Rejection stories:
>summer between middle school and high school starting
>cute red head girl i know i've had a crush on for a while
>work up the courage to ask her to the movies
>initially she seems into it talking about it
>"let me call so and so and see if they want to come too"
>fuck.jpg
>lots of calls back and forth about how can come or not
>this isn't going well...why am i still talking to her....eject eject eject
>nobody else wants to come
>final time she calls me again
>"Listen, I would never go out with you,"
>wow, at least she's honest
>oh ok uh bye
>hang up
>cry
After highschool I did ok with women just the whole time there, no luck. I guess people knew me too well or something and their opinion was set in stone. Looking back though it still makes me feel like shit though especially considering she wasn't really even good looking I was just obsessed with red hair.
I asked this girl out last friday. We're friends on facebook and we usually chat on there. But anyways, I gave her my phone number on friday when I asked her out(which she said yes to), but so far she hasn't texted me anything about it and I start all conversation with her on facebook.
so desu I think I'm going through a rejection right now
>chat up some chick obsessed with baking stuff
>at least she will stay in the kitchen :^)
>keep chatting, good chemistry between us
>subtly offer to do something with her
>she declines and tells me not to expect much with her
>be in chinese restaurant
>that last line was irrelevant since I was using okstupid on my phone
>message a 22 year old, I'm 19
>she replies
>"your to young"
goddammit these people
>>25229586
>notice qt quiet boy in library who was always alone
>try to approach him with my friends during lunch
>he always replies with one word and doesn't seem to like me
>keep trying anyway
>ask for his number
>surprisingly gives it to me but doesn't reply to my messages
>tell him i had a crush on him and that i was sorry for being annoying and i would leave him alone
>he agrees and is relieved
>had to see him often in the hallways for the next year
>awkward as heck
>>25230229
>degrade and mock nerds for years throughout primary school, make them feel like human garbage while you only pay attention to chad
>nerds retreat into their hobbies, want nothing to do with women
>WHY WON'T HE NOTICE ME
women are great
>>25230297
Where did I say in my story that I "degrade and mock nerds for years throughout primary school, make them feel like human garbage while you only pay attention to chad"?
>>25230297
>being this delusional
original comment
>three or so years ago
>prowling girls ads on craigslist
>see one who sounds like what I'm after
>we email a bit, exchange pics and I get her number
>we start texting and she's interested and replying quickly
>a lot of common interests
>we text back and forth for a good week and a half
>texting pretty much every day in that time
>I've sent her multiple pics and she's responded favorably to them all
>she's sent me several "look how cute I am" pics
>finally ask her out
>she says yes very excitedly
>we agree on a day and place, about a week down the line
>we text every day in the week leading up to the day
>I text her the day before in the afternoon asking how she's doing
>she responds "good! How are you??"
>text back "pretty good, just heading home for the day. we still on for tomorrow?"
>no answer
>wait until maybe 10 or 11 that night
>"Hey, so how about tommorow? Still wanna get together?"
>no answer
>text her the next day "well I guess that's a no, let me know if you change your mind"
>no reply
>check craigslist again a few days later
>she has another ad up with the same pictures and almost the same text as the one I replied to
>oh
>>25230343
Fuck off you delusional bitch. This board isn't for you and you know it. Just leave.
>>25230438
>>25230438
>implying it's not accurate
You're mad because I accurately described 90% of women who say shit like "nerds are sexy"
>>25230573
et tu anon?
>>25230229
As someone who was quiet and anti-social in high school, I can kinda see why he behaved that way. It likely had nothing personal to do with you. There were a handful of times that I realize looking back were girls flirting with me in high school, but at the time being a KHV I was always sceptical of any girls showing interest in me. Especially when girls typically treated me with outward disgust and acted like being in any close proximity to me was nauseating. For someone who has never received any female attention that wasn't mockery or contempt, having a girl flirt with you is an incredibly nerve-racking experience that is automatically perceived as a trick or a prank of some kind with malicious intent.
Of course being a female this is a mindset that is probably foreign since male attention (wanted or unwanted) is a constant for 99% of women. After high school it gets better, at least it did for me.
>>25230229
And then you found 10 other guys who would literally jump in front of a train for you, what a sad story.
>>25229586
>tfw have never been rejected
>tfw every girl I feel attracted to feels the same towards me
> >Moving to new city for a job
> >Try to reconnect with old fling from college
> >Its been 5 years, send her a facebook message
> >She blocks me
So it goes. Shame, she was the good kind of chubby. Her breasts were massive.
>>25229586
This happened a year ago. I got over it pretty quick. There was a new girl at my workplace, quite petite. I started taking her out in town, showing her around and stuff, we took dance classes together and we would hold hands. Finally I tried kissing her but it seemed I had moved too soon. Anyway we saw each other again at an office party. I sat down next to her on a couch trying to flirt, and she took my hand and took me outside. Then she yelled at me "I'm not attracted to you at all." It was a bit out of the blue since to me I wasn't that insistent or overbearing and up until then I thought at least she liked me. I smiled said "Ok" or "That's fine" or something, went back inside and started making out with some other girl. By then though I was so drunk I had to puke and just went home and collapsed. Subsequent encounters with her were awkward, she did apologize after a few days, but I never started talking to her again, nor do I want to.
i make them ask ME out
>>25230297
It's not that simple dude, you're where you are because you suck.
But don't worry, everyone sucks and everyone has their demons.
Even Alpha Chad
>>25230616
>Fuck off you delusional bitch. This board isn't for you and you know it. Just leave.
>You're mad
No actually I think you're the mad one fampai :^)
>>25230733
I wish this were the reason why but, it's because I'm ugly as shit and I actually was pretty annoying and cancerous.
>>25230773
Where are these 10 guys? I'd be lucky to have one.
>>25231080
Like this?
>>>/out/
>be idiot girl in high school
>have crush on Chad
>erroneously assume Chad feels same way
>get in fight with Chad because I accidentally fucked up his chances with my friend Stacy
>don't speak for years
>get message from Chad on normiebook apologizing for everything that happened
>whole situation is my fault
>accept apology and admit fault
>Chad asks me to come over
>don't respond
>few months pass
>get another message from Chad trying to initiate conversation
>start to catch up on each other's lives
>realize I knew nothing about Chad to begin with
>invite Chad to Christmas party
>days later
>no response
>realize how pathetic I am
>week after party has passed
>"cool I think I'm busy though. sorry haha."
>be a somewhat decent normie
>highschool
>good grades
>get selected to be host among another group of people for an event
>no gf at that time
>one day before the event
>reunion to organize everything
>suddenly this cute girl sits besides me
>starts playing with my hair
>she starts going all flirty and shit
>the teacher who was explaining everything to us noticed and told her to stop or we had to leave
>she stops but she still flirting
>next day, event's day
>shitting my pants, have to talk in front of a very fucking big crowd because it was in a theater
>every host was in a special room
>she had a dress, she looked very beautiful indeed
>she started talking in a way that relaxed me and made me forget my cowardice.
cont?
>>25232478
Don't be a little shit just get on with it
>>25232478
>>25232523
Alright, Cont.
Forgot to say that the part that I appear as a host, I appear with her, just the two of us in the scenario. Not that it matters at all.
>did my shit on the scenario
>actually did it pretty well
>she congratulates me
>time passes, the event ends
>days go by
>one day at school she salutes me
>I find out she has a facebook
>I though it would be nice to text her
>text her
>conversation goes beautifully
>would stay until late just for her
>days go by
>start thinking about her more and more
>realize I had fallen in love with her
>school ends and I was too much of a faggot to do something, anyway I didn't see her that much
>fast foward to next year
>still being a faggot for the mayority of the year
>just staring at her, looking at her
>brutally a victim of her perfection
>final months of the year
>actually grow some balls to get closer to her
>realize her classroom is doing some activity in which you can send roses, poems and shit to other people you had feelings for.
>It's my opportunity
>I will go with everything I had
>Sent her 5 roses and planned to give her one in person telling her how I felt, with a note with a french poem inside.
>shit's looking good
>the day comes, there's no turning back.
>for some reason, she was not at school during the first hours.
>scared she wouldn't come that special day.
Just a note, before that day, I tried to talk to her but she just would come with the excuse that she is busy or doing something. Happened all the times I tried to contact her.
>meet girl
>not really looking for relationship at the time, so befriend her
>get to know her
>get closer
>friendship becomes really affectionate
>we fall asleep together, nothing else happens
>finally just tell her how I feel
>she grabs my hand and tells me she feels the same way
>fall asleep together again
>try to make plans with her
>she cancels last minute
>never heard from her again
Honestly, I would have preferred a straight up rejection to that bullshit.
>>25229742
If she said yes then you got a chance but don't expect her to respond and talk to you every second
Just don't be clingy and give her some space
>>25232798
>special day
>can feel the power
>I have all the confidence of the world.
>she comes to school late but finally.
>one friend of mine calls her for something so I could give her the rose in person.
>walking to her classroom
>everything is getting surrealistic
>it's like if i was walking into the mere fabric of the universe
>she comes out
>holy fuck
>shits happening
>I felt like I was on heaven or something, my existance was getting reconstructed
>I was face to face to her
>my heart is racing.
>i was gazing into eternity
>Give her the rose and tell her how I felt.
>she says "umm.. thanks."
>I smile
>turn back to my classroom and depart.
Actually, I though that she will go crazy about me, but...
She was just like before, ignoring me, coming up with vague excuses.
I even saw her being very friendly with a guy.
Shit... I loved her...
Fast forward to today, a fucking neet... if only I hadn't fallen for that disease called love.
>>25229586
How about a rejection without even asking?
>senior year of high school
>stuck in a bullshit international studies and ethics class
>While easy as a Thai ladyboy, that's kind of the point of the class: a place where liberal arts morons like myself don't have to give a shit about grades or work.
>Still have to give a lecture every other day before teacher arrives on reading material to basic chads and staceys, but life's alright. People appreciate it, even like me. How about that?
>Should note: more cyborg than robot; have friends, 6.5-7/10 looks, do interesting things (baseball, fencing, Eagle Scouts). Virgin and no gf, but what can you do?
>Final project of the year comes around
>"Debunk an urban myth" via Powerpoint
>Area 51? Area 51.
>Always wanted to be a fighter pilot as a kid; grew up on Top Gun, Ace Combat, HAWX. Area 51 and Groome Lake is like the Fighter, Skunkworks, and X-Plane Hall of Fame
>Bell X-1, first supersonic manned flight. North American X-15, fastest manned flight on record. U-2 spyplane, nearly started WW3. A-12 Oxcart / SR-71 Blackbird, makes my dick harder than the titanium they were made from.
>Decide that here and now, will reveal the true depths of autistic power level.
>Because it's the end of the year and my life in this shit town, and why not? I have fuck-all else to do.
>Day of reckoning goes off without a hitch
>Nobody really gives a shit (save for a smattering of laughter), but who cares? I'm having fun.
>Even force the Chads and Stacys to swallow ayylmaos, wojak, and other hallowed memes with the x-planes of yore.
>Lights
>"Questions?"
>Fat bitch at the front raises her hand
>"Anon, have you ever had a girlfriend?"
>mfw
>>25229742
Give her some space.
But due to personal experience, it's seems to me that, yes, it is another rejectionl.
>senior year of high school
>friends sister is super drunk and starts hitting on me
>other friend tells me to go for it
>make out with friends drunk sister
>days later she gets my number and starts texting me
>I guess she likes me
>make plans to go out
>we go out a few times
>I ask her to be my girlfriend
>she says yes
>hours later
>she calls me and says "hey sorry I don't think this will work out I kinda panicked and said yes I don't think I'm ready for a relationship"
>talk to her sporadically over the next 2 years in futile attempts to get back the only girl that's ever liked me
>no dice
There are a few tales about how this girl played with my feelings and emotions over the course of these two years but none of them involve me getting as close to dating her as I did initially
>Senior year of high school
>Showed up to school absolutely piss drunk because my dog died
>Didn't go to class though, just sort of loitered, not really sure what I was thinking
>During break, a qt Iranian girl from one of my classes sits next to me in the computer lounge and strikes up a conversation
>The topic turns to prom
>She says "S-So do you have anyone that you're going with yet?"
>I say that I'm not going
>She looks concerned and says "Oh. Even... if there was someone that wanted to go with you?"
>I don't catch on, and I say that I still wouldn't really be interested
>Later, my friend throws a fit telling me how much she prepared to ask me to prom and how much she stressed over it and how her circle of friends had to give her pep talks and everything
>After the last day of exams, everyone's signing yearbooks
>She asks me if she can write something in mine
>I didn't buy one
>She asks me to write something in hers
>I write something to the effect of "good luck with everything, I hope you do well in uni"
>She looks at me and says "that's it?"
>I have no idea what to say, so I say "I'm sorry"
>Later I saw in other people's books that she wrote multi-paragraph messages about how much she enjoyed spending time with them
>tfw I am the problem
>get to college
>freshman
>welcome week, lots of parties
>looking for people to meet up with to go out
>text hot girl from orientation
>at orientation, both in relationships
>wanted to bang but couldn't
>meet at her dorm to drink before going to house party
>before I even say hi, tells me she broke up with her ex-boyfriend the night before
>feelsgoodman.jpeg
>gonna bone tonight
>go to party
>lots of her friends from home are there
>know no one
>eventually she asks if I want to leave
>get out of there faster than a nigger after a car accident
>she pulls up an address on her phone
>doesn't look like address of her dorm
>walk her to house, use bathroom, go back to my dorm
>mfw I realize that I literally walked her to some dude's house to get fucked
>>25232478
>starts playing with my hair.
Could you possibly be anymore of a faggot?
>>25229586
>Hi Stacy, what are you doing tonight?
>Don't ignore me you rancid swine
>junior year of high school
>dress poorly and have relatively poor hygiene
>have only one friends
>crushing hard on 5-6/10 girl who is taller than me
>tfw 5'7"
>we are in the same lab group in science class, so we talk quite a bit
>learn that she will be switching classes next semester
>this is both good and bad, if I ask her out and she rejects me, then I won't have to see her anymore
>plan on asking her chucks at her locker
>puss out several times
>I realise I need to try something else
>I know she works at the local Wal-Mart, so I decide that I will buy a rose and ask her out while she checks me out at the register
I'm cringing really hard remembering this
>second semester starts, time to put my shitty plan into action
>she is not at any of the registers
>FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCK
>ask for her
>hand her the rose and drop a semester's worth of spaghetti
>she tells me she has a boyfriend
>I know she's lying
>go with it anyway
>never speak to her again
>college
>clean self up and dress well
>have been told that I physically attractive and could model by several sources
>still too afraid to talk to girls
>mfw one girl completely destroyed my self-confidence and I was beta enough to let it happen
>meet girl who is a friend of a friend of a friend at star wars
>next saturday we're drinking and she's there
>starts hitting on me at karaoke, asking me if i have a missus, saying i should definitely hang out with her on new years, maintaining contact
>forget to ask her number because im drunk, wait a few days then add her on facebook
>never responds
honestly don't understand
here have a ''postitive'' rejection story.
>be me , fat as fuck
>talking with girl i find cute
>we where like friends, talked some times
>asking if she wants to be my gf
>rejects me , says she doesnt want to have any bf till the school is over
>i lost weight , go to the gym
>she notices , makes me compliments, asks me if we want to do something together, but i lost interest long time ago.
>tell her i dont have time, i have better to do
>>25231362
>I'd be lucky to have one
You could. There's basically no advice other than "be yourself" which seems awfully vague. It's really just being okay with what you are/look like. That doesn't mean admitting that you're "ugly", but putting a measure of effort into your looks, saying "that's really as much as I can do", and then focusing on improving yourself in other ways.
If you don't play sports, learn one. It makes a girl 100x more attractive, but don't bother with that, do it because it's fun. That's really the key.
>>25233005
You could have said something witty and insulting back at her. You fucked up.
Chad is fucking Stacey
Meanwhile Brian whom has been orbiting you since highschool just liked your normiebook picture that has 30 likes
>>25234706
>5'7
>modeling
Don't feel too bad anon, they were clearly bullshitting.
>>25229586
>don't ignore me you rancid swine
exquisite.
>>25229586
>dont ignore me you rancid swine
TOP FUCKING KEK
>>25235239
>>25235312swinemind
>>25235165
'Who' you fucking cunt
>>25230229
Same thing is happening to me except I didn't get the courage to ask for his number because I don't want to be even more annoying.
>>25230520
Did you send her any pictures? Really absurd how someone can change their mind seemingly mid-text. I've had a situation where a girl agreed to a fourth date, seemed okay, then one day just stopped talking to me and I'll never know why. I've just accepted it as a fact that people's reasoning is too erratic to analyzed when it comes things like that.
>>25230297
maybe the women who degrade and mock nerds aren't the same as the women who want to date nerds
>>25230343
It's implicit by virtue of being a woman.
>>25235516
>What is a cruel joke
I don't blame someone for being cautious if he is used to people treating him like shit by default.
Never been rejected by a girl. Cause I never asked or approached. And now Tinder has come and made approaching obsolete. So perhaps non-replies there should be considered rejections. Or only if I directly ask them to do something? I could get 4 rejections in the bag right now. Hooray for technology.
I knew a girl from high school. I made the mistake of going to the same college, even taking the same major. I asked her out and she rejected me during our first year.
That was 3 years ago when I was young and stupid. Since then she's told everyone in my major about me. It started innocently enough, but over the years it mutated, whether through her or people assuming the worst, not that she would care to correct that since she clearly enjoys the attention. Every interaction with people in my major is predicated by my "crime" 3 years ago plus anything else she has said since then.
On my end, I've told nobody IRL, not even family what happened 3 years ago. However, they do know she exists and every now and then they ask and all I can say is "I don't know". I have a few relatively close friends in my major, and they clearly know what she's been saying but they're decent enough not to ask me for whatever reason. Other people in my major still treat me decently when she's not around even though they all know at this point. I try to be as helpful as possible to everyone just to provide a counterpoint to whatever shit she's been spewing, but I think I've only managed to slow her down, not stop her. I don't think I've ever turned anyone away, not even people who are friends with her.
Whatever she's been talking about regarding me has escalated recently, with some people even calling for her to report me to the dean saying they'll lie for her. Just before the holiday vacation, I finally had enough and made an appointment to see the school's legal office so I can explore my options for defense. I've also made an appointment with the counseling services for a psychiatric evaluation just to make sure I'm not entirely fucked in the head.
>>25230733
That cynicism is understandable but was it well-founded? I mean, had any of that you-directed flirting been solidly confirmed as a prank/joke?
I had the same thoughts. I think I've got over it but I dunno, no one flirts with me.
>>25235888
What exactly did she accuse you of?
>>25230229
You.
I ask again, what state?
If you're out of high school and you're still getting rejected by girls, you need to fucking kill yourself.
Girls only respond negatively if you're a real fucking creeper. Seriously, just relax and be yourself and you can get a date from any girl.
>>25229586
>"I will respect you and treat you well"
>"Don't ignore me you rancid swine"
She's right to reject such an hypocrite and liar.
>>25235626
But I've never done any of that stuff.
>>25236054
You are saying you never get rejected? And only 'creepers' get rejected? Nonsense, and the pic you posted contradicts it.
>>25236086
This. If he really respected her and treated her well, he wouldn't react like that. His throwing a violent tantrum and resorting to insults when he doesn't get what he wants just proves he is lying about respecting her and treating her well and that she is right in ignoring him.
>>25236005
Nothing yet officially to the administration, but it's still disturbing.
She's mainly been accusing me of "being creepy" while gossiping despite the obvious fact that I have not spoken a word to her since that day, directly or indirectly. Some of her friends have suggested that I'm "dangerous" (as in "he's going to rape and murder you" dangerous) to her recently and she's doing nothing to dissuade them. While gossiping is still free speech, I don't want to have to deal with serious false accusations especially since I'm so close to graduation.
>>25236157
No, I'm saying if you don't know how to talk to girls you're fucking retarded lol. They're not some special fucking creatures so don't treat them like they are.
>>25236195
Knowing the males on this board you do likely look creepy and disgusting. Faces can be repulsive chump.
>>25236257
Ugly or not, that doesn't justify them abusing the legal system to make false accusations.
>>25236195
Knowing the males on this board you do likely look creepy and disgusting. Faces can be repulsive, chump, and from your face people can tell a lot about you.
>inb4 but I'm decent I rate myself so and so
Nah that's not how it works. You are simply wrong. And repulsive too.
>>25230229
lonely in oregon here
>>25236273
If gossip is making false accusations then you are making false accusations about her right now since you're gossiping about her to us. That's now false accusations work, retard. Someone's impression of you being a creep and a potential rapist doesn't mean you have actually raped someone, just like your impression of her being a bitch and making accusations doesn't mean she actually pressed charges against you. You're just attention whoring.
>>25235888
This is why you don't shit where you eat. You should've kept her at arms length knowing how incredibly awkward it seems for someone from your high school to pick the same major as at you at the same school AND ask you out.
>liked this girl for a whole year
>been pretty obvious about it
>on year's end ceremony ask her out
>she just stands there looking at the ground
>turns around and walks away
>her best friend comes up to me
>"how can you still smile anon, you just got rejected in the most awkward way possible"
>"I should be proud - I had the balls to ask her out and had even more balls to accept her rejection"
I hate being a very efficient human being I literally cannot suffer
>>25236410
She goes to the administration at the urgings of her friends and then there will be an offical false accusation against me. What's wrong with taking steps to defend yourself?
>>25236466
Well no shit. It was one of the most important lessons I've ever learned. Too bad it had to be like this.
>meet a girl in German class
>sit next to her every class for partners
>one day professor announces free tickets for the local German film festival
>ask her out to it
>"sure"
>swap numbers, begin texting back and forth for a bit
>go to movie, went well, but purely innocent
>begin doing homework together all the time, eat meals together, play board games, talk, etc.
>continues for a month or so before I decide to pop the real question
>"Oh... I'm not into guys, actually... "
We're still best friends but I wish we could be something more.
>>25236410
>You're just attention whoring
>posts an actual rejection story
>in a thread about rejection stories
>>25236585
>"I'm not into guys...like you"
what she really meant
>>25236501
Nothing wrong if you're clear, but I don't think you are given how stalkerish your behaviour towards her is. You may not talk to her but you sure seem to spy and follow her activities around a lot. Being a stalker is a crime too, creep.
>>25236618
I've thought about that, but I'm pretty sure she's being genuine. She wouldn't have wanted to hang out with me this whole Christmas break back in our home area if she didn't like me on an emotional level.
>>25236659
I'm in the same major too far in to switch out. No shit I have to take the same classes which means having to hear all the gossip.
>>25236703
it seems you are just a 'nice guy' to her, and she wants a bad boy
>>25230229
ive read this story
>>25236745
I guess I'll have to wait and see if she ever gets a boyfriend then. We're both robots, so it might take awhile.
>>25236703
>She wouldn't have wanted to hang out with me this whole Christmas break back in our home area if she didn't like me on an emotional level.
Bet that's comforting. You paint her nails, Chad pounds her tail.
>>25236716
I can't hear what other people are gossiping about unless I sit close to them and lean in and pay close attention to what they're saying rather what the teacher's saying.
If you've been doing this despite her not wanting you near her, the fault is on you and you've just proved her gossip of ypu being a creep and a potential danger true, since that's not normal behaviour.
>>25236807
It's towards the end of undergrad so the class size is very small, so everyone hears everyone elses' business.
>>25236852
There's also the fact that the classes take place in very physically small classrooms where you can hear everything.
>be me
>be in 3rd grade
>had crush on boy, now thinking about it he was probably a mini-chad
>wanted to confess my love to him, waited anxiously until valentine's day since i thought it would be a perfect day
>valentine's day arrives
>teacher holds party for class
>sitting at table, sees oneitis sitting across from me talking with some mini-stacies
>gets nervous at first but eventually gains the courage to get up and tell him
>i walk over
>i approach him
>tell him straight up that i love him
>his face grows into a look of disgust and horror, i can still remember it vividly
>he says "um...no thanks"
>starts laughing at me
>stacies surrounding him start laughing with him too
>they started calling me names
>i started tearing up, face turns red
>runs back to my table sobbing
>tfw valentine's day was ruined
Even from the fucking start I was cursed to be a kissless virgin. Just kill me.
>>25229942
>22
>19
>too young
Women are stupid.
I was dating 23yo grills when I was 18. And 24/25yo when I was 19/20.
5 years older was like a magic number for me.
Now I'm 22 and dating a 19yo.
I don't have any good rejection stories. I've only been rejected like... twice?Inb4 REEEE, Chad, etc. I've never really asked out many grills.
>>25236920
post your face and we guys can tell you the honest truth if your doomed or not
>>25236870
I've been in physically small rooms though and still couldn't hear what others were saying, and I got perfect hearing. Your story still sounds fishy.
>>25236920
Are you a qt boy? Please say yes.
>>25236920
be my kv gf
>>25236959
What works for you doesn't necessarily work for others. Idiot.
>>25237035
When did I say it did, retard?
>>25236996
I don't continuously monitor what she's saying, but the snippets I've heard now are much more serious than what was being said 3 years ago.
So what the fuck am I supposed to tell my lawyer to help me defend myself?
>>25229586
>be me
>never asked a girl to hangout
>never got rejected
>>25234485
>rancid swine
Gets me every time
>never even risked getting rejected
>had one gf who i asked out only after she gave enough clear hints of wanting to fuck that even a autist would have picked up
beta orbiters with hundreds of rejections are the biggest losers. i btfo'd like 3 of them when i had a gf. fucking scavengers
>Be me
>8th grade
>Ask out girl i had been crushing on for a while
>She says yes
>3 days later
>she breaks up with me because her friends say she can do better.
>her friends don't even know me.
>Feelsbadman.jpg
>>25237588
I'm not even Chad but yeah I do this. Why put in effort when there's plenty of low-hanging fruit?
>>25237053
When you bitched at what doesn't work for her, spewed WOMEN ARE IDIOTS for not being into the same thing you are and when went on to brag about your shit tastes.
>>25237588
I really don't comprehend beta orbiters. Fine even, don't go for low-hanging fruit, but do these people have no sense of shame or pride? Do they not realize how pathetic they look? I will hide my patheticness as best as possible, tyvmf. It's much safer to never try until you know you have a 100% chance of success.
>>25230733
My brother
>>25235965
Not the same guy but yeah.
>sitting in class
>girl comes up and starts talking to me
>never happened before so I'm nervous as fuck
>she's pretty obiously flirting with me
>I attempt to flirt back in the shutter ways imaginable
>she giggles
>asks for my phone number
>ohfuckalrightsure
>home later that day
>my phone is blowing the fuck up
>she gave her friends my number
>they're saying stupid shit I can't even remember, but she's cutting deep
>saying shit like
>"like I'd ever date someone like you"
>"you're disgusting"
>"fucking creep"
None of that was true. I've always been clean, showered, deodorant. Whole 9 yards. Never creeped on anyone and mostly kept to myself. Anyway
>hurt that I thought I could talk to her and she just wanted to shit on me
>back to school
>class sort of laughing, whispering and shushing
>you know the feeling
Plenty of shit like this happened but this is the worst I can remember. don't remember when people stopped fucking with me over that bit it felt like forever. So yeah when I don't trust women being nice to me I have a pretty good reason.
>>25237987
you need to Rodger those bitches
>>25237987
I'm a shy autist but I'm lucky that I look enough like a biker/scumbag that chicks don't try this on me
I feel for you man.
>>25229586
>New girl at school
>QT 8/10
>Seemed interested in me
>Ask her on a date
>Says yes
>Dick is diamonds
>At mall waiting for date to arrive
>Late
>Wait 30 mins
>Give her a call, no answer.
>After an hour I give up.
>Phone call 2 hours later
>Apparently she went to a party the night before
>Slept with some guy
>They're going out now apparently
>Avoided me for the rest of the year
>9th grade
>start talking to grill, think we are friends
>in the middle of a conversation she says "I would never date you"
>I say why
>she says "because of your face"
>everyone in the room laughs at this including her
>10th grade
>talking to grill in Spanish class
>she gives me her number
>go home and call the number
>some other grill I don't know answers
>I ask if the grill I called for was around
>she says "you have the wrong number" and hangs up
>walking in hall the next day, see her
>she whispers to her friends and points at me
>the entire group of grills busts out laughing in unison
there were other incidents.
now a 26 year old virgin don't talk to women anymore. situation probably won't change.
>>25238027
Nah I'm good. This was back around 2007.
I just want a fucking girlfriend but every bitch only does miscommunication. I don't even know what to do sometimes. do I really have to probe around until they finally cave in or some shit? that's madness. the fucking sense of mistrust that gets built up is doing nothing good for each of us.
>>25238045
Thanks man. Went through about 3 more years of that before I grew a few feet and it stopped completely.
>>25229586
Recent one
>at a diner around midnight
>goth looking waitress is quiet but nice
>end up breaking the ice and chatting her up.
>she sits with me and talks for a while sometimes leaving to do work but comes back to chat.
>leave but regret not getting her number. Go back a week later.
>we have a longer talk, she's laughing and being flirty. I ask her out.
>"I'm going through a bad break up "
>still get her number.
>don't go back for a while but decide to chat her up again
>text her asking if she wants company and she responds with a "that would be nice :)"
>we have another nice talk but she is sketchy about whether she wants to hang out with me.
>stop by and wish her a merry Christmas, since we both don't have any friends
>she seems lukewarm and apathetic
I don't get it. I've given up on her now but it just takes a huge effort to please women. Every piece of advice says confidence and Persistence are the two most important things and I was both.
She did say something about hanging out after the holidays but that's rejection material l, if I was Chad she would have found time for me
>>25238308
you need to text her 'u want tha dik bae?' that is all women respond to
Not really a rejection but it's the closest I've gotten
>9th grade
>was a huge beta orbiter
>girl i like lived on the same street as me
>we walked home together often
>she thought I was funny so she kept me around for entertainment
>wanted to walk home with her one day but she was still inside the school
>go to see what's up
>pretend to fuck around with my locker
>she's with her friends talking about some shit
>i go talk to them because I hadn't become a complete sperg yet and could still hold a conversation like a human being
>nothing really happens and they're just sort of waiting around
>one of my orbitee's fat whale friends blurts out "HE WANTS TO WALK HOME WITH YOU HAHAHAHA"
>blush super fucking hard
>pretend I didn't hear her even though she's right next to me
>"AWWWWW HE'S BLUSHING HAHAHA"
>still ignoring her
>I'm reading a poster while awkwardly slapping my thighs and making farting noises
>girl I like doesn't say anything outside of laughing awkwardly
>manage to stutter "f-f-fuck you guys, I'm out"
I never bothered trying after that. All I need is mai waifu
>>25238321
I don't text much anyways. I'm waiting to see if she initiates anything.
>trust mate with who i like
>he tells his brother who is in the same year level
>he walks up to me and tells me he is going to tell her
>sprints off cackling
>10 minutes later group of girls approach me with crush in the middle
>this is my moment i can do this
Will you go out with me?
>i say it confidently surprised at how i sound
>dreams of a better tomorrow are instantly shattered when her friends burst out laughing and a smirk crosses her lips
I have a boyfriend, sorry.
>they leave still laughing
>she turns back with a look of pity
Jokes on her though! Her boyfriend dumped her for a better chick and I heard she wants to talk to me now but can't because I have no social media.
>>25238323
>>I'm reading a poster while awkwardly slapping my thighs and making farting noises
oh fuck no i feel your pain
>>25238344
>I heard she wants to talk to me now but can't because I have no social media.
you heard wrong
>>25238395
Probablybloxbloxblox
>>25229586
>After highschool I did ok with wome
Somebody kick this fucking normie out
>>25238308
>if I was Chad she would have found time for me
Yeah, delete those digits, stop going to that restaurant. You're only doing your head in. if a woman doesn't like you, no amount of meddling is going to change that.
I don't have any rejection storiesBecause I'm too afraid to ask anyone out
>>25230343
You didn't need to.
>2009
>underage emo girl i had a crush on breaks up with her boyfriend who happend to be a buddy of mine
>think its against bro code to hit on her but the crush was just too strong
>message her on obscure some facebook-before-facebook site
>asking her out etc.
>she basically explains me that just because she broke up with her bf she will not take next guy asking her
>realize that i mean absolutely nothing to her
>heart broke
>she probably tells my buddy that i asked her out, lose contact to him
>skip to 2015
>buddy hanged himself because of depression
>go to funeral
>200+ people there
>she is there too
>she gives me the oh no not that faggot again look
>later she starts crying
>realize that at no chance, even a quarter of those people would be at my funeral
>realize that no girl would ever cry at my funeral
>give my sincerest condolences to his mother
>walk away into nothing
>>25233005
Jets will never let you down senpai, jets will always love you and keep you warm and safe at night.
>>25236086
oh so you noticed a contrast and yet you didn't notice what caused exactly that? you're a stupid asshole.
>>25236171
and you as well. stick that faulty faggot judgment up your shithole.
>>25233414
>showed up drunk
Idiot, that's what you get for underage drinking
>>25232113
>even Chad is subject to the pointless bullshit whims of dumb women who don't know what they want
I never had a chance, did I?
I was just about to ask out my qt Korean oneitis, but this thread made me lose hope.
Thanks.
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>>25236054
>If you're out of high school and you're still getting rejected by girls
joke's on you, i've stopped asking girls out
I was never rejected because I never tried.
>work with girl everyday during semester
>she's actually a good lab partner, pulls her own weight
>have lots of fun, go on "lunch dates" before studying
>ask her out
>"sorry anon, I'm too busy with school. No time for a bf"
>keep working with her
>right before final she asks me out for a drink afterwards
>right after final, sorry anon I'm not feeling it. I'm just gonna go home
I haven't talked to her since that bullshit.
I don't have any.
I spent my high school years in a bubble of apathetic ignorance and I barely spoke to anyone.
Did I waste my life friends?
>>25236008
I'll tell you if you tell me what state.
Ok i dont usually post here but I have to ask:
Does that still happen to you?
Most of the stories posted in this thread sound like theyre from highschool, and even for that theyre really harsh. Is that an American thing? Im a 20 yo German and even in the equivalent of high school Ive never seen or heard from girls behaving like such little cunts. I mean I was a huge autist from 15-17 and even I didnt get rejected in this way. The worst that happened to me was just being ignored, and after 18 people (me too) got a whole lot more mature.
So is this really a thing or just some projected fears?
>>25233005
You should have said
>have you ever had a bit of exercise?
>>25229942
Same shit happened to me anon. Except she thought I was 25 and she was 23. Went on a date and I told her I was really 19.
>too young
I should've just lied
>>25237987
i had one girl pretend to flirt with me in primary school (year before high school)
i shut her down
ever since, every woman that is half attractive that has flirted with me i've instantaneously shot down
which is really bad because there were a lot mocking me but there was this one girl who i'm friends with now and she is really nice but she legitimately liked me and i full on ignored her
if i could go back in time, i'd hit that
hard
>>25243422
Its pretty typical. You usually expect the worst if your not a 9/10 chad in america.
I posted the story about the goth waitress but that wasn't even my worst rejection. My entire dating life is shitty rejections
>>25246230
bro it's not just america
it's anywhere civilised
>>25234706
why do you faggots always give roses to your crushes?
>>25247550
roses are the flowers of romance i suppose
better than giving her a venus flytrap unless she's a god damned weirdo
>>25238077
>>25238323
Kids are so fucking cruel desu. There were people I went to school with that I sometimes was mean to and I regret it so much
>>25243422
I've lived in clapistan for a long time and most people even into their twenties are extremely immature here. I don't buy into the "all women are demon succubi" meme that's so popular on r9k, but a lot of girls my age are pretty entitled and catty tbqh
>>25233414
Dude are you fucking retarded?
>>25230343
you may not have, but women overall, on average, do exactly that. So his reaction to you was perfectly reasonable when you have the proper context and shit.
>>25235179
According to his post, he was 5'7 in junior high, but was told about the modelling in college, so I'm assuming he's grown in the interim.
>>25236054
>only bad people are rejected
there's that Just World syndrome again.
>summer 2014
>friend is having a party
>talk to a nice girl there
>things go pretty well
>later girl way out of my league comes
>try anyway but being way too autistic
>thought i did well anyway
>later hear that she likes my best friend since then
>now they are together
>had to actively tell my friend to get together with her
>every girl ive ever known seems to be taken at this point
>friend and his now gf are still cool and try to hook me up
>actually a friend of her seems to be really interessted in me for some reason
>straight out told them if she had a chance with me and they told me
>things go pretty well with her because of self esteem
>she hooks up with some chad 1 day bafore we would have met again.
girls are faggots.
>>25229586
I have an amazing one from my High School days.
>have female aquitance
>so in love with her
>we talk a lot
>get enough confidence to ask her out
>"hey wanna go see a movie with me"
>"that sounds good anon! Who else is coming?"
>i could've told her "just you and me"
>but i got the idea
>"we'll see" i said
>never again asked her again
>end up frienzoned months later
>>25230520
Sounds like a catfish anon. I think you dodged a bullet there.
>>25229942
Men want to date younger women. Why would you want a woman who's going to be looking old before you?
>>25234907
"I have better to do"
I'm sure you do anon, I'm sure you do
>confess to a girl during finals week of senior year
>her face flushes completely red, I remember it vividly
>smiles and says "I'll talk to you later," I let her walk
>texts me about how she had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and wasn't ready to trust another guy
>lets me down easy over the phone
>three months into college finds a boyfriend
Haven't fallen in love since.
>>25241076
>emo girl i had a crush on
>facebook-before-facebook site
you mean......myspace?
>start talking with a girl on skype earlier this year
>she lives about 20minutes away
>eventually we exchange pictures
>ask her if she wants to meet up before i go away for the summer to visit my relatives and wont be back till september
>she says yes but her schedule is pretty busy
>the day before she calls it off because she can't make it
>she says we'll definietly meet up after the summer when i get back
>i believe her
>one day she just stopped responding to my messages
>she didn't ignore me because she is online a lot
>sometimes she'd call me on skype when i wasn't there and even wish me happy birthday but never actually respond to any of my written messages
>i even add her on another account because i think something might be wrong because we used to have connection problems
>she adds the account so she definietly sees that im trying to contact her
>still only calls when i'm not there or offline
>one day she messages me out of nowhere
>asks me if i want to buy nudes
>uwotm8
>tell her no and then ask her why is she trying to sell me nudes now after not talking to me in months
>apparently it's not even her but someone who found her phone but seems to know her
>ask her for her facebook or some other ways i could contact her
>she says no and tells me that she probably doesnt want to talk to me
>then she says its because i kept sending too many messages to her and it came off as creepy or something
>then she even implies she showed our conversations to others and made fun of it
To this day i don't know what happened. It all started so good, but i think she just found me ugly. She also warned me in the beginning that she was a bad person but i didn't believe her. Maybe i should have. It's also possible that the person i was talking to pretending to be someone who found her phone was actually her all along but i don't know. I haven't seen her online since then but she didn't ignore me. I guess i dodged a bullet there.I added her from r9k btw
>>25251993
maybe he's from europe
>>25252403
fuck this makes me mad.
why are such people browsing our board
not really a rejection, but me being absolutely retarded:
>new year party in edinburgh
>outside smoking, start talking to qt blonde girl
>talking shite with her
>she tells me she gets really horny when she drinks wine
>I chuckle and say "You - I like you."
>talk again for a bit, finish cigs, we go back inside
>I get progressively more steaming drunk as the night goes on, mingling with different folk
>qt blonde starts hanging around with me and my group of friends
>nearly new year, absolutely mangled by this point
>I end up going off with some hambeast, don't get laid but we end up kissing the face off each other and hanging around each other the rest of the night, see qt blonde still hovering around my friends
>wake up the next morning, hungover to fuck
>bump into qt blonde outside having a ciggy again
>start talking, she asks me whats going on with me and hambeast
>tell her it was fun but I was pretty drunk so it was a mistake
>qt blonde says "Oh man, I never got a shag last night. Still got two condoms left."
>I say "Oh man, that sucks. I never got lucky either"
>think nothing of it, my cig was finished, Igo back inside, my friends are all getting ready to leave (one of them doesnt drink, he was the one who was driving us to/from edinburgh)
>pack my stuff up
>just put seatbelt on in car
>realise qt blonde was wanting my 7 inches of prime scottish beef in and around her fanny
>literally facepalm in car almost the whole way back, with a raging hangover and some gentle mocking from my friends over my exploits with hambeast
I was a virgin at that point too. Mercifully I've had much better luck with women since then (5 year relationship with current girlfriend and still going strong) but if I was still a virgin that experience would probably have driven me to fling myself off the Erskine Bridge by now desu.
>be on France for exchange
>host sister a petite blonde qt
>be talking on Skype with a friend
>she tells me "your friend is cute"
>"hah, would you fuck him?"
>"no, hahah"
>jokingly ask: "would you fuck me?"
>she gives me a serious look
>"No."
Thank you, it's because of you that I lost 12kg, right after that day.
I'm a person who becomes very paranoid and very self-searching when stressed.
So when I fell in love with this chick and I got some mixed results (she led me on for a bit), I become completely obsessed, I analyzed every single move of her and immediately tried to find out why she did it. It got to the point where if she became aloof and looked to her left, I'd examine what was to her left to determined what she was looking at or what she wished to see (I always reached the conclusion that it was another dude).
Obviously nothing happened, everyone knew, I was made fun of intensely behind my back and it was an unpleasant journey the whole way.
Fuck other people, mate, improve yourself to get other people to grovel after you so you're in the position of power and who determines who gets rejected or not.
>>25230733
This so much. I got burned too many times.
(Random protip: The anime "Oregairu". Watch it, and thank yourself later.)
>>25233414
BRO
MY HEART
IT GOES OUT TO YOU
I fucked up with every girl that's ever showed me interest, but I don't think I would've dated them anyway. The only girls that like me are unstable sluts and I try to be a good Catholic man.
>be an autist
>can't read when people are sarcastic or real
>girls in middle school pretended to like me as a joke
>now have an even harder time reading girls
>all my early romantic experiences (don't worry, I'm still khhv) were traumatic, from rape nightmares to maximum spaghetti dances and such
>high school comes and I finally hit that part of puberty where I begin to gain muscle
>a few girls like me and are forward
>suspect them of wanting to hurt me because they're pretty stacey-ish
>tfw the few girls that liked me legitimately had crushes on me
>the girls I liked were all fucked up, taken, or lesbians, or all three
>so I can't like normal girls
>if a girl likes me, I can't tell
>even if I could, I'd still have to get past my spaghetti
>but I know if my mind was capable I could be successful with women
>feel eternally rejected
I don't even want sex all the time or hookups or expect shit. I just want a female to love me and pay me attention. This is a unique kind of hell
As for rejections, I've had only one bad rejection. Every other girl was so gentle in rejecting me. One of my favorite stories here:
>be mad crushing on a girl for 3~ years
>in the second year I'm going crazy and can't handle my emotions, so I text her my feelings
>huge_mistake.jpeg
>no response all day, spent night crying to sleep like a pussy faggot
>tmrw morning in 1st period, immediately begin apologizing
>she's baffled as fuck, turns out her phone broke and she hasn't checked messages since 4 two days ago, and got a new one that morning.
>checks her messages
>she writes me the nicest rejection letter ever, I hope I have it somewhere, actually
>doesn't talk to me that day
>after then, everything's back to normal
Like holy shit, she was so gentle. So robots, not all women are mean.
>>25254380
>be an autist
>can't read when people are sarcastic or real
It's much more likely that you're simply inexperienced in social situations. I was there myself, when I was in my late teens and early 20s: I thought I was intrinsically broken, when I merely lacked confidence. You're (probably) not some special misshapen snowflake with something as over-diagnosed (and self-diagnosed) as "autism".
>>25254380
>nicest rejection letter ever
what did she write/what was the letter about?
how did she manage to write a rejection letter that was nice?
Girl 1
>Be friend-zoned by qt 6/10 girl
>Always beta orbited so much, she got annoyed by me and treated me like shit
>Want to leave her, but a part of me still wanted to stay with her
>Decided to just tell her my feelingsSigh, it's even more beta than that
I wrote a long as love note and read it to her
>"I'll think about it"
>the next week, she rejected me by text
>We've stopped hanging out a week later
Girl 2
>Go to her house
>She opens the door
>Asked out 9/10 qt acquaintance
>"WWhhhhyyyy?"
>Start to stammer and got confused
>"Ugh. I'll think about it"
>"What that does that mean?"
>"I'll think about it. Bye."
>Go home
>Later on, search up "I'll think about it"
>"No."
>Week later she says "Can we still be friends?"
>Now, we don't even like each other
girl 3
>At work
>qt Asian chick started talking to me
>We had a conversation and some laughs
>"Hey, do you wanna hang out after work"
>"Um. I'll think about it"
>"Okay I'll see ya."
>I didn't see her again"
girl 4
>on the bus
>girl on the bus
>Recognize her from work and she talked to me once
>decided to balls up and talk to her
>we had a good conversation
>Our stop was coming
>"Hey, text me sometime"
>"Oh, but I'm not sure you have my number"
>"Okay, let me give it to you."
>"Oh it's okay, when we see each other, I'll give it to you"
>See her again
>She ignores me/tried hard not to maintain eye contact
>Notthisshitagain.gif
>Since she lives close, I have to suffer awkward run-ins with each other
continue...
>>25254780
Continue here
Girl 5
>Notice another girl from work on the bus
>ballsed up and talked to her
>had a good conversation
>Her stop is coming
>"Oh hey, can I get your number?"
>"Eh, it's kinda late right now. Maybe another time"
>I know it's another rejection
>"Yeah, sure another time"
>She leaves, I grunted on the way home
Girl 6
>One last free ticket to amusement park
>decided to use it to finally ask out my oneitis that works there
>Go there
>She's there
>Ask if I can talk to her in private for a short moment
>Few minutes later she comes out
>I try to have a convo with her first
>"Yeah, um, but anon, what did you want to talk to me about"
>Think to myself "Shit, I gotta come out with it now"
>"I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime. With me?"
>"Wait as in hang out?"
>Legeorgecostanzaface.jpg
>Nnnooo, I mean I wanna take you out"
>She blushes
>"Wow" "I don't know" "Uh, I'm seeing someone right now..."
>Didn't get me that upset/ had a feeling she was
>"But we can hang out, okay?"
>I think she's lying. Either way, I wouldn't really want to hang out with her again anyways
>"Sure"
>We hugged
>Said goodbye
>Went home miserable/tired
>Went to sleep for hours
Girl 7
>New work place
>Break time
>See qt girl sitting alone
>Ballsed up and sit next to her to talk
>try to make conversation and ask her about herself
>Mostly short replies and she didn't bother to reciprocate conversation
>she kept texting her cell
>asked if she wanted to grab something to eat
>"No, I just ate."
>Said okay, then I left
>get a ride to a girl's house late at night.
>go into her house, over text she thought I was attractive and offered to do a bunch of shit with me
>I talk to her a bit then get handsy
>she makes something up about having to go meet her friends at walmart
>I call my friend to pick me up
>he rolls up
>she says "does he have a gf? He's cute"
>tell her no and leave
>never told him or anyone else
It's a bad feel.
>>25229586
>Having the balls to ask her out
Fucking normies
>>25254875
Girl 8
>Been talking and flirting with girl
>90% sure she liked to go out with me
>Took me a while cause I wanted to wait til shes 18stupid sister told me I be a pedo if I went out with girls younger than 18. Im 21 now
>Ask her out
>Said she wanted to be more focused in school
>we still text each other for now
Im now convinced I don't really have a chance with a woman right now or ever. I hate when I get my hopes up for a woman and I get nothing. Maybe I should just work on myself to make it better.
>>25230229
Is this a pasta? I keep seeing it
These are really interesting to read how a rejection can hurt people so bad. I guess ive felt it before but not in a while. Ive asked out tons of girls,some i barely knew some i knew real well but i asked them out rarely did i succeed but when i did it felt great, when i didnt, i didnt care i just moved on to the next girl ive never really looked for a relationship ive always just been looking for nudes or to fuck.
>>25235063
>You fucked up
Fair point. Best I could manage under the circumstances was a few seconds of shocked silence, followed by "Eat shit, next question?".
Honestly, I think kinda deserved it, for the memes. But such is life.
>>25243501
>Have you ever had a bit of exercise?
Mah nigga
>>25241129
Oh stop it, desu. I'm gonna go watch Top Gun now.
>>25255314
you are a pedo.
>>25233005
Could've responded with "Have you ever had a salad?"
>>25255907
>girl is 17
EW DUDE SHES A CHILD, DUDE BACK OFF
>Girl is 18
YEA DUDE GO AFTER THAT TOTALLY HIT DAT ASS LIKE DAT PUSSAYYYY
>>25255818
Good response sempai.
Some one notice me plz
>>25255907
That feel when AOC is 16 in my country. Feelzgud.
>>25230297
Can you actually provide a personal example? I feel like betas imagine this "degrade and mock nerds for years" shit happening, because women tend to go for chads who aren't nerdy and the betas overreact. In reality I feel like women don't care if you're "nerdy" unless you make it obvious and/or act like an autist.
>>25242267
State of constant despair.
>go round friend's gaff for drinks
>girl I pulled 6 months earlier there
>say hi and chill with her during night
>go home next day after a decent evening
>she tells everyone I was hitting on her
getting rejected without actually hitting on the bint is a new low
>>25229586
>Don't ignore me you rancid swine
I lost. That was damn funny
>>25229586
I have a similar story
>be in track and field in 9th grade
>summer after school
>redead girl, 5'3, legs of a goddess
>hnnnng.png
>work up courage
>ask her out to a movie
>she says yes
>happiest night of my life
>tells me couple days later some friends want to come along
>oh
>I see where this is going
>it becomes more of a girls night out than a date
>end up going and sitting a row behind about 10 female friends of this girl
>leave 15 minutes into the movie
>they didn't even notice I was there
>go to gas station
>buy cheap crappy soda
>go to an alley where hobos sleep a lot
>drink
>kill taste buds with bad soda
>cry
>a bit later my best friend asks her out
>I watch him become a chad over the next year
>stops talking to me
>
>haven't been out with anyone since
>it's been 23 years
life is suffering.
>>25230812
wow, your life must be so hard. get out chad.
>eighth grade
>last week
>like this one girl and i know that she likes doctor who
>steal an idea from online where you make a tardis that opens up and says "will you be my companion" with a heart
>put it in her locker after she left school
>next day at school she doesn't say anything to suggest that she saw the tardis
>her twin sister comes up to me at lunch and says that it was so cute what i did and asks what she said
>i realize that she had pretended to not have seen it
>when i did get her to admit that she saw it she didn't even apologies, and just pretended like it wasnt important
>never even got a yes or no
>fucking destroyed my confidence that i wasnt worth acknowledging my existence
>>25229742
Wow, I'm surprised the antisocial cynics haven't berated you for your use of the most popular social network on earth
>>25236485
This made me feel great. Thanks, anon.
I felt similarly when I asked out my oneitis finally at 15 and got rejected. I finally felt free.
>>25254589
Told me that while she was taken, I was worth it and she appreciated my feelings. She also called me by her affectionate nickname for me (I was whipped) and told me she still enjoyed spending time with me. Later that year she even said she tried to think of me romantically and managed to crush on me for a time because she felt bad in a way for feeling like letting me on. She said the feelings were genuine but they only lasted a few weeks. I was too stupid to notice.
>22/m
>moved from a tiny coastal town to a big city this year
>started putting myself out there
>had a few dates here and there but they never amounted to anything
>met a girl, 19 y/o
>we hang out, watch movies a couple of times at mine and hers
>she's a qt3.14 and is just a sweet person
>meet her parents and have dinner with them while at hers, they're lovely and take a real liking to me
>start to grow feelings for her
>organise to take her out to dinner to a nice French bistro, would have cost about $200
>she agrees and says she can't wait
>fast forward to the day we're supposed to go to dinner
>I give her a call after I finish work, this is about 3 hours before we're supposed to meet
>she's umm-ing and ahh-ing alot, sounds very hesitant all of a sudden
>"you sound hesitant.. What's up?"
>"well um anon.. I have a boyfriend"
>"since when?"
>"3 days ago... It just happened. I'm sorry. I still want to go though. Please."
>hung up and deleted her from everything
Alright boys this shit just happened to me. Can't stop cringeing over it.
>be me
>friend and I take cute girl and her friend hiking at 1am
>feel like cute girl I'm into is giving me signals
>she's wearing booty shorts and is freezing
>don't make any moves except text her she's cute when we're hiking
>plan to make a move before I never see her again
>drop her and her friend off, tell my friend to turn off the car lights
>wait for them to walk for a bit, get out of car and yell to girl
>me: can you come here for a sec [let's call her Sam]
>she looks at her friend then back at me and walks over to me
>her:what's up?
>me(about to spaghetti): I think you're really cute and I've always wanted to try this so I don't regret it
>attempt to pull her in to kiss her
>she pushes me back and says "uhm no"
>I stare back wide eyed like oh fuck I just got rejected by what I can thought was an easy 100%
>walk away awkward as fuck
She texted me right after saying "I'm so sorry". Holy shit dudes I've never been rejected before and let me tell you, it doesn't hurt, it's just REALLLYY awkward. Re pasting from another thread because I just found this.
>>25235965
some girl asked me to a dance as a joke. we talked on the phone for hours but i guess it turns out it was all a ruse
>>25232869
had literally the same thing happen, but she didn't ditch at the last second. sorry man. we're together now, but it feels like I dodged a bullet because she was always so flaky.
>>25259858
i also found out years down the line that her and her friends had a nickname for me, i was pale, fat, with long curly blonde hair so they called me "fat angel"
>>25259777
>"uhm no"
ahhh the worst the worst the worst
I got rejected like 7 times throughout this summer. One that felt the worst was this:
>frequent this pub
>there is an 8/10 chick bartending, with an ass to die for
>really, I'd eat ice cream out of her ass
>she smiles at me on and off work (I see her around town a lot), when she crosses my way she maintains eye contact, the works, you know all those little fucking things you end up engraving into your mind as signs of her wanting your dick
>had to pull 12 hour shifts for a week at one point, was pretty tired of nogf feels and got plastered with mates, decided to try and change everything
>go to the bar
>music is super fucking loud
>I signal her to lean over
>"hey, I'm heading out with my friends but I will be around the clubs for another few hours, you can call me when you are done here if you wanna hang out"
>"what? Anon please you gotta repeat, music is too fucking loud"
>this is the worst, repeating your own line when you already feel rejected
>"uhhhh I'm working morning shift, sorry :)"
>awkward eye contact for about 5 seconds
>I turn and leave
>every time since then when she would cross my way she would just super annoyingly say "hi" without even looking at me
>a month later summer ends and I see her going to fucking high school
>I'm 25 so I comfort myself with thoughts of her being too young for me
>would still crush that ass, jesus fuck that 10/10 ass, and bitch wears leggings all the damn time too
>>25259777
That's pretty much what happens, yeah. You will cringe about it literally every 30 seconds for a day, then its gone and you are like.. meehhh.
>>25230520
bro she probably got nervous, girl sperged and backed out then talked herself into trying again
>>25236054
that pic literally means "be happy i even let you around me." fucking bitches amirite
>>25252856
holy fuck........ like my dude...... you probably know now... but i would have just looked her dead in the eyes and grabbed her hand and walked to the car.
>>25259936
bruh, a women smiling at you doesnt mean she wants the D... lmao
>>25249131
You assume that women speak the same language as men ( pua tells you a lot of shit without really explaining the science behind it and the words you use and how you say them can make or break you when talking to girls).
And yeah, you're too analytical and logical (almost to an autistic degree). What you need to is treat women like really tall suspicious children. They're suspicious of your intent because of how you approach them because they think all you want to do is fuck them, but their too illogical to see what's good for them until their in their 30's. Either that or you don't appear presentable enough to warrant their consideration. So there's either three things you can do
>up your game
>up your phyisque
>backpage
Oh yeah, and don't bother asking a girl "what she wants". Girls don't know what they want. They're stupid. Treat them like their dumb (because they are [yes, that includes the smart ones]), but don't be an a dick about it. Even if it's the girl of your dreams. Especially if it's the girl of your dreams. Don't make the mistake that I made and think for a second that any of them are different.
>>25261035
>talking about pua unironically
stopped there desu
>>25255638
This is how a normal man should go about seeking women.
>>25229586
Women's emotions are as simple as a chess game and black and white. BBC and white cuck.
>>25237987
>back in school, group of Chad's always used to pretend to be my friend but then humiliate me in terribly ways
>I used to believe it was just a bit of banter, only looking back do I see they genuinely were brutal to me and probably hated me
>in sixth/seventh grade one of them got their girlfriend to make a move on me, by attempting to kiss me, and then another Chad tried to pull my pants down, which caught in my boner. Not only did it fucking hurt badly, I also got the names "clothes hook" and "little stiffy" after that.
Fuck them, they're the sole reason I will never open up to anyone. What makes it even worse is I have seen them around, many years after, and they still treat me like a joke. Nearly 25 years old and bullies still try to peg me.
>break my nose in accident when I'm 16
>surgery fixes it but a year later it looks different
>entire tip of nose looks swollen and round like Rudolph
>qt I liked a lot rejects me probably because of this
>friends start making fun of me saying my nose is huge
>people just obviously stare at my nose in conversation the whole time
>haven't taken a pic of myself in over 3 years
>multiple office interviews, every person stares at it
>doc says it costs 8000 dollarydoos to fix it
>absolutely ruins my life everyday
Well, at least if you're fat or have tons of acne you can fix those things, my life has been a living hell especially senior highschool. Looks like I'm stuck wallowing in depression and living at home just so I can save up to fix this, won't even tell my parents what I'm saving my money for even though it was so I could move out to the city and get a job my degree was meant for, I'm pretty much delaying my life goals because I know this appearance will never get me a gf. And yes it really is that bad and I'm not posting pics.
Didn't even bother me until my best friend made fun of me for it, then I knew how everyone saw me, just fucking kill me.
>>25238323
It's always the fucking fat obnoxious friends, ain't it?
>be in school
>ask a girl to go to a party with me
>she says no and giggles
>say "heh ok then"
>ashamed and embarrassed but not crying
I got back at her years later and actually made her cry. Feels good mang.
>>25259777
You really need to master the art of laughing and saying something like "worth a shot", when you get rejected. It makes you seem like an asshole, but it's much less humiliating.
>>25259936
its literally impossible to get qt bartender. There are literally dozens of male customers who hit on her every day. Unless she makes the move, you dont have much chance.
>average girl at old work who has a bf always explicitly flirts with me
>for example, she'd try to start playfights and then would say stuff like "I'll tell my boyfriend you've been touching me" in a seductive way
>always used to talk down her boyfriend to me and say I was manlier and taller etc
>used to feel my arms and stuff even though I am not very /fit/, she still seemed impressed
>Christmas party rolls around, decide fuck it she clearly wants the d
>get pissed and at about 12am she asks me to walk her home
>have my arm around her half way there, think I'm fucking in, now just ttying to build the courage to stop and kiss her
>pretend my shoe is untied and ask her to stop
>lean down, tighten my shoelaces and stand back up
>look her in the eyes, she seems hungry for the cock
>feeling confident as ever, lean in for the kiss
>she jumps back and says "oh god anon, you know I have a boyfriend right!?"
>"y-yeah, s-sorry I don't know what came over me"
>"anon I am sorry if I lead you on but I don't feel that way about you"
>walk her home in awkward silence, then walk home myself (a 2 hour walk), feeling like a complete dumbass the whole time
Fucking women.
>>25261690
Yeah, I know.. but every now and then a chick is so good looking that you have to try.
>>25261765
>always used to talk down her boyfriend to me and say I was manlier and taller etc
As a manlet this is what I'm afraid ofamong other things
She probably wanted you as a backup pham
>>25261796
I wouldn't worry bro, just don't date girls like her. To be honest I think she was talking out of her ass, I pictures of her and her boyfriend and he looked tall, but then she was a 5'1" femlet so it's hard to tell.
This one is real bad
>2008
>be around a girl I've known for years
>go out with her several times, have a great time with her
>eventually fall madly in love with her, propose her for gf
>she rejects me and friendzones me
>proceed to orbit her for 6 months, being her personal carpet and dying inside hearing about the guys she fucks
>spend most days looking at the ceiling daydreaming about her
>eventually see the light and tell her to fuck off
>Haven't tried to get with a girl since
>I still think about her every now and then
How does one cure severe love
ugly, pathetic losers, stop hating women because you have nothing to offer them.
who the fuck would want to be with selfish pieces of shit like yourselves>\?
>>25259060
he sounds young. facebook is an acceptable (if normie) way to network until you're around 20
>>25261919
that's not love, it's infatuation
you need to grow up
>>25261919
do something interesting with yourself ffs. Fuck her what does she have that can't be found in a different girl.
>>25259710
my chest.. it hurts
>>25229586
Back in highschool, I didn't care much about girls.
>mfw a qt girl notices this and asks if i'm gay.
>>25251993
maybe bebo
>>25261465
You don't have to save up all of that, you can have a monthly payment plan
