I'm a 6-7/10 looking guy, will taking female hormones help me get a gf?
Now hear me out, look at all those host clubs in Japan where the guys almost look like girls. Look at wherever girls describe what they like, they often say stuff like: big lips, smooth skin, large eyes, good hair, and stuff. Guess what? Female hormones give that. Not to mention, I saw a map with women's most looked up porn tag the other day and in the West it seemed to be predominantly lesbian or teen. I'm not insane am I? I'm pretty sure this will be a good idea, am I right robots? What do you think?
>>27976610
If you're really a 6 or 7 out of 10 looking guy, then you should be able to get a gf.
>Now hear me out, look at all those host clubs in Japan where the guys almost look like girls
That's because asian male attractiveness is based on looking as feminine as possible. It doesn't work that way in the west.
>I saw a map with women's most looked up porn tag the other day and in the West it seemed to be predominantly lesbian or teen
Those aren't women, those are crossdressing men whose buying and search pattern makes google analytics identify them as women
>>27976816
>It doesn't work that way in the west.
How so?
>those are crossdressing men whose buying and search pattern makes google analytics identify them as women
This just sounds like making stuff up
>>27976610
The boobs are an issue anon, watch out for your boobs. Check out femgen, I think they came up with a way to counteract booby growth if you start it early. I'm basically just a tranny in boymode (hrt for about 7 months) but I can tell you what that's been like as far as being more attractive on hormones goes. Keep in mind that I also lost a lot of weight so that skews this as well. I'm also manlet with a babyface.
Hrt cleared up my skin, made my eyes wider, slightly plumped my lips and gave me a crazy hip to waist ratio. I basically walk around like pic related now. I've had girls, pretty girls, spaghetti at me and I'm not even done losing weight. I get constant compliments on my hair and youthfulness. Women have told me outright that they don't consider me a real man. I also still wear my old baggy clothes so that's limiting my appeal as well, when I can dress more androgynous I'm positive I'll get even more attention.
You may not want it (potentially you might after hrt though) but I have also noticed that guys treat me different. Not gay men, they don't seem interested at all which was a shock. It's funny but it's straight guys that have been extra willing to help me, compliment me, tease me or generally treat me like their little sister in public. I've been called adorable by straight guys.
Just weigh that against your genetics and the downfalls of hrt, come to your own decision.
best case you may fuck a qt, worst case you will be raped by tyrone. either case tyrone fucks someone.
>>27976610
if you take female hormones, your body is going to compensate by upping testosterone. You're going to have hair loss in the wrong places, hair growth in the wrong places, constant pain, irritability, weight gain, acne, and possible depression.
IF you were going to do ths, it would need to be under a dr's supervision, and you'd need to be on testosterone blockers, along with a host of other things. If just having female hormones made us hot, we'd all be on the pill and hot.
>>27977541
Sounds pretty good fampai except for the
>Women have told me outright that they don't consider me a real man.
Not sure how that's good unless you're a tranny
Also I'm 6ft tall so effects may vary...
>>27977835
I know enough to take female hormones and test blockers at the same time, everything you said is dumb.
>>27976610
Depends on a lot of factors.
You may end up cute but attracted to men.
You may end up ugly as fuck.
You may get health issues from some of the meds side effects (there's a shitload of estrogen, anti androgens, etc variants with different side effects).
You may end up getting hurt badly depending on where you live.
>>27977907
Being six foot changes things, you could probably pull off the combination of masculinity and femininity that makes a femboy hot. I'm 5'7, so I don't really come across as manly at all.
>>27977541
>they came up with a way to counteract booby growth if you start it early
Yeah starving yourself so you're chronically overweight lel
>>27977963
>You may end up cute but attracted to men.
Better than attractive to women and getting nothing.
>You may end up ugly as fuck.
Wide eyes, big lips, smooth skin, and nice hair are bad looking now? Remember that those bad looking trannies are bad looking because they look like 40 year old guys in makeup and women's clothes. If anything, it's the lack of effect they get from hormones at that age that dooms them, not the other way around. I'm just a regular guy who will look more feminine.
>You may get health issues from some of the meds side effects (there's a shitload of estrogen, anti androgens, etc variants with different side effects).
I'll research a good distributer first
>You may end up getting hurt badly depending on where you live.
Who just beats up a random guy because he looks slightly feminine? Also I'm at uni so probably not.
>>27978117
>I'll research a good distributer first
No anon, you have to find an endocrinologist and tell him you're transgender.
You need to do blood tests, find what your levels are, what kind of shit you can take to properly change your body without giving you a stroke.
>Who just beats up a random guy because he looks slightly feminine?
As I said, depending on where you live people will beat both fagbois and trannies. So take care.
>>27978161
If I remember correctly I've seen a lot of trannies just order online
>>27976610
no
taking female hormones to make girls attracted to you is the craziest thing i've heard in a long time.
if you actually want to be a girl, go to /lgbt/. i'm sure they have some info for you.
>>27976610
Mtf here
No you dumb faggot.
No.
Gender dysphoria is fucking mental torture.
You know how I survived?
Snoking weed, drinking non fucking stop so I was almost never sober and cutting myself so the endorphins would numb me out like a fucking heroin junkie.
Whatever problems you think you have are nothing compared to gender dysphoria.
I would never ever ever wish this upon anyone.
I begged for death everyday trying to od on alcohol and putting guns in my mouth feeling too guilty about ruining other people's lives with my suicide.
Please don't take hormones and risk making yourself like this.
Please just work out or just force yourself to be more pushy and arrogant.
Please I don't want you to suffer like I do.
Dont fuck up your life just because you're scared to talk to girls.
The only way too fix it would be to give you Test shots and you'll have a heart attack and die.
Don't do that to yourself.
I would chop off my arm to not have suffered under the wrong hormone.
Nothing feels worse than having the wrong hormone in your body
>>27976816
Women watch lesbian porn because it's more about the clit/eating out/etc. rather than shoving a cock into a vagina.
>>27978237
I know but every time I see that I feel terrible because it's dangerous since the estrogen in some of those meds can do a lot of damage to the person and on the best case, they just won't have any effect since their dosage has to be calculated based on your hormonal levels from your blood tests.
I also understand that some transgirls can be desperate and sometimes they can't just go do a doctor to do it which sucks.
Anyways if you are able to talk to a professional do it else at least find the endocrinologist tripfag on mtfg she sometimes posts in there and could at least give you some info to make it less dangerous to your own body.
Good luck anon that wants to be a girl? or femboi not really sure.
>>27978304
>taking hormones makes you transgender
They're not magic, I'm not going to poof transform into a full fledged girl. I'll just be a guy with better skin and shit.
>>27977541
>Hrt cleared up my skin
I used to be one of those chronic acne sufferers that could never get rid of it no matter how hard I tried. Turned out nuking my test levels with HRT was a sure fire hit and I wish I did it earlier. My waist/hip didn't grow much though, so I'm jelly.
>>27976610
seems to me you just want a gf, it will be much easier and cheaper to just get in better shape, fix your skin, work on your crippling social anxieties, and whatever else
trying to make you face look more feminine by taking estrogen wont work (it'll more likely make your body take on a more feminine shape) and is not going to get you a gf if you still act like a complete autist
>>27978379
I probably should've said, I started at 19 but I had a fairly stunted puberty. I think that contributed to the hips.
>>27978428
Dang 19 is nice. I started about 4 months before 21 after fighting it for a while.
>>27978292
uh i came out and got on hormones and within 5 months got a gf
whatever anon
>>27978304
I had dysphoria but it didn't drive me to self hatred or self medicating or anything. it's contextual, it depends on the people around you and your relationships to them
nobody suffers the same, which is why it's absurd to try and compare it in similarities and in differences.
>>27978334
have you fucking seen lesbian porn? there's so much anal fisting and pegging and shit it's ridiculous.girls are more comfortable doing stuff like that with other girls, plenty would never let a dude stick even a finger in their butt.
>>27978541
sounds like you actually wanted to be a girl, though, not just as a means of getting a gf
>>27978541
in fact, girls are more comfortable taking a girl's dick than an icky man penis because of that comfort.
>>27978563
i did, I guess it's different then. I'm just saying it works, but you'll probably get some dysphoria from looking/feeling so feminine.
>>27978541AGP.
Sorry I couldn't resist, on a more serious tone it's nice that you found someone and is enjoying some happiness.
I still think it's creepy as fuck when someone says "I will transition to get a gf" but in your case it seems you always wanted to be a woman and not just a weirdo with a feminization fetish.
>>27978576
>in fact, girls are more comfortable taking a girl's dick than an icky man penis because of that comfort.
Nevermind I take that back you're agp transbian.
>>27978600
tf is agp?
yeah that's totally creepy, but I think if someone is motivated enough in that sense to do it, maybe they have some female identity anyways. at the same time, maybe they're just really lonely and can't stand it. fuck that.
>>27978614don't worry I'm just pretending to be an idiot:^)
girls are alienated by my girldick when they find out. it's like a twilight zone thing and they lose sexual interest, aside from some "oh taboo things!" curiosity.
basically, unless they're already into (or really opposed) traps, they wont care. which is good, because I don't want someone who isn't anyways. that would be like a guy wanting a straight guy to be in a serious gay relationship with. it just doesn't work
>>27976610
In all honesty looking androgynous might attract certain girls, and the girls it attract will probably not be as particular about men being confident or assertive.
At the same time, you will have trouble achieving or maintaining an erection. That's a huge issue. It will also shrink your cock slightly. If you want to attract straight men and you can pass this is a fine idea, but doing it to attract women probably isn't worth it.
>>27978697
>you will have trouble achieving or maintaining an erection. That's a huge issue. It will also shrink your cock slightly.
neither of those are guaranteed to happen
>>27978711
No but it's a pretty big risk. It would probably be wise to get a Cialis or Viagra prescription before you start taking hormones just in case.
>>27977541
>tfw the gay and trannyfag propaganda is starting to get to you even you know it's all bullshit
Fucking loneliness. Can't take it anymore.
>>27978614
>>27978674
oh ok, I gotcha
no I had a bf too for a year while I was transitioning. he was supportive, not very attractive physically but he was really funny and super nice to be around. i loved him, he even came out to his homophobic religious parents as bi. they said he'd get over it. broke up cause he had too much work and was going away for a while. maybe we'll get back together. oh well.
I never had any real relationships til i came out though. since then, only two.
this girl is fucking crazy though. long history of abuse and her alcoholic dad almost died yesterday. he was on life support but rather than take him off and let him die they put him on some meds which have like a 50/50 chance or so of keeping him alive.
I do wanna be with another trap though, but really I don't care about people's bodies as much as I care about how they handle other people.
>>27978750
it is a risk for sure. I don't think op should do it unless he feels like he could really live as a girl. can trans girls even take viagra and stuff?
>>27978801
>can trans girls even take viagra and stuff?
I'd be really surprised if they couldn't. Biological women sometimes use it to deal with circulation issues.
>>27976610
Tranny here. Are you an idiot, it will kill your sex drive, make you infertile and you will grow breasts.
>>27977541
how old were you when yous tarted?
>>27978799
Anon everything I posted there is 100% accurate. The only reason I didn't post a picture to go with it is because I'm still losing weight and I'm uncomfortable being seen when I've only realized about 25% of my potential. By summer I hope to hit at least 50% and I can cam a little. Is there some way I can convince you this is real? Would you like a picture of my hormones?
>>27978925
19, see >>27978428
>>27978799
yes goy do it! you will make lots of friends! meet lots of women!
>>27978117
If you become attracted to guys and you're in the UK then date me.
>>27978935
Lucky you. I'm 24. People say I look 17 though so i dunno how that will affect my chances of passing.
>>27978304
>tfw just feel a bit bummed out over being born male
>tfw will never be trutrans
>>27978957
>tfw people think you're in middle school
JUSTgive me more adult clothing
>>27978993
The way I see it if you're upset at being male and the only other gender around is female, your decision should be obvious. It's the only other thing to be besides male, why not try to be it?
>>27978941
R-really, mr.Shekelstein?
I will... make friends?
>>27979012
>go to gym
>buy ticket
>"we have a junior gym as well if you're interested"
>"um ok, what's the age limit for that?"
>"16 and under"
>>27979026
That's my reasoning. I'm waiting for laser and weight loss and then I can start HRT. I'm excited. I told my mum you know a guy is serious when he says he's excited about having his dick cut off.
>>27979114
>before coming out
>on OKC as male looking for straight women
>11 replies out of 400 messages sent
>after coming out
>on OKC dressed as a girl looking for lesbians
>23 replies out of 77 messages sent
the choice is yours..
>>27979155
Good on you. I should tell you though, there's no reason not to start HRT asap unless you are crazy overweight. And even then I was quite the fatty when I started out. It takes roughly 6 months for you to be able to put on tissue in a feminine pattern, plenty of time for you to start cutting. Then when you're done you can bulk up and reap the benefits of a female pattern of growth. That's my basic plan anyway, though I'm still cutting because weed gives me crazy munchies and slowed things down. Still, gonna be cute in the summer.
You can do it anon.
>>27979249
Is it? That's good to hear because the thought of getting more masculine as I wait is making me paranoid. Every morning I check to see if my jaw has gotten bigger.
I'm 5'11", 211 lb
Thanks for your support anon.
>>27979324
I was much grosser than you when I started (thank you depression) you can totally get on hrt right now while you take care of business. I'd support anybody who wants to control their development.
>>27979355
>comfort eating
iktf
Not having a gf by 19 is nothing to fuck with your hormones over
>>27977541
>It's funny but it's straight guys that have been extra willing to help me, compliment me, tease me or generally treat me like their little sister in public.
>tfw slightly andro
>tfw straight friends who are more masculine treat me like a little sister
I kind of like the feel.
