How do we escape, you fucking faggots?
I refuse to believe that this is how it ends and that we must accept this awful fate. There MUST be a way out.
pure luck
>>29046964
Grow up to get out of a hole.
Move to another country. It works I promise.
Nope. You get born, you keep your head down, and then you die. That's it.
The only real way.
Get a job. Get hobbies. Get fit. Improve your social life.
>>29046964
finish secondary education/degree
get /fit/, nice clothes and fix posture
MOVE TO A NEW STATE/COUNTRY
get career/income
build a social circle with fellow internationals who are also looking for new friends
>>29047186
>MOVE TO A NEW STATE/COUNTRY
That costs money nigga
the worst thing is the crab in the pot syndrome, where the other people here will tell you to kill yourself for even thinking about improving yourself
>>29047144
I've actually lost a lot of understanding about how a social life starts and progresses into friendships, any pointers?
how does one start from scratch without acting like a total autist?
>>29047212
there are options. i.e, if you are willing to move to korea and teach english for 6-12 mths, they will pay your airfare in advance.
>>29047214
>without acting like a total autist
You're going to be awkward at first, there's no getting around that. The key is to keep trying. The more you do it the better you'll be at it.
If you have a job or go to school, that's a good place to start. Talk to people who work with you or who go to the same classes as you. Talk about the job/the class, and slowly progress to unrelated topics. Get lunch together, then once you've done that a few times you can progress to other kinds of interaction.
Social clubs are also good. Schools have clubs centered around various hobbies, as do cities in general. You can find a club that concerns an interest you have and join it, and use that interest as a jumping-off point for social interaction.
>>29047144
>>29047186
>>29047214
>>29047272
There's another factor that isn't usually mentioned in these threads, and although I'm hardly in a good situation socially, I also think that this really is the key to succeeding:
You have to actually WANT to socialise. I've had so many opportunities in the past to fix things, but I never felt 'up' to it, like there was no nourishment to be gained from it, and I think the case is the same for a lot of people not just on /r9k/ or even 4chan, but the Internet as a whole.
If you hate 99% of the people around you, be they 'normies' or otherwise, of course you're going to be fucking alone. You need to actually find people that you give a shit about and can relate to, or at least develop a genuine interest in the personality of others.
>>29047246
>Moving to a shitskin country as an escape.
>thread that suggests prospect of self-improvement
>13 replies
>various threads dedicated to wallowing in self-pity
>hundreds of replies
A shame, desu
If we pooled our resources together we could probably get >70% of the board out of robothood
>>29046964
There is no escape. Yeah, you now see that light at the top, but once you reach it and your eyes adjust to the light, you realize you're surrounded by an arid wasteland of scorched earth. The people passing by the well you heard earlier and laughing were sociopathic bandits who feast on the misery of the rest of the survivors.
Why does being a normie seem so great to you guys why don't you write a book or do something smart and intelligent with your free time don't just become another fucking drone it's really not all it's cracked up too be honestly it fucking sucks being a neet is better than being a normie you just feel bad about it because society tells you to. Create something that will inspire people and devote your time to mastering a craft and you'll feel a lot better than "muh excersie and muh annoying ass girlfriend and oh shit I still am basically poor on top of it"
>>29048250
Then become one of the bandits, you defeatist fuck
No one is innocent in this world anyway; might as well go full measure if it benefits you
>>29048312
I think most of them just want some mates desu
>>29048385
I think most of these people are chasing a fantasy a fuckdoll that you can't emotionally connect with isn't going to wisk away all your problems
>>29048580
I can emotionally connect with my GF plenty.
>>29047370
How do we do that if we have no personality?
>>29048776
You can develop a personality. Get interests that aren't video games, porn, and anime.
>>29048776
Getting interested in others is probably a good start.
Just keep asking them questions and pretend you care about their shitty lives.
This actually gives me hope.
>>29048776
You have plenty of personality anon focus on what makes you you if your into porn and weird shit draw porn and do weird shit expand on your interests if you like video games get jobs that are video game related that doesn't mean "hurr durr I wanna make video games" it doesn't work like that there's lots of different jobs you could work that are connected to the industry. You just gotta work your way up
>>29048865
There's hope for everyone.
A determined soul will always manage.
>There MUST be a way out
There is, even for the most desperate of men
>get a GOOD haircut
>you think you look decent,you dont,dress well ffs!
>wash your teeth,take care of your skin
>hit the gym,get a bike,a tattoo,SOMETHING to talk about to other people
>stop being so pessimist,be a good person,but not over the top.
>try to be outside as much as you can,TALK and talk LOUD and CLEAR!
>good luck!
Having the courage to live differently.
One day the emptiness of your life will hit you. You'll realize that you're tired, and you've been tired for a long, long time. That's when you'll actually want to change. Everything else is excuses.
>>29050202
every single listed thing theoretically should give you more confidence. Therefore if you dont have initial one, nothing will make you more confident.
theres only one way out of this hellhole
>>29050258
you are not very smart,are you?
>>29048385
To become a bandit is to do ill unto others, and I have no such will towards others.
>might as well go full measure if it benefits you
You just went full edgelord.
>>29050315
This image always cracks me up. I wish it was true tho.
>>29047635
>korea
>shitskin country
>>29046964
where there is a will, there is a way.
There is an unrelenting urge within us to survive the shit life we find ourselves in. We talk of killing ourselves all the fucking time yet we live. We'll hurt our lives by isolating ourselves but we still live via internet and vidya and shit posting on a kubekistan carpet weaving forum. That force that drives us never gives up. We starve it into silence.
You want out?
Feed it. You don't need to do anything more than release tension off of the smothered force for a millisecond. If the unconscious survival force exists then it will in those moments become stronger. There is only one way to release a tension. Resist it on some front. Take a meme cold shower for instance. That act is ridiculous yet it is an act of will. It's a moment where the character of an individual comes into resistance with unconscious thought. Cold is hypothermia. Cold is pain. Cold is death. In reality it's only 10 minutes of discomfort. What is 4 minutes of talking to a girl/boy that you find attractive? Discomfort, pain, death (but it's not). What is going outside your apartment and getting your mail? Discomfort, pain, death (for the agoraphobes). What is going to the gym? Discomfort, pain, death (to the fatties).
The hole we find ourselves in is walled with our fears. Assume you'll die in the hole and assume any effort to stir and consider escape and attempt, miniscule or heroic, will feed the unconscious force that drives survival. You will not escape until that force is sufficiently strong, built through resistance training, for the climb out of the walled pit you find yourself in. Kill yourself in the attempt to resist. Bash your face against the bricks until they give.
So if you find yourself lifeless and broken at the bottom of a pit, stir, you fucks. To ever so slightly shift weight. To twitch. Stir, you fucks. That is the only way to build momentum and feed the survival force which permeates the most basic cellular organisms.
>>29050557
>being a morally superior piece of shit
Take it from me; the world is not as simple as this.
You're going to hurt people whether you want to or not.
>>29047370
>You have to actually WANT to socialise
This is the main problem for me. I feel lonely and miserable sometimes, but when I get the chance to socialize all I want is to be alone again.
>>29051335
Thank you based alpha poster.Although you're still in this shithole so...
>>29051535
Yeah this is exactly me. Just can't force myself to give a shit about the other person.
>>29051562I'm still in this shit hole. But sometimes I escape and don't notice. Like my body get's out of the pit but my mind lags behind. Then I wake to find myself sober and alive outside the pit. Then I wake from that dream and find myself still in the hole. I honestly do not know which is reality.
>>29051741You're getting there mate. Stick at it. Where there's a will, there's a way.
>>29051335niice posst
