I just wish I could hear recordings of normal first dates and normal meetups so I knew what normal socialising sounded like.
recordings..?
all you gotta do is be yourself and talk! ask em a question or two, get them comfortable. good luck bud, you'll see it's actually quite easy!
:^)
>>27453109
>ywn live in an old bomb shelter miles from the nearest towns and highways
I wish I could hire an escort, with the whole GFE thing, and then have her stop everything every five minutes or so and go over what just happened, what I did right, what I did wrong, and what's going to happen next, from meeting her all the way through sleeping with her.
Will never happen though, even hookers hate being a guy's first (I had a screencap to that effect but I can't find it) And even if it did my autist's preference for rote learning does little good in socializing anyway, if you can't do it the "right way" by actually reading people and responding to them naturally on the fly, it'll never work
>>27453109
one thing you can do is watch shows on netflix that show human interaction. Even shows like parks and rec have characters with good social skills you can learn from. Just make sure not to imitate the stupid characters
>>27453109
Tarantino films are good for this. His dialogue in all his movies seems very authentic.
>>27453511
I've always found just watching other people (especially on TV) to be like trying to learn math by watching someone do it, without explanation. It works poorly, and I wish I had worked examples where they explain what each step is and why it works how it does.
We were supposed to learn that shit while we were growing up but instead we quietly sat in the back in every class and played video games all day so now we're fucked
>>27453109
you do? tell me more