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I'm really fucking sick and tired of being unnable to get
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I'm really fucking sick and tired of being unnable to get a gf.

I've tried everything, really, everything.
I tried buying better clothes,
I tried getting tattoos and piercings,
I tried going to the gym and made gains,
I tried being more socially open.
I tried being more confident.

Nothing worked, still no girl, every girl I ask out simply tells me she has no time and never speaks to me again. Or just downright friendzones me indirectly. Every advance I've made on girls has been rebuked, meanwhile all my friends tell me about their amazing, almost weekly experiences with their opposite sex and I cant stop feeling like I hate them for it.

Why was I dealt such shitty cards at love?

I really cant do it, I dont know what else to do. Its like, somebody else tries something, and they succeed, but I try it and I fail misserably despite doing the same shit. Like with that tattoo shit, some ugly ass faggot on fb got one and he gets 100 likes in pictures all of a sudden. I get one myself and nobody even looks at it.

I dont even consider myself to be bad looking, yet my facebook pictures have 3 or 4 likes as most while a guy who is butt ugly gets 60 likes for no fucking reason. Life is not fair.
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What pisses me off the most is that I fail where everyone else succeeds.
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>>29713990
Don't give up anon, try it again and again until you achieve it!
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>>29713919
Are you physically attractive and have good social skills?
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Post a pic anon this is important
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Robot, you have to be good looking and not have a micro-penis. That is all that matters. You can be overweight. You can be a prick. You can beat her. You can be a criminal. Etc. It doesn't matter as long as you have a handsome face and an average-to-large size cock.
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>>29713919
>I tried getting tattoos and piercings,

those are good only to get a wrecked slut

>Nothing worked, still no girl, every girl I ask out simply tells me she has no time and never speaks to me again.

it seems you scared them. pic related.
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>>29714165

People keep telling me im not bad looking and that my looks have substantially improved in the past months.

I've been becoming more sociable for the past months too.

>>29714183

No im not going to post a pic.

>>29714276

Trust me I didnt asked in a pushy/creepy way.

And no, theres some REALLY hot girls who love tattoos, tattoos aren't "for wrecked people"
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i suggest you go to arranged meetings or speed dates.
try talking to a priest about getting a girl. i hope you are not tatted to the teeth

here in my country its easy to get arranged marriage you just have to talk to some people about it and follow the religion
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>>29714404
Then it should happen soon, as long as your self-improvement is genuine, and not fake. However, I don't agree with your decision to get tattoos because you want to get girls, because this is a superficial attempt that you have made in order to make yourself more attractive.

Confidence comes first, and appearance is secondary.
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try being a 7-8/10 but gyno so crippling body image issues mixed with depression anxiety and alcoholism I am unable to get a gf at all
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After being serially turned down, years ago I stopped trying to date any girl I could talk to. I decided I would give a try only to those who gave me some repeated and absolutely clear signal.

eventually one appeared - a coworker willing to have a coffee with me, outside work hours. not a date, but at least something. I did not even try to ask her for anything more, but when we parted and she said "see you again".

Months later - and after three whole "informal coffees" - she asked me to have lunch with her. Not yet a date, but we're already far more than I ever imagined.

I realized that there are women who like to play the "prey" part - and they are the most willing to select a different man, even at the last moment.

And there are women who select you as a "prey" - and they are willing to switch to a different "prey" as soon as you hint anything outside their expectations.
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>>29714592
Yes, it's better to put on a front when you first start dating a girl. I don't let my weirdness show until later on.
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>>29714404
>And no, theres some REALLY hot girls who love tattoos, tattoos aren't "for wrecked people"

tattoos and piercings express actual hate for your own body.

I've seen Chads turned down right because of them, but I've never had news about a guy turned down because he did not have them.
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>>29713919
You're mimicking. All that shit only works if it comes naturally. Girls can tell if you're pretending. Like most of us here, you have something wrong with your brain where you don't act like a normal person naturally. A good gauge for this is at what age do girls stop treating you like a human. For me it's 10 and above. They get better at sniffing out autism as they get older, so it's an accurate indicator IMO.

Come to terms with your solitude.
t. 24 year old robot
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>>29714641


Haha this is what fat people actually believe.

Im sure painting your car also spells you hate your car then.
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>>29714686
why would you paint your car?
cars come with paint already on them
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>>29713919
>friends
You actually have friends that talk like this? I have friends but they are almost all autistic and work minimum wage. Yeah they get laid but it's like once or twice a year thing...every week is just retarded amounts.
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>>29714686

I understand that 12 year old Chads have quite a standardized idea about girls and are just too young to remember that tattoos and piercings were lifers' signs.
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>>29713919
Post a picture of your tattoos.
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>>29714710

Just like you already have skin but you can add decorations to it.

>>29714804

No seriously, you're dumb.

Theres a FUCKLOAD of hot girls full of tattoos. Girls love guys with nice tattoos. I really suggest you to visit a tattoo convention if you wanna see what I mean. You should really leave that hole "Tattoos are for social outcasts" idea behind
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Having a fucking gf is not the be all and end all of life.
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>>29714889
>girls love guys with tattoos
just like girls love guys with motorcycles amirite
you seem like your entire world is revolving around chasing pussy. relax and try taking a different approach, different places.
stop going to these filthy bars
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>Robot wondering why he can't smash

Why can some not grasp mathematics? Why can some not achieve hypertrophy in the gym? For Genetic reasons or otherwise, you have been cursed. Stop trying to fight your fate. You are undesirable like the rest of us
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>>29713919
Have you read the redpill sidebar?
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>>29714907

i'm not even OP.

I'm a 23 years old guy who has a normal social life.

While you're most likely a fat neckbeard rotting away at a basement.

Theyre not "filthy" bars, dont be such a contrarian faggot. They're bars frequented by a majority of people from my age group and "social tribe".

Look, im sure pic related totally hates her body, and guys definitely hate her, eugh.

youre right, who in his right mind would get tattoos? Only wrecked sluts get them
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>>29713919
How old are (you)?

(fucking faggot bot)
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>he tailored himself in every way for a roasties approval

real sad t b h
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>>29714231
>and an average-to-large size cock.
Not true. Once you get far enough that she sees your dick, it's already too late for her. Most girls are too polite to decline a small penis.
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>>29714958
typical sheep waiting to be herded.

if you put pussy aside for a minute you'd realize bars are the biggest cash grabs out there.
you are basically paying 5 times the price it would take you to fill a shot of vodka at home, you are getting your head banged with shit music and have to get searched like a terrorist while woman walk in care free.
but you don't care because muh pussy. grow the fuck up
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You probably reek of desperation
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>>29715078
>desperate for pussy
>desperation repels pussy
>become more desperate
>repeat

FUCKING HOW TO GET THE PUSSY?
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>>29715136
IGNORE
THE
PUSSY

You've gone this long without fucking pussy. What do you do right now? What are your fucking hobbies?

Where do you live? Go fucking hiking
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>>29715136
this made me laugh out loud

asdffdsafsadf
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>>29715224

>What are your fucking hobbies?
I DONT WANT TO DO HOBBIE I WANT TO FUCK PUSSY HOLY SHIT
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>>29715313
AT LEAST GET A SINGLEFUCKING HOBBY FIRST
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>>29714710
>being this autistic
obvsnotorig
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>>29715313

Does it hurt knowing you will never fuck the pussy?
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>>29715327

>look at this guy anon
>he do hobbie like a normie
>we should give him the pussy as reward

GET REAL
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Another day, another "I've worked so hard and tried everything" whine thread on /r9k/.

OP hasn't done shit. He just expected that his 10/10 virgin gf would magically appear in his basement.
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>>29715378
>Look at this guy anon
>he's doing something that's worth talking about
>maybe I'll take the time to talk with him since he does more now than just drool at my pussy
>the odds of me now giving you my pussy have increased

Just hire a hooker
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>>29715390
t. well-adjusted normie
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>>29715390

It's a common fallacy to think that because you have put in effort you will be rewarded. It has nothing to do with what you "deserve". Life's treasures are apportioned unevenly and unfairly.
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>>29715327
NETFLIX AND TRAVELLING
NOTHIGINAL
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Post a pic of yourself so we can tell you the truth you cunt
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>>29715424
Life's not fair. You're not a special snowflake.
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>>29715416

>look at this guy anon
>he does hobbie well and has impressed me
>maybe i will consider giving the pussy if he does a good job at talking to me

WHY DO ROASTIES INSIST ON PLAYING THESE GAMES BEFORE RELINQUISHING THE PUSSY??
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>>29715486

Thanks for agreeing with me, dipshit
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At least you tried, anonbanon
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>>29715416

$100/hour.

Assuming 222 workdays/year * 8hr/day * 100$/hr, that's $177k net income.

"Pussy Privilege" = $177k/year.
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>>29715486
>>29715390

Translation: I like to think that I got where I am because of all the work that I put in, when reality most of it came down to luck. I get triggered when people remind me that I don't deserve any of this, so I lash out.
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>>29715506
Because something you may not be able to understand. Women are in demand, you have never experienced demand in your life.

Women have a pussy that everyone wants. From the lowliest beta to the highest chad, anybody will get in her pussy if she wants. She doesn't need to lower her standards for you because literally why?

So stop focusing on playing their game and do things you like doing/improve yourself
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>>29715224
>i'm starving
>"ignore the food lol"
HOW DOES THAT SOLVE THE PROBLEM
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>>29715390
>OP hasn't done shit. He just expected that his 10/10 virgin gf would magically appear in his basement.

believe me, it can actually happen.

there's a 0.000000001% probability, but it can actually happen
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>>29715583
>I keep pulling my fingers apart in this Chinese finger trap but they just aren't escaping!
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>>29715576
this is why arranged marriages existed and womens rights didn't

the workers must seize the means of reproduction
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>>29715576

we could always just... TAKE the pussy...
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>>29715602

Men want sex. There's no way to wish away your desires. Being saddled with insatiable want is part of being human
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>>29715626
Yes, and become a monster+risk getting shot/prison time.

Like I said before, just pay for a hooker if it's hitting you that bad but seriously go hike or something. Where do you live I want to see what your nature is like
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>>29713919
Your living at a time where any woman can get hundreds of males per day validating her. If you had just one woman per day validating you would you stay humble? We are living in the worst time for males when you include the millions of males jobs that are lost to globalization and will be lost with automation. It's a sheeconomy and males have lost 90% of their value because of tinder and social media.
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>>29715632
Would you rather have sex with someone who didn't care about you or be abstinent with someone you get along with?
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The in thing and I mean the only thing that works with every kind of social situation or relationship is not needing it. When you speak you need to not give a fuck if people listen or not. When you ask someone for their time you need to have a plan b that is at least as good. Real friendship doesnt exist it is all a power struggle.
If you want a girlfriend, you need to be so busy that you dont even have time to think about one.
Be above it. This is the only thing that works.
Also, buy some good clothes and shower everyday. A job could help too.
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>>29715764

Me, personally? Abstinent with someone I got along with. I'm a strange one so I don't represent the rest of men.
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>>29715062

>You're getting herded
>you're getting ripped
>even though the bar has no admission fee
>Beer literally costs about 1 dollar more than in the supermarket (in some cases, even cheaper)
>So its 1 extra dollar for the chance to socialize and drink beer.

Yeah, m8, total ripoff.

Fuck off and actually try going to a bar before talking shit about them.
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>>29715699
>Where do you live I want to see what your nature is like

In the robot capital of the world (not US)
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>>29715872
If you're not in the US then you can easily get a hooker. Go for it.
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>>29715851
went to multiple times.
you wanna tell me the bar is making profit by selling shit that at supermarket prices.
are you fucking kidding me right now.
hahaha holy shit
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>>29715885
>getting robbed of $100 for just an hour

No thanks. I'm trying to fuck her, not the other way around
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>>29715851
study shows that bars and colleges were the only 2 places immune to economical changes
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>>29715924

Yes dumbass because people wont go to socialize at the supermarket. They wont buy beers to take home socialize home.

The point of bars is that its a place where several people can meet up to socialize.

Theres basically 2 types of bars for youth:

"Chill" bars where you go with your friends to catch up on things and just chat

and

"meetup" bars where you go to MEET NEW PEOPLE.

This is why people go.

The bars make a fuckload of profit because they got a bunch of people going in buying beers in hopes of getting pussy.

You're thinking about clubs, dumbass, those are the ones that sell overpriced beer and charge you for entry.

And even then, most people visit them to meet someone, not even for the beers.
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>>29715924


Thats actually pretty stupid man, if the supermarket makes a profit selling beer, theres literally no reason why a bar wouldn't be able to do the same thing.

People go to a bar to have fun and they buy a beer, thats enough for the bar to make a profit.
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>>29715957
Now we found your problem. If you're so poor that you think $100 is a lot, then no wonder your life is shit.
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>>29716007
I want to fuck someone who actually wants my dick and isn't just taking it because I gave her money.
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>>29715704
Also women get men's jobs.
It's over.
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>>29715924

You're trying to tell me that I dont know the supermarket and bar prices. Here's the local facts:

>Local Beer at a supermarket 2 dollars a 512 ml bottle
>Local Beer at a bar 2 dollars 25 cents a 512 ml bottle.
>Foreign beer at the SM 4 dollars a 512 ml bottle
>Foreign beer at a bar 4 dollars and 25 cents a 512 ml bottle.

Thats only a general example because a lot of cases also have them costing EXACTLY THE FUCKING SAME as the supermarket.
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>>29716026

>tfw you see your normalfag friend walk up to a girl and talk to her
>he gets her number
>he fucks her the next day

It blows my mind just thinking about it. It's like normals have some sort of secret language.
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>>29715885
live in a small town, so only skanky whores
also where the fuck would I bring her? I live with my parents
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>>29715982
not in my country. there is no way you are getting out of a bar paying 6-8$. that's not even minimal order
>>29715965
>And even then, most people visit them to meet someone, not even for the beers.

if you ignore the downsides of going to bars you always gonna have a pretty picture of it.
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>>29716035
Oh man I don't know how there's nobody addressing this to the masses yet
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>>29716062

I guess not everyone in r9k is from america. Who would have thunk?
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But did you try being yourself?

Also, just learn how to code, bro.
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>>29716062


And you're still ignoring the fucking fact that YOU DONT GET TO SOCIALIZE OR MEET PEOPLE AT A FUCKING SUPERMARKET.

Even if the prices at a bar are higher, the fact that you get to do something which you CANT do somewhere else just balances things out.
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>>29716079
Because the neo-liberal trickle down economics agenda continues to dominate politics.

Those manufacturing jobs are never ever coming back, robots are going to do them. We need to find a new way to organise our society that lets everyone share in these productivity gains.
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>>29716049

>having friends like this

How can you even relate to them?
They're not truly a friend if you can't rap about >tfw no gf
DROPPED
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>>29716135

It was a while back when I still had a tether to the normie world.

It's been years since then and I no longer have any friends.
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>>29713919
>I tried being more confident.
More confident is not enough. It has to be permanent. Be the happiest you can be before trying to find a lover. And let it be permanent. Learn to view yourself from an objective perspective and understand that no one really gives a shit about you being sad. Stuff like that. Also always provide your opinions during any situations. Others will give you importance and you will be noticed. Also everything I said is a reflection of me. I have no gf and these are what I think I need to improve.
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>Tfw learned in the arts of rejection

I can tell when a girl has zero interest in me in all sorts of ways, body positioning, way of speaking, tone, sentence structure. It's great really.

The ones that never initiate anything, yeah there's nothing there, gates closed. I just imagine seas of X's over these girls heads.

Fantastic stuff haha...
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>>29716049
It's simple. You are far overthinking it. Getting pussy can be really easy. The only thing you have to do is talk to girls, accept rejections, and move on until you succeed.

When is the last time you actually asked a girl out? Or even talked to one?
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>>29716106
the only reason bars exists is because woman go there. normies excuse it as socializing, i don't.
far as im concerned the music is shit,which is the huge factor in any social meeting. i actually care about the music i hear.
amongst the other things i listed, you can go to roadtrips,camping,museums,talk about philosophy or economy as part of socializing with music and atmosphere as you choose
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>>29716155
at least you have internet friends anon :) we'll always be there for you
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>>29713919
you're either
1. lying through your teeth and everything you've said was bullshit

2. hopelessly deformed and/or severely autistic and cringey to be around.

most likely some combination of the two.
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>>29716180
>accept rejections, and move on until you succeed.
>until you succeed.
>until
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>>29716175

>you're overthinking it bro ahah
>Just talk to her
> b yourself it's so ez just watch dude
>bro why are you mad fuckign stop being a faggot
>i fucked your crush? bro you were never going to do anything anyway so why are you mad
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>>29716221
It's not hard though. These are all things you /r9k/ faggots say EVERY SINGLE TIME someone tries and helps you.

You all put pussy on such a high pedestal, it's not at all hard.
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>>29716221
>bro you were never going to do anything anyway so why are you mad
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>>29715699

all "donations"?
I'd rather donate 2 cents. Just my 2 cents.
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I just want someone to love me as much as I love them. I want to be loved and to have a deep connection with someone, but I can't.

It hurts anons.
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>>29716221
brah why ur so uptight lmao
just draw your cock out in front of her and jiggle it
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>>29716112
The only way that's happening Is with a severe crisis. But even before that the weapons of mass destruction are gonna be used with this geopolitical situation. What do you think will tip the scales?
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>>29716180

No shit, thats socializing.

And it seems you keep mixing up bars with clubs.

A bar is simply a place where you go, grab some beers and talk to people (known or unknown).

A club is a place where you go, pay an admission fee, dance at the dancefloor, and buy overpriced beverages.

And which bars are you going to? The ones I go to have a strict "no thug music" guideline and they only play classic rock, 80s music or 90s stuff.

Also, yes, roadtrips and stuff are nice, but you need PEOPLE for those, you dont go to a roadtrip to MEET people, you go with people you already know, who you met at a bar.

This isnt really hard, anon.
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>>29716221
When is the last time you asked a girl out? Or talked to one?
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>>29713919

If you got tattoos to impress bitches then chances are you reek of desperation and bitches can sense that and see it as unattractive. Just remember that all a bitch has is good looks so don't be putting them on a high pedestal. Don't try to force a relationship either. Just chill with them hoes and if it evolves into something then it does.
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>>29716007

did you read it well, mr.Rockfeller?
$100 spent to have an hour with a decently-looking roastie?

fuckin' speculation - literally.
Prices are so high because there's a whackload of gullible goons out there willing to waste $100 (net tax) to TEMPORARILY please their own dick.
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>>29716284
bars and nightclub probably differ alot in your country

in my country they are practically the same,bars play the same music clubs have, same prices for beverages and they are both overcrowded. to the point where people squeeze eachother when they enter
bars and clubs also have same beverages, with a slightly bigger variety at bars
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>>29716260
Fellow bot, I think. This is my first time posting in r9k, but I've floated around 4chan for years, usually only posting on /pol/

I still think I'm a bot though, because I'm 32 and a virgin. I'm pretty socially normal though, and credit at least 7 years of virginity to being sick and depressed. (Have an immune disease that took awhile to get control of)

I feel that I'm literally a 25 year old in a 32 year olds body maturity wise, and I matured slowly growing up, leaving me behind most other men in "the game"

Over the last year I experienced accelerated gains in speaking with women, even becoming "sexually active" with a borderline autistic girl.

Shortly after that I suddenly had a rise and literally picked up one of the most popular girls in school....

I was rejected by like 5 girls in a row who I stupidly acted husband like to, and then I scored the autist, followed by the popular girl, and could have gotten two fat chicks had I not realized how good I was in with the the other two girls.....

Now, I was depressed after striking out five times in a row and chasing after one girl for nearly a year......

(to be continued in next post)
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>>29716310
$100 is a bargain to spend a quality hour with a beautiful escort. For a good one it would be more like 300. Again, you're just an angry poorfag if you can't afford that.
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>>29713919
Anon look up the book of pook and read it.
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>>29716404
I'm just gonna wait until VR crashes the pussy market
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>>29716404
500$ is supermodel tier
wish i could save enough money to fuck a stoya lookalike from poor balkan country
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>>29716422

It's rather funny how hostile feminists are getting about this. They are well aware their time draws near.

>Women are not objects!
>These objects have rights!

Which is it?
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>>29716366
A lot of the stuff that happened to get to that point was blind luck. I randomly watched hours of a cartoon with the autistic chick because the clock had stopped working, and she suddenly caught... feelings I guess because some guy would actually sit there with her for hours.....

The other girl I got because she read a letter I'd written TO ANOTHER GIRL and she thought I was addressing it to her, so that scored big points....

She was into husbandy guys, which apparently was lacking, and one one cold night where I thought I would get nowhere everything fell together and we ended up making out for hours....

Now, I say all that to say that I don't think you're 32 (correct me if I'm wrong) and I'm guessing I've felt just as bad as you.....

I mean I tried for over a decade, got maybe a kiss from three women over 10 years, son.....

And in the course of maybe this last 9 months everything has fallen together and I'm finally seeing "the pattern"

Women fit a pattern. Just keep walking up to them and making adjustments, and you'll eventually see the pattern. Learn to touch them, talk to them without ever apologizing, and find what REALLY ticks them off and fall just short of that....

You're going to do well eventually. It will suck along the way, but you'll see it one day, and it'll be stupid simple. Just work your way through the pain.

I hope this helps....
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>>29713919
Life is fair if you are a woman, then you get the power to fucking complain about it without consequence.
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>>29716448

Yeah it's funny and it'll only get funnier in the coming years.

>Stop Sexualizing me!
>Don't you want to fuck a real woman instead of a computer?
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>>29716456
I'm not exactly a looker, and I don't have any self-confidence. That's really what kills it for me. I remember once making a bunch of girls laugh, but the pressure in that moment to not end it on an awkward note was so immense I never wanted that to happen again. But at the same time, I was kind of proud. That moment helped my confidence a little, but I can't ever stop thinking about how dorky or faggy I might look. It's a really big problem for me.

Anyways, your story did help. Hopefully I can find one of those girls who wants a husbandy boyfriend, even though I don't really want children. I'm turning 19 in 3 weeks so I still have time.
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>>29716456
Can you explain this "pattern" more in depth? You'd be the best person to maybe write a book about this subject because you've tried and failed for a decade. If anyone truly understands how women work, it's you.
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>>29716515
I'm glad it helped.

Hopefully you're not in a rural area where there are few prospects. As hard as it sounds, try to talk to more women. And don't be afraid to touch. Touching and just speaking are important.

Really doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it well. Practice talking in front of a mirror. If you can get to the point where you can talk about anything and just talk about it you're good.

You'll end up priming them anyway and they'll do all the talking.
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>>29716567
Well, you'll kinda find that women of similar sizes or backgrounds behave similarly, and nearly all women can be pushed forward though some women will only be interested in men of similar sizes or backgrounds....

The girl I got had only been interested or rather involved with four people in her life including me. Two of those guys were from the same state I was from, and I only knew one of the guys personally and he was about the same size as me while being more awkward....

And both of us were awkward.

If you already have a specific look you go after, you'll find that if you do similar behaviors around these women they'll respond similarly.

All women respond well to certain touches like a touch on the upper arm. You might see it in old movies, but a simple touch on the arm before a request actually makes women agree with the request more often....

Another thing I picked up on is the gaze a stranger makes when they first spot you. If you're good at it aleady, watch women in public and check out how long they hold their gaze with you.

You'll notice some that look down immediately, and others who look longer then look away. Try talking to the ones that hold their gaze longer than usual (it might literally be like half a second longer than normal or a second even, but you should pick up on it)

Heck, approach both sets of women and see the difference in how they react. You'll start to notice things like, the one who held the gaze longer was more receptive

The one I touched the upper arm of gave the number more than the one I didn't

And each time you'll come across something that works and something that doesn't. Living in the city will give you more information, but you'll just find that certain behaviors work better than others and the confidence will be the knowledge that all women generally respond better to certain actions than others.
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Just try to feel confortable with yourself, OP. I had problems trying to get a girl, but I then realized that was the only thing I wanted. Just a gf. Daydreaming got me nowhere, so I focused on doing things that made me happy, like buying little treats for me or things that I wanted, but most important: Do new things. When I was able to smile by myself more people started to approach me.

You have to feel glad in your shoes, your everyday life. If there's something that needs to be done in order to archive it, do it.

Try to make more female friends, some 6/10 or anything really. The thing here is to maintain contact without any kind of mental pressure or anxiety.

Keeping it short: Take a time for yourself until you are happy with the person you see in the mirror. Be positive.
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>>29713919
You're literally getting tattoos for the sake of getting a girlfriend. That speaks volumes about how desperate you are and girls catch wind of that. Your entire personality is becoming about getting a girlfriend. What would you do once you got one? Your life's mission would be over. Who fucking gets a quality gf from being a pick up artist anyway?

Just go about your life, and focus on being actually interesting, desirable and someone who can offer something to a girl. If all you can offer is bitching about not having a gf, and daydreaming about having one, you aren't going to be desirable.
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>>29717156
>>You're literally getting tattoos for the sake of getting a girlfriend.
So is everyone else who gets them, what's your point ?
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>>29717348
Not everyone gets tattoos for the sake of a woman. Some get it for the symbolysm, others for memorializing, and others because they just think it looks cool.

Women don't like the idea that you're doing something specifically for them. They want men who have their own ambitions. You can screw over a women but as long as you have your own ambitions she'll be okay with you,

because the ambitions show leadership. It shows that you would rather draw someone into what you're doing than allow someone to draw you in....
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>>29717391

do niggers have tattoos, or dem tattoos are invisible due to blackcolored skin?
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>>29717458
Have you never seen a black person in your whole life? Crawl out of your hole and live a little....
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>>29717458
And no one needs use tattoos when there's body paint
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>>29715313
Why don't you just fuck a hooker then ??
R u virgem ?
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>>29715583
Food doesn't crave attention.
Women crave attention.

Food doesn't care to add a vainer to eating.
Women add a vainer to sex.

Ignore the pussy and women will think you're not interested in sex while craving your attention....
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>>29715777
I'm in a mental battle over that right now. I swear if summer vacation hadn't sent me 2000 miles away from my cutie, I'd have smashed. I've never had a woman who had to push me off of her before this woman.

God, August will be the trial of trials....
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