Do you actually want to be like Chad - would you enjoy dominating others in a social setting and women in bed?
Lots of us here complain about Chad getting all the girls but that's because he is what they want: A confident, dominant hot guy at the top of the social ladder. This is just simple female nature.
But do Omegas and Betas even want to be like that? Just the fact that many call dominance "being an asshole" shows they don't like it.
Do you actually want to be like Chad or do you want to have Chad's stuff while being your shy, gentle Beta selves?
baka, that is n-none of your business.
I don't know, guess I'm a freak of nature. I don't want to be dominant, at the top of the social ladder so much. I don't fantasize about kinky ass sex, I don't want a harem like chad has. I value emotional intimacy above all else. A relationship where you can be open and still be met with compassion, understanding, love, acceptance, almost like something straight out of family matters. It's so cheesy and people have told me it feels trite and forced but I don't know, I love it. It's reassurance mostly, the insecurity gnaws at me and undermines the integrity of my relationships because I'm always second guessing and doubting myself. Standard stuff - do they really like me? Stuff everyone goes through I think. I fucking suck at relationships.
So no, in a nutshell I guess I want the world to bend over backwards:^). I've come to the realization that there's no such thing as perfect. I wanted to beee myself and feel confident in doing so.
women who like assholes/ enjoy being dominated are filfth.
so no.
>>28485332
So you want to go out with a femdom or a butch then? Wanting dominant men is female nature - the feminists who want to dominate their men are the real freaks
>>28485226
It'll reply to this like it's not bait even though it is. I would like somewhere in between, I have a lot of aspects of both in myself, I'm dynamic, it pretends on my mood. Most women aren't really dynamic, and couldn't keep up with me in other ways or satiate my expectations in a partner, so I know that won't be happening for me.
>>28485226
my porn choice usually reflects that.
I rarely like femdom, if at all mostly the gentle kind.
>>28485389
i like having someone who isnt fucked up/ dumb enough to want to be dominated. i dont want to dominate. i just want a regular fucking well adjusted girl who isnt brainwashed into gender roles and just likes regular sex. why isnt regular sex enough? why would i want to worry about having to give some whore the right sex when i care more about just having a good stable relationship with them. i dont want to feel like i need to dominate or have her dominate me. i just want penis in her vagina, sometimes shes on top sometimes i am it doesnt matter, then we both share the same hobbies and go eat some nice food and go out somewhere like the zoo or the arcade
>>28485226
Yes. Being dominant/extroverted/leader-ish is my nature, it's how I acted up until the things that made me a robot happened.
>>28485226
I'm not sure this is something you can change easily. It's just what you're wired to mostly. If you're a switch, you can learn to be more of one or the other but even so you will likely have a preference that does not change very much.
>>28485226
No and that's why I'm dying alone. All women want is someone to dominate and guide them, but I want someone to be with and spend my life with
It's the expectation and what everyone prepares for. I don't blame anyone but I do lament that I was not made for this world, at least that aspect
Yes but women have all the power in society so i can never be dominant in real life, only pretend.
That's why i stick to cyber sex or rp or whatever.
>>28485226
Yes, and it makes being a robot awful. In every situation, I feel the impulse to be loud/cheerful/confident, but then years of social isolation and self-loathing fight against it and I either just keep my mouth shut or only go halfway with it and it's cringy as hell (this has become rarer and rarer over the years, thank god).
>>28486182
I'm pretty much in the same boat. I'd rather remain single than essentially act as a babysitter for someone who should be an adult.
>>28486346
I used to be deep into that during high school and college, but now it's fucking maddening just trying to find one decent partner that isn't a complete flake.
Pretty similar to real life actually.
I was able to be when I had my shit more together. Women want to be dominated and men want to dominate them, if that isn't happening the relationship is broken.
You can be confident and dominant without being rich or having muscles.
no, im so jaded that i hate pretty much everyone and want to be alone. if i suddenly had that status id just use it to make normies feel like shit and tell girls they had to bang robots to be with me and laugh after they did it. i dont give a fuck. i just like to be left alone.
