So guys tomorrow night will be the first time I go to a club/bar with my normie friends.
I don't even really like the music they play at clubs, and I don't even like dancing. Picking up girls also seems like a feat as well. Should I even go? I was just looking forward to getting shitfaced with my friends.
I'm asking the wrong people here but I'm genuinely curious.
just looking at that pictures gives me anxiety
>>28345709
So, first thing is you need to be drunk or you just won't be able to stand it. Music is shit and no-one really dances, or at all, just bobbing. Picking up girls is possible sometimes if you're not too ugly. I'm superfat but I get girls (theyre usually fat too, or ugly) approach me once or twice a night. I usually turn them away because I assume they're mistaken or something and I'm not interested.
I enjoy getting blind drunk and hanging with some friends, but I only like it on pib crawls, hate just going out aimlessly
>>28345709
go and have a good time. get drunk, if you decide to find a nice ass and try to grind up on it. ask girls if you can get them a drink or just strait up ask a girl if she wants to fuck. you might not go home with the hottest girl there but you can definitely get laid OP. go for it.
>>28345709
It's worth trying just to know for sure that you won't like it. But you probably won't like it.
Sometimes these places have smoking areas outside. If you're looking for somewhere quiet (relatively) at any point, try that.
>>28345709
>Should I even go?
never been before? you should
you'll learn to hate it
some bars are cool though
>>28345709
>I was just looking forward to getting shitfaced with my friends.
Then just go and do that and don't worry about picking up girls or dancing. Nothing wrong with that.
Invite your friends around for a games night or something. Explain that you just don't dig clubs.
I had a normie friend invite me out clubbing and I did just that.
Friends are meant to be people with whom you share an enjoyment of each other's company, not obligations.
>>28345709
Drink before you go. Might as well try it once just to see how it is, especially if you have friends to go with.
Get more drunk when you get there to endure it.
>normies talking about their "normie friends" as if they are not normies themselves
>>28346109
>25yo khhv 7 years into a 4 year uni degree because I've stalled the last 4 years due to depression
I have a handful of friends from high school that probably only hang out with me out of pity. I'm not really normie
>>28346198
Damn man that's really pathetic I stand corrected.
>>28345709
well which is it, a club or a bar? if it's a club and your friends plan on dancing, you're going to feel really out of place. otherwise it's fine you'll just sit around shooting shit and drinking.
