After a lot of hard work I finally got a prestigious and high paying job, now I want to travel to East Asia (Korea or Japan) and get a virgin asian woman to be my wife.
I've always found asian women to be the best.
What do you guys think about my plan?
>>25457243
Doesn't sound very detailed, please elaborate.
>Are you going to live there or take a long vacation?
>Will you just hang out and try pick one up?
>Any mail order style assistance?
>Where in East Asia? Or will you go many places?
>Preferences?
>Your age?
Fire away anon, I'm curious, then I can give you honest feedback. I also have the fever
I'd recommend checking out Ryan Boundless on Youtube.
>>25457290
>Are you going to live there or take a long vacation?
For now I'll travel only. Learning Japanese is also part of my plans.
>Will you just hang out and try pick one up?
Ideally I'd like to talk to them online first, then meeting them.
>Any mail order style assistance?
No, but I'd join websites where we could meet.
>Where in East Asia? Or will you go many places?
South Korea and Japan. The money wouldn't be a problem.
>Preferences?
Average looks is fine because I have yellow fever, but being virgin is a must.
>Your age?
Mid 20s.
Bumping to keep your shit alive while I wait for my details
>>25457243
>"I'm going to go to an Asian country to get a pure and kawaii waifu who will love me forever and ever!"
You weebs need to be gassed.
>>25457357
Clearly you have put some thought into it. Good luck man, be really careful not to get scammed during your internetting phase. Anyone who asks for money is a scammer, no exceptions. I don't know how savvy you are, but I hope you score. If you get something rolling with somebody and are already willing to travel then you're further down the right track then most folks. I know I wouldn't be able to do it
Your baby boy will be born asian.
uhhh good luck man i guess. are you fat? they really dislike fat ppl in japan. especially fat white ppl.
>>25457399
Thank you. I'd never give anyone money.
>if you get something rolling with somebody and are already willing to travel then you're further down the right track then most folks.
Even if I didn't want to meet women I'd still want to visit those countries multiple times, so that's good for me. Combining the two things would be ideal.
>>25457411
What's the problem with that?
>>25457430
I'm not fat. Thank you.
Bitches and whores are like new clothes, once you bought them you wish you never got them.
>>25457243
Growing up through high school i always found myself attracted to black and Asian girls.
I never found white girls that attractive (avg whit guy btw). It's just that those girls are "different". Hard to describe.
Black girls were always so assertive and individualistic, where as the asian girls always seemed sweet and shy. White girls on the other hand were junk trend bunnies and attention whores that just seemed to go along with their clique...
I feel ya bro. DO IT!
>>25457490
Dude it's hos, it doesn't even rhyme right when you use whores. shakingmyhead tobehonest familia
>>25457497
>White girls on the other hand were junk trend bunnies and attention whores
I'm glad I'm not the only one.
I can't even fap to white girls in porn.
I hate them so goddamn much
>>25457497
Fellow white person who doesn't like white girls here. I don't even know why, I don't seem to have a particular favorite "type" either. Just craving something different. Hang in there, we're all gonna make it
>>25457243
Your success with women over there will be proportional to your success with women back home. You are a kissless virgin, right? You will remain one in Japan.
>>25457568
I've never tried before, now things have changed and I'm willing to put the effort into it.
>>25457243
>Japan
>virgin
Topkek. The only Japanese girls who are still virgins are the traditional ones who would never consider dating a foreigner.
>>25457555
I like everyone except white girls. I've been called a fag for not finding white girls attractive.
they're just... meh.
>>25457243
Good luck man. Hope everything works out for you.
>>25457582
Then try it back home first. Once you have some game, then you can go to Japan. You might even have a decent chance. Korea will be a lot harder. And as long as you look for a virgin girl, you'll remain forever alone.
>>25457584
>>25457599
A large percentage of Japanese adults are virgins, men and women. My main focus is Japan.
I could try home, but I have no intentions of having a relationship with a western woman.
>>25457598
Thank you.
>>25457626
>A large percentage of Japanese adults are virgins
>>25457649
About 1/4 of Japanese adults in their 20s are still virgins.
>>25457360
That pretty much sums it up. Everything these people know about Japan they learned from watching anime.
Yea man I don't want to crush your hopes but you have to realize that culturally Japan is a completely different nation than US. They don't accept foreigners easily, it takes years of living and working there until you begin to be treated like a human being. And finding a woman who would like to go out with a guy out of her social circle, and a foreigner, is extremely difficult. Things doesn't work there like in the West, you can't pick up girls on the street. And considering you're a robot and you want a virgin, you're chances are probably close to zero. I'd like to say good luck, but sorry.
Stop stealing our women
-A Korean
>>25457357
>being virgin is a must
Dude, what the fuck. You will die a virgin if you don't change that mindset. You sound like a hugely insecure faggot. Only a total idiot would turn down a girl just because she's not a virgin.
But then again, you have never kissed a girl, so it's common for people like you to be so clueless.
waitu pigguu goo home (^:
>>25457726
The women aren't yours. All males compete for women, this is how the world works.
>>25457725
I will still do my best, thank you.
>>25457728
Many Japanese women remain virgins in their 20s so that's my goal. It's one of the biggest appeals.
>>25457699
1/4th of japanese adults are men. In Japan theres a massive Chad culture. The difference is the Chads here aren't chiseled frat dudes, their just popular "cool" sociopaths. The women do this weird submissive rape acceptance to them in efforts to be loved. Like over in the western world, women turn a blind eye to anyone not considered cool. Its the same in China and Korea I believe, only in China your default cool for being white. Korea and Japan see whites as a cool novelty.
OP don't even try Taiwan or any Indonesian country. I don't want to have to tell you why
>>25457728
>having traditional values and views on marriage is being an insecure faggot
No you "modern" degenerate cuck
>>25457770
If that's the case I'll find out by myself, but I don't think it is true.
Another thing is that I'd rather try and fail than not try at all.
>>25457243
don't get a mail order bride
there are many places where attractive women go just to find rich men, most are gold diggers to a degree but you can sort through the whores and women with long term goals by not showering them with gifts like a beta orbiter
>>25457843
I'll be very careful with my money.
>>25457770
I'll bite, why not Taiwan or SE Asia?
Ching ching
>>25457756
>Many Japanese women remain virgins
Because they all are waiting and saving themselves for their autistic neckbeard weeaboo husbando, right? You bet all the 10/10 virgins will want to throw themselves at you.
East Asia is one of the most highly urbanised countries on the planet.
Asian society has, on the whole, very "metropolitan" views on dating, marriage and gender roles.
I'm not sure if you are operating on old, 1900's stereotypes, but things are different now. We all the know the statistics of Japanese women who have done pornography. We all know the statistics of Korean women who have gotten plastic surgery.
Don't go to those places. Places like cambodia or the phillipines or some parts of vietnam are better for nice women.
>>25457795
I'm sure your qt virgin asian waifu will magically appear in front of you, any day now. Just wait a little bit longer.
>>25457874
>Taiwan
Pampered like a Kong girl, yet ultra traditional, parents and brothers will probably try to kill you for even trying. If shes not traditional she might be alright but at that point shes not much different from a Western girl.
>Indonesian
Absolutely awesome people, really nice and genuine, everything you'd want in a lady. Then you get married. Then her family wants to move in with you. Then she starts getting really nasty and naggy. Indonesian women are the pinnacle of that one picture where the asian lady hits menopause then turns into yoda.
>>25457944
Who said anything about 10/10 women?
I already said that I'm fine with an average woman.
>>25457956
I know the statistics about virginity in Japan. At any rate, I'll find out by myself. I'm serious about putting effort into this.
>>25457944
I detect some serious salt
I love it. Go for it.
>>25457974
And how are you going to make sure she's a virgin? Ask her on the first date? Mention in an online dating ad that "reee roasties gtfo"?
>>25458011
I can't be 100% sure but I'll do my best to find out.
If you act like you don't care about virginity and ask about past relationships many women will take the bait and tell you.
>>25457962
Nice projection cuck. Not everyone wants sloppy seconds.
Sat hi to your wife's son from me.
>>25457974
>Who said anything about 10/10 women?
>I already said that I'm fine with an average woman.
Buddy, listen. You are falling into the same trap EVERYONE does. 10/10 obviously have a different mentality. But you're assuming that that means an average girl is aware of her looks and is likely to be more tame or conservative or won't be inclined the MOST attractive man.
>>25458043
The only thing you can think about is other men's cocks. Even if you would manage to get near a vagina, you can only think about the other cocks that have been in there.
You're the definition of a cuck.
>tfw there are also Asian betas who think their women are sluts and have no chance getting gf in thier own respective countries so they dream of fucking a pure white woman
>>25457974
Your chances of finding a Japanese virgin girl who is into you is nearly zero. Any Japanese girl who would be willing to date a foreigner is someone who almost certainly has been around the block before. A girl who is saving her virginity for a special someone would never, ever date anyone other than a Japanese guy from a traditional family.
>>25458060
You have a very apocalyptic view of women. I'd like to experience the real world and see how it goes.
>>25458077
No they dream about getting a pure Thai or Cambodian waifu
>>25458077
Not really, white women are considered massive whores by asians.
>>25457243
of all the weebms you could have picked, you chose that one?
>>25457357
East Asian culture is less obsessed with virginal purity, most young women will openly admit to having 2-3 boyfriends in the past at least and this always implies sex.
Your best bet is some female sperg/autist or illegal cradle robbing.
>>25458667
A virgin japanese serpg woman would be the best.
>OP thinks that just going to Japan will magically make him lose his virginity
>>25458039
>kissless virgin who has never been on a date
>expert in figuring out women
Pick one.
>>25457243
Northeast Asians are fucking huge on plastic surgery
Have fun with your ugly kids
>inb4 jealous white girl
I'm a white guy
>>25459350
No, I know it'd take a lot of effort but I'm willing to work for it.
>>25459367
I'll do my best.
>>25459395
You're blowing it out of proportion and I don't mind plastic surgery. Plenty of ugly people have pretty kids and the other way around.
>>25459430
If you're seriously going through with it, drop the virgin thing. At the least, treat it as a "nice to have" instead of a dealbreaker. Otherwise you're creating an artificial barrier where your odds of ever getting a girl are zero. You don't want your love life to be ruined because you listened to a few beta cuck sperglords on /r9k/, do you?
>>25459476
I've always wanted a virgin, this isn't related to /r9k/.
>>25459430
You sound feminine and whipped, like most white men who want an Asian girl.
>>25459503
I'm not. You're wrong about that one.
I've lived with a guy who has your mindset op, I've seen plenty of people like this out in public. If you are going to fetish the "Asian" women make sure you don't get one that is dumb as bricks.
Please OP promise me that you won't get a girl with the personality of a brick
PROMISE ME
>>25459495
So did many of us back when we were teenagers and virgins. After becoming adults and having had sex, we realized how stupid that was.
>>25459540
I promise you I won't.
>>25459542
Good for you, but I'll look for what I want.
>>25459542
>After becoming cucks
Fix'd for you
Virginity matters.
>>25459559
You're the cuck here. After all, it's you who is constantly thinking about other guys' cocks. Every time you see a girl, the only thing on your mind is the cocks she has had.
>>25459597
>it must be true because it agrees with my arbitrary beliefs!
Source and full data needed. Pointing back to the survey done by a religious anti-sex group which this is based on doesn't count.
>>25459634
Nice double standard, religious groups can conduct studies if they wish just like your liberal degenerate shills can
What is your job? Are you a lawyer? Sounds prestigious and high paying
Why can't a man pursue his dream of a pure Asian waifu?
>>25459623
Ok friend, enjoy your marriages and subsequent divorces and alimony payments >>25459597
>>25459676
They just need to do it using proper scientific methods. Which obviously is not the case in these graphs that get spammed all over.
>>25459721
I'd rather not say because I don't want the thread to derail.
>>25459819
I don't think it will derail. Just spill it please
>>25459779
http://psychcentral.com/news/2012/10/18/timing-of-first-sex-has-far-reaching-relationship-effects/46256.html
>>25459897
Seems like a decent summary, but of course it has nothing to do with these "waiting until marriage to have sex leads to stablest marriages, more sex partners means less stable marriages" graphs.
>>25457243
whole plan summed up in one image
>>25457243
Koreafag here. You know that 80% of eastern asians are ugly af right? Japan China Korea all have shit looking people. Its only the top like 5% thtt are truly beautiful. Also, you will not like the culture unless you have experienced it before.
>>25459724
It's a pipe dream and its going to lead to disappointment.
>>25460059
I have yellow fever so that automatically gives any East Asian woman a couple extra points in my book. I'm not looking for a model.
By the way I didn't say I want to move there, I'd take her home with me and raise a family with her.
>tfw there are plenty of fish in the sea
>tfw multiple women in east asia
Yup
>>25460088
>take her home with me
Your chances went from practically zero to even less than zero.
>>25460121
Its actually pretty easy to do is what I'm saying
>>25457243
You better not be a shitty father if you have a hapa son. At least try. Remember that having kids is always a selfish act.
>>25457243
Seriously, what's your game plan? How are you going to attract an Asian girl? How will you even manage to get a date with one? What desirable qualities do you have that one should be interested in you?
There are plenty single and frustrated Japanese women who want nothing more than escape from wageslavery where they are overworked to death.
Aim for the ones around 25yo and they'll be even more desperate.
>>25460145
Plenty of western countries have East Asian women who got here from marriage.
>>25460162
I'll do my best to raise him right.
>>25460164
Sorry, but this isn't a dating website. I'll do my best and that's what matters.
>>25460145
>being ugly
>being poor
>being non-white.
>being less than 6'2"
Not even OP, but my existence as a Chad has only been exacerbated by my Weeb life, not that I care.
Live your dream OP.
I have a girl in Japan who likes me, talks to her parents about me, shares the same interests as me, wants me to visit, ok with going to a hot spring with me, and is very likely a virgin. She's qt too.
>>25460194
There are also plenty of Japanese girls who are approaching 30, and once past that age, it's difficult for them to get a Japanese man. None of them will be virgins though. So OP is out of luck.
>>25460236
do you speak japanese?
is it worth to learn?
>>25460215
>I'll do my best
You keep saying that. But if you don't have any plan other than "I'll go to Japan", then it's all meaningless. At the least you need to be attractive, create a good profile, and then start looking around on dating sites.
>>25460272
Yes, I am aware of that. What I meant is that I'm not going to discuss those things in this thread. I know it takes a lot of effort and I'll do my best.
>>25460269
Only a little bit. Learning the key words is probably a good idea, but again, I got lucky and she speaks English very well. She wants me to speak Japanese, but seems ok if I don't fully grasp it. We've been talking for a few years now and I haven't put much time into learning. I just have too much other stuff to do.
>>25460263
Bottom two rows are for women. Dark blue for virgins.
>>25460269
OP here. I'm learning Japanese. I'd like to communicate with her in her native language and communicate with the people around her and who are important to her.
>>25460343
Interesting chart. It implies that a Japanese man who is a virgin at 20 will almost 100% certainly be a virgin at 30. On the other hand a fair amount of girls will lose it after 20.
>>25460343
Similar to the west.
Why don't you get a western virgin gf?
>>25460407
The categories are people in their 20s vs their 30s, not specifically the age 20 and 30
>>25460459
I just like East Asian women much more than western women. I've always been like this.
Call it yellow fever if you want.
>>25460500
Still interesting that there's no difference between those two age groups. One thing is not clear from the graph, it just mentions number of partners. It could also be understood as bf/gf. Technically, someone who answers "none" to that may not necessarily be a virgin.
>>25460474
Sorry, obviously the previous reply (>>25460518
) was meant for you.
>>25460162
https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/
They'd love to see this.
This thread is full of retards. Just go there and form your own opinion.
>>25460518
The blue says "no sexual experience"
>>25460609
Nuh uh. Anime tells us everything we need to know about Japan.
>>25460625
The translation is "dating experience" or "companionship experience". I'm not Japanese so I don't know how that would be interpreted though. Someone from Japan would have to tell us if that implies that all girls in blue are virgins or if it disregards one-night stands.
>>25460632
Only and idiot would think that, there are heaps of videos on YouTube from people who actually live there who are a lot more reliable than the clueless people here.
>>25460725
What is sarcasm? Google it.
>>25460725
Only problem is that the youtube westerns-living-in-japan community is either morons (the content uploaders) who pick fights with each other or weebs (the commenters) who attack the morons when they even dare to list one of japan's shortcomings
>>25457243
>What do you guys think about my plan?
Dude feminism has to much power in our current world and it only continues to grow, you need to go to a place like thailand or something where they don't have much political influence and STAY THERE, if you bring any woman to western society SHE WILL BECOME LIKE THE WOMEN THERE, there is no magical asian gene that keeps asian women timid, quiet and subservient, its all about culture and upbringing and once you move her to your country full of whores (western society, assuming you're american) she WILL BECOME A WHORE ALSO.
There are so many stories I've read of guys getting russian/asian mail order brides who they had a great time with and they were good for months when they brought these women back to their western countries, then these women get friends and get knowledge about the laws in said country, so they just get a fucking green card (e.g. america), divorce your ass and leave you basically paying for a free life upgrade for a random bitch, don't be a fool.
>>25460826
Thanks friend, but I'm not looking for an asian woman to be my timid, quiet and subservient doll. I want a real wife who may have her shortcomings. I seek a good marriage, not submission.
OP you seem to be legit and reasonable. I wish you are blessed with an asian waifu.
>>25460878
>I want a real wife who may have her shortcomings.
You want to get c.ucked and/or divorced and get half your shit taken
Go look at the stats:
50+% divorce rate
Women initiate 70+% of divorces (Most of which are NO FAULT divorces - no reason required)
I will never get married, the only way I would even consider marriage is under the conditions I said you should look for, anything else is to gamble with your own life and happiness.
>I seek a good marriage, not submission.
>I seek a good marriage
>not submission
Pick one, you sound like one of those liberal idiots who seem to forget how marriages worked in the past AND WHY THEY LASTED SO DAMN LONG IN THE FIRST PLACE, its was because the WIFE WAS SUBMISSIVE, as soon as society gave women rights and leverage, right to vote, financial power, welfare system, etc they NO LONGER NEEDED MEN so divorce rates SKYROCKETED, infidelity SKYROCKETED, paternal fraud (which is estimated at 30+% in America) SKYROCKETED, women don't really love men, they are biologically wired to seek out their own benefit for the sake of themselves and their children, giving a woman leverage is setting your marriage of for failure, you will probably end up divorced and paying alimony which your wife will use to buy shit for chad while she's sucking his dick.
>>25461175
Please stop assuming that we are all americans.
I'm a naturally dominant man, all I meant is that I want to treat my wife as a human being, not as a china doll.
You have the right to give up on marriage and family, but I don't wish to do so.
>>25461175
Here we go again, a teenager virgin being an expert on human relationships.
>>25461208
>Please stop assuming that we are all americans.
1. Its a valid assumption
2. I don't know the stats for every country on earth
>I'm a naturally dominant man
kek, who are you trying to convince here me or you, what the hell does "naturally dominant" even mean.
>You have the right to give up on marriage and family, but I don't wish to do so.
Question is why do you want to get married or have a family, I bet you can't give one LOGICAL and OBJECTIVE reason to have a family and/or children, NOT ONE, they're all emotionally driven (I don't want to die alone) or based on narcissism (my genes being spread makes the world better for some reason)
Let me break this down logically:
1. If you are an atheist: Having children is pointless because when you die you won't have the consciousness to comprehed any of your past choices, all the memories you have will be meaningless, no point to it at all, and at the end of the day your children will just die too, and even further into the future all of humanity will end so its all pointless. So why undertake the large expenditure of family and children when there are NO BENEFITS and in the end it means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING (we all just die and go nowhere).
2. If you're religious: Having children is even more pointless since you can attain immortality, which makes creating progeny a pointless endeavor.
You don't have to argue with me or reply after this, but atleast consider your choices logically, not on emotion of just whims, that's how men end up getting screwed by life, doing what you think you "need to do as a man" will just impair your judgement and your pursuit of happiness.
>>25461334
From your point of view I might be a narcissist, but I don't care.
I own up to my desires and I work hard to get them. I won't apologize for that.
>>25461364
>I work hard to get them
Do you now? The only thing we get so far from you is that you will go to Japan, and expect to be magically handed a qt virgin wife without doing any work.
Or if you are going to work hard for it, then what do you have in mind? You will need to be attractive, and dedicated to the purpose.
>>25461393
I already stated several times that I know it'd take a lot of work and that I'm willing to put the effort into it.
Show me where I said I expect a woman to magically fall on my lap and I'll stop posting in this thread.
>>25461427
>Show me where I said I expect a woman to magically fall on my lap and I'll stop posting in this thread
If you don't have LOOKS - MONEY - STATUS then you are basically expecting a woman to fall into your lap because its ironic that you told me you want a wife to treat like a human but Asian cultures and society are very vain and shallow, in china and hong kong the women won't even consider you unless you have money, social standing or you're the best they can get and in Japan the women are very work oriented and this trend is increasing, if you really think you're going to get a woman who isn't interested in your money at all then you are an extremely naive fool.
>From your point of view I might be a narcissist, but I don't care
It has nothing to do with "point of view", you are literally proving my point here, everything you say is based on emotion not logic, this is the result of society raising feminized males, I don't care about opinions (points of view) I care about facts (what actually is), and if you believe that you having children somehow benefits the world THEN YOU ARE IN FACT A NARCISSIST.
>I own up to my desires and I work hard to get them. I won't apologize for that.
Dude you are like a woman, you sound just like one, you don't even know what you want, tell me this:
Is staying up late at night nursing a crying baby to sleep YOUR DESIRE?
Is paying tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars for a wedding, college funds, possible divorce, alimony, child-support, etc YOUR DESIRE?
Do you even know what the word "desire" even means, because you seem to be conflating it with the word "obligation".
>I already stated several times that I know it'd take a lot of work
You stated this at the beginning: "I finally got a prestigious and high paying job". By definition you aren't going to have to do any hard work because women want a man who has money, you want to work hard, pretend to be an average guy with average money, don't let your dates know.
>>25461834
I have some of those each of those 3 things. You seem to have a problem with me considering asian women to be humans for some reason. I know cultures vary but your generalizations about asian women are way out of hand.
Your point of view is that humans shouldn't have children anymore. We should all just stop having children unless each of us can write a book about the benefits to the planet or whatever crap you want me to do.
I'm a man who who wants a family and having a family isn't only about the good things, if I have to stay up nursing my child I'll gladly do it. I have no problem with that.
I'd rather spend money on my family than save it for no reason. The reason I worked so hard to get a good job is because I want a family.
I never said I expect a woman to fall for me because of my money, what I meant is that I achieved financial success and now I desire a family.
>>25462106
>You seem to have a problem with me considering asian women to be humans for some reason. I know cultures vary but your generalizations about asian women are way out of hand.
Not just asian women, I mean women in general and I'm only being specific because the conversation revolves around asian women, but it is true that asian cultures are more like this. Also what do you mean by "human", its false to conflate human with what you consider to be "nice qualities", humans are vile self serving creatures at our core, so yes indeed women are human.
>Your point of view is that humans shouldn't have children anymore.
Your have the worst fucking comprehension skills I've ever encountered ever online, I'm saying there is no point to you AS AN INDIVIDUAL to have children, you've yet to tell me how family and children are and objective "desire"
>I'm a man who who wants a family and having a family isn't only about the good things
Again this shows poor judgement and reasoning skills, you've yet to tell me or anyone why you "want" children, is it because you believe you SHOULD have children, or do you have an actual reason, lets not forget there are 7 BILLION and growing of us on this planet so there is no "need" for you to have children, so what are your reasons, all I've done is ask questions and all you've done is deflect and tip toe around them with strawman arguments and ad hominems.
>I'd rather spend money on my family than save it for no reason
So you don't have other family members, brothers, sisters, etc, also how is it "for no reason", that's the stupidest shit I've ever heard, this is how stupid you sound - "I have extra money and I've paid all my bills, so I must go create another expenditure to spend this money on because its just there doing nothing" lol. So your logic is you'll initiate a self created problem to solve your existing "problem" of "too much money", can you comprehend how retarded that sounds, you're thinking emotionally here.
>>25462403
I don't know what sort of sick society you're part of, but where I live people have healthy and happy families. Nobody needs a reason to pursue a family other than to seek the happiness that comes with having one.
I don't care if there's 7 billion people in the planet, I want a family and I won't give up on that.
You sound like a neutered man. A sick mind who lost the will to live.
>>25462608
Nigger you completely missed his point. You've yet to say why you WANT kids. Only that where you're from you're expected to have them.
>>25462652
I already said that I want a family. I want to be part of a happy family like the one I'm part of.
Only people sick in the head have a problem with this.
>>25462694
Anon you're repeating yourself. WHY do you want a family? That's what the other anon is asking and you still haven't answered.
>>25462717
Because I want to be part of a happy family. Because it brings me happiness.
Is it so hard to get?
>>25462743
You're still missing the point and still going in circles. Why would that make you happy? Do you want to be needed? Want to be part of a group? Etc etc
Bringing new life into an already crowded world with fewer and fewer resources every year just because it makes you happy is a shitty reason to do it and exactly why birthing licenses are needed.
>>25462850
Go be a neutered man then.
You could just move to a place with tons of Asian women, e.g Australia (lots of Chinese women and you can find a lot of Japs too), hang around popular tourist spots etc.
>>25462850
protip: you don't need a reason to do anything
be a man and do what makes you happy
>>25457243
Don't go to japan go to the fucking vietnam or something where young virgins will throw themselves at somebody that can support them
>>25462876
Settling down and chaining yourself to a woman and a child is the very definition of a neutered man anon
>>25462907
And a note, I have a preference for Asian women too, and I found my girlfriend using this "technique"
>>25462944
This, do whatever makes you happy, op :)
>muslims having 8 children each and white cucks thinking you should need a license to have children
This is the white genocide.
>>25462608
>Nobody needs a reason to pursue a family other than to seek the happiness that comes with having one.
What about having a wife and children inherently makes you happy moron.......... exactly, there are many men who have families that are extremely unhappy, Robin Williams had a family, oh wait he committed suicide, this is one of the worst argument I've ever heard.
>I don't care if there's 7 billion people in the planet, I want a family and I won't give up on that.
Could you please answer the damn question I asked so many times............ WHY!?, can you give a reason why you want a family, and it not contain the words - "I think", "I believe", "I should", etc. I can tell you why I DON'T and logically too:
1. Unnecessary expenditure
2. Risk of divorce, alimony, child support, paternity fraud, etc
3. Will not actually make me happy but instead create more financial strain and obligations for me
4. Philsophical reasons I listed here: >>25461334 (whether you are an atheist or religious children are objectively a pointless endeavor)
So can you please tell me why you want children and a family, list your reasons, the benefits, wtf do you actually get out of it.
>You sound like a neutered man. A sick mind who lost the will to live.
Please tell me moron how not living for SOMEONE ELSE = LOST THE WILL TO LIVE, I do want to live and continue to live and enjoy my life, you my friend are ironically projecting here and you can't see it, ITS YOU WHO HAVE NO WILL TO LIVE, and that's why you want a family and children, SO THAT YOU CAN CREATE PEOPLE WHO DEPEND ON YOU SO YOU CAN LIVE FOR THEIR SAKE, you have no PERSONAL WILL TO LIVE, so you have to CREATE REASONS TO LIVE, your "family dream" is just a crutch to support your pathetic existence, you probably want to die and the "dream" of a family is the only thing that keeps you going baka.
>>25462961
>wanting a garbage asian.
Please, that's too easy.
>>25463097
You're a sick neutered man.
>>25463125
>You're a sick neutered man.
If a man who lives for himself instead of being legally and socially bound to others out of obligation is neutered to you, then you are a complete idiot, you're the one that is neutered, you think so little of your own existence that the only way you see to validate it is to have other people need you to exist, you have no balls, you're dependent on their dependence of you, because it gives your existence "worth", that's why you want a family.
>>25463191
You are literally neutered. You're cutting yourself off the gene pool after countless generations.
You're accepting that your DNA is not worth anything.
>>25463191
What if he's just a narcissist, with loads of dosh and wants to commit to someone?
Fuck everyone I want to be happy by what I define as happiness" live is easy enough as is.
>>25463224
>You're accepting that your DNA is not worth anything.
No, I don't care what my DNA is "worth" moron that's the point, I'm going to enjoy my life as much as I can with the least amount of obligations, stress, bills, etc as possible. My DNA may be worth alot but it isn't worth anything to me dead, and seeing as were all going to die basing one's decisions on something you won't be able to comprehend when you're dead is quite idiotic since you have to sacrifice during the only time YOU CAN COMPREHEND (when you're alive).
>>25463278
>What if he's just a narcissist,
He is, as I said, but its idiots like him who come back to 4chan years later complaining about hypergamy, feminism, alimony etc after they've been divorced, if he's going to make this decision he better commit to the consequences, he better not come back on here bitching years later if it falls apart (and statistically it most likely will)
>>25463800
>(and statistically it most likely will)
Again assuming everyone here is american.
HAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAAHA OH MY GOD HAHAHAHAHA IS OP FUCKING FOR REAL. women are the same every fucking where yo. asians have massive terrible herd mentality and no fucking opinion of their own too. plus all the married nips i know cheat on their husbands at some point or another.
>>25463825
>Again assuming everyone here is american.
Are you this fucking retarded, again its the same ALL OVER THE FUCKING EARTH, once you create a system that allows women to live without the financial support of a man divorce rates increase, I'm not saying you're american, the american stats are anecdotal evidence, do you understand english?
>>25464026
OP already said he doesn't want to live in Japan.
>>25463825
Addon to my comment here: >>25464004
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_demography
Scroll down to the "Divorce statistics by country"
You can manipulate the table to show columns in descending and ascending order by clicking the top of a column, look and see for yourself moron, countries where feminism is prevalent and women have rights, no fault divorce, etc ALL HAVE HIGHER DIVORCE RATES.
Lowest = Chile (3%)
Highest = Belgium (71%)
The more "modernized" a culture the more likely you will get divorced, c.ucked, get defrauded for paternity (which is what actual c.ucking is, raising another man's child), etc. That's why I said if you go to one of those countries where the women are "nice" (they aren't, its just that they are following the rules of their society) DO NOT BRING THEM TO A MODERNIZED COUNTRY because they will adapt to that culture.
>>25457547
>>25457555
ONE OF US
its not like I cant get white girls, but I am rarely attracted to one
>>25464176
>Lowest = Chile (3%)
But Chile is a quite modern country.
>>25464176
>That's why I said if you go to one of those countries where the women are "nice"
I only said that I've always been attracted to them. I even said I expect her to act like a human being and not like a submissive China doll.
>>25457243
If Asian women prefer white men, for whatever reason - Eurasian men are left with nothing but: A) Myths about the beauty of Eurasians which only applies a fraction of the time, and B) Having to accept that their phenotype is universally unwanted, as expressed by key members of his own family, and C) Having to accept a secondary role in an unspoken racial hierarchy that is clearly evident to anyone who looks vaguely Asian, and D) Having to accept two people who harbored overt, latent, or even non-vocalized racist views as parents, and E) Reassurance from their parents that "they were not like that," "colorblind," when in fact society consistently reminds us that color matters, and lastly F) A false narrative written by non-Hapas.
>>25464176
>>25464331
Divorce was only made legal in Chile in 2004.
>Trying to back up a point with misleading statistics, why nobody would ever do that!
>>25464331
que wea dice este pendejo csm???? JKLHALSHSAJSLASJK
>>25464524
You're projecting too much, my friend.
I've never heard about myths of eurasian beauty and I'm not racist against asians. I simply like asian women the most.
I'd do my best to raise an eurasian son and I'd give him the best available tools to face the world.
Op you're going to die alone
Asian woman here.
You're alright OP. Many of us want a family man who cherishes us. Good luck and follow your heart.
>>25464751
Thank you. Your words give me strength to push forward.
>>25464799
>Thank you. Your words give me strength to push forward
Kek dude you are in for one hell of a rude awakening years from now, at least promise me you'll post your suicide pics on here so I atleast get something out of it
>>25465125
step 1: suidice
step 2: take pics
step 3: post them on here
>>25465480
More like take a pic of yourself with a rope around your neck and upload it, or you could easily set up a camera to take like 100 shutter frame shots and capture the entire death and ask a friend to upload ;).
Remember the guy who attempted the live stream suicide, he could do that too, there are pics before the fire engulfed the room.
While Japan has some good moral women
Your best bet is China or Vietnam, there is tons of virgin, single good looking women who want their white knight and want OUT of their little hell hole.
Japan, they are plenty happy there and don't even consider marriage anymore
>>25466828
Isn't suicide rate ultra high in Japan?
>>25466828
>Japan has some good moral women
laughingwhores.jpg
Japan is not like in anime. A lot of Japanese girls are pretty slutty. And those that aren't come from conservative families and would never consider dating a foreigner.
>>25466957
Yes, it's not exactly the best place to be looking for quality women
China and Vietnam is a better bet, the women will be happy to leave and they ain't too fucked up
>>25466828
>Your best bet is China or Vietnam, there is tons of virgin, single good looking women who want their white knight and want OUT of their little hell hole.
Again, when you get them out of that hellhole what the fuck is stopping them from leaving you, there is no such thing as a stereotypical "good woman", the characteristics they exhbit which you see as "good" are just an act because, LIKE YOU SAID, they live in a hell hole, once you take women like that out of those conditions you just become a meal ticket.
Again I say to all men, if you go to a third world or fucked up place to "save a woman", KEEP HER IN THAT COUNTRY OR IN A COUNTRY WITH SIMILAR CONDITIONS, the moment she steps her foot on western soil the spirit of feminism will crawl up her vagina and possess her lol.
>this fucking thread
I know I shouldn't bother, but once I had the same plan as you OP. How old are you? I was very young and juvenile back then.
Regardless of what people wrote ITT, you can't categorise populations by national borders etc. I've only skimmed through this thread and just saw the same old bullshit uttered by socially unable people about Asians.
There was a time when I had yellow fever to no end. Literally on a level you wouldn't believe and definitely stronger than you, despite not even knowing you. I had taken some kind of psychological turn which made me believe all these stories about Asian women being more feminine due to the way they're raised, believing in a nuclear family structure, etc.etc.etc. The idea you posted in OP was my 'hide-out' whenever I felt left alone. "One day, when I worked hard enough and made everything right, I'm gonna go out there and find a great wife." I took shelter in this delusion for years. When I got older and more experienced, I learned that none of this was true. It never was.
You will find genetics in Asia OP. Dark hair, slant eyes etc. but nothing else. Humans are the same in their essence anywhere. Your qt Azn waifu dreams are exactly that, dreams. If you failed to get a good women here, you will fail there. Yes, some women may be attracted to you for shallow reasons, but isn't that the same YOU are doing right now? I've met plenty of married couples with an 'imported' Asian wife. None of them were harmonious, not to even speak of their children. Cultural and genetic differences are valid, among many other things. A fetish is no recommendable base for a meaningful relationship. And here you are, planning to go on safari to catch a mongoloid homo sapiens as a trophy.
This post will probably get shit on by your fellow fever bros. I know because I was one of them once. So do what you want OP. Just giving some incentive for thought.
>>25457243
Going to fail. If you can't get laid in your country, odds are you can't in another
>>25468035
You're projecting, my friend.
Where did I say that expect some sort of behavior from asian women?
What I want is genetics. I just find them insanely attractive.
>>25468140
That's even worse man + you don't have to go to Asia. Just eat at some chink joint and ask the waitress out. If you're white, should be no problem. Might as well go an Asian brothel. My friend is a amateur boxer, white with broad shoulders. He goes there every once in a while and rams them. He says most of them are on some kind of dope and don't even care what you do to them, as long as you wear a condom. Saves you a lot of money too.
>>25468140
If you just care about their looks why bother moving? You can find pretty gook whores in America and Canada
>>25468140
>OP Gets done a huge solid with some good down-to-earth realtalk from anon
>"lol, but anon! you're projecting."
a prestigious high-paying job would seem to indicate a certain level of intelligence.
So. learn the difference between projecting and simply sharing experience, next time someone tries to tell you something.
>>25468614
He was actually projecting thinking I believe asian women are submissive family oriented whatever.
>>25468614
>a prestigious high-paying job would seem to indicate a certain level of intelligence.
Most people with 'prestigious high-paying jobs' were born in fortunate circumstances and/or were lucky. Either way it has nothing to do with intelligence. After all this prestigious gentleman started a thread aiming at an import wife, if that tells you something.
>>25468476
this. OP can't handle the competition from other white men?
>>25457243
couldnt agree more, asians have always been the best. mmy mother didnt like them at first but she had to deal with the fact that theyre superior to white women
>>25457243
>After a lot of hard work I finally got a prestigious and high paying job, now I want to travel to East Asia (Korea or Japan) and get a virgin asian woman to be my wife.
>>25468476
There aren't many asian women where I live. I think I'd have a much bigger pool abroad.
>>25468851
>has a prestigious and high paying job
>comes to r9k for life advice.
guarantee he doesn't have a prestigious or high payin job
>>25457728
Yes, there's no point in having standards if you're perfectly willing to make gigantic mistakes. Good for you cuck.
>>25457243
>to be my wife
>>25468140
>What I want is genetics
so you're okay with a gold digging white cock worshipping slant woman who can strip you off half your wealth and want to travel the planet for that? sounds good bro
>>25469008
No, what I meant is that I find asian women the most attractive so I want one who also has the characteristics I like the most.
You guys are the ones thinking I believe all asian women are naturally submissive and other stupid things.
Asian women are still individuals.
OP confirmed for beta master. I've seen so many guys with asian gfs who kiss the ground they walk on. None of them rich. Just be white. Asian women would sell their soul for white penis.
u da man OP
