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>tfw actually quit masturbating for real this time

The longest I ever went without any kind of fapping since age 18 when I had access to internet porn was 24 days back in 2013. I have done several other no-cum stints for 2-3 weeks, but did a little or a lot of edging during them.

Main reason I quit is because of severe strain in my perenium muscles which I now have this annoying sensation constantly thats similar to having to pee. Bladder and prostate checked out fine, so can only conclude its a muscle/nerve imbalance, and likely a secondary effect of overuse from several years of near constant fapping, often including hours of edging a day and/or draining my balls until nothing came out. I am ok since its not painful or debilitating, and am ultimately grateful since it took this to finally quit fapping. I do hope it will do away eventually as body heals itself, but regardless, I resolved to just never fap again and never have sex.

This time it has been much easier since because of my yoga and meditation practice I am far more grounded. It also helps that I usually go on the computer while standing up, and I have also worked to eliminate even fantasizing about women or anything sexual, for fantasy is often how my past relapses have started (think about women, think about sex, get boner, get horny, look at porn, just a little edging... 3 hours later 30 porn tabs oven and fresh cum stains on the wall).

I wake up with a boner some times, but I don't experience any horniness and sexual frustration. Can look at beautiful women in real life or in pictures and keep calm and cool. Though I have still continued to look at adult content online (mostly static images) while I'm fullyclothed and not even think about fapping, this is something I and eliminate to further solidify my commitment to celibacy and non-masturbation.
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Fapping is not the issue. It's what you fap to that causes problems.
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>>28370251
That may be true for other people, as I have heard discuses in "the great porn experiment" and through 4chan posts relating experience such as being desensitized and moving on to extreme forms of porn to satisfy arousal.

However, I myself have never had that problem. Never developed any fetishes and always just liked vanilla naked women, girl on girl or penis in vagina content. I sometimes wanked to fat chicks, but I was attracted to them in real life since age 13, and found only 0.01% of "BBW" content appealing.

My problem is addiction to the masturbation and orgasm itself, which far predated my exposure to pornography. The FACT that I have never in my life been able to handle it with moderation- either fap like crazy or not at all, is why I must stamp it out completely, including any possibility of ever having sex.
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If I am for myself I can't stop for more than a few days. I just feel really nervous, there's a weird feeling in my stomach and it's way harder to fall asleep than usual.
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>>28370334
fapping addiction is also tied up with other more general addictions

>porn addiction
>internet addiction in general
>tendency to fantasize
>sitting too much
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tfw permanent damage to my dick from porn addiction
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>>28370385
this too, but its not like I'm ever going to use it for anything other than peeing
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Currently abstaining as well. I'm going to try for the 90 day mark but the longest I've ever gone was 20 days (that was some years ago now).

I think the key is just keeping your mind on other things / not allowing yourself to become aroused. Once you get into the realm of "I'll just edge for a bit but not come" you're virtually guaranteed to cum sooner or later (also it completely defeats the purpose).
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>>28370237
You call yourself an addict?

I haven't taken more than 3 days off fapping since i was 10. Get on my level.
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I feel more energy when I don't masturbate and I actually feel more confident

When I masturbate 10 times a day I just get so lazy and want to sleep just like on weed.
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>>28370237
I have problems cumming and keeping hard while having sex, and I think it's because of fapping nearly once a day for the past four years straight and developing worse and worse fetishes.
My dick feels desensitized, and I don't get turned on at the thought of sex as much as I should.
I quit for a week straight once, and it helped so much even in just that small amount of time. I'm going to try quitting again.
The biggest problem is 4chan desu. Fetish porn everywhere, and getting more and more exotic all the time. Giving up 4chan is a bit different to just giving up masturbation though
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>>28370438
When i was 18-20 i wanked 7+ times a day most days.
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>>28370417
>Once you get into the realm of "I'll just edge for a bit but not come" you're virtually guaranteed to cum sooner or later (also it completely defeats the purpose).
This to be quite honest. Moment hand touched dick- you lose. The simplest things that have helped me are just being outside more, and not sitting in a chair- I found just sitting in a chair increases my time spent wasting away at the computer. If standing up I spend less time online and end up retiring to bed earlier as opposed to staying up all night doing who knows what.

>>28370438
Do you ever fap 8 times a day and/or spend 4+ hours teasing your dick with one hand while browsing porn with the other?

>>28370485
>having sex
rack to beddit normie
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>>28370518
Daily reminder this is bullshit and bait /thread mods remove this now. Be grateful i'm not a mod other wise this horse shit would be perma banned and removed.
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>>28370575 (You)
>>>/fit/
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>>28370575
Why would this be deleted? Why would any bait threads and bullshit stories be deleted? /r9k/ is practically their containment board
inb4 you're actually baiting me
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Anyone else here fap three times a day?
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>>28370575

Nobody cares kill yourself
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When I was youngerror (maybe 16 or so) I used to use a vibrator 4-8 times a day every day (except when on period ugh) and I couldn't get off from anything other than the vibrator so if I ever got laid I couldn't ever orgasm. I had to refrain from maturbation with my vibrator for about 6 months till I could cum without it, so that means 6 months of no pleasure at all despite how much I wanted it. It was awful.
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>>28370457
>When I masturbate 10 times a day I just get so lazy and want to sleep just like on weed.
Well yea duh. Youre not supposed to cum 10 times a day idiot.
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