>you will never have a wife and children
dunno if this is a good or bad feel tbqh
it's inevitable nonetheless
>tfw you will never have a wife or children
Pluses
>regular fuck buddy
>false sense of accomplishing something significant (passing on genes)
Cons
>no money
>children are annoying
>wife nags
>children cost a lot to raise
>for every one Kodak moment, there's a thousand where you want to kill yourself
>children are first among everything else
>have to take care of them until they are 18
>child abuse is vague that just telling them "no" is verbal and emotional abuse
And the list goes on. So how is not having a wife and child a bad thing again?
Make your fucking peace with it.
>>28065552
>wanting to bring other consciousnesses into this world and existence
Remove thyself from this internet page
>>28065552
Why would you consider that a bad thing, frogposter?
You'll never have someone complaining about what you do.
You'll never have to take time out of your schedule because your kid is sick or whatever.
You'll never be legally connected to someone who can fuck you over if they decide they don't want it anymore.
You'll never be so tied down that you can't just go fuck it and do whatever you want.
Freedom, you fucker. Get with it.
>>28065552
>you will never have a wife and wife's children
>>28065593
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>>28065787
Saved, ty anon for that cute gif
I had a wife and I spent most of my days in a state of 'meh'.
Only when she left me after 7 years did I taste what it meant to be alone again.
It tastes like fucking bliss, my friend.
Do you know what its like to suddenly $200 extra dollars free at the end of every month, that would've gone on placating the wife's cravings for ice cream, 'ethical' meat and other shit?
Do you know what it's like to be able to just buy yourself anything you fucking want and not have someone judging your use of *your* fucking money every time you don't spend it on *them*, or 'us', or 'our future'?
Do you know what it's like being able to watch the filthiest, most degenerate porn you crave on a 65 inch plasma TV in your living room literally any moment you want?
Do you know what it's like being able to break the law without someone worrying you'll get caught and pitching a fit at you, telling you you don't know what you're doing, even though you did this shit every fucking day before you met them and theres zero fucking enforcement at all?
Do you know what it's like just seeing whatever fucking movie you like by yourself, without feeling pressured to see something both of you will like?
Do you know what it's like being able to pay a whore to act out any sexual fantasy you can think of, and then the second you're done, you don't have to hear a single word from from her again until you want to?
Do you know what it's like to leave a stack of dishes in the kitchen sink that's a foot high while and then pay a 14 year old $5 to do clean the whole fucking kitchen, without someone bitching at you?
Do you know what it's like to never fold the fucking laundry ever again, because you don't fucking care if your shirt is creased?
I don't even hate her. She wasn't horrible to me. There are way worse wives than her in the world.
But fuck that. Some other chump can have that life.
>>28065759
>you will never play with your wife's son
feels pretty fucking good
Find some single mother, plenty out there, you could probably plant a seed in her and have at least one kid that is your own in addition to raising a couple of your wife's sons
I'd make a good father.
The hard part is finding someone i love and being able to look in their eyes and know i would spend decades with them and is compatible with me in everything.
>>28065552
There is literally nothing wrong with that, and if anything, it's a positive thing considering all the extra freedom you will have.
Don't let the normies brainwash you into thinking otherwise
>tfw arranged marriage
No kids yet though.
>>28065552
As someone who was a virgin for 30 years, then dated for a few on top of that, all I can say is that it really is a classic case of how the grass really does look greener.
You do not even know the meaning of compromise before you've tried to spend an extended period of time with a woman. The enormous amount of effort, almost completely letting go of your "me time", your privacy, your own personal tastes, hobbies, games, everything. Every single minute of every day there's a coin flip of whether someone will start nagging to you about something that you must do right away, when all you wanted was to relax for just even one damn hour. And this is not to even mention the fucking kids, or the prenup / alimony issues.
Your problem is not what you imagine: not having wife and children. It's that you have yet to experience the reality of it, so you buy into all the BS in media, movies, books and games about how romance is somehow wonderful and fulfilling. You actually believe that a woman is this angelic, amazing benevolent creature that will love you and care for you and snuggle and hug and kiss you. Let me promise you that that, is NOT the case.
I know these words won't convince you, you'll have to experience it yourself. It's extremely likely that some day you will. Love, the kind we're actually taught to believe in since early childhood, is a lie. But it's such a powerful lie, because it speaks to our very souls, that most of us never let go of it.
No. We live on the verge of VR and sex bots. In less than a decade, you can have all the companionship you want with almost all of the good sides and none of the bad ones, and without signing off the rest of your life to children, debts, and a nagging monster.
Good riddance, I don't want to pass on my shitty defect genes, and make the same mistake my parents made by having a kid
>nobody will ever be happy to interact with you
>>28066842
Came here to say this, my bloodline is a horrible mix of bad genes, health and mental issues out of the ass, ugly looks etc it would be a fucking crime for me to breed. Not to mention that i have never met a woman that i wanted to do more than just fuck her. I have 0 interest in marriage because i grew up in a horrible broken family and saw other broken families too.
Plato and the communists had one thing right - the kids should be raised by a community, not two parent households, humans aren't meant for this shit, the traditional family is a forced meme so the state can have obedient taxpayers and plebs to do the shit jobs.
>>28066144
That's fucking great until you realize you're alone and don't have a special someone to share experiences with.
>>28066939
you can't share anything with a woman because they think radically different from us, you can share more experiences with a dog or a cat than with a woman i used to think like you but that's just an illusion, women don't give a fuck about that shit
>>28066939
>until you realize you're alone and don't have a special someone to share experiences with
Not really following you there.
>>28066939
You're missing the point.
Having a wife or a long standing GF is not a special someone to share experiences with. See >>28066783 . You think "a wife" is some kind of a holy creature of goodness that will support you and love you and care for you. That's not gonna be the case.
Relationships typically start with at least some excitement, even if both would have some ulterior motives. But quickly within a few months, not to mention years, they even out to exactly how things were before, with one crucial difference: Instead of being on your own, you're now tied to someone else. There's no love, very little any kind of companionship, there's no fucking sharing of experiences because she doesn't give a rat's ass about your problems, and you give very little about hers either. You have your own mutual problems in addition to all the personal shit you're having to deal with, only now you have less than fraction of the money, time and energy to deal with this 2x amount of problems you had before, because you have to carry her garbage as well.
Sure, most people know of one, maybe two actually happy marriages. And then that's it. Do you have any idea how fucking rare it is? Even my best friends who can be honest with me how they feel, say they feel like shit. That they made the kids, they got the wife, but really at this point they're just going through the motions. They don't like that life, but it's what everyone does, so they have this a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do attitude and just wade through the shit like a normal person is expected to do. But they are NOT happy about it.
That's a good thing. No abnormal births, no post natal depressed wife whom I love, no more suffering.
On consense though.
My girlfriend and me are both against marriage and children.
Blessings.
I'm amazed this wasn't an original comment on this board.
>tfw i will never be wife and children
>>28066144
>Do you know what it's like being able to break the law without someone worrying you'll get caught and pitching a fit at you, telling you you don't know what you're doing, even though you did this shit every fucking day before you met them and theres zero fucking enforcement at all?
what do you do?
>>28068607
Sounds like insider trading or steroids
>>28067235
>Sure, most people know of one, maybe two actually happy marriages. And then that's it. Do you have any idea how fucking rare it is? Even my best friends who can be honest with me how they feel, say they feel like shit. That they made the kids, they got the wife, but really at this point they're just going through the motions. They don't like that life, but it's what everyone does, so they have this a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do attitude and just wade through the shit like a normal person is expected to do. But they are NOT happy about it.
This, except I don't know a single happy marriage where both sides are honest, genuine, content, etc... they're all fucked. While being a robot is a lot of pain, nearly every middle-class or lower normalfag is suffering just as much, if not more due to their increased responsibility they can't possibly handle.
Then there's the majority of ugly people I know, with ugly wives, and ugly children. I don't know how those people can even live with themselves. Everything is pointless, and they know it.
>>28068590
You were/are already one of those things. I'm certain of it.
>>28065552
To top it off I don't own a piano and neither know how to play it. It would be nice to express my sadness through music.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't so redpilled. I don't want kids at all, and I don't even think I'll want a wife. I'm not against the concept of a wife, it sounds nice, but I know in reality almost no woman will be worth it.
I'll probably just have many long term relationships with a year or two of random hookups in between them
>>28068663
Well, you can actually buy a keyboard and learn how to play it. Nothing's stopping you.
>>28065552
I don't know that feel.
Stay bitter, beta moons
>>28066860
lol this. Nobody interacts with me voluntarily. Only if they want something. If I got married and had kids I'm 100% sure the woman would divorce me to collect alimony and child support as soon as she could.
Maybe not but you will have a bump OP
>>28068663
music isn't for expressing your fucking feelings, you psychic vampire.
>>28066144
>Do you know what its like to suddenly $200 extra dollars free at the end of every month, that would've gone on placating the wife's cravings for ice cream, 'ethical' meat and other shit?
Holy shit you fucking cuck, maybe it wouldn't happen if you didn't date a fucking jobless girl
I mean my parents have been living together for almost 40 years and if my mom wants a fucking ice cream she takes her fucking money and buy a fucking ice cream by herself
Jesus maybe things will get better the day you stop dating these walking red flags
Meanwhile I'll never have a gf because I'm ugly as fuck
>>28066144
>Do you know what it's like being able to watch the filthiest, most degenerate porn you crave on a 65 inch plasma TV in your living room
>Do you know what it's like being able to break the law
>Do you know what it's like to leave a stack of dishes in the kitchen sink that's a foot high
>Do you know what it's like to never fold the fucking laundry ever again, because you don't fucking care if your shirt is creased
t. Manchild
Have some fucking respect for yourself you pathetic fag. Hating on women is something (and a pretty rational one tbqh) but just because we hate them doesn't mean we are supposed to drown in our own piss
>>28066144
>Do you know what it's like being able to break the law without someone worrying you'll get caught and pitching a fit at you, telling you you don't know what you're doing, even though you did this shit every fucking day before you met them and theres zero fucking enforcement at all?
> pay a 14 year old $5 to do anything you fucking want and not have someone judging your use of *your* fucking money every time you don't spend it on *them*, or 'us', or 'our future'?
>It tastes like fucking bliss, my friend.
sir, I think we're on to something
>>28070385
>muh manchild argument
There's nothing wrong with that. Manhood is a stupid title given to idiots who decide to give up their freedom.
>>28068607
>>28068654
I bet it's smoking weeds lads
>>28065552
Jokes on you coz I already do
>>28068607
>>28068654
Or actually I bet ionline gambling like sports betting
>>28070511
>$5
the economy is doing great
I'm 26 and think it'd be nice to have one kid. But I've always had trouble attracting women who weren't frumpy or overweight, let alone convincing a thin woman to spend two thirds of her life with me and have my child.
On the flip side, like what lots of others are saying in this thread, living in solitude and contemplation should actually be a pretty happy life for us robots. Plus if my sister has kids, I won't necessarily have to worry about cutting off the family bloodline or anything like that.
>tfw you're about to be impregnated by your bf/future husband
>normie coworkers constantly complaining about their wives not letting them do anything fun, their kids misbehaving, and their ex-wives being evil bitches
>welp, guess I better get back to the "ol ball and chain"
>women, can't live with 'em but you can't live without 'em, amirite Anon?
>I can and do live without them
>tfw normies think I know that feel
fucking normalscum falling for the "muh wife n keeds" meme
>>28065552
>tfw ywn cuddle with a woman and fall asleep in each other's arms
>>28065637
I already want to kill myself every moment, one kodak would be fine...
>>28066783
>Love, the kind we're actually taught to believe in since early childhood, is a lie. But it's such a powerful lie, because it speaks to our very souls, that most of us never let go of it.
>>28066783
if you're raised by a single mother you figure this shit out pretty quick
>implying they would even be your children and not tyrones
>>28066144
No, these "pros" are not good, they are degenerate sick and anti-christian. Sin will never make you happy or "free", its an illusion from satan. i love my wife and i love The Lord.
>>28066783
>"You actually believe that a woman is this angelic, amazing benevolent creature that will love you and care for you and snuggle and hug and kiss you. Let me promise you that that, is NOT the case."
>tfw my wife does all of these things to me and i love it
Nice coping mechanism you got there, loser, as long as it makes you sleep better at night ;)
schizophrenia?
>>28065552
I do though senpai, infact she is grilling Tbone steaks for dinner life is good
>>28066914
>it's actually the complete opposite
yes yes good brainwashed goy
>>28067235
>"There's no love, very little any kind of companionship, there's no *** sharing of experiences because she doesn't give a rat's ass about your problems, and you give very little about hers either."
that's why you'll always be alone and unloved.
see, us normal healthy people do actually care about each other. All you need is Jesus in the center of the marriage, only then it will be heaven-like.
>>28068713
yes yes good goy, we have broken you from the original image of God and his original plans for you.
Now join us in hell, where misery and hopelessness abounds.
>>28067235
>Waaa waaa happy marriages don't exist, you can't be happy if you have a gf/wife
Oh yeah tell me how happy I am with muh money and free time
Life is far worse than SHIT when you're lonely. I may have money to spend and free time to do stuff but at some point you just don't have the energy to do anything. My life basically consists in
-Masturbating to hardcore porn and it doesn't even feel good anymore
-Spending money on bitches, at least being able to put my dick in vaginas is cool
-Browsing 4chan
-Playing vidya, and just like porn, it's getting boring as years go by
I'd rather be unhappy with a girl around me tbqh. Being lonely is the worst feel but hey I guess this is something you just can't understand.
>>28070267
Yes it is the greatest artists express they feelings thats why its called a fucking PAINting
>>28065552
>you will never write a beautiful slow movement for a piano concerto
>>28066144
This guy sounds like he's living the dream
>>28066144
Nigga she wasn't the right one than.
>>28066144
>Do you know what it's like to leave a stack of dishes in the kitchen sink that's a foot high while and then pay a 14 year old $5 to do clean the whole fucking kitchen, without someone bitching at you?
You need to remove that line next time because it makes your bait obvious.
>>28073449
>Being lonely is the worst feel but hey I guess this is something you just can't understand.
I do understand, I already said I did. All I did was think about exactly the same things as you do for 3 decades straight. It was only after experiencing the reality of multiple relationships when I understood that all those feels I had from loneliness, all the nights I'd cried myself to sleep and felt like nothing had a point to it anymore... it was all because I didn't really understand the value of all the personal freedom that comes from solitude.
The principle of it is nothing new. Could be you always wanted a hobby, or a job, or to study a specific subject and when you finally get to do it, you just realise that your expectations were a thousand times more glorious than the reality.
But I know you can't take my word for it, neither did I from those who told this to me before I learned it. This is something you need to learn for yourself.
So I hope some day you do get laid and spend an excess amount of time with a girl. You'll find out it's nowhere near as fantastic as you thought it would be.
>>28073240
>Nice coping mechanism you got there, loser, as long as it makes you sleep better at night ;)
schizophrenia?
Nah just a semi normie who used to be more of a geek, so I still come to sites like this.
As for coping mechanism, well everything is a coping mechanism of one kind or another. Does it really matter? The fact of the matter is that I used to be lonely, then I got laid and had GF's, then I learned all that shit sucks anyway. And now I'm alone again, but no longer lonely.
Coping mechanism or not, what matters is that now I focus on my life, my work, my hobbies and my friends. And I'm content. For the first time in my life, for several years straight, I've felt I'm alright, that life is actually pretty good. I don't really care about any freudian implications as to why that would be, as long as I finally enjoy my life.
>small family of 4
>only child
>HAVE to get a wife and children just to keep the family blood going
