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Get the FUCK in here grandpas. How's everyone holding up?
>try to get serious about fitness again
>immediately hurt my back and stop
The future is looking brighter everyday.
I'm 25 and think about ending it because everything is over anyway
life is lived in high school and college, after that it's wageslavery and all your peers become more boring with every month, settle down, etc.
I don't know a single person post college who has a fun life, except the rich ones
fuck this shit
>26
>still a virgin
>never even kissed a girl
>still no full-time job
God I want to fuck a girl so bad, I wish I had a dweeby loser girlfriend to stuff
>>28662277
>anime gif
>dweeby loser girlfriend
>still a virgin
>never even kissed a girl
gee what a surprise
>tfw want to quit my retail job so I can try to get my life back under control rather than being complacent in complete mediocrity
>tfw too much of a bitch nigga to actually do it
28 now
Still live with parents working full time night shift
Laying in bed now waiting for time to pass so I can go downstairs without having to deal with the smalltalk. I try to avoid them all day/night. Feels shameful living with my parents at this age. But I've got at least $2600 more to pay in dental expenses before I can move out.
My deepest wish is to go an entire day without having to see or talk to anyone. Just shut off my phone, lock myself in my studio apartment, and just vegetate.
>27
>been working in retail for the passed month
>no opportunity for advancement
>social retard
Just end it famalam
I'm 29 years old. I'm a stay at home husband and I watch anime/listen to music all day. and very into watching politics. this is all I have ever since I lost all my friends from moving, so no more interesting nights hanging out or have adventures and being the life of the party etc, just days full of nothing.
>inb4 get a job
I got fired in october and we're moving anyway.. I just want interesting friends to hang out and smoke with but it isn't cool to hang out with a 30 year old chubby loser.
>>28662436
>also retail cuck
>opportunity to be a manager
>like a dollar higher pay for 20x the responsibility
JUST
>>28662425
Living alone is the only bright point in my life.
>26 year old HKV
>Work two jobs, both of them shitty and retail
>Could probably go full time on one of them soon but can't decide which job I hate less
>In spotty contact with my parents despite them living like an hour away because they're ashamed I'm a "low achiever after being so smart"
>Library staff talk about me behind my back because basically I only check out graphic novels and comic collections
>drink way too much
>trying to learn French but think I might just be too dumb
>>28662149
Acne almost out, receding hairline kicks in. WHY?
>>28662149
26
got english degree
>cant get a pizza delivery job
thinking of going back to school for a comp sci degree
Sup nerds, 26 yo unemployed college dropout living with parents, jerked off 4 times today to increasingly weird porn. You think you faggots can out-pathetic me, you're fucking out of your league son.
>>28662738
Climbin the old corporate ladder
I wonder how many of us are going to live to 35
I hope at least a few of us make a show/take some people with us before we go.
I just want to be entertained. But the bread is stale and I've bored with all the rides.
>>28663374
>competing with all the indians being brought in to work for nothing
>>28662149
High as FUCK right now desu baka senpai you nigger!! Born in the 70s and high off my shit!
>>28662277
It's so fucking good, putting your penis in a woman. You've got to do it.
>30yo loser reporting
>I use to be so happy
>No talents
>(I've abandon mine, so it never developed)
>No achievements
>Still can't talk to opposite sex
>No acknowledgement from opposite sex
>Getting uglier/older
>Don't feel like doing anything
>Mind getting slower
>Just Ghosting existence
>Getting more bitter and impassioned
>Use to fear death, now it sounds like a nice
>trillion year sleep I could use, I'm so tired.
>29 year old
>still living with parents
>two shitty degrees to my name
>stuck working retail
>all i do in my free time is drink, listen to music, and play video games
>i'm going to move out once i pay off my student loans
i have a good relationship with my parents.
>>28662149
You all have to wait a while longer like 40. Something will click and you wont care what people think anymore. You ever see an old person that doesn't speak their mind. They are all demanding as fuck.
>>28663458
Am 35. Worst year of my life so far. Don't bother.
My bitterness towards the people of earth is almost to a point where I wouldn't mind seeing the destruction of them, in some massive global cataclysm non man-made, even if it meant I would die along with them.
>>28663252
>>Library staff talk about me behind my back because basically I only check out graphic novels and comic collections
They don't even know who you are.
>>28662277
Dude.. there are no loser girls that will fuck you if you dont even have a job by 26.. not even a hooker will do it if you had the money because they know you will get attached but dont have a flow of money.
>tfw just turned 55.
>tfw people i went to high school with and worked so much harder than me in life are all stagnating
They dont tell you this shit when youre a twenty YO
>>28663458
>tfw can't decide on high speed chase, quiet helium bag in my room, or Elliot-ing out
So many great options its a shame you only get to die once
>>28663458
Will be 34 this year. It never gets better. Just shittier every single year. Fortunately, the leaders of this world are destroying it.
>>28662149
>Caicedo had mentioned that to live more than 25 years of age was madness and he was loyal to what he said then on March 4, 1977. In the afternoon he died, he received a volume of his recently published book "Que viva la musica!" and wrote a letter to his friend Miguel Marias where he mentioned that his woman just left him for a reason he did not know. Then he took 60 pills of secobarbital.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andr%C3%A9s_Caicedo
>>28662149
I'm 25.
Been a NEET for 9 years.
Finally started taking steps towards getting myself a degree.
I'm not sure if I want to kill myself or not. My life has improved for some reason, and I don't feel as bad as I used to.
>>28662149
>28 KHV
>got worthless BA
>didnt have much fun in college at all, but graduated with honors.
>now have to live with parents
>finally working full time for the first time in my life, but will only make about 20-25k
>cant afford to move out, even if I found room mates because parents live in Southern California.
>recently got back into shape and lost 30 pounds (190 to 160)
>but weight loss caused some wrinkles.
>mother an insufferable alcoholic bitch, and my dad is her doormat (does whatever she says)
>mother has been really nasty to me lately - starting arguments for no reason, endlessly bitching about money even though I pay for everything except rent and some food we share, annoying me on purpose, saying mean things to me
>has nerve to call me "verbally abusive" when I call her a bitch and tell her to fuck off.
>feels like things are getting better but it could all come crashing down again.
>feel sad about my wasted youth.
>just recently landed a real job with possible career advancement
>moved interstate for this job
>first time in my life i have friends
>went clubbing for the first time last week
>feels like im finaly making it
Im still a 26 year old kv, but i sense i may lose it this year if i keep trying.
I struggle every day with near crippling anxiety as a result of PTSD from a bad acid trip from years ago. Somehow I'm not suicidal yet, but every day I constantly feel like I'm on the edge of losing it and going full padded-room mode. I work at a job I hate and that aggravates my anxiety for the sake of money, and it isn't even guaranteed I'll keep this job because I'm a temp right now, but I need it so I can move out and learn to be independent so I can gain a modicum of self esteem and confidence. I have no interest in anything besides watching Netflix and sleeping, even fapping is gone because the anxiety gets worse when I cum, so what's the point? I can't go outside without flipping out because agoraphobia, and being in a car or bus freaks me out too. I don't know what to do anymore and the meds aren't helping quickly enough. I just don't know what to do anymore, rowboats.
>>28663805
Do you feel like you're not real? As in existence around you feels like a bad dream?
>be 29
>go to friends house
>play guitar n shit
>wake up next day
>I threw my fucking back out by playing guitar
How does this even happen
>>28663642
What's wrong anon?
oregano comment
>>28662149
>tfw you thought libido would have calmed down by now
>tfw you still fap 5-9 times/day and can only get off to impregnation fantasies/porn
>26
>khv
>Got my Masters after finishing grad school since my BA was worthless
>landed a full time job late February after working part time for about a year
>Moved into my own apartment at the end of March
It's getting better slowly but surely. I'm eating better and feel better about myself, but I've got lots of work to do still.
>>28663826
start eating a shitload of chard homey also carrots
i just came here to say that im 22 years old and that i already have 2 hernias
Can i join as a honorary paps?
>>28663874
>my BA was worthless
W-what happened?
>>28663824
Yes. Like I'm still stuck in the acid trip.
>>28663874
Congratulations anon! I hope everything works out for you.
>>28664015
It was a BA in Psychology, which does fuck all in terms of opening doors to an actual career. It's fine as a stepping stone if you're serious about going to grad school and actually map out your career options, though.
This is case for most undergrad degrees in general, even some of the STEM degrees. You'll get a solid foundation during undergrad, but will still need an advanced degree before being able to move into certain positions or obtain specific certifications.
>>28664051
Look depesonalization/derealization up. I've developed it from a bad drug trip. Started taking some anti anxiety medication and it has SERIOUSLY helped. So look into it.
>27 y/o, no education
>worked fast food a year just to save money to move in a city
>move
>can't find a job here
>have money only for 3 more months living expenses and rent
>>28662149
HA HA old man on 4chan how pathetic.
Me at 24:
>Working shitty retail 40hrs a week
>Social anxiety
>Constant trouble at work because social anxiety and customer service don't mix
>Live with parents
>Had been NEET for years before that
Me at 26:
>Can support myself on part time admin (with cool colleagues)
>Volunteering
>More friends than I have time to hang with
>Anxiety basically gone
>Share apartment with one of my previous online friends
>Still need to get my shit together in terms of being able to have functional romantic relationships, but pretty sure I just need to throw therapy at the problem until it gets better
Sometimes shit isn't bleak forever, I guess.
31 here
It's been the worst year of my life
>Broke up with gf of 4 years last year
>decided to move to San Diego
>Hate the area because I feel like it was a forced move
>then I heard my 2 HS friends died of heroin
>then last month my dog died. I didn't even get to see her the last two years
>Then this morning my mom tells me my uncle died
>>28664442
sorry for your losses, anon
>>28664347
time to succ dik in subway
>just turned 26
>desperately clinging to that last bit of care-free youthfulness as my hairline recedes, wrinkles get deeper, and random bodyparts start hurting
atleast the suicidal ideation has lessened a bit lately
>>28664442
I considered moving to San Diego, but I didn't feel I could ever afford it because of the utilities.
>>28662149
I feel trapped
28
>had a good job
>have to live off of parents now
>crippled
>parma virgin
>>28664611
Just move to el cajon or chula vista until you find a decent job
450 lbs
I feel like giving up.
>25
>KHV
>work part time, go to school part time
>Been in school 5+ years still haven't graduated
>live with mom
>0 friends
Every single day is torture. BTW everyone at work pretty much knows I'm a virgin and a sperg even though I tried my best to hide it. Starting to think my hairline is receding, might just be paranoid though. One more strike against my already meh looks and I will probably going to pull the plug on this "life". This little 16 year old cashier called me "sir" the other day. Sir? I'm 25 not 35 jesus christ.
>>28664770
>doesn't like being called sir
Nigga that's like the one part of getting older that's nice.
Had a phone interview last Friday that I thought went well. Missed a call this afternoon from the same number, but they didn't leave a message or email me. Is that a bad sign?
>pls say no
>>28664770
How do people at work know you're a virgin?
5 years in school part time isn't bad either since you're capped at the amount of credits you take.
Just turned 25 2 days ago. Thought it was gonna hit me hard because 24 was such a mental year for me but, I've been relatively relaxed the past few days. Actually had my best night sleep last night in weeks aswell
Still I have no prospects in life and for the moment I'm at peace but, I know I'll be a mental wreck again soon
>>28664872
Well I've been there for about a year and they have never seen me with a girl or talk about a gf. Not to mention I'm pretty shy. Also my co workers who are both around my age have gfs and everyone knows.
>>28664843
call early in the morning tomorrow or else you could miss out
>>28662277
>Still have not even held hands with a girl
>>28664318
t. Dr. Goldberg
>>28662149
I will be 24 in October and i gave up on having a normal life. All o want is to get a job that isn't too time demanding and gives me enough money to support myself and my hobby's
I'm still on time to go to college and get out before I turn 30, what should I study?
>>28664909
You're thinking too much about what your coworker's perception of you.
>>28664940
congrats on figuring out how to greenmeme normie
25 and coming to accept a truth that I always known deep down: that trying to be friends with anyone means being disappointed. People have always found a way to let me down and my standards aren't even that high. I just think that people on the whole are far too selfish to be able to make a genuine connection but whatever the reason: I'm done letting anyone else into my life, including family.
I haven't trusted anyone since I was a kid and I have even less reason to trust them now. I'm not like the other posters here on r9gay: I don't care about having a GF. I've been alone now for so long that the prospect just seems absurd to me and completely backwards. Of all the things that I need to do right now, having a GF is the most useless thing I could think of and in fact wouldn't help me since I'd have no time for my research.
My biggest priority right now is money and I'm currently in the process of starting a consulting firm. In any case: I've accepted that the only way I can ever have something called "a job" is that if I'm in 100% control of my work and schedule, and the only way to do that is to build a successful business. I know a lot of NEETs spend their time playing video games and doing nothing useful, but I've spent years working on my own ideas to the point where I've been published in a few journals despite not having a degree. I think that it would scare most people to realize how capable they were but I'm starting to ramble.
I've been awake for ~48 hours which isn't that long but everything is a blur right now. I want to sleep but the long term costs of using sleeping pills just aren't worth it.
>>28662277
>works part time
lay off the animu figures and save off that money to hire an escort, geez
>25
>No goals
>No desire for sex
>No desire for girlfriend
>Don't want to work
>Literally just waiting to die
>25 and Assburger
>messed up childhood
>lives like a cockroach on the kitchen floor of society
>still unable to just give up
>back to college
>only part time
>one of the oldest fucks on campus
>feels awkward just being there
>has own apartment
>building belongs to a charity
>this is actually some kind of welfare program
>Autism bucks
>tries to get small jobs from times to times
>it feels awful
>they feel like they're sucking my soul out
>had a couple gf before
>been years since last one
>gave on dating completely
>there's just too much of a compatibility issue
>27
>wageslave
>my co-workers sucks up to my superior so they'd get fancy assignments and attend seminars with higher points for promotion purposes
>superior gives me worst tasks
>doesn't say no because I'm too pussy to do so
>this year will be different
>if my superior doesn't give me tasks that will lead to my promotion, gonna be passive aggressive on my job (gonna be late, turn in reports late, "accidentally" misplace files/fill in incorrect data)
>only that makes me happy is talking to online pals
>I don't even wanna have my own family anymore
>>28664770
>This little 16 year old cashier called me "sir" the other day. Sir? I'm 25 not 35 jesus christ.
Well she is a cashier she says that all the time probably out of habit. Plus you're like 10 years older than her.
>>28665086
>I've spent years working on my own ideas to the point where I've been published in a few journals despite not having a degree.
What topics have you written about?
Anime picture because cute anime girls make me feel good.I don't even watch anime anymore.
42 yr old/virgin/neet. no friends. no family. im in constant pain physucally as well as having to deal with depression and bipolar. its getting to be too much effort just to come here and post. i think the end is near.
>28
>got my MA
>got a job paying 35k, parents still have to help with rent cuz it's in an expensive place
i had sex for the first time in 2 years last week
i didn't even like it
it just felt sort of empty
and like shaking hands, or hugging, not like something truly special
and i couldn't cum
>>28665530
do it, go into the great void on your own terms.
i hope you find a beautiful and eternal rest, my friend.
>>28664347
same here senpai in every way
>>28662225
It does become less exciting in many regards, after HS and college, but there's room for it to remain great and grow greater. Sounds cliche, but opportunities don't necessarily end with college. Career growth is always a prospect, raises, etc. Certainly not the most exciting stuff. But that's adulthood for you. There's also exploring yourself. You're finally beginning to live independently/as an adult, in the "real world." Let yourself at least find comfort in this discovery process.
>>28662373
Soon it will be too late. It isn't now. Do something.
>>28663657
Try to keep the bitterness from being at the core of your view of the world.
>>28663715
55? Man. In any case, yeah, life isn't easy. But surely you know that.
>>28663745
Keep up the progress, anon.
>>28663755
You're still young, man, don't break. 20-25K is a lot better than folks stuck making 13K tops in retail/food/service. But even some of them find joy. That's what it's really about. Try not to be so despondent. You have some notable time left.
>>28663780
Keep it up, anon.
>>28664352
You have the right message. Not only because it's positive, but because it underscores how life can change for better or worse. In your case, better. Bots, pay attention.
>>28664568
Enjoy your youth. But also embrace adulthood, anon.
>>28664698
Apologies for the loss, it sounds tough. 1/3 of millennials ~21-34 are living with their parents. Don't be so rough on yourself. Find ways you can reach joy or create in life, independent of perceived limits. You have a unique position that most people don't get. Maybe time to reflect or focus more. Sharpen your mind, maybe.
>>28664880
Glad to hear things have been looking up. Remember that if you feel like a wreck again. It's a ride, and you're doing fine.
>>28665086
>My biggest priority right now is money and I'm currently in the process of starting a consulting firm.
Try to sleep more regularly. You have a concrete goal, a rarity. Relish and pursue it, smartly.
>>28665158
What do you want to do, outside of work?
Why do you want to die? Even if you don't reply, think about it. Is it that you want to die, or you want something to be better? How can you start to make it happen?
>>28665343
Sounds like your life is a steady upward trajectory, with some bumps and misfortunes. Keep cognizance of the successes.
>>28665481
Try being more direct with your superior during check-ins, rather than passive aggressive. It sounds like you're setting yourself up for a poor outcome, when the courage to communicate what's wrong can be the greatest action to take. What you conveyed here is not faulty or wrong, as it relates to disparities and treatment. Feel comfortable knowing you're right to talk about it. Then do that. Talk about it.
>>28665545
Congrats on the success of late. Keep it going, small bumps not withstanding.
fuck off m8
aye
>>28665681
I don't want to do anything. I want to die because I don't enjoy being alive and I don't have the drive to find something I enjoy. I just want to lay in bed, do the basic functions like eating and pooping, and just wait until my body gives out or hopefully one day I build up enough drive to kill myself.
>32 yo neet
>never worked a day in my life
>no money, no experience
>thought it was going well being neet in early 20s
>no ambition or motivation to succeed
>parents proceeded to get more and more ill as the years passed
>full blown mental illnesses now
>father has Parkinson's and memory problems
>mother has multiple sclerosis and can barely get around now and needs help with fucking everything
>oh she's also paranoid schizo as well to varying degrees
>parents never taught me anything of use for life and just coddled me before they got sick
>now they can't help me when I really need it because they can't even help themselves
>my 2 year degree I had is worthless now after a decade
>want to escape this hellhole but I couldn't even get a job that would pay enough to have my own place
>would have to work two shit jobs maybe to get out, if I could even get a job in the first place because even retail is asking for fucking experience
>FEEL TRAPPED
>cry every day lately because it's so stressful dealing with my ill parents
>just want to die at this point
>>28665681
>>28665619
Thanks for replying random anon,
>>28665843
You will emerge like a butterfly from this experience. At 40 you will have a decent job, a wife, kid(s) and you will look back and realize it was those trying times that let you find your legs in life.
>>28665970
Fuck off fucking retarded piece of shit.
>>28665970
Bro I wish I could believe that. I really do but outside of a princess on a white horse coming to save me I don't think I'm getting out of this so easily.
>go to a conference in my field
>bored as shit the entire time, nothing is interesting
>listen to an engineer talk about engines
>interesting as fuck, want to track this guy down and talk to him later but can't find him
maybe I should go back to school for engineering
>>28665970
fucck off to reddit/youtube/twitter
>>28665086
I'm similar. Sworn off all relationships completely over 2 years ago. Since then I haven't talked to anyone that wasn't in a professional setting or my relatives. I have had older "friends" attempt to contact me a few times, but I just play it off and continue not talking to them. One dumb bitch I met over 5 years ago online seriously refuses to stop emailing me (she thinks I'm dead as I cut all contact about 7 months ago.)
I think the worst shit is always meeting people that you, or even them, consider a friend yet say things like "you need friends" and similar comments. I will say it's almost impossible making any if you don't already have some. I have yet to meet someone that didn't do this. Debilitating on the mind after awhile, but I keep chugging along.
>25
>Work in a pharmacy
>Feels like a fast food restaurant, everyone impatient and angry
>Don't know how to do half the things i'm supposed to do, was never taught
>Wish for death every day I have to work
At least it pays well.
26 here, stopped looking for gf, focusing on enjoying the rest of the ride til I wanna get off
>>28665681
Tried it last yr, didn't get results. I'm actually seething atm now that I think of it. Is this always gonna be the way it is now? Fuck it, I don't have any other means of living.
Fucking great. Getting more attention from roasties, job is going well, and about to buy my first shotgun.
31 and just found out recently that I may have Asperger's syndrome
Have a part time job working as a the guy who takes tickets at a movie theahter and then directes people to which screen their movie is playing at
It's better then nothing but it's still a pretty shitty job that even a monkey can do and I don't get much hours since I can't drive and thus can't close since the bus around here is absolute shit and doesn't run late enough at night for me to be able to get home.
Have an IT degree but it's outdated by nearly 8 years now. Can't seem to get a real job to save my life.
Feel like a dinosaur since I'm the only one at work without a smart phone, or even a cell phone in general. But I'm never really anywhere but at home or work so why would I need one?
Have almost zero social life since the few friends I have are very busy living their own lives as adults.
Never had a date in my life. Would like to meet someone around my general age but have no idea how to even start.
Live with my parents but the only reason I'm not paying room and board is because I'm lending them a bunch of money.
Constant crippling fear of what I'm going to do if something happens to my parents or how to take care of them as they get older since as it stands I can barely take care of myself.
Tried walking around the block everyday for awhile for exersize but had to stop because it was starting to hurt my legs really bad and winter was coming making it too freaking cold to bother. Now that it's getting warmer again I should start up again but am afraid to hurt my legs again especially since I have to stand the entire time I'm at work.
Only real improvment lately is that I've been drinking much much less pop and actually started to drink water. At first it tasted like shit but I've finally started to get used to it, thought I still have a problem making sure I'm drinking enough on days I'm not working
>>28664949
Same here, turned 24 in April. I'm going for a bfa with a focus on illustration and minor in some shit like Asian studies. I don't even care anymore, not going to do a medical degree. I don't have the mental capacity for anything that pays above 40k a year.
Sorry mom.
>>28663458
I'll kill myself once infirmity and illness makes daily living more miserable than not. So I'm guessing around 50-60 unless a major medical issue develops before then.
29
BS in Mathematics
Want to kill myself more than ever.
>>28664442
the fuck do you not see your own dog for two years? that's not your dog if you go that long without taking care of it
>>28662149
>27 in a few months
>schizoid pd with paranoid & schizotypal elements
>spend 99% of my time at home by myself & I live alone
>haven't had a job since october
>finding motivation to do anything is hard
>living off savings atm, hopefully get a job soon
>parents don't have enough money for themselves, nevermind their kids, so I got nothing handed to me
>have enough money to last about 10 months so not really in a hurry to get a job but I'm a bit paranoid I won't find one in time, which is why I'm looking for one now & I can keep my comfy savings
>aside from working whenever I feel like and playing vidya, life is going nowhere
>never gonna get married or have kids, sorry mom
>be frugal as possible so I don't have to work as much, usually only work 6-8 months a year
>don't really want a gf, seriously don't think one would add anything to my life
>usually can't relate to anyone since I'm so eccentric
My life is fine atm, can't really see myself doing anything else. The reason I can take months off every year is because I'm an electrical contractor and I can take breaks between jobs, which last a few months usually for the commercial jobs I go for. This wouldn't work for a lot of jobs obviously.
>25
>work as an electrical engineer
>make decent money pay relatively low rent by subletting a room in a house
>spend my money and time on camwhores, drugs, and alcohol
>been playing my current War in the Pacific match for over 2 years now (Jan 1944 and I've already smashed the Japanese navy and well on my way to island hopping to Japan)
>listen to Game of Thrones books on Audible when I drive, play vidya, and go to sleep
>don't have friends but every few months get laid from Tinder
My life is pretty good I guess. I'm awkward as fuck but I got lucky with my brain.
>>28662373
Don't fall for it. I quit my job with the same idea in mind and now I've been a NEET for a year and I'm just as depressed, if not more so than I was in that hell. I'm not telling you to resign yourself to being stuck there, but you have to get the ball rolling while you're still there.
This is key. Otherwise, you'll fall into the trap of "Hey, I'll relax for a week or two" and stagnate before you know it. I know you're probably tired as hell when you get home and tell yourself you've earned the time to shitpost here or play vidya etc. But you have to make small steps until you've acquired the discipline and the routine of working towards whatever it is you're trying to achieve otherwise you're fucked.
I had plans to start exercising, travel Europe and force myself to push through the anxiety of dealing with basic day to day challenges, but I was too weak. Now I've managed to convince myself that I don't care about anything. Good luck, anon.
>>28662738
The thing about retail is one year turns into ten years. If you don't want extra responsibility for an insignificant paid raise, the years will pass by and that 18 year old kid will be your boss who will be super immature.
24, make good money working in IT. Have my own place too. But I'm seriously afraid of Sanjays taking my job. It doesn't even matter how good you are at your job at this point, which is depressing as fuck. Also I have serious imposter syndrome.
>>28662149
Do core
>back pain
Run
>knee pain
Lift weights
>Wrist pain
Im not made for this world
>25
>trying uni again
>fucked up hard today
i'm so tired of trying and disappointing myself. i've failed at everything i've ever done. i should've stayed a NEET.
>>28663642
who is that ugly chalk man
>>28662149
hahahaha THIS shit is what I've been waiting for. hahaha
>26kv that's how Im holding up.
Im considering high class gfe escort to kick it off with a 10/10, so far love seems like illusion so why not fuck 10/10's?
All men pay for it one way or another.
Anyways Im good looking, I just need some girl to start it off ya know, cuz being virgenius at this age is pretty much making me feel shame if girl is regular ass stacie.
>>28662149
27 virgin, living in Russia. On last job I was making 2-3$ an hour(almost twice the average in my city) but get sick monthly due to it being a job at an oil refinery with shitty equipment. Jobless for the third month, have about 1,8k$ in savings. Don't know what to do from now on. I have a shitty uni degree that is only good for factory work. Just passing my days playing Danganronpas and Dota 2.
>>28662277
>30
>2 degrees
>never worked
>kissed a girl
Get on my level
>28
2 months ago, me and my younger brother got kicked outta home over a dispute. We stayed with another set of brothers while their mother was in her other home in Africa.
But their living situation got fucked withing the first week.
No heat/gas
No hot water
Me and him depend on our bikes for a 10 mile ride to work, so that was a nightmare.
We sold our PS4
My brother sold weed at our job.
Luckily for me, I waited till the absolute last minute to file my taxes.
We toughed it out for those 2 months and saved enough to get an apartment in the super shitty ultra ghetto section of town.
Nearly fucking starving ourselves on a ramen and dollar pizza diet.
So things are looking up. Its a little late on my part. Im 28, and hes 22. Im proud of him. He made the most moves. I just sat on the money and didnt do anything stupid like im prone to doing.
Pic related. Parents kicked the dog out with us. Our friend didnt want the dog shedding in his apartment, so we had to give it to a shelter...
>>28671233
We did all of this off 10/hr and dimebag sales.
We didnt want to send the do to the shelter, but no one we knew wanted to watch him. Putting him on the street wouldve been instant death in our shit neighborhood.
>>28664013
Wow did you get in a car accident?
>>28663780
how did you make the friends?
>>28662149
>>28662425
At least you can lie in bed in peace. 4am here and in bed with earplugs because paper thin walls in shit apartment and ppl upstairs sound like they are hammering in the floor.
Loneliness and peace is actually amazing, robots. You will realize this when you don't have it. Wish I had a family to go live with, in that I wish I had a house with a room upstairs or basement to lock myself in.
I'm 26
I've just realised I haven't made any new friends since I was 21.
Sure I get along with my co-workers but they aren't friends.
I never got the knack for making online friends.
I can go days without talking to anyone except for a family member or the guy who runs the convenience store.
I've fucked up. Hope the rest of you are doing better.
>been in this bubble for the last 5 years
>perma unifag
>got scholarships,got some studen welfare(aus)
>could just ignore everything and live in my own world, anime, shitposting, getting drunk and high days
>lied to parents about failing classes
>lied to parents that I graduated last semester
>I got kicked out
>lived in shitty sharehouses off craiglist type websites since I left home for uni
>tfw no more welfare bux
>tfw going to have to enter min wage world
>tfw going to get abused by coworkers for being useless
>tfw going to be abused by customers for being useless
>>28662149
Still hanging in there
Work part time at my town library
Still at home, got the second floor to myself
Dad died 12 years ago, Mom needs me to driver her around, her vision is shot
I will be 50 on June 3rd
Never had sex but I have a shut in neighbor, she is around 70 who gives me a blowjob, once a week, for picking up her groceries, she was one of my teachers in school, doesn't look as good anymore, but I remember what she used to look like
Life is OK, got a routine
If I look to closely at my life, I would get depressed
Pretty mipuch a failure, dad died disappointed
Mom just wants me to be quiet and keep my shoes off in the house and be up by 11 on Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday, have to go to church with her too, makes me wear a suit
Not much of a life, but it's mine
>>28671599
>paper thin walls in shit apartment and ppl upstairs sound like they are hammering in the floor.
oh fuck i know that terrible feel. i listen to music loud through my headphones just damaging my ears. just want fucking out but im an old worthless NEET poorfag with my druggie parents. been applying everywhere
>>28671808
Yea, always thought city life would be nice -- maybe I'd actually make friends or develop some useful skills (maybe even social) aside from computers.
Nope. Well, now that that shit ship has sailed, I actually understand the appeal of true solitude. If I'm going to always be alone (pushing 30), I'd rather live in a shack in the mountains with a rifle, rather than in a noisefest full of fucking normies and roasties.
33 here
im by no means happy but it could be much worse
26 and pretty happy, AMA
>>28671962
low quality b8 oregano pasta
>>28671987
sup
fuckinrobot
hello fellow old fags
>28 years old
>female and never had boyfriend, realize it will never happen now
>live with parents
>only have 2 year degree under my belt, tried to go to university for a real degree
>didn't work out because i'm legitimately dumb
>pretty okay job (make about 60k/year)
>trying to get skinny
>went from 190 to 130 pounds but just binge ate for like 4 days
>only things that make me happy are drinking and ordering things online then looking forward to them arriving
>lately waking up with a horrible head ache after drinking even if i only have a small amount
>have my license but so scared shitless to drive that i had to get rid of my car
>>28666086
Don't do that, I think it's a case of the "grass is greener on the other side of the fence".
You're maybe bored by your own field because he started talking about precise things that are a nag to learn. The other guy probably talked about engines, you understood the major concepts, but as soon as you get into the hard liquid/heat transfer/mech part of things you'll feel the same.
https://www3.nd.edu/~msen/Teaching/DirStudies/Engines.pdf
Really choose a field and focus on it, never give up.
>>28672142
>female and never had boyfriend, realize it will never happen now
If you're worried about your age, that's not too late to get a boyfriend.
I met my girlfriend when I was 26 and my gf was 28. There's plenty of people 30+ still looking for a relationship.
I actually feel like its a better time to look for a bf/gf because people are usually more mature.
>>28672142
Be my gf please? also wtf only a 2 year degree and making 60k? not bad anon
>>28662149
>26 next month
>pretty "meh" about it but want out of my parents house and that's about it.
26
The most difficult thing is not belonging. Knowing that you're incapable of such a thing. For those who are young and still have a chance to be somebody, keep after that goal. You don't want to be nobody, to be nothing. It bleeds your soul dry. I can't stand people seeing me in real life. Hearing me talk and that recognition that I have nothing to say and I'm empty.
>tfw 27
I need to kill myself.
>>28672183
it's fun to dream about having a man but at this point i truly wouldn't know what to do with one, being a diagnosed assburger does not help
>>28672186
it is a degree in pharmacy but i got very lucky with a great job at a hospital... most pharmacy techs end up in a retail pharmacy with a brown boss who would rather cut off one of his fingers than pay you above minimum wage
>>28666952
>31 and just found out recently that I may have Asperger's syndrome
similar story, I used to brush the suspicion off as just typical self-diagnosis bs but then I spoke to my mother about it and she brushed it off with a sort of confirmation of it. felt weird but in a way a bit of vindication that my brain is just wired weirdly from the start instead of me just being a total fuckup through my own fault. She should of told me about it earlier though, at least that way I might of been able to act a bit more like a normal human being whilst growing up instead of what I am now which is a massive recluse.
>Only real improvment lately is that I've been drinking much much less pop and actually started to drink water.
Yeah also the same, used to drink Pepsi Max by the barrel full but now I just have a couple of coffees in the morning and stick to water for the rest of the day.
Kiwi oldfag here
34, unemployed mental health patient, will most likely be dead of suicide within a year
A few years ago I was in the best shape of my life, was training to run a marathon, I was seeing a woman I really liked and who really liked me, and I had just landed a great civil service job that would have kept me secure for decades
Then I had a nervous breakdown for no reason followed by an intense depression and lost everything. I almost had it all and now I'm an unemployable loser that women won't even look at (I don't blame them), I'll never be able to get back to where I was. Fuuuuck me
>tfw just shaved my head because I am balding
>>28668883
>be frugal as possible so I don't have to work as much, usually only work 6-8 months a year
I do the same, I only need to work part-time to live comfortable but I keep being given overtime that I don't want or need. Nobody seems to be able to understand this, I didn't think it's a fundemantally hard concept to understand. My job is filled with bitter people who give me shit because I don't spend all of my wages on drugs and booze so I don't HAVE to spend most of my week working to be comfortable.
>>28672252
please live in Texas and also be my irl gf
I'm 30 and mostly a normal person (okay job, couple of hobbies, my own shitty apartment, ect.) but I am extremely lonely and have no idea what to do about it. Sometimes I get an opportunity to get to know someone such as someone I often see on the bus or a co worker who seems to like me but then I just can't be bothered at all to pursue the friendship or put any sort of time into it. Then I sob about being so isolated and feel intense pain from it, What the fuck.
>>28672331
live in canada, but i really am fucked, pls don't fall for the "dating a girl with mental problems/anxieties would be cute" meme
31 kissless virgin slowly dying of the beetus. Gonna an hero when my kidneys start going out, which might be in a year or two.
>>28672373
it's not a meme, I understand the difficulties as I am a bit fucked up myself. maybe our flaws will cancel each other out?
>>28665843
your parents took care of you your whole life, now they got sick and you want to bail on them ? you fucking sicken me
Can't say I really see a future for myself past the next couple of years. My life's a fucking mess.
>26
>stuck in a dead-end job
>depressed
>don't know how to socialize
>body is falling apart on me
At this point I'm just waiting for the few people in my life to distance themselves so it doesn't hurt as badly when I kill myself.
i'm 27. being post-25 is weird. it's impossible to imagine when in early 20s. but overall i'm the same dude just getting smarter and wiser every year. hopefully I die this year and my band becomes famous and makes my family rich. kek.
I moved to an actual city, do cool stuff all the time
unfortunately I went from being a solid 7/10 to a 5/10 due to everyone being super athletic and outdoorsy here.
i've gotten laid more than ever before but not with any girls I really like.
recently got hit by a dumb bitch driving a car and broke my leg in three places. debating what to do with all my lawsuit money.
I still have the same depression and suicidal thoughts i've had all my life, i've just gotten better at dealing with it.
i've come to the conclusion that i'm not going to land an attractive bebe until i'm in my 30s, when potential partners looks begin to fade and they have more realistic expectations.
>>28672469
I've just been seeing a younger girl, myself. I figure this either ends with me ending myself after, but not because of, our breakup, or us ending up married. Life's empty but I don't want to traumatize this girl who thinks she loves me.
>>28672399
(just an unfortunate picture of what it would be like) if getting her to meet you was like pulling teeth, then the girl refused to go to crowded places, would not meet your family, didn't want to see you to sit and play rift instead, was terrified of sex, and was so set in her ways to change, it would probably be not so great being with her
>>28672348
i feel you. i can't commit to a relationshipship, it requires too much time and empathy that i do not possess.
however, i don't feel sad about it. i used to, but it's been so long ago, i can barely remember what it was like. maybe i've been alone for so much time i've come to accept my solitude completely and only need the absolute necessary human contact, like saying "thanks" and "good morning" and nothing else.
I'll pray for you all
>>28672519
>he didn't read the part where I said I have my own mental issues as well
what makes you think I ever leave my apt?
>>28672662
you will meet your misaki who will take your hand and bring you into a bright and shining world
>>28663458
I'm 35. I actually didn't discover r9K until last year. I'm not a virgin, but I destroyed my life with alcohol, so I've been alone for well over a decade now. Sober now, life's pretty good, but suicide is always at the back of my mind. Sometimes I just want to walk up the road and wander forever.
>>28672724
>anime references
this is 25+ thread, we grew out of Chinese cartoons a long time ago
26, 27 in a month.
You know what is actually worst thing?
That even if you broke up from your NEET shell, even if you do cool, interesting and adventurous stuff, even then, sooner or later, reality kicks in.
I have spent my first 22 years of life as a perfect example of NEET. Got into the huge debt, no higher education, lived on oddjobs, did some serious mistakes with a law, lived off neetbux... You know it. Then I managed to turn it around. Got a girlfriend. Good job. Nice flat. After two years, I began having sleeping issues and one night I just cracked it. I was looking up to the ceiling and asked myself: "This is it? This is everything?"
During the next weeks I broke up with her (found out she was cheating anyways later), leave my job. I have taken unemployment bucks and started working out, running and boxing. After a few months I sold everything I have left, bought a ticket to France and joined French Foreign Legion.
I spent there another two years. It was the most difficult, yet most giving experience I have ever done, but nevertheless, I was not cut out for it, so I left. I traveled a bit then and finally got back.
And here I am. No formal education, huge ass debt, I have a month to the trial (which will not probably put me in jail, but send me deeper to the debt spiral), no career at all, no job other than night-shift guard. I play vidya which bore me to hell and have nothing to live for and even worse, even nothing to die for.
There is literally nothing in this world.
>27
>friends have all moved away or have families
>neet
>no uni
>so desperately alone
>>28672758
you are a fucking retard, seriously
>29
>lost 45lb since November
>quit smoking 28 a day 9 months ago
>Haven't had a drink since November
>can manage 10x2 push ups now but do 60 through out the day
>can manage 20x5 sit ups without stomach getting in the way or crying
>40 min of general cardio
>still have 35lb to go
>gf doesn't notice or care
>haven't had sex in 2 years
>thinking of just disappearing
>>28672955
Care to explain?
unoriginalblox.
>>28672970
i just felt extremely jealous because i am the same age and i can never pull of what you did so i lashed out because you threw it all away
>>28662149
I am afraid of this
18 and live with my friend in a garage. Live on pizza and beer sleep, on a couch
kill me
>30 in less than a month
>no job
>no friends
>no gf
>still live my mum and brother
It's ok
>>28672994
Yeah, I admit it may look like that. What I wanted to say (and utterly failed in the process) is that most of the /r9k/ spent their time here wishing for something. Girlfriend, good job, education. Even the adventure or just "fun" above usual vidya.
What I've meant that I got those things. And they suck and are similarly pointless as being NEET. That or it is me specifically who is fucked and others may find their happiness in those things.
>>28673063
i can definitely find happiness in those things since my life was for the bigger part horribly shit and being able to get my own place, gf and some cash to buy weed and some things i want like games or whatever would definitely make me very happy
>>28673111
That's good for you, anon. It is not the happiness you currently have, but the happiness you can have which counts in the end.
REERRREE REEEEEE
PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAD GIRLFRIENDS AND SEX GET OUT GET OUT NORMIES FUCK OFF REEEE
STOP TRIGGERING MEEEE
YOU HAVE BEEN CURED FROM THE CURSE OF VIRGINITY GET OUT GET OUT
ree. normies.
>>28673337
Getting your dick wet won't fix your life. Not a one bit.
And THEN you will know how empty a life can be, when you will be out of that nice hope-carrot, which you like to wave before your face now.
>>28673391
lol
>>28673337 doesnt know that normies fuck to keep their minds off the fact there is nothing in this world
its not like once you've had sex, you "won" the game. takes a lot more steps than that
>>28662225
>life is lived in high school and college, after that it's wageslavery
>life is lived in high school and college, after that it's wageslavery
>life is lived in high school and college, after that it's wageslavery
>life is lived in high school and college, after that it's wageslavery
This is a fucking fact.
>>28662437
you're living the dream, senpai. I wish I could find a girl who would accept me as a stay at home husband.
God, I'd even learn how to cook amazingly
26 here is tinder good for random fucks in the UK
i used to be so frustrated and write all the kinds of posts i see on r9k
but now im just completely apathetic. its rare that i write something like this, but anyone know this feel?
i was depressed and desperately trying to find ways out of it, but nothing made a difference so i just stopped trying.. i dont even think its depression anymore, just a normal feeling when you truly see how stupid things are, how little you matter, and that nothing will ever "satisfy" you or make you feel differently, but i dont even say that in a feels/anger way. it just is what it is.
anyone know this feel? what is this?
>>28674007
I can fully relate to what you're "feeling". I'm basically just waiting now for my lifespan to reach it's natural end (to spare family for grief).
25/khv/retail wagecuck/no friends or gf
i also dont have any fashion sense, since i was a neet for like 7 years i never bought clothes because i sat at home in sweatpants
thinking about buying new clothes but whats the point if i dont do anything?
i got some cute coworkers but they are literally 10 years younger than me and i might come off as a weirdo if i went to a highschool party(i look like 19-20)
i get asked to buy cigarettes sometimes
maybe if i started drinking and doing drugs i could be more normie
>>28674102
and my job has a uniform, another reason not to buy anything new
I turned 25 yesterday. My friend bailed on me, we were going to go out to eat. He didn't even bother sending me a happy birthday. Oh well, someone pass the rope.
>>28674086
glad someone ktf
im not really waiting for anything, which i know makes no sense because i got a lot more life left, but i just dont think about the future at all. i used to a lot, and it made no difference, so whatever
>26
>married chinese girl
>kid coming soon
>went back to college and graduated this semester
Doing alright I guess.
Bad parts:
>never had job
>living with parents
>>28674136
Waiting is probably wrong word I just don't have any hobbies or interests so to borrow a quote "I'm idling my life away"
Perhaps you will continue to live your life, and everything will be normal while your attention is occupied by study, work, TV, internet, etc. if you're lucky enough to have those distractions.
Soon you'll feel more alone than ever, you will feel empty, your life will start to seem meaningless, with no visible goals. You'll realize that you have separated yourself from society. You'll have lost your ability to enjoy company and laugh together with others; they'll seem different. You'll have lost your social skills and created mental barriers around yourself to stop people from getting close to you, you'll feel nervous or outright threatened when you are among people who fully enjoy themselves. Then comes the worst: when suddenly all these things become unbearable, all that natural need for social interaction and how much better it would be to have friends and how much you missed in your life until now. You'll realize that you need other people to live, but the other people will never need you.
Life is cruel and unfair. By the time you're even aware enough of a personal flaw to care or want to fix it, it's too late. It's always been too late. You were born without the raw abilities that others take for granted. And it is only this raw ability that translates into value in the real world. Sometimes, because of institutions like schools or colleges, humans can convince themselves that "you get what you put in" in life. But the truth is that unless some valuable shit was "put in" when you were born, you will not succeed.
All that you were supposed to build up until now, you didn't, and you have no foundation to build things you're supposed to build in this part of your life. You'll always be an outsider, shunned, ostracized, looked upon as a creepy friendless loser, that's just human nature and the tribal instinct. Now matter where you go and how you try to fit in, this will follow you.
And there is no way out.
>>28674194
gotcha. same family.. i marathon a tv series, find a game or just post on 4chan
29yo
Still live with parents but I don't get the stigma since I'm asian and it's proper to keep living with them until you get married.
Currently a graduate student but have no friends or gf and content with just lifting, studying/working, and working on my guns.
>>28662149
29, going to Japland to reinvent myself. I'll almost certainly fail but at least I'll come away being able to enjoy as many untranslated dating sims and eroges as I want for the rest of my miserable life.
>>28662149
>33
>nightshift work in a fast paced warehouse
>50 hours a week, the only thing going on w/ me
>tried to be social, but made bad conversation constantly
>coworkers came to pity me because i'm special and "a good kid".
>new career plan is stfu at work now and hope they forget
>heart problems
>back problems
>teeth rotting out
>diet is 50% brown rice 50% the canteen at work
>spend more on catfood & litter than I do on groceries
>in a dryspell since g.w bush's first term
>shameful owner of a surplus copcar
>wardrobe consists of threadbare $12 walmart chinos and hanes rags
>inherited house is in shambles
>just paying tax bills and utilities burns 1/3 of my paycheck
>only goal is to keep the house like my mom wanted the family to do
Good new is as long as my back and knees hold out I can keep myself above water until I hopefully develop some kind of marketable skill.
25yo reporting in.
>high school dropout
>small business owner
>chubby and balding
>dating a hot thick high school chick (legal)
Could be worse. I'm drinking a lot.
>>28674373
nice one for doing something though
>>28674598
is there something bad about having a former cop car?
>being called 'a good kid' at 33
top kek
>>28674603
>small business owner
>dating a hot thick high school chick (legal)
>could be worse
29
My wish to see the world burn is going to become reality, in a not too far future.
>>28674690
nah, shit continues as normal and no matter how bad things get everyone pretends they're alright
i understand the fantasy though
>>28674686
Business is barely staying afloat, haven't had a vacation in almost 3 years now. Neither more than one consecutive day off not counting Christmas and shit.
The chick part is alright if you dont count that I'm her first boyfriend ever and we are on date 5 today. Literally teaching her everything, she doesnt know how to behave with a boyfriend in public, let alone in the bedroom.
>>28663642
dis nigga know
>>28674373
You watch anime, don't you? Fucking weebs
>>28674942
I guess, I'm pretty bored of anime though tbqh. I'm watching J-dramas now. What's your point?
>>28662149
So from being 27 I am already considered a grandpa? That's rude
>>28675013
desu when i was 16 i thought 30y old ppl are old
then i realized i could woop my 16old ass so bad he would stop having such silly thoughts
>>28675013
i've just had my 24th birthday. I'm getting increasingly nervous. Fucking oldfuck i am, almost a quarter of the century old. FUCJK
>>28672960
This is awesome if true. Keep building your body and fuck of with gf, you'll hit tons of girls with a body in shape without even saying a word...
>27yo, almost 28
>wageslaving in a ok job for my country standards, but not getting rich from it
>no friends in this city or nearby
>living alone
>crippling solitude
>Can't sleep without drugs
>too autist to know how to buy illegal drugs
>spend free time watching anime, shitpostting and playing
>manchild.jpg
>still looks underage
>seems like it'll be like this forever
>fall for a girl I met online, but she'll never like me
>no one besides my family will love me
>ugly as fuck
I wish I was a could make someone love me, but I'm just a piece of shit.
>ALL THESE NORMIES WITH NON-VIRGINITY AND JOBS
GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
IF YOU HAVE MONEY YOU DO NOT BELONG HERE
IF YOU HAVE A JOB YOU DO NOT BELONG HERE
IF YOU HAVE EVER HAD ANYONE LOOK AT YOU AS MORE THAN JUST A BUG TO BE STEPPED ON, GET OUT
GET OUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
I WILL KILL YOU AND FUCK THE BODY REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>28662149
>bad back
I know that feel. Getting my first vehicle, and I will be bugging the shit out of rheumatologists. I can't lift 60+lbs without my back hurting for days/a week. Jogging or running more than like 10 seconds is out of the question. My joints knock as I walk. Turns out my family knew my father had an untreated spinal problem, and never thought to check me out for anything.
>>28675424
>fall for girls online
>never meet them even though i am actually capable of going to meet them
>relationship falls apart and am absolutely devastated and obsess over it
i can only imagine what will happen if i manage to get something real, in person where i can hold them and love them
probably kill myself
>>28662436
Hi, I'm you but six years older. It gets worse.
>>28663458
I'm 33 so it is not so far.
But my mom got cancer and if she dies I won't have anything to live for anymore.
>33
>Felon
>Unemployed
>Using Library PC
I beg for change most days to get drunk enough to sleep.
>>28675483
I actually meet her two times last year, she even slept on my home for a couple of days... but, meh, she's too pretty and smart to like a loser like me
>>28675538
Have you tried melatonin? I've been using it for around 6-7 years. I worked my way up, but I take 10mg instant release and 10mg time release every night. It becomes ineffective and does weird shit if you drink with it, though not too much if you're not shit faced before bed. All it does is make you sleepy, it's not a depressant. You can buy it almost anywhere, but the timed release is harder to find.
>>28665530
disabled 45 here, i'll go first
>30 years YOUNG
>1 year, 2 months removed from a five year stint in the Navy
>stay at home dad while attending college full time
>had extreme depression most of the last year over not being able to do anything I enjoy, lack of of sleep because of baby and loneliness (only hung out with wife and her family)
>still manage to do well in college
>gained weight from lack of activity and depression eating, started exercising more on February, lost some weight, putting it back on again
>too apathetic to stick to a fitness plan
>shoulder and lower back are fucked up from the Navy, can't bench press, barbell squat or deadlift
>enjoys running but can only do it on a treadmill without having searing back pain
>no time to go to gym, feels bad.
>>28675548
did you bang her?
>tfw called attractive by cute girl who is in university for some kind of engineering
>knows im a friendless neet loser, doesnt care or judge people
maybe its the greencard, but i doubt it
>>28675631
nah, I'm too ugly and beta for that
>>28663411
Im 27 neet porn addict that sits at home chain smoking and playing p2w iphone mmos.
33 here. Everything is swell.
>25 year old KV
>just finished second year of law school, waiting for my summer position to start
>due to good grades and luck, was able to get it to a big firm that pays a ton
>reassuring to know that I won't have to worry my parents about money ever again
Ever since oneitis destroyed what fun I could have had in high school, I've ignored the possibility of ever getting a gf. It's actually quite nice not having to worry about it, since I know that getting a gf won't actually make my life any better than it is now.
It's not like I'd have time for dating once I start working 60-80 hour weeks after graduation anyway
>halfway through master's
>now seriously for real have to start finding a career or accept the neet life
send help
>>28662149
Buy Becomming a Supple Leopard, pay attention to form, stretch often and most importantly TAKE IT SLOW.
If you're doing deadlifts have add a warm-up series every 20kg starting at 70-80. Similarly add warmup-series to bench press and squats.
I'm 28, since I started stretching, paying attention to my form, started stretching, foam rolling etc I have less injuries than I had when I begining lifting when I was 24-25.
Worst thing I'm having now is a tweak somewhere in the ribcage in the back.
I wanted to ask how to fuck do you guys meet new friends or women at 28, but I remembered what board I am on.
Apart from occasional loneliness doing pretty great.
>>28676699
Live music shows at bars and pubs.
>>28676699
I don't have a fucking clue. The only people I've met after college was through the internet
>>28672747
shoenice senpai is that you
>>28676718
>live music shows and pubs
normie
>>28676767
Wew careful there with those words lad, you almost hurt me with that dangerous accusation of being a functional human being.
>>28676797
>goes to a pub to drink when he could just drink at home for cheaper
>goes to live music festivals when he can just watch them on twitch
>>28676806
I go to pubs to hit on women.
I go to festivals to hit on women and enjoy music coming from actual PA systems isntead of shitty compressed 128kbps livestream audio coming out of laptop speakers.
Don't be hatin'
>be 28, recent NEET
>recently moved back in with parents
>they sold their house and are having a hard time finding another one to buy due to prices
>tfw they are considering kicking me out so they can downsize by a lot
>tfw might really be homeless soon
>tfw can't find a new job
i have about 15k in the bank if i pool everything together. a few old coworkers who may be up for renting a house together but fucking hell it's still expensive, like $600 + utilities a month for a room
what should i do?
Anyone else dropped out of college multiple times?
I dropped out of university twice and community college twice. After that I just accepted my position in life and have basically been a professional Mexican. I just go in for the menial labor and turn off my brain. It's better that way. Smoking weed all the time helps. The sad thing is that I had a ton of AP credits and got a 2190 on the SATs and was definitely smart enough to do the work, I just couldn't handle the constant reminder of how abnormal I really am, and how lonely I really am and I couldn't deal with the constant anxiety of class or trying to make friends.
Each day that passes and I get older without having amounted to anything, the more shameful it becomes. I see now why suicide rates grow the older people become.
>>28676847
Go to big banks and see what homes they have for sale or auction. In my city you can get a pretty decent foreclosed upon home for 15k. If you live somewhere expensive, you can always move to Baltimore.
>>28674211
Good description, pretty close to how I feel. At this point my future just seems so hopeless.
>>28676827
>hitting on women
>>28676910
hitting on >womenrobot be you gone[/robot]
>>28676910
Effortless bitching about being lonely can only be entertaining for so long before you have to try.
>>28677047
My only problem with that is that my ideal type of girl doesn't go to bars.
Because if you meet people at bars don't be surprised that they want to go to bars. And going to bars is not entertainment I'd like to take part in.
>>28677165
People go to bars because they are lonely. Trust me, you are overgeneralizing.
>29
>30 in september
>Work two days a week as a security guard
>Spend all my money on videogames, kebabs and pizza
S'alreet like
Get to watch my few friends spiral into getting married, having children and having no time to themselves. Hear from them less and less, when I do hear from them they complain about how bad everything is.
T O O B A D N O R M I E S
This thread has more quality then most of r9k combined. It's proven that the problem with this board is not "the normies", but the underage scum. We should have our own board, for people +25
>>28677200
Maybe. When I go to bars with my firends there's seems to be sort of a bar culture.
I.e most people either go to that bar frequently and know each other, are friendly with the bartenders so on and so forth
OR
They're socializing with their friends and don't care about other dudes.
I'm not very keen on meeting people from the first group.
>>28677285
Friend I think you got bigger issues than not knowing how to get friends or women, asuming this was you.
>>28676699
>>28665970
I sincerely hope you get cancer, fuckface
>>28677333
It was.
But I do have friends and I just went out of a long term relationship.
I don't want to just meet any people I want to meet people that share my values and views and which I could use to "pull myself up".
I already have enough of friends that don't read anything and that think that working 9-5 and drinking on the weekend is "the life".
I want to meet constructive people, people that want to learn and improve themselves and not just "socialize".
>>28671204
28
>1 degree
>have my own company that I run with my wife
>married the girl with who I am together since we where 20.
I just come to this board once a month to laugh at the people here.
how many of you khv's identify as conservative/republicans?
>>28677467
Well what are your hobbies then? What interests do you have? Go to such places.
I'm not assuming anything here, but you can't exactly feel entitled to meet interesting people if you dont have much to offer.
Also for what its worth, people tend to find one bar that works for them and they always go to that one bar. I go to mine twice a week and I still get to be friendly with the bartenders etc. I go once with a random friend to catch up and usually once for a quick coffee when I got shit to do around town and have a small break or whatever. That or live music on the weekends.
And even if you meet regular people, you can always show initiative and try organizing some kind of activity.
>>28677505
national socialist fv
>>28665970
>You will emerge like a butterfly from this experience
nah, more like worse shit'll happen (chronic illness, legal troubles, injury) and you'll look back on the "horrible" time and realize you were actually better off
thats been my experience
>>28677505
Me. I'm more of a nationalist. Can't wait for Camp of the Saints to become a reality in our lifetime senpai.
Africa's population is going to increase by 2 billion in the next couple of decades. Western nations, especially in Europe, are going to be overrun. Here in the US, we'll face the same with Latinos from Central and South America trying to escape the violence and failed states like Venezuela.
It's going to be a hell of a time.
>>28675469
This
I can't even browse these threads even though I'm 26 because they're full of guys going on like "oh man I'm 25 and only have a STEM degree I've been a NEET for 4 months I don't think I'll make it bros.........." or "I'm 30 and married but I don't like my job so I'm just like you guys lol oops hold on the baby's crying.."
I wish wizchan had more actual wizard posters
>>28672142
Hi, be my gf please, but get back to 190 pounds asap.
>>28672142
>makes $60k and its socially acceptable to live with parents
>on top of this get to be female which is a whole other can of easymode
You have a nearly ideal life
I can't even fathom what having so much disposable income would be like
>>28672373
im in canada also
couple years younger
you make 3x my income
wanna date? ;)
>>28672519
That's just being a shit person, if you have no desire to please your partner and do things with/for them, you're a piece of shit, it has nothing to do with being "autistic" or having "problems" as long as your heart is in the right place.
>>28678051
Been there done that, funny how all their anxieties suddenly vanish in a puff of smoke when they meet Chad.
It's just selfish bitches making excuses.
>>28677603
Guitar, cs, books, gym, board games.
Sure, I get it. We meet regularly at my place for board games. I tried going to CS conferences but they're a sausage fest. I'm waiting for a couple of meet-ups to publish their next meeting date and hoping to meet people there.
The gym and library are not places where you meet people.
I'll also probably enroll on some language course or archery/martial arts.
Just fishing for ideas here.
>>28675469
Despite you having a great understanding of how the economy and society work today, and how unemployment plays into it does not really prevent you from getting a job so you can at least get some money and then some sort of agency and freedom to do things.
My point is, all the NEETs here are merely a symptom of a problem. And when they choose to dwell on their misery instead of educating themselves and figuring out what the problem is, and then organizing to find the solution, they might get more satisfaction out of their lives.
Hint, the problem starts with blurring the relationship between labor and fruits of labor(how many office rats actually produce anything).
And at the core it is economic exploitation in its classical sense.
And then there is the accompanying alienation from labor and from society. Shit sucks but in current capitalist economy it happens. It happened in deregulated capitalism, it happens now in corporate capitalism. The term wageslave is used wrongly on this board but upon inspection one sees the real statement behind that word.
And if you have health problems, you would most likely say that you want to participate in the common efforts in society, of course accounting for the state of your health. But you probably know your current situation more than I do.
You know the situation should be better. The question is, why it is not better?
>>28678421
And you know why it's not better. So why ask? Just fishing for someone to bully so your tiny pecker can twitch a bit?
>>28678467
The question why it is not better is the question why is the system made this way and how can we make a better system to organize the collective natural resources, means of production and the collective labor of all people for the best possible benefit of all people, ideally the same benefit of all people.
The few(ruling class, bourgeoisie, the 1%) benefit the most because they take what belongs to others and then codify it in law, and claim private ownership and enforce the private ownership with the threat of violence.
And to get the rest to comply with this, they haunt them with unemployment. Let's set it up so some poor suckers are miserable and serve as a warning for not being compliant.
That is my whole point.
Our socio-economic situation is a direct result of our socio-economic circumstances. To claim otherwise is to detract from the main culprit.
>>28678579
Good fucking morning. If you want to change it, give me money.
What a shitty year 25 has been
>moved to a shit state
>gf of 3 yrs dumps me
>dont get promotion
>car breaks
>wallet and phone get stolen
>become alcoholic that no one wants to be around
>hairline starts receding
>longest ive gone without pussy since 17
Ready to die
