportionate amount of time on your asshole.
>>23625869
Kik: SkaMasta097
>>23625073
Sjukt farlig, om du bara visste!
>>23625618
It was more of a tongue-in-cheek suggestion for someone who already said they'd want someone to buy it for them. It'd be creepy if I wasn't 22 myself, as my intenton was never to lure someone in with promises of alcohol. That'd feel like being a pedo with candy.
>>23625846
Oh miss. I would beg for you
>>23626050
Oavsett så känns det jävligt skumt. Om hon nu ens är så gammal som 19.
>>23626193
You're the only creepy weirdo ITT. I get alcohol for my friends and my younger brother all the time, it's not exactly uncommon, which is why I offered.
Funny how I can understand all this swedish even though I cant form any sentences of it myself. Six years of studying was totally worth it.
Also dominant girl here but in a very vanilla relationship. I dont want to end this or be a cheating asshole so I guess my only option is whine on the internets.
>>23626231
Because getting alcohol for a supposedly 19-year-old girl off the internet is exactly the same as getting alcohol for your friends or siblings.
Yeah.
>>23626296
There are too many single subs out there to justify being in a monogamous vanilla relationship if you're a domme. :> I know what it's like to be with a vanilla-sub and not a subby sub tho.
>>23626313
> There are too many single subs out there to justify being in a monogamous vanilla relationship if you're a domme. :>
This kind of mentality is what ruins femdom and turns me off a lot of dominant women. Just because there are plenty of insecure sub guys who put up with this shit, doesn't mean we are all okay with it.
How many sub girls would be okay with their dom having multiple girls at the same time? Double standards.
Besides, it also gives off warning signals that the "domme" is doing it because she's insecure and craves the attention of multiple guys to feel good about themselves.
>>23626362
>How many sub girls would be okay with their dom having multiple girls at the same time?
All of them? 99% of them? What.
>>23626371
I can speak from personal experience that sub girls get just as jealous as "regular" girls. There's nothing wrong with that.
If you're in a relationship with someone, you'd expect them to want to be with you instead of with others.
It shouldn't be too much to ask to have a "normal" relationship with a girl who is into being dominant. Not this weird attention-seeking "polyamory"-crap that's all too prevalent with dominant girls.
>>23626362
You read my post like the devil reads the Bible. There was nothing in there justifying a poly lifestyle, just saying that a domme held up in a monogamous vanilla relationship is a domme that is unavailable to a (monogamous) sub.
>>23626470
Why should a monogamous sub care about a non-monogamous domme in the first place?
To me, the whole idea is to submit to someone and form a deep domme/sub bond. There's a whole mental connection and mutual affection, I feel like that'd be ruined if the domme is busy with other people at the same time.
Maybe I'm just not that into the whole "session-based" shallow type of femdom where it's all about spanking and pegging.
>>23618245
hollering at you, my Skype is amensiafun
I'll show you my face when you add me
>>23626494
If you want to obsess about the "monogamous" part, scratch that. That's not the point. The point is, she's with some vanilla guy whereas there's a shortage of dommes. I think that's somewhat of a pity. Get it? I am in a relationship with my live-in sub myself and I am the very antithesis of the poly, tribute-requesting, scene-involved, obese yet corseted play-party domme queen, but you can't know that of course.
>>23626523
Would your sub like it if you said "I can't see you today, I'm busy with someone else tonight"?
I'd prefer it if there were fewer, yet monogamous dommes over plenty, non-monogamous ones.
>>23626523
Oh shit, I feel stupid. I only just realized what your initial point was... I blame having been up all night...
Yeah, wasting your time with a vanilla guy when you're actually into submissive guys seems pointless. For your own sake, life's too short to restrict yourself and not go for what you're really into!
My bad.
>>23626548
You realize there's this whole big thing called cuckolding which is the hottest thing in the world to some people, right? It doesn't float our boat, but it is pretty damn common around here.
Have you had a bad experience with some poly girl or are you just fed up with the poly domme stereotype?
>>23626556
Haha, alright. I was wondering why you were misinterpreting me continuously, I was starting to think it was deliberate.
>>23626313
Yeah, knowing there are more sub guys than dom girls makes it even worse. But I rarely crush on people and when I do things like sexual preferences arent that important. Besides, all sub guys I talked to when I was single seemed kinda weird. Calling me mistress and offering to lick my asshole before I even knew their name like dude calm down dont be so thirsty pls.
>>23616474
still around?
sounds hot and also mia
>>23626654
i think te problem there might be that some online expect you to immediatly adress them like that , i dont have much experience but since i got into this i came acros a lot of girls like this online while indeed others find it creepy if you start out like that
>>23626654
This. This particular edition of the thread is very big on the thirst but to be fair it was encouraged by a domme or two earlier so I guess that's better than it being unsolicited.
>>23626717
If they expect to be addressed like that from the getgo chances are they are either 1) male or 2) looking to get some type of compensation eventually (giftcards or whatever). In general you are way, WAY better off not using titles or whatever immediately.
>>23626729
you're indeed right , many are fakes , havent come acros ones that want money myself but as you said most of the onces that demand that are indeed bad , came acros 2 that were actually female that demanded that from the start didnt ask money or anything but they just were way fucked up
>>23625618
LOL.I just love your response, because the rest of us were clueless :D
>>23626296
I am also a female domme, and well...domming men online is not cheating, I guess ;)...so you can always do that.. I found it very exciting when I wasn't able to do it irl
>>23626729
Not true really, I am one of the two mentioned that "solicited" these responses. I am not male or looking for anything from them...there are so many types of people, and so many types of dommes. For example, I could never have a sub bf, but I want to have a sub to satisfy my needs. No emotions involved, ever. No 24/7 attachments. But also never 2 or 3 at the same time. I devote my time when I want to, he devotes all of himself to me on command. If not, I ditch them. So I like to be direct, it turns me on, even when I write online. So...you know, we are all different, domme is a state of mind not a category we can all fall into somehow. The kind of dom or sub you are comes from within, not according to a pattern or some set of rules. That is, I guess, why its hard to find a match. Because there are so many variations of us..and how far we are willing to go. God I talk a lot :)
>>23626860
>Cheating is not cheating if it's online and towards men
No, it's still cheating if your partner is unaware of this or is against it. Of course it's exciting, because on some level you know it's wrong.
>>23626894
>God I talk a lot
Yeah, you really do.
>>23626993
Sorry, I didn't elaborate. My ex didn't think it was cheating, I did not physically engage with them when I was in a relationship, he sometimes even enjoyed to watch. I won't go into details but my point was we found an arrangement that entertained us both. I guess we were an odd couple, even for 4chan.
idk if this counts but I love corruption, teasing and pushing guys into wanting me. I feel like I usually am sub if a guy takes control but I do love seeing a new guy squirm and get flustered when I am being flirty. One example would be when I was with a new guy and made him cum in his pants, stuff like that being in control of a new nervous guy. I guess the thing is I've never really been with a super submissive guy and they usually end up overpowering me or the power dynamic shifts over time. Idk, maybe it's just cause I'm too short and skinny.
>>23627031
about the last part you said i dont think so , might just be me but i really have a thing for shorter women , and especially if they're dominant , might just be a weird quirk in my head but i love that contradiction between looks and behaviour
>>23627031
and the teasing thing , i had a friend who did that to me sometimes and damn it drove me crazy , something about is was sooo great :p
>>23625037
I reside in Europe.
>>23627268
I'm also in Europe. Do you have Skype or similar?
>>23627274
im from europe to xD belgium to be precise
>>23627258
>>23627264
Yeah being short has its advantages, easier to hide and get all grabby hands with a guy. Teasing in public is especially fun love when I can get a guy to get a visible hard on in thier pants in public
sc : kiwious
kik : halfspringblue
19/f/uk
send me a dick i like rating them desu
>>23627445
the teasing in public is indeed always the meanest and greatest , and the fact that its more public like that just makes it al the hotter and harder to keep yourself from getting hard xD but its just impossible to look away cause its sooo hot
>>23627469
>admiralackbar.jpg
>>23627445
i would love to be teased by you :p you sound soo hot in teasing :p
>>23627274
I do have Skype. Give me your name if you want to talk to me on there.
Hey, I'm a femdom but a really gentle one haha. I'd even do the whole mommy dom thing if someone was into it.
Not many sub guys around as far as I can tell, though. I play switch sometimes if that's what gets people off.
>>23627998
Neat. My Skype is: rdg999x
>>23628022
would you be interested in an unexperienced sub ?
>>23627998
I hope you don't mind me throwing my skype onto the pile as well
Usedglowstick
>>23628022
Hey, I'm switch, but mostly submissive.
Role playing can be fun sometimes I think, blah blah, can we talk some more in private?
So I'm a 20yo/M/virgin interested in femdom. I want to learn how to preform cunnilingus but I wanna save my virginity. Is Craigslist good for finding someone to teach me or is somewhere like fetlife better?
Submissive Irish guy reporting in. Where do I find my dominant waifu? I've resorted to being more of a switch; I'm muscular and tall and most women seem to naturally fall into a more submissive role around me/
I have more pictures of me in the thong if anyone's interested
>>23628125
Anddd here's one where you can see the kind of body I'm working with.
>>23628133
And for any dominant ladies on Kik or Snapchat, my username is;
ToMyRealitylol
>>23612165
lol "we exist"
yes everyone knows dom women exist.
>>23627749
>>23627480
teasing is what I love to do. Yeah I make it impossible to look away when I'm in the mood, it's also pretty easy to back my ass up on a guy and rub up and down. i love that feeling, getting them hard and flustered.
>>23628022
>Hey, I'm a femdom but a really gentle one haha. I'd even do the whole mommy dom thing if someone was into it.
Would you be my mommy dom please?
>>23628022
Ever tried other forms of roleplay? like Big sister or what have you>
I'm dominant by nature but have never really been able to act on it because I'm a femme lesbian who mainly only likes other femme lesbians. My dating pool is already extremely narrow, so the domme/sub pool for me basically nonexistent.
There was this girl I met [somehere online] and we spent a long time sexting and I was kind of her "long distance domme" and that was the closest thing I ever got.
tfw no cute submissive girl I can tease and spoil and play with.
6' bearded non-manlet dude checking in. Into chastity and all sorts of other stuff. You wouldn't guess it by looking at me.
>>23628840
that's hot
>tfw no manly dude to order around
>>23628895
>tfw no face
Hello there
21/m/str
Usa Wi
blonde hair, blue eyes, 6'1
Kik: Hackelberry2
>>23628022
Sick. Where you located at? NorCal here, 22/M.
Probably not near me though, NorCal is stacked with submissive guys.
>>23625729
>nude beaches
probably a million of them. I have an aunt that runs a nudist colony somewhere up north.
>>23626362
>Double standards.
Dude every single sub I've talked to has had gang bang fantasies or at least threeways, but want to keep the dom to themselves. it's human nature to want to be desired.
>>23628139
wanna hook us up with some more of those panty pics, princess?
you come find them in nz, winkwink
>>23629559
including you
Heh this thread at least gives me some hope that femme doms are still around. I'm like 6'4 fairly muscular and have had no luck with girls in general. I think i'm to shy or something. But i'd be down to get dommed for sure.
>>23628157
mmm damn that sound soo great
>>23629928
Yes, including me. What do you mean? That comment went over my head.
>>23629919
That's great news. But now I wonder if a nude beach would consider a chastity cage as an item of clothing.
Not even joking really, I'm legitimately curious now.
21/m/ Born in Cali but stationed over seas. All the men in my family are giant, muscly, hairy like myself and my entire life I've had to act macho for my family and my work. That's a big reason why I joined the military. But I've always wanted to be dominated, I think the idea of being dominated by a smaller girl would be fucking amazing, but all the girls to see/interested in me want me to be dom due to the way I look... fml
anyone from Italy?
>>23618245
relevant to my interests.
you can hit me up on kik, snakebite360
>>23630227
I think most attendents would prefer you not turn the plaxe into your fetish playground but nobodies gonna say nothing
for me as for a sub man the worst feeling is to know that dominant women are out there but I have close to no chances of getting one.
it would be much easier to drop this whole idea if I knew that there are no dominant women at all. but then your friend tells you about his new gf being fucking beast and how he dislikes it.
I am rather vanilla I wouldn't mind gf that would require me to be gentle all the time. I can take that as some sort of submission since the idea of being "used" by someone for the purpose of their pleasure is enough.
but most of the women seems to be interested in more rough approach and they want to feel used same way I do. so it usually doesn't work very well.
since I don't mind bdsm practices as well I gave a shot to local bdsm community forum but without any success.
problem with bdsm seems to be that people are usually looking for playmate not relationship. and I can't take it just as a game.
I don't feel like being one of a toys of some dominant woman that just uses me for fun when ever she pleases and whenever her other toys aren't available.
still I am planning to attend one of the meetings they organise so well will see what happen.
>>23627031
That sounds great. You willing to talk off here?
Who /switch/ here?
>>23630576
Me lol. You m or f?
>>23616440
ummm please
19/m/aus
>>23622572
im a switch guy, usually end up doming bc havent met any girls who can dom non-lamely
>>23622643
eating ass seems like the new normal where i come from hey
im with the poop comes from there people but w/e floats your goat
>>23616440
i would love a girl like that :p
>>23616440
That sounds amazing, you willing to talk off of here?
>>23630405
good luck anon
>>23628125
Mmmmm I love how my next christmas present looks like
Bump 4 the femdom hotties
>>23628895
Still around?
Also bump.
Do sub guys exsist? Ive always felt bad for dom women because i feel like the 'talent pool' for subs is so small. Maybe its iust because im literally disgusted by submissive men so they seem weak and pathetic.
>>23633239
That's about as general as someone asking if Dom women exist ... Of course they do, but everyone is looking for something a little different.
>>23633239
>Do sub guys exsist? Ive always felt bad for dom women because i feel like the 'talent pool' for subs is so small.
from statistics I have seen much larger proportion or men is submissive compared to proportion of dominant women.
from what I have been told by dom women they don't really care because most of them want working relationship in the first place.
it's guys who care the most about this. we are much more sex driven so it's no wonder. when I speak for myself it's hard to say what I want more, love or fulfillment of my sub desires.
>Maybe its iust because im literally disgusted by submissive men so they seem weak and pathetic.
well some submissive men seem weak and pathetic even to me as to fellow suvb. they just throw at any woman who claims to be dominant without ever knowing her.
it can go as low as multiple slaves or cuckolding. it's not degenerating just them but the woman as well. they expect her to act like a whore for their own arousal.
I mean I cry like a bitch as well (see my prev post) but at least I try to act like your average male and don't expect women to approach me first or fall in love with me because I will literally lick their boots.
>>23634218
>don't expect women to approach me first
You would think that dominant women would do this, especially nowadays when it's more acceptable, but hey traditional gender roles for the win, right? :/
>>23629919
Azula?
What the hell, gonna put myself out there. Not much experience, but eager to learn and willing to try anything once.
22/australia
Kik: Goldchasm
>>23635016
apparently so and I am not a model either. anyway I suppose they have enough orbiters so no need to actively look for more.
>>23625991
Ah, what every woman loves to hear
I'm a switch and over the course of my relationship with my gf she has been getting steadily more into dominating me. She has bossy tendencies and I try and get her to save it for bedroom, where she can take it out on me and act like a total entitled spoiled bitch.
She's started getting comfortable with coming out with matter of fact orders like "kiss my tits" just while we are sitting around. I love kneeling in front of her and worshipping her pussy. Sometimes when we fuck she'll tell me exactly how she wants it, how fast and how hard, what position, she just gets to decide everything and I willingly obey.
Love it :)
>>23635514
I am happy for you and you also give me some hope. however I am afraid that she might have been "closet domme" before and you just helped her overcome insecurity about social standards and so on... nevertheless good job.
>>23635621
Yeah I think she definitely was closet domme, but had never been able to express it. Guys she'd been with before were dominant with her exclusively, and pretty selfish by the sounds of it, not giving her oral and that kind of thing. So it has taken her time to get used to being able to call the shots.
>>23612165
How do I meet someone like you? Aside from weird kinky places and risking public exposure?
Is there some kind of red flag I should look for in conversation? A codeword?
>>23635815
>risking public exposure
actually going out as sub might help you big time. you don't have to shout it to the whole world but your close friends can be the way of meeting someone interesting.
>>23635815
Honestly I have no idea because I'm a short shy chubby girl in public, just domme in the bedroom or behind closed doors.
>>23635844
>your close friends can be the way of meeting someone interesting.
Understandable, but possible untenable. Public image and all that.
>>23635845
Come on, there has to be some kind of tell! How else do you end up with people in bed to domme? Do they just not know what they're walking into?
>>23635852
4chan I suppose, or other sites like fetlife if you're lucky.
>>23635852
it's not like you are going to keep it secret in case you find one anyway unless you both try really hard to keep it secret. but that just like my opinion.
Well, seems there are many men here that are subs. How many willing to show me they could be obedient by posting a pic of cum on their belly? I find that extremely hot
>>23636045
Add my kik and I'll show you?
Oceanblew1212
I'll do that too. bottelli1
>>23636045
it would be my pleasure , my kik is ripturtle
>>23636045
if you give a reason to obey, you might find that your subs will start to have actual personalities.
>>23637031
nice quote anon. there's so much depth to it.
>>23637058
desu people like her almost bother me more than the subs she's catering to, if only because it encourages them to be base. one thing that so many people in this thread, and newbies to kink in general, should keep in mind is that we are all people and sexual expression is not what we are
>>23637074
I know, sadly I had to learn this the hard way. I believe I ate the bait once and pretty much screwed the potential relationship.
I had this nice text session with a girl, we got to know each other. then she came up with kinky sexting of some sort and I gave in without any struggle whatsoever.
and well she pretty much did not replied ever since. problem might have been somewhere else as well but it doesn't matter now.
Where's all the hairy bbw doms?
Where's all the doms into financial domination?
Give me some contact info if you're serious into that or if you are the above..
Not sure if this is a good place for this, but worth a try ... m4F looking to complete a task ...
https://onesubmissiveact.com/subs/ca69996293b3dd0525dd
>>23637074
>one thing that so many people in this thread, and newbies to kink in general, should keep in mind is that we are all people and sexual expression is not what we are
Ok, then what is an acceptable way to express one's kinks?
looking for serious dom girl for cam sex relationship add my kik if interested im 20/m/canada kik-
trevor.pane75
>tfw your gf lets you fuck her once for every 3 times you make her cum
i suggested it myself
she used to hate being dominant but she's starting to like it more recently, because she knows i'll pamper her good if she does
Ah well, guess I'll try my luck.
Male Switch, Open minded, Kinky.
Athletic, Educated, 23.
Kik: Numi31
Might as well give this a shot.
sub 21 guy in Seattle looking for a femdom. It'd be nice to chat a little at least.
kik:tangledsweater22
>tfw no femdom gf to motivate me into not being a fuckup
>>23637945
None for this, really?
>>23638314
"acceptable" is a loaded fucking word that implies a whole lot about my post that isn't there
It's sad how many non-dom girls there are..
This thread is depressing. Fuck, this whole board is depressing. I should go outside more, maybe leave 4chan for a while... nah, I might miss my chance for a hot domme in my neighborhood!
>>23642607
story anon?
>>23641396
oh, that would totally be me
>>23642171
it's miracle that there are any dommes at all since whole 4chan usually attracts submissive people with self esteem issues.
I don't see a single reason why would assertive and self conscious people visit 4chan daily.
>21/m/tx
>sub
> virgin
bit chubs, nerdy glasses, skype me @roger.2748
>>23643009
Which one?
What if i posted searching for a sub as a male ? :)
>>23644569
on a femdom thread?
>>23644354
Both I guess? I'm a bit iffy about findom but its not like I wouldnt say no to money.
>>23641412
>"acceptable" is a loaded fucking word that implies a whole lot about my post that isn't there
No it isn't. How so? Is it assuming anything?
I was trying to ask what is the difference between the right way to express one's kink and seeing people as their fetishes?
Newish to domming, looking to talk to guys
Considering dabbling in findom maybe, certainly wouldn't hurt
Love pegging
21/f/va
Kik is
queenmelpomene
Will answer kik in the morning, gotta go to bed
Dom female here. I don't have enough subs in my life. Been a while since I've done anything but I kind of want to get back into it. I like both male and female subs.
>>23648350
I been thinking of being a sub just not sure on the whole thing, Kik me if you want and we can see 26/m doom_r
>>23648350
Sounds interesting to me too :)
>>23648350
i am verry interested :)
via where would i be able to get in touch? :)
20 cd/femboy
I would love a femanon who could dominate me.
kik fkcillia
>>23646449
kik is gfordwin, I was the one that asked which you were.
>>23648350
bump for interest
Don't die
>>23651420
start a topic of conversation, then
Tfw I've looked all over Southern California for a domme and nothing. I just want to be forced to dress up in slutty things and used. ;_;
>>23648350
kik obey996
>>23618245
I'm 20, from Australia and would like to chat. Kik with a face pic is: nickakajesus
>>23651478
you expect way too much from 4chan. there was never much of a topic in this thread in the first place.
unless men chasing down every single woman who claims to be dominant is good enough topic to you.
there have been few people trying to have some real talk but it got lost in sea of what I mentioned earlier.
it's kinda sad that every thread gets ruined like this. soc seems to be no better than r9k when it comes to this.
In looking for a new fem Dom, I'm 19/M and can take pics, bids, live can. Little to know boundaries. Kik is jay_me22
Reading this whole thread is reeeally turning me on since it's like everything that I need so I'll post quickly before fapping off. 22 male here, very muscular, looking to be used.... I have a gf but she takes no initiative at all sexually, I'm super frustrated :( some cute chubby girl pls come to my aid
>>23653569
Also contact me by snapchat: ajmca
>>23651883
I once messaged a domme on fetlife who was going to be visiting SoCal. I think she would've come here this month, actually.
Then I realized fuck no, I'm not gonna go off with some porn star for fun.
Maybe try that. There's plenty around here on fetlife if you're less chickenshit than I am.
Any dominant women in georgia by chance? I'm 24/m in kennesaw
