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Welp, robots, it finally happened. After years of one miserable,
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Welp, robots, it finally happened.

After years of one miserable, embarrassing failure at romance after the next, I have begun a relationship with a girl who seems to be as into me as I am her.

I still have this sinking feeling in my fucking gut though and I'm afraid it's going to get to me and cause me to subconsciously fucking sabotage myself. I really am interested in her, but she's going through a divorce with a guy who was a genuinely abusive asshole to her for about four years until she gathered up the courage to sneak out one night (like nine months ago). I have this sneaking suspicion that while she may currently feel like she likes me, it's actually some kind of coping mechanism and she's just desperate to be around someone who isn't going to rape her after an argument or whatever.

She's really cute though (by my standards), has a great career in tech, lots and lots of similar interests.

I dunno, am I fucked? I can't get this shit out of my head that I'm just walking into a trap but at the same time it just feels so goddamned good to cuddle with someone when I go to sleep at night. My general level of anxiety and depression is orders of magnitude lower.

Just, fuck. My instincts are telling me she's going to start hating me and when she does I'll snap and spiral off the deep end. Should I risk it anyway? Should I just ghost her?

Advise me, robots.

Pic more or less unrelated but she's also a big Trump supporter and frankly that gets my dick rock hard.
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>>28415664
you gotta get out of that negative headspace.

yes, she may grow to not like you. that can happen with anyone. you may end up not liking her.

just try to relax. I know that can be hard. but try to let shit like this go. be free from this negativity.
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i only have one thing to say for you
don't fuck up, ok?
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>>28415695
It's so fucking hard though. I dunno if she has experience with robots before or something but she's been so incredibly patient with me. We almost fucked a few nights ago but I started having a fucking panic attack because my mind was running a hundred miles a minute thinking of how awful I would feel if she didn't enjoy it or started to dislike me later or whatever. And the more I panicked the more it built on itself because I was afraid she'd take it weird or whatever. But she was super fucking nice and had me lay down and gave me a massage to calm down. Didn't pressure me, we just spooned after that until we fell asleep.

I just feel like if this doesn't work this time, with all the things going right, it'll be the end of me.
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>>28415739
You've already fucked up.

She's already looking at exit strategies. Sorry, man.
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>>28415762
You might be right but I haven't really gotten that impression. The next morning we got up and spent most of the day watching anime and cuddling under a blanket. And she still texts me CONSTANTLY. Like almost to the point that I would think it was clingy and needy or whatever if I weren't so goddamned desperate for the attention.
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>>28415664
>I have begun a relationship with a girl

fuck off normalcunt attention whore
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>>28415803
Bruh I earned my wizard hat about six months ago. Other than people bathing me as a child and medical professionals, she is the only person who's ever been in the same zipcode as my dick.

Fuck I just don't want to live like this anymore.
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die normie reeeeeeeeee etc
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>>28415803
>>28415962
Anyone else? Tbh I'll take the abuse because maybe it'll convince me that staying a robot is the way to go. Fuck, I'm just so indecisive about this and I'm a huge faggot so I just want someone else to call the shot for me.
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Self bump and then I'm going to bed I guess. Pls help robots. I'm fucking lost here.
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Just chill out and assume she's fine because it seems like she is. Think in the present. If she ends up dumping you then cross that bridge when you come to it.
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>>28415664
I say go for it, even if it turns out out bad at least you had some one.

I know its generic but it really is better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all.
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>>28416165
Yeah, I mean it's not hard for me to take her word for it. I'm just fucking terrified that "crossing that bridge" is going to mean lynching myself.
>>28416167
>better to have loved and lost than to never loved at all
Really? I mean reeeeeally? Again, as bad as it's been in the past when things didn't work out or I got rejected, I feel like actually losing would be way fucking worse.
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>>28416195
You will only regret it if you don't do anything, you will always wonder what could of been if you just stay how you are and continue your robot life.

Even if it does go south you will still have fond memories of a time where a girl actually loved you. Which is better than never having had that.
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>>28416195
Use your time with your partner to help improve yourself. By the time she breaks up with you, if she does, it won't be life or death for you. Love yourself Anon
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She just texted me to see if I was up and now she's coming over. She said she has a "surprise" for me and I'm fucking terrified it'll be sex again because that panic attack was the goddamn worst. Ugh fuuuuck.

>>28416220
B-but at least I'll have you guys, right?
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You better fuck her dipshit
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>>28416231
This has also crossed my mind a few times. Like, even if I can have a few months of not feeling like some worthless 2D-fapping lowlife, I feel like maybe it could turn things around for me.

Conversely I also feel like I might just swallow a bullet to avoid repeating the process ever again.

>>28416302
She'll be here in like ten minutes, so I guess we'll find out.
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>>28415664
Do your best, try not to worry too much. What's the worst that can happen? She leaves you and you kill yourself? Most of us here are already at the 2nd stage.

Right now she's with you, and it makes you a lot happier than you normally are. Savour it!
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>>28416367
You won't feel the "conversely" eventually if you do the former
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Fuckshitfuckfuck

She's here. I met her at the door and she's wearing this like, sloppy hoodie and ratty skirt combo (she knows I have a thing for girls that kinda look like they aren't even trying, or maybe she's just legit not trying tonight idon'tfuckingknow). She's in the bathroom now and I can already feel that thing in my chest that lets me know an attack is coming.
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>>28416469
You'll be fine. Give her the D then watch some shitty anime
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Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen

I hope she isn't already pregnant

Remember to use a condom!
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I'm glowing right now. I mean I doubt I was pornstar quality or anything, but that was easily worth trading in my spellbook for.

I don't know what to say, robots. I kinda wanna cry now. She got kinda teary towards the end and we did that whole look-into-each-others-eyes thing and now I'm just airy. She's asleep here next to me now and all I want to do is just stare at her and watch her sleep and listen to her breathe because I'm a gigantic faggot and I feel like this is one of those moments that I need to burn into my memory.

I dunno guys but I feel really really... Okay, right night. Like I don't have to dread waking up tomorrow.
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>>28416818
Out normie reee
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>>28416831
I guess those are the rules, after all. Thanks for talking, robobros. I won't forget you.
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>>28416851
Congrats man
Don't mistake sex for love
Don't let the relationship define you
Do allow yourself to love if the feeling is right

If things go south keep yourself composed and don't kill yourself. There's more to live for than any single woman.

I'm really happy for you
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