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do you guys have any tips for building confidence?

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Alcohol senpai
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nope i dont have any of that

thinking of trying something like lsd or shrooms to see if something will click but i dont have any friends to hook me up
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>>28656067
mail order blotter acid, or else get a mycology field guide from the library and hit up erowid to see what local fungi are psychoactive.

I'm in Western Europe so we get Psilosibe Semilanceata growing native like.

Though if you're feeling low don't take hallucinogens, you'll have a bad trip.

They can make you very emotionally vulnerable.

Besides drugs, just try making and doing things and asking people what they think.

If they tell you you're doing shit then you're either doing the wrong thing or asking the wrong people.

See, confidence is based on expectations; you aren't used to success or praise so you don't expect it.

Work on something you can be proud of, make it as good as you can.

Y'see, on a very real level you are what you do.
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>>28655987
Xanax bars senpai
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Run yourself facefirst into situations you know you can't handle and deal with it.

This is what normies mean when they say "b urself :^)"
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>>28656277
my only salvation
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>>28656224
Oh and enjoy the mental retardation to the level of a hippie slut.
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dont give any shits about what faggot people say abut you. they're not worth your time
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Theres this thing called "Flow" other people call it momentum. When you wake up your confidence its at rest (not moving) your objective should be to start gaining momentum and maintain that throughout the day. Make your bed > boot up computer > start the coffee pot . Then start doing harder stuff. Stretching > Exercise/workout > shower > groom/brush teeth, ect. Now heres where the tricky part comes in. You have accomplished two major things , grooming and exercising. For the average NEET this is where production stops because he has achieved a sense of accomplishment and probably will go on to browse porn/4chan, or play video games because they wont feel guilty about because they did something productive. THE FLOW MUST BE MAINTAINED. It can slow down but it must never stop . Look on your list (you should start making lists) and see what you can work on. Work on these through out the day. Try your best to do it for at least 15 minutes and if your not up to it move onto something else on the list. Do this for a couple hours than take a break. Browse 4chan or whatever but only let yourself do it for 15 - 30 minutes, Then back to the list. Flow needs to slow down towards the end of your day. The only time flow should ever come to a complete stop is when you are laying in bed.

The purpose of flow is the establish momentum to create a series of productive events through out the day. Each event should increase self-esteem and give you the confidence to move onto the next event. This does not mean you have to quit 4chan or video games or whatever you can just reserve those things towards the end of the day when your flow is slowing down. The hardest part is after you wake up and the first major talk is done.

For those who work you have it harder because some jobs kill flow and drain your energy. Your going to come home physically and emotionally exhausted. The only thing ive managed to do regarding this is tough it out and take on the stress and relax during the weekends
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>>28656001
Alcohol is your best bet Tbh
I wish there was some medicine/drug that gave me the not-giving-a-fuck feel alcohol does.
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Well since we are all sheep to the big jew, i did say be your best self.
Start with clothing and posture, people treat you depending on how you look, specially women.
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