How am I supposed to "love myself" when I consciously know I'm ugly and shitty?
loving yourself is just a meme
life aint a Disney movie, kid
i dunno
i hate everything about myself, if i saw another one of me i'd beat him up
>>25506484
Its actually not a meme, Just stop giving a shit what people think.
Everyone hates on the "outcasts" and "weebs" that act like losers in public and go to card tourneys or minecraft shit. I guarantee they have more genuine fun then anyone talking shit.
I'm not even any of that shit, actually the opposite I'm tall, good looking, and outgoing. I still respect anyone that isn't a fake more then any person that hides shit. I used to care what people thought and when I stopped my life changed.
>>25506582
>Just stop giving a shit what people think.
>I'm tall, good looking, and outgoing.
Go fuck yourself dude.
>>25506494
This to be quite honest familia.
Also, >>25506442 thats a bad manga.
>>25506582
What if we can't handle the autism that comes with living that kind of life?
>>25506582
>Poor people, just stop caring about money! I'm rich, and it worked for me!
>>25506442
I wanna drip dry a self hating robot
>>25506706
Idk what drip dry means, but urban dictionary gave me this: "A move that females have perfected as a result of no toilet paper/lack of sanitary conditions."
>tfw ugly, self-hating, AND submissive
Fuck. Fuck this. I can't live like this. I'm barely a man.
>>25506756
i think in this context, use all their money up
>>25506442
How are you shitty?
No anon, you're the most beautiful thing on this green earth, even if you dont think so i know you are.
>>25506756
Not what I mean at all!
>>25506794
Let me drain you.
I want to drain you.
>>25506808
No confidence, no self-esteem, can't look people in the eyes, no hobbies or interests, unconsciously lie for no reason to impress/please people, think rude things in my head about everything, can barely hold a conversation with either gender.
>>25506484
this
the funny thing about confidence and self-esteem is that you can only have it without constant validation from other people if you're some kind of blissfully retarded
>>25506442
You don't have to love yourself, shame is useful just don't get lost in it. Take what you hate about yourself and work on it.
If you're shit loving yourself isn't going to make you better.
>>25506832
Do you have some odd succubus fetish?
>>25506442
It is just one of the normie lies. If you figure it out late and can't deal with it you'll have a bad time.
>>25506908It's a blood fetish.
But I'm greatly turned on by sirens. I would be a male siren if I could.
Dont, just end it.
I want to be loved maybe three days a week. I don't need somebody here every day, but a few nights of cuddling would be just fine.
>>25506832
>I want to drain you.
D-drain me of what?
>>25506953
>It's a blood fetish.
>>25506953
I thought you wanted to drain his balls. Guess I'm a pervert.
>>25506963I'd chemically castrate you, don't get your hopes up
>>25506987
You should be ashamed of thinking I was suggesting something so sick and vile. What is wrong with you.
I just want someone to legitimately value me and love me, but I don't feel like I'm worth it. Anyone that loves me would be settling.
I want my love for someone to be reciprocated. It never has.
>>25506442
How can i ever love anyone if i can't love myself?
>>25507036
I have a crippling addiction to internet pornography.
>>25507076
Super easily, actually.
You should ask the reverse. How can anyone love YOU if you don't love yourself?
>>25507108
that just makes it a double negative though. t-thanks anon.
>>25507036
>I'd chemically castrate you, don't get your hopes up
So you're looking for a girl?
>>25507122
I'm a toaster salesman, and you're looking to buy a toaster. Here's my sales pitch:
"Th-this is a pretty bad toaster, I don't like it much myself, I m-mean it's okay but it doesn't heat things up great... w-would you like to buy it?"
Would you buy this toaster? Or would you buy a toaster that the salesman is confident in?
>>25507093
A few snips is all it would take, you won't need it any longer.
Completely numb, sterile, spayed.
>>25507149
No.
I'm looking for a boy, a self hating masochistic nobody.
>>25507150
I guess you're right, why the fuck even try to sell myself as a toaster then.
i'm probably destined to be a wizard.
>>25507150
Even if you lie and get them to buy the toaster, they're still going to return it or throw it away when they try it and find that it doesn't make toast.
>>25507221
But they might get attached to it. It's a little kitschy and ties the room together. It's an endearing toaster and it tries, even if it doesn't work so good.
>>25507155
This is an oddly specific fetish of mine, pls no mute again.
>>25506442
You can't. Not for as long as you see yourself as ugly and shitty. The logical solution would be to improve oneself. If you no longer see yourself as ugly and shitty, then you may find yourself worth of love and might (hopefully) end up loving yourself.
But in many ways this is a vicious circle. It takes a lot of motivation and a good deal of luck to escape robothood if you're already in too deep to the point of really hating yourself (instead of tumblr teenage angst hate).
>>25507255
What's the point if I can't drain you?
I would've thought more people would want to be set free.
>>25507360
what's your end-game
do you drink it or what
>>25507369
Jeez man, so much stuff.
I wouldn't say it on here anyway. Something about it is so lewd and romantic.
>>25506678
>>25506609
I wasnt fucking in shape or good looking when I stopped giving a shit, I was the exact opposite. I was a fat loser with no motivation then I stopped caring now I have an amazing life.
>>25506641
Does it matter if you have friends? Have fun? The best way to meet a chick as well is to join a club with similar interests.
>>25507360
They don't want to die.
>>25507550
Cool, I got fit and I'm still hideous and still feel terrible and can't look at myself in a mirror.
Just accept you're shitty and hope you come across some other shitty ugly woman. Then you can settle for each other and live an unhappy life together.
Ugly people don't have good lives. That's just how it goes.
>implying you are shallow as fuck.
That is what you get for thinking like that.
>>25507250
But anon, we're not toasters.
>>25507935
You're right, you're not very hot at all
You just have to be so stupidly confident that you're blinded by your own flaws and live in a make believe world where you're perfect. No loss or failure is your fault, it's always someone else. That way you can never lose, and therefore you'll be a winner, meaning that you can love yourself since you have no flaws! Flawless logic if I do say so.
>>25507150
I would buy a toaster that can actually fucking toast.
>>25507250
Why would I get attached to a broken object? I would be mad that I was lied to and be even more cautious the next time someone asshole tried to sell me a toaster.
>>25507959
but unlike a toaster you have the potential to repair yourself
sometimes being bought is all the motivation you need
>>25507550
If only it were that easy to "just stop caring".
>>25507809
Settling is my worst fear. I don't want to settle, man. I want someone that I love, who loves me. I don't want a relationship where we just mutually tolerate each other.
>>25507636
Just keep it up, or you'll hate yourself even more when you gain the weight back.
>>25507980
There is nothing to repair. I am who I am. I'm not lovable nor am I capable of being loved. Did I want this life? Nah. It's just the way things are though, and I'm slowing coming into full acceptance that it will end this way as well.
>>25506442
>basing your self-worth on whether or not your physically attractive or if girls want to date you
Absolutely disgusting.
There's only one metric for judging how much you should love yourself:
>How close am I to becoming Leonardo da Vinci?
>>25508002
>Just keep it up
Why? What is the fucking point? I just want to give up and die.
>>25507221
That falsely presumes there even is a "sales pitch", no contact with human beings makes it pretty easy to become delusional.
Not that any of this is relevant, the question asked how to love oneself.
>>25506442
The self is an elusive entity. Maybe it doesn't exist. Maybe it permeates all throughout the universe. Schrodinger thought so.
The self you're referring to only exists in reference of your body to reality. Adapt. You have to make your own judgements, ultimately, even if that means following someone else or conforming to social standards.
>>25508035
Suicide is absolutely the answer, I meant in the scope of being alive. Getting fit and then returning to a pudgy gross fucker is an awful feeling.
>>25508026
>In the normal course of events many men and women are born with remarkable talents; but occasionally, in a way that transcends nature, a single person is marvellously endowed by Heaven with beauty, grace and talent in such abundance that he leaves other men far behind
whoops, I'm ugly and have no talents
da vinci was the renaissance equivalent of a chad
>>25508026
what, you mean the perfectly sculpted master of aesthetics and fine art? the vitruvian man? the mona lisa?
and "shitty," is more of a reference to a spiritual condition than anything.
>>25508001
>I want love
>post a picture of an insanely beautiful woman sticking her bare ass in the air while playing a videogame
>>25508131
>>25508136
>talent is inborn and polymaths are just naturally that good at everything
Even more disgusting.
This is exactly the kind of thinking that would make Leonardo cringe and shudder with disbelief.
You both clearly have a long way to go.
>>25508162
Love manifests itself in many ways. It's much easier to love someone that's attractive.
>>25508168
talent IS inborn, fucker
>>25507566
Wouldn't it be fun?
>>25506442
You don't.
You know you look like shit and no matter what you do, you'll still look like shit if it's not your weight.
You'll learn to ignore it and everyday you'll hope that some remotely attractive girl/guy(not like gays have standards) is fucked up in the head enough to want you.
>>25508189
No, it isn't.
Leonardo was an apprentice to engineers and artists for many years before he became the beacon of greatness that we know him as. Van Gogh didn't start painting until his late twenties. Teddy Roosevelt was a sickly and nervous child.
>>25506484
I love myself, though. It's not that hard to do.
It's not a meme. Consciously choose to improve until you're happy with what you do in life. Learn a skill, master a hobby, accomplish a goal, commit to a responsibility. Take little tasks and small victories and the self confidence each little bit gives you will snowball in to more self confidence and tackling bigger tasks, and it creates the feedback loop known as being happy with yourself.
>>25508233
No you don't. You wouldn't be here otherwise.
>>25508195
u 1st
>>25508233
BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
>>25508239
That's not how it works, but normalfags like won't understand, you'll just continue spouting empty platitudes.
>>25508189
Pretty much. Some people are born with talent, they're lucky, they find out that talent, and they roll with it and make tons of money. Then you have people who are born broken. See, they receive autism bux, free rides to college, disability, etc., and nobody looks down on them because they were born that way. Yet everyone looks up to those with talent despite them also just being born that way. Then there's us, stuck right in the middle. We're born well enough that people expect us to have talent, but we don't. We're expected to compete against those that have talent, and when we can't, we're seen as failures. Us talentless folk just live a depressing life of mediocrity and struggle because everything is blamed on us for "not trying hard enough," and we're held to impossible standards. So we struggle and claw trying to not be failures our whole lives, wagekek'ing it up, and then we hit our old age and realize that we're still mediocre and wasted our entire lives working towards and impossible goal.
So fuck that bullshit, I'm just gonna be lazy and leech off of those who were born lucky with talent.
>>25508239
I can't be happy with myself until I know that someone else is.
As much as you epic fucking eunuch memers want to claim otherwise, human contact and affection is extremely important to mental health. I'm not some autistic savant who can just sit alone in their room doing math and being happy.
>>25508260
You're cute Anon.
>>25508253
I'm here for self amusement.
>>25508263
That's not what was implied. If you have negative traits, fix them. If they're unfixable, accept that you can't change them and ignore them from then on.
>>25508291
you're moving away from a self-centered perception of reality to one that's ENGAGED WITH THE WORLD AROUND YOU.
Maybe the self is an illusion. Maybe the self is all there is and reality is an illusion. It doesn't fucking matter either way.
The job is real. The work of art that you can share with other people. The analogies and bits of wisdom, when people are impressed by what you do and are grateful. Getting your shit done right. You can say all of that is empty fake bullshit masturbation for idiots if you want, I don't care. The bar is set by your willingness to believe.
>>25508333
I've got to say, I'm really enjoying your consistency with these pictures.
Well done. ^^
>>25508338
How long can I ignore glaringly obvious flaws until they eat away at my mind and I kill myself from loneliness and self-hatred?
Sometimes I wish I was retarded. Retarded people live life in a fog where they don't know how bad they have it and even the smallest things give joy. People like me, are like Eve biting the apple. There's no going back. You get the knowledge of how shitty you are and it's impossible to ignore.
I wish I was oblivious or naive enough to "just ignore" my flaws.
>>25508291
>I don't need to bother trying because this is just for NORMIES and CHADS, and it inexplicably won't work for me.
Classic /r9k/ mental defence mechanism to stifle self improvement. Convenient irrefutable excuse!
>>25508381
Because I'm too lazy to get more.
>>25508338
>>25508374
>>25508404
>just fix your problems
WHAT DOES THIS MEAN
WHAT DOES THIS FUCKING M E A N
PAINTING A PORTRAIT OR LEARNING HOW TO PLAY GUITAR IS NOT GOING TO MAKE ME ANY LESS OF A HORRIBLE FUCKING MISANTHROPIC LOSER
IF THIS IS THE ONLY ADVICE YOU HAVE THEN DON'T EVEN BOTHER TYPING IT, IT'S WASTED TIME FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED
>>25508408
Not him, but you seem like you'd be fun to have an image war with.
>>25508408
At least you're posting some. It's entertaining. Most people don't bother.
>>25508315
this post is way too real for me
>>25508404
I don't like that advise because it's so generic.
>do a,b,c and everything will be fixed! I promise, just do it man!
Man, I been there and done it all. Sometimes, some people are just broken as fuck.
But I have to apologize. I know you're just trying to give advise and help some people out.
I just feel as If I been lied to so when I head people talk like that, it ruffles my feathers.
>>25506442
You gotta find something even if it's something super small that you love about yourself and that you wouldn't change for anything. Just start small. That's how I did it. Ive had a little scar since I was 5 and it's always been a part of me. I keep changing but the scar is always the same. Nobody else has the same scar so it's special for me. From there I found more things to enjoy about myself. I'm now at the point where I love everything about myself even though I recently got a terrible haircut that many people think looks bad. I still love myself and think I look great with it. I may be deluded but at least I love myself and I'm happy
>>25508452
>>25508466
>all these unspayed qt's itt
>>25508525
I love and respect your attitude, but I can't do this. If I had a scar or something, I'd just obsess about how stupid or awful it makes me look.
>>25508525
I wish I could live a life of self delusion.
>mfw I found out that the ability to get better and improve is an ability in itself
>>25508403
>>25508428
>ignoring
No, that's not what you need to do at all, you manchild. That's how bronies and similar scum come to be.
First, you have to identify all your flaws. Once you've done so, sort them by ability to rectify, and after that, by importance of presentation.
Do you have a small or circumcised dick? Are you below 6 feet? Sucks, but you're not going to do anything about it. Leave it be.
Does your hair look like shit? Are you fat? Do you have no dress sense? Good, you can fix these things. Go to a hairdresser (make sure they're the same gender as you, though) and ask them for advice regarding keeping your hair presentable. Next, go to /fit/, there's plenty of resources when it comes to losing weight, and alternatively actually getting fit. This isn't a necessity, but it obviously makes you look more appealing and breeds a healthy, active lifestyle, so it doesn't hurt looking into. That leaves having no dress sense. Ask /fit/ for this as well. Don't ask /fa/. /fa/ is a meme.
Granted, all of this requires willpower. If you're going to claim you don't have any willpower to do this, then you aren't actually as self hating as you claim to be, and therefore deserve to remain in the dirt.
It's also worth mentioning to stop being so fucking brainwashed by infographics and shitposting you read on the internet.
>Sometimes I wish I was retarded
We all do, friend.
>>25508551
Of course I'm not spayed, I'm male.
>>25508428
what i'm saying is get away from being that depressing motherfucker, because the longer you stay there, the harder it's going to be to drag yourself away. don't worry about it. forget it. if an idea is destructive to your psyche and there's no good reason to keep it around, jettison that shit.
advice won't help you. i can't walk for you.
if you're going to be a misanthrope, at least have the common courtesy to be attempt a systematic criticism of one of society's dysfunctional elements.
for example, if you see a hit-and-run car crash into a pedestrian, and you don't bother trying to save the guy's life or get the person's license plates, don't call 911, keep going on with your day, that kind of makes you an asshole.
>>25508587
this only means I'm disabled in more ways than one
>>25508620
>>ignoring
>No, that's not what you need to do at all, you manchild.
Can I quote verbatim from your previous post?
>>25508338
>If you have negative traits, fix them. If they're unfixable, accept that you can't change them and ignore them from then on.
>and ignore them
>and ignore them
>and ignore them
>>25508554
Hey thanks man. I know its hard, I'm not Saying it's going to be east for you or happen quickly. That was just my own spin on it. You gotta find something that makes you feel the same way, it could be anything. You still have a lot of your life to live and I'm sure you'll figure it out one day. The main thing is to never stop trying.
>>25508570
I'm not completely delusional, just a bit. Nobody goes through life completely normal.
ITT: attractive happy people tell ugly sad people that their problems are not real
>>25508620
>good haircut
>getting fit
>nice clothing
lipstick on a pig
my face is inherently unappealing. and that's something that i can't just get over. it's the number 1 factor in someone respecting or loving you.
>>25508635
>tfw will never castrate you and shoe your father that I turned his little boy into a little girl
How do you think he would react?
>>25508711
"I can't say I'm surprised this happened, you always were a little weird."
>>25506442
I know this is going to sound kinda silly & cliche, but meditation actually helps.
I've been meditating at least twice a day for the past few days now, and now my mind's just pretty much focused on the present as far as I can tell. Prior to that, I would literally not go a day without feeling like shit and letting negativity get the best of me.
>>25508684
>my face is unappealing
Too bad, can't do anything about it. All you can do is accept it the way it is. What you can do is the same thing everyone else do, and enhance or mask your features.
>it's the number 1 factor in someone respecting or loving you.
In high school, it is indeed. But you're not in high school, are you? You're of mature age already, are you not? You know better than to be as superficial as the normies, chads and stacies you claim to hate with your entire being, don't you?
>>25508648
No. ACCEPT and ignore, not just ignore. There's a big difference, shithead.
>>25508668
i have bitch lips, a weak jaw, and my sex drive is warped beyond any hopes of having a sexual relation with a female. i think we're all headed towards catastrophe and the only people who can do anything to stop it, or at least make sure the right people are held accountable, are too busy being full of their own smugness.
more poorly stolen bullshit platitudes.
this is what i'm saying: stop focusing on yourself. don't ask, "who will love me?" there's someone out there in the world for you. and there's someone else out there who will put you to utter fucking shame as a human being, render you completely fucking obsolete. don't put your love in flesh and blood if you can't cope with the fact it is destined to wither and die.
>>25508767
You mean he won't get super angry? He's no fun.
>>25508792
>In high school, it is indeed. But you're not in high school, are you?
shut the fuck up you stupid tripfag, it's true everywhere
the halo effect is a real thing
>>25508646
Indeed you are anon. It's not your fault though! You can't help how you were born, right? So don't blame yourself about it and beat yourself up over it. It just means that any failure relating to the way you were born are also subsequently not your fault either! So actually, if the failure surrounding your inability is not your fault, then you yourself have never truly failed. These chads out there talk about how you have to fail over and over and keep trying, because here's the thing, they keep getting better through all their failures, because they fail at things that they're innately good at to begin with. It's like they're fine tuning their machines, their talents. The machine is already built, and the adjustments are being made and tried until the machine is perfected. You never had a machine to begin with, so it makes no sense for these chad's to tell you that you need to learn from your failures and grow, when A - you can't, and B - these failures are not your fault. If chad fails and doesn't improve his innate talents, that's his fault, but you have no talents so you can't be blamed for not improving something that doesn't exist. If it did exist, then you would also need the talent that lets you get better after you fail, which you also weren't born with, just like the rest of us. Only thing you gotta realize is that if nothing is actually your fault because of circumstance, then you are the perfect one, not chad. You have not made flaws and mistakes, so therefore you are perfect.
>>25507181
look in the mirror cunt
>>25508668
More like robots dwelling on shit that they cannot change.
>>25508811
Only if you choose to interact with nothing but highschoolers. Yes, those exist outside of highschool, and it's your own stupid fault for continuing to interact with them in any way, shapre or form.
You love yourself by not being shitty. It's not like you're just supposed to accept who you are lol. You take care of yourself and do things that make you feel good about yourself. Don't just continue being shitty. Jesus. It's not that fucking complicated
>>25508819
But I'm not masochistic. I'm sadistic if anything.
>>25508806
Sorry to disappoint. Nothing I can do about it.
>>25508827
you're seriously pissing me off
EVERYONE thinks this. you're not some enlightened fucking superior being who sees people's true natures on a glance. you see an ugly person, it's automatically assumed they're a worse person and less attractive. whether or not you choose to actually find out about them is another thing, but first impressions are the most important thing in how you view someone, and if you're ugly, you're going to have a fucking worse first impression than someone who is attractive. that's just reality.
>>25508847
Wow, thank you for this amazing advice!
"Just stop being bad."
Wow. Damn. Have you considered writing a book?
>>25508862
Oh Anon, you haven't disappointed me.are you my suicide pact buddy?
>>25508847
Nothing makes me feel good about myself.
>>25508849
Are you sadistic enough to pee and spit on me, slap me around, and call me your useless slave and order me to make you tea?
>>25508885
Sounds good to me, not like I've got anything else scheduled.
>>25508903That's novice stuff, but yes
>>25508938
Where do you live?
>>25508867
Well that's when you prove their first impression right or wrong depending on how you act and speak.
You are right, but it is not that black and white. How you carry yourself is another major part of first impressions. And you can always work toward improving your social skills.
Find something you're good at, and pursue it, goddammit.
(Inb4 "I'm not good at anything :( boo hoo") Yes you are. Everyone who is capable of rational thought has a talent, go out there and find yours.
>>25508903
Traditional gender roles is hardly sadist.
>>25508989
it just feels shitty to have the cards stacked against you from the get-go
it's not like i exactly have a winning personality. but that shit wouldn't matter if i was handsome, i could be boring and people would hang on my every word.
>>25508994
I'm only good at shitposting, can I be the best one day?
>>25508994
So we should just be ourselves? You. I like you.
>>25508867
people are still apes. and attractiveness is a reliable predictor of grip strength, upper body strength, generalized health.
so you're ugly. i'm ugly. are peoples judgements unfair? or is it the fact that you were raised by television and daycare, on saturated fats and sugars, with food laced with antibiotics and hormones and shit in the water that throw off your gut flora and hormone distribution. that the starting gun went off, the call to action, and you, spending your entire life sitting on your ass jerking off to videogames, pretended it never happened, and your body and mind continued to atrophy.
so now you're left with a choice. continue being a pod-person garbage-eating media drone the rest of your life, let the system continue producing more miserable failure versions of yourself that eventually will be blamed for the downfall of society, if you want to.
>>25508867
>everyone thinks this
Because it's true, dummy.
>first impressions are the most important thing in how you view someone
Correct, that's why you can enhance your positive features while hiding your bad features. It's just that highschoolers value looks over personality, and actual mature human beings value personality over looks.
You simply don't know this because you're just as immature, and are likely just projecting your own version of first impressions (which is, unsurprisingly, looks over personality). This is why you're so self obsessed with your looks.
You need to grow up.
>>25508988
Utah, I'm afraid.
>>25509021
Dude get paid to shill blacked videos or vice clickbait. That seems to have jobs open.
>>25508988
>That's novice stuff, but yes
I'm afraid to ask what advance stuff is. I just want to serve and please and feel like I'm worthless is all..
>>25509032
please don't reply to me again
>>25509065
crabs in a caaaage
>>25508994
>Everyone who is capable of rational thought has a talent
This is extremely untrue. Many people are just mediocre at everything.
If I'm good at anything, it's either so obscure and latent that I'll never find it, or it's nothing useful
>>25509032
*tips fedora*
*pulls up fingerless gloves*
*adjusts black flag t shirt*
*torrents fight club*
*draws anarchy symbol onto arm with a mechanical pencil*
*throws school library copy of catcher in the rye into the garbage*
>>25509041
>>25509053
I'm going to take a nap, you two.
Goodnight, I'll see you around.
>>25509011
Yea life is not fair. Trust me I deal with stupid shit too.
You can dwell on your looks that are out of your control, or you can change the aspects of your looks and mentality that you don't like and make them something you are ok with.
>>25509125
I meant to add to that second part that you can change the aspects of your looks and mentality that you do have control over.
>>25507150
But will it short out when I drop it in a bath-tub? This is important salesman, you better know your fucking facts.
>>25509115
>I'll see you around.
Probably not, actually.
>>25509192
Whys that? Are you thinking of an heroing without me?
>>25509225
I don't know how to track you down for when the time comes. I'm thinking Friday night.
I'll end on a photo of my waifu.
It was good (sort of?) knowing you, anon.
>23 years old and desperate
>want to try out online dating
>realize I hate myself too much to fill out a dating profile truthfully
>>25509286
Oh no you don't, give me your steam.
>>25509325
Have a throwaway email instead.
[email protected]
>>25509321
Lie about your dating profile then? Pump and dump
>>25509387
If I wanted to pump and dump, I'd get an escort.
>>25509414
You're still just giving the woman what she wants. What's the difference between an escort and a committed relationship? At least normal pumping and dumping is free.
hey losers, Chad here
A couple tips for you guys from me :)
>get professional help for stuff like anxiety and depression
>try to get a simple social circle for yourself for example a couple of true friends and family who call you out of your manchildcave
>one thing at a time, get something accomplished every day
>get a rhythm going on
>love what you do
>get passion for life and things
>love yourself
>be yourself
kaythxbye i'm going to do Chad stuff
