Talk me out of cheating on my girlfriend and seeing an escort tonight for 80 bucks
>>23010860
No.
>>23010870
do you have experience with escorts, anon?
Pic of escort?
>>23010860
You should break up with your girlfriend if you don't care about her.
>>23010882
i care about her just as much as anyone can care for their significant other. i just don't really want to ignore the part of me that wants to fuck other women.
>>23010875
OP pic is related.
>>23010860
Don't do it. Keep your self-respect. Cheating on your girlfriend is as bad as her sleeping with another man. Remember that. Go through with this and the next time you call a woman a cheating slut you'll be a hypocrite.
>>23010903
i've never called a woman a cheating slut. don't know if i ever will, but i get what you mean. i probably wouldn't like it too much if i found out about that kind of thing.
>>23010893
>i care about her just as much as anyone can care for their significant other. i just don't really want to ignore the part of me that wants to fuck other women.
Is that why you came to 4chan to ask the opinion of random strangers? Your priorities are messed up. A lot of people care enough about their significant other not to cheat on them, you care less than at least half the people in relationships out there.
$80 seems a bit low. I was under the impression the going rate was like $250 - 300.
>>23010917
that would assume that my idea of love is the same as your idea of love. i don't judge you for your take on it, why judge me on mine?
>>23010924
there are some for that, 80 it's for a half hour. the higher rates are for longer times and different activities.
>>23010927
>that would assume that my idea of love is the same as your idea of love
That actually has nothing to do with it at all. You're just rationalizing. Does your girlfriend share your idea of love? I'm betting she doesn't.
Do it.
Exactly what do you have to lose? Your self respect? It's just sex. No emotions tied.
Her trust? If you're in a position to actually go to a whore and fuck her, you don't consider it that big a deal to begin with.
So fuck the bitch. Twice even.
>>23010927
Where do you find them?
Why not do a threesome with your gf and another girl?
Or is your gf not that open?
>>23010860
I think what you should do is break up with your girlfriend and fuck all the escorts you want because she deserves someone who actually loves and respects her instead of some schmuck who wants to screw whores behind her back.
>>23010903
This. Cheated on my ex a few months back. I've felt like a total piece of shit since then.
We need to purge the world and start fresh
Deus vult
>>23010945
of course i'm rationalizing. it's my perspective on the matter after all. she might not feel the same as i do. but the end all be all is that every guy feels this way. no matter how deeply you care about the girl you're with you're always going to look at other women. the way i rationalize it, rather than suppress it and let it fester, i'll indulge myself as carefully as i can.
>>23010949
backpage, literally just driving around, though that kind of only nets you junkies, but they'll jack you off for 10-20 bucks without fail. you can literally just drive up and point blank ask them. they ether say yes, or no. my experience is always yes.
>>23010951
she is, but my motivation for doing this is that i want exclusive time with feeling other women. i could do a threesome, but it's more so that i just want to fuck other women, rather than sharing someone with my girlfriend.
>>23010952
you will get into a similar position that i am in and i'm willing to bet that these same thoughts will cross your mind.
>>23010966
I care deeply about my girlfriend and other women don't even show up on my radar. If I could have my pick of literally any girl on Earth I'd still pick her.
>>23010893
If that's her then damn, I wouldn't pass that up for a second. But that's me and I've never used an escort before due to GF and what not.
>>23010982
it's gonna suck for you when she ends up being the same person as me. i hope it doesn't happen but your absolute trust in her is probably going to be your downfall.
>>23010860
Escort or hooker
I don't know much about escorts but that seems awfully cheap to me
>>23010991
I don't have absolute trust in her. In fact, I'm pretty sure she doesn't feel that strongly about me, but I still do about her.
please stop being promiscuous
it pains
a man should not lie with a woman he isn't willing to die for
>>23010995
then you're already fucked la mia famiglia.
>>23010996
tell that to jesus. but everyone loves him don't they
>>23010994
whatever you would call "found your ad online and want to set up a time to fuck, how much do you charge"
>>23011003
why are you okay with betraying those who love you most
do you not love?
>>23011011
my problem i think is i love too many people
i love what a lot of women have
>>23011003
I call that dangerous
>>23011024
you do not truly love those who you are so quick to hurt
please control your instincts and do what is just
>>23011031
probably. if you have the money, use protection, and are nice and gentlemanly, they will treat you with the same respect. it's only sex after all.
>>23011032
why should i so tightly control what i was born on this earth to do
>>23010893
def fuck the escort. No reason not to, fulfill your desires.
>>23011038
>why should i so tightly control what i was born on this earth to do
You don't have to if you really don't want to, but don't drag other people who don't share your views along for the ride. If you want to just fuck a ton of girls, ditch your girlfriend and fuck a ton of girls. Why do you have a girlfriend in the first place?
>>23011038
i thought you would feel remorse for being a burden on society and those around you
why is everyone so willing to destroy the culture that allowed them to be how they are
the west is lost
end my suffering
>>23011038
I really am of the mind that if you want to be promiscuous that is okay but first you should cut ties with the person you are dating if they aren't willing to be in an open/poly relationship. It's selfish to take that risk when you could genuinely hurt someone who loves you and has devoted time and energy to build something with you.
>>23010860
>escort
that's not cheating. it's only about sex.
>>23011056
you think it's just westerners who feel this way?
take one look at the nasty underbelly of japan and you'll know this shit rears it's head everywhere in the world. the way society has conditioned us to be is not natural. it's not all bad, but this is a stigma that needs to be erased.
>>23011059
open/poly relationships don't work either. along with that extreme desire of other people, we still also harbor anger and jealousy. the only way i've found to get around all this nastiness is to be secretive.
>>23011063
this is kind of my feeling on the subject. i don't love the escort. the escort is providing me a service that i want.
the only reason i feel people are so mixed on it is because of what sex does to their emotions. no one feels this way about tv or art.
>>23011071
i didn't say the west was the only culture that felt this way
stop appealing to nature
what stigma needs to be erased
the stigma against needlessly hurting those who love you just so you can put your cock inside something?
i would be angry but i just feel sadness
>>23011086
>the stigma against needlessly hurting those who love you just so you can put your cock inside something?
it only hurts people because they think it should hurt them
you think everyone on the planet is hurt by bodily desires? why do you think there are congregations like this? because there are enough people on this planet that don't think it should hurt to give in to natural desire. they do it, and operate as normally as everyone else. they may not be for you and that's fine, but those people do not judge you as harshly as you judge them.
fuck that whore right in her pussy
>>23011097
you entered a fucking relationship with a person, you claim to feel mutual love, and she would feel pained if you do what you plan
if you did not know that she would feel pained, you would not be asking for advice on the matter
do you care that she will hurt
do you care that if you two break up, she will be far more likely to hurt other people
do you care that her children are going to be statistically worse off as a result of this
do you care that she is going to be statistically less happy because of your actions?
do you care that your relationship is statistically likely to fall apart as a result of this?
for what gain?
and for that gain
at what cost?
if you want to be promiscuous, at least do it in a scenario in which a minimal amount of third parties will be hurt
it's always wrong, but i know that you will eventually be unable to control your primitive desires to fuck everything that moves, at any cost
please end your relationship
Yeah, man. Its a dick move. Just be honest.
>>23011120
i understand what you're saying and will take it into heavy consideration.
>>23011121
i know it's not necessarily right.
>>23011071
Oh they work with many couples I know, you just seem incredibly selfish and want everything without really thinking about the very real negative outcome with your partner. I hope she finds out and leaves so you can go after the things that make you happy and she can find someone who can do that for her. You honestly wouldn't mind if you found out she was fucking someone else behind your back?
>>23011130
depends on if it were a girl or a guy.
>>23011131
A guy, obviously.
>>23011097
We aren't talking about 'everyone on the planet' being hurt by bodily desires we are talking about you and your gf since you posed the question to begin with and since you claim that poly/open isn't an option due to the jealous and anger kinds of emotions it promtps so you already know this would in fact hurt your gf.
>>23011134
why obviously? why does it make it any different
>>23011136
you're right. if she knew. i haven't actually done anything yet. just a lot of research, and talked to the girl i want to fuck.
>>23011141
You're cheating on her with a girl, so for the analogy to be accurate it would have to be her cheating on you with a guy. Of course it's different if it's with a girl because that's hot to you. Are you literally slow?
>>23011153
but if love is the question wouldn't it fucked if it were anyone, regardless? if i were fucked a guy and she found out, why shouldn't she be mad? regardless of whether or not she might find the idea hot? isn't that still a betrayal of trust?
since this thread is populated and this is somewhat on topic
are there any people left who are truly principled against infidelity under any and all circumstances, even if the chance discovery by your partner was nil?
>>23011141
If you found out she was fucking a guy behind your back I am almost certain it would cause issues with you. Speaking from experience it was kind of a heartbreaking thing to find out about, as much as I was into that relationship I would of much preferred he had just left to peruse what he needed instead of lying and hiding something like that from me. It really can destroy someone.
I very much understand the need/want for sexual exploration, the want for other people and new things but when you get into a serious relationship unless otherwise established (poly/open) you are making a promise of honesty and trust with that person.
Seriously, ditch her and have all the awesome sex you can possibly want. She'll be hurt you left but it'll be better for you both in the long run.
>>23011156
You were the one who said:
>depends on if it were a girl or a guy
Are you contradicting yourself two posts down or just acting dense on purpose?
>>23011163
i get what you're saying. it makes a lot of sense to do it that way.
alright i don't think i'm gonna do it. i think i am instead going to jack off and get rid of this nagging feeling in my head. i know she's an open honest person so i feel like i might just ask her to explore some things with me and see how that works. i don't think i have much to lose if i was willing to just fuck an escort anyway.
>>23011180
i am almost as relieved as your girlfriend could be
thank you for trying, anon
please stay strong
>>23010860
80 bucks could be spent better, otherwise why the fuck not. Just don't be an asshat and tell your girlfriend, even if it's afterwards. Cheating sucks for the other person, finding about it not from the person directly sucks even more.
>>23011180
If she loves you and this is a good relationship you'll most likely be able to start exploring more sexually and finding exciting things to do with one another, it can open doors you really may not have expected. Just give it some time and explain to her you want to get a little more kinky and fun.
>>23011164
my man its not that i'm dense but it's very clear that my mind and my dick are in disagreement. this is why i'd rather come to a bunch of people i don't know and try to figure out from an outside perspective whether it's what i should do or not. i'm not really in the right mindset to be doing it for myself and the only other person i know who i've talked to about this is a girl in a shitty relationship who now wants to fuck me. you can see how that doesn't help things either.
>>23011189
every time i've tossed the idea around that's been the ultimate reason not to. i just can't justify the expense. lol
>>23011190
it's been strong but lately it's just not as strong as it has been for a long time. there's probably deeper seeded issues there somewhere that we need to work on.
>>23011203
never think with your cock
>>23011205
sometimes it's ok. if you work within boundaries.
>>23011203
>i just can't justify the expense
Jewery saved another relationship!
>>23011225
praise the semitic gene-pool
Hi...I think I'm going to stop using 4chan because it makes my paranoia really bad. Can at least one guy confirm that although obviously you do feel attracted to other women in relationships that doesn't mean you go as far as this guy? I want to be able to trust a boyfriend :(
>>23010860
For only 80 she's going to be a 5/10 best case scenario.
Are you poor? Or into ugly chicks?
>>2301145
>>23011452
Well, this is me >>23010982 and I meant it.
>>23011505
Wish I could find a guy like you anon
>>23011514
I don't think it's that rare. People just get into bad relationships a lot because they're afraid of missing out if they wait too long for the right one.
>>23011452
Like the other anon said, I'm sticking with my girl no matter what. Obviously everyone notices attractive people. But I have never acted on it, and this includes being propositioned while in a relationship.
We all take risks when we enter a relationship. We're afraid of being hurt. But not everyone is as selfish and immature as OP.
Don't do it OP; find a desperate slut on /soc/ to cheat with instead. Free sex, plus it can become a regular thing if it goes well.
>>23011452
I've always been loyal to my long term girlfriends. I think they've always been loyal to me, but I'm tempted to just stick with fwb and hookups for the foreseeable future, because I can always see my girlfriends lining up the next dick any time things get a little strained. To me it seems like they're disloyal in every way but the physical.
>>23011452
>hi... can someone please give me attention? i'm starting to feel paranoid that maybe i might not be getting enough
>>23010860
Herpes and syphilis. Least you know your gf is clean. Escorts, well. There's a better chance. And what you see in the pic is not what you're gonna get really; 80 bucks is hella small.
>>23010860
This is like being the last man in Vietnam and asking for a stick to fight back. You came for help, you got it, now stand up and go beat up those viets with your stick.
If you are actually in a relationship, you should already be getting laid. In which case you are a fucking moron for paying for something you already get.
If you are in a relationship and not getting laid then you need to get the fuck out of that relationship
>>23011127
>not necessarily right
You know it's not right, but you're too chickenshit to give any certainty to it. You feel bad about what you're about to do to a woman you claim to care about, so you're getting strangers to make arguments so you can dance around them and feel good about the shit you're about to pull. Why don't you have this conversation with your girlfriend, and see how well your rebuttals work?
You can say "oh well, she doesn't see it my way", but if you actually cared about her, you would free her up to find a man who does see it her way. She probably thinks you see it her way, or she'd probably not be with you.
yawn
cheatings wrong yada yada id never cheat on my partner etc etc
my views on this, cant even take this topic seriously anymore.
jerk off and if you still want to do it after that then go for it. If you are okay with cheating on your girl.
This is why I hate men.
Also, that picture is obviously heavily photoshopped. Look at the lines on the floor for instance. Theyre all warped
>>23010860
herpes
>>23010860
it's a cop
no escort is that cheap and that hot and not a cop
have fun in prison
>>23010860
if you have the urge to, youre already the kind of person that would do it.
