>tell therapist I feel ugly and don't think I could ever have someone attracted to me
>"well, lots of people have different ideas of attractive. There are plenty of girls out there who feel unattractive and they won't be pinup models or anything but they are probably something like you"
>>28598723
>does their wight start above 220 Dr.Shekelkeg?
>>28598723
Why do you think you're ugly, OP? No one is completely without any attractive features.
>>28598894
>This normie nigga right here...
>>28598894
I've posted my face before and received literally nothing but negative comments. When people are trying to be nice they say I'm average. When people are trying to be mean they point out the specific problems. When posting my face randomly people refer to some of my features as "sad" or "pathetic". I've never had anybody attracted to me. That's how bad it is.
>"why do you feel like nobody will find you attractive?"
>I'm too short, I'm physically ugly, I'm mentally fucked up, I don't have a job, I don't leave the house, I can't drive, I can't do anything without feeling like throwing up, I have no social hobbies or interest, I....
>"okay, okay, okay.... but some of those things you can change"
>"I don't work hard every day to be able to attract someone I'm not attracted to when I'm 26"
>"oh..."
>>28599000
If a woman isn't married by the time she's 25 she's either ugly as sin or nuttier then squirrel shit.
>>28599000
im sorry OP but you got me curious,
please post face?
>>28599078
No fuck off
This isn't an """"""""""ugly""""""" /soc/ thread
>fucking up on easy mode
I agree, you're a true blue loser
>>28599032
Isn't twenty five considered too early....
>>28599032
>by the time she's 25
are you from india
>tell therapist I want to be a little girl
>he tells me to stop watching so much anime
>>28599161
>>28599700TICKTOCKROASTlES
>>28599000
>Tfw had girls tell me I got nice eyes
>even after I started wearing fucking autistic looking cheap glasses I got a compliment from a girl on my eyes
>never take care of my body or hair so I'm a lanklet with terrible looking messy ugly hair and a below average face anyway
rip
>>28598723
>tfw want a bf or gf like OP that considers themselves worthless to turn around and become my loyal spouse who i cant live without
>>28599733
he's right you know desu
>>28599775
>tfw a girl actually did try this
>tfw she stopped initiating conversation after realizing I was genuinely mentally ill
>tfw she stopped talking to me when I showed my face
People always have this idea that it's like the movies where some perfect guy is just really insecure but the girl comes along and saved him and he turns out to be really attractive and perfect.... in reality they're just a worthless piece of shit all around.
>>28598723
You caught your therapist off guard with your staggering display of self-pity. They tried to save you like a lot of therapist would. It's a typical response for their breed.
What they ought to have said is something along the lines of, "Sounds like you're powerless and face rejection in a lt of your relationships. Whats that like for you?" Then follow up with ways you've acted out your powerlessness and feelings of rejection in the therapeutic relationship.
From there, you can try to find ways of creating a sense of self-agency in therapy and extending that into your life. Or, you could keep drawing people into your depressing shit.
>>28599950
i wouldnt expect it to be like the movies i'm not a retard. i'm genuinely ok working with struggles and other things standing in the way. i feel like those are the truest and kindest souls because they see themselves so lowly. they're a treasure waiting to be dusted off.
>>28599032
Nice try, Pajeet.
>>28598723
Honestly just kill yourself Senpai.
>>28600065
Nice try, Opal.
>>28599979
you can try dusting off this dick
>>28598723
>but they are probably something like you
Depressed, lonely and sitting on a therapist's chair?
>>28600188
He's a homo. That's more of a gift to him.
>>28600188
absolute maximum maturity anon, but sure post it with your old wrinkly saggy ass
>>28598723
If that's not a joke, your therapist is a moron and you should change therapists.
Is there a legit reason to feel unattractive?
Make sure you are
-at a good BMI (lose weight)
-have a healthy physique (exercise)
-take care of yourself (groom, dress properly)
Once you're done with that, you should be attractive. The other factor is self confidense, but that's secondary and a lot more complex.
If you are objectively in good shape try to figure out who's feedback made you feed unattractive and find out whether this feedback was objective or used to offend/hurt you.
>>28600333I'VE FUCKING TRIED THAT IT DOESN'T FUCKING WORKI've literally never had any girl interested in me or show interest that I'm even aware of. I've never even had a deep conversation with a girl
>>28600333
those trips
also , why is that a joke?
isn't it the contrary? He told some truth, I thought this was one of the things society values, the saying the truth thing.
>>28600333
what does grooming goes on?
like what is the full grooming list to do daily?
>>28600333
this dude is right, if your body and grooming are top notch you automatically become more attractive to people, not only visually but also they can see that you obviously are a responsible person and know how to manage your shit
>>28600333
>>28600419
I meant, What does grooming exactly mean?
I don't know why I phrased that autistic way.
I wanna star grooming and develope a routine,.
>>28600482
what is top notch grooming?
>>28600491
just take good care of your skin and hair, make sure your clothes are always clean, that you smell nice, all that. i don't know if you're a typical member of society or a hikikomori so aprdon if these things seem obvious to you
>>28598723
>go to a therapist
>hide a shitton of my problems without thinking because I'm so used to it, instead of talking about how fast my mood swings up and down from nearly breaking down in tears at work to audibly laughing at some random shit I remembered
>end up ending it with "I just feel kinda tired all the time"
>get told to go to get a physical done
>never had one done in my entire life
>if I suddenly asked for one from my parents they would know something is up
its been 2 months and I feel like I can never go back because of this
>>28599000
Enjoy those trips because they're the last good thing you'll ever get in this world
>>28600584
Sup Brfag
this is part of my face, I'm afraid of showing the whole thing because you people will just say I'm doing this for attention
>>28600609
forgot pic wtforiginalio
>>28600625
>inb4 200 repliez
>>28600599
II'm actually american
>>28600560
Honestly I am not very fond,
how do i know if I smell good?
what does taking care of skin and hair mean?
any products or what?
what is all that?
I am serious, I am sorry if this is asked un a weird way, but a I really wanna know,, I will list this grooming steps in a note book and then every day check everymorning so that I don't miss any of them,.
Any products or techniques? pls tell me anon.
>>28600609
>people will just say I'm doing this for attention
I mean you literally are...
One girl I talked to said she started spending more time on her appearance and people responded more positively to her. Things like hair, how you dress, how you carry yourself, etc. sends a lot of vibes to those you're around.
>>28599000
have you considered a career as a youtube neet, like eggman?
>>28600625
might as well show the rest, you don't look ugly or undesirable at all. now i would definitely date you
>>28600625
>me 042.jpg
>>28600663
This. Girls only post their pics here to get validation from virgin betas too boost themselves up to fuck Chad
>>28600648
I could sniff you to see if you smell good
>>28600625
uhh is this real? im not sure
>>28599032
>Nuttier than squirrel shit
Fucking 10/10 poetry, my man.
>>28599078
fuck you. you want face pics then go to /soc/ dipshit. keep attention whoring out of our r9k
>>28600648
honestly this >>28600721 i want to sniff you anon and make you smell pretty :3
>>28600721
I'm a guy I don't think you would like that.
How often do i have to wash my clothes?
everytime I wear them?
>>28600609
>>28600625
>posts tits randomly without being asked
>you will complain im just doing it for attention
10/10 i chuckled heartily
>>28600625
10/10 if you're real
7/10 if trolling
>>28600625
I was gonna say this before, but if that's really you, your problem is a lack of confidence. You don't feel worthy of anyone so you isolate yourself. I sympathize if you're being genuine with us. What you need is to change your mindset.
>>28600722
No, its just cropped, or taken from /soc/
>>28600760
I'm a guy, I am not op. sorry anon.
OP here
God damn you retards fall for bait so easily
>>28600361
do you have visible abs?
>>28600803
i know you arei still want to smell you if that isn't too bad. let me sniff you please!
>>28600625
Chad reporting for duty and baby girl i want up in that booty!!! I wanna suck on those titties soo bad :o!!!
Also collar bones and big nose i like it!!
>>28599000
Wow you fucking faggot. Moaning about being unnatractive and nobody understanding. Then being like I don't want to work hard to attract somebody I find unattractive.
Bruv it is more than likely your hideous fucking personality.
Get over yourself.
>>28600897
Want retards to leave
>>28600859
I am not an attractive guy otherwise I wouldn't be here.
I am asking for groomin steps.
I don't think you would like to sniff me.
I am really sorry anon., If I become a groomed person and everything I would let anyone that wants to smell me I promise.
>>28600929
I want to smell you either way i'm asking. Please. I will help you smell sweet if you'd like. But either way I want to sniff you.tfw no Kathra bf
>>28600929
Stuff to do daily:
Shower
Shave
Moisturize
Clean clothes
Deodrant
Style hair
Brush teeth
>>28600648
no worries man. just keep clean. wash your face, brush your teeth, comb your hair, keep your clothes washed, use deodorant, all that. go to any supermarket and ask for advice or pick at random
>>28600979
I have a serious question anon.
Even if you were gay, why would you like to smell and unattractive robot?
also please talk to me about your grooming habits.
>>28599161
Not really. 25 is more or less procrastination territory.
>>28601017
>>28601033
how often do i have to wash my clothes?
every time I wear them are they considered dirty and need a wash?
what does moisturize mean?
>>28601049
I like the smell ofrobot boyand I could tell you what you smell like. If I want to sniff you would you let me?
I do most of the things >>28601017 here every day.
>>28599775
Ehhhh...
Don't be so sure. I believe that I am absolute shit and garbage as a human being. But, were I born into a better body and station in life, I would be super slutty and disloyal.
Wish I could take you up on your offer though. Anon is right >>28599950 sometimes people are just trash all around.
>>28601118
Why is it that you can't take me up on my offer?
>>28601017
>>28601117
>>28601033
I am this guy, I also have another question I am sorry for calling on your attention, this is the last I promise.
In what order do I have to pull them.
and also what about shoes?
I'm really thankful for your answers.
>>28600794
but how do I change it, I have problems socializing and I dress like shit so I can't even attract people in that aspect
>>28601117
>>28601158
>>28601017
>>28601033
I meant this guy >>28601075
>>28601117
what do robots smell like?
>>28601189cute and boyish i thinki don't know. i-i just want to smell your natural scent sorry if that's so weird ;~;
>>28601151
Because I have disloyal tendencies. I'm disgusting both inside and outside.
>>28601173
just be my autistic gf and have sex with me, no need to socialize
Holy fuck why do you thirsty faggots have to throw decent threads out of the window the second tits are posted.
>>28601075
depends on the clothes, you don't wash jeans often especially if they are denim. Shirts you can wear them until they have their own smell instead of yours
>>28601208
wouldn't you prefer to smell actual boyish and cute boys?
I would let you sniif me, I would feel awkward I don't think I smell good like a cute boy or something to be honest.
I think is normal for people to like to smell other people.
>>28601245
that's good but I don't think boys smell much more different than other boys unless they use products. thank you for letting me sniff you even if it is awkward.
>>28601218
oh that's a shame... at least you admit it. i dont think you're that disgusting but why are you disloyal in a relationship sense?
>people keep feeding the attention whore's ego
REEEEEEEEEEEEE
WHY AREN'T WOMEN AND BETA ORBITERS BANNED FROM THIS BOARD
YOU ARE LITERALLY TOXIC
>>28601291
but pheromones and other things. I heard people tend to smell different and have a unique smell.
is this roleplay or something?
you just wanted me to say that I would let you sniff me?
I honestly don't think anyone would like to smell me.
Have someone ever sniff you?
>>28601336
true that's what makes people smell good! i w-wonder if you have nice pheromones! i dont know what it is probably not unless you want it to be. i do i want to sniff you lots of times! nobody has ever wanted to and i doubt anyone will but that's ok
>>28601301
I don't know. I seem to have a compulsion to constantly seek validation from others. My libido doesn't help either. There was a time I was loyal, but things ended badly and I've been sort of "open" if you know what I mean, since then.
But let me ask you a question. How are you able to look past all those flaws to find the good inside someone? Could you really be happy with the dredges of society?
>>28601388
I can with some people, but you're the type of risk that no one wants to take. just make sure to tell everyone that you meet about what you really are so they can steer clear of you. please.
>>28601388
I understand, but if you aren't loyal I would not consider it dating. Sorry about your libido maybe you can control it someday. At least you keep things open instead of monogamous.
As explained here >>28599979 the people with the most barriers to hide their souls are usually the best treasures. They're honest and humble because of all these detriments. I understand it isn't a hollywood story but it is true that these people are treasures on the inside. I feel more of an emotional connection after all this work
>>28601388
>I seem to have a compulsion to constantly seek validation from others.
it's called being a woman you dumb roastie
literally all of your kind are shit
the others just hide it better
>>28601426
> these people are treasures on the inside
i wasn't talking about you btw, i was referring to actual human beings
>>28601387
you don't know what it is unless I want it to be?
I know this an imageboard, and this is like a game for you, and is fine is funny ant everything. I'm also thankful that you have anwered all my questions.
If things were true., I'm sorry that I am not gay,
I really like you and talking to you, you seem like a good fella.
I don't think I have good pheromones, Again I am not atracttive.
I bet someone has smelled you before.
>>28601228
Do you have and specific day of the month or week to wash and iron your clothes?
>>28601453
pheromones are not equal to looks every time anon. o-oh you're not gay I should probably leave you alone then. it was very nice of you to allow me to smell you even though it was strange.
>>28601388
>Could you really be happy with the dredges of society?
I could, because I'm also part of the dredges, and worthless people should be worthless and happy together. It's romantic.
>>28601444
Sorry for not being an actual human being, I didn't mean to upset you and waste your time.
>>28601493
>implying im upset
no, but thanks for apologizing for wasting my time; that part was true
>>28601481
But we could be friends, I don't have friends but i would talk to you, and you would talk tome about the guys you like and everything and how they smell.
also aren't the attractive people that have attractive pheromones?
>>28599000
I mean it's 4chan. Sometimes people just want to shit on people
>>28601425
>what you really are
I don't know why, but that really hurts for some reason.
>>28601426
>I understand, but if you aren't loyal I would not consider it dating.
What do you mean by this? Also, I try to control it, but it's difficult when I become acutely interested if someone so much as shows me the slightest attention.
Your explanation on how are you able to find joy with someone like that is beautiful. So, is it the emotional connection that matters most to you? Do you tend towards asexuality?
>>28601569
>but that really hurts for some reason.
thank you, i hoped it would. you realize it's for the best that you warn people though, right?
>>28601537
you dont have friends b-but youd make me a friend or you would just talk to me? ;_; i dont smell guys ever that's why i wanted to smell you. i suppose women could pick up on attractive versus not but i feel i would only notice how it smells. i-its okay though i probably just made you feel awkward and you wouldnt want to be friends with a weirdo that wants to sniff you anyways. have a wonderful night you lovely anon~
>>28601569
I only consider a monogamous relationship true dating. Open relationships are unreliable to the point where you basically aren't dating. I desire for one person to love me and me alone romantically. I understand and I am proud you admit your problem. That takes a lot of strength anon.
Thank you and I haven't thought about what that makes me. Emotional connection matters yes very much.
>>28601611
yes we make friends, and you talk to me about everything you want, if you like.
please let's be friends.
what is the difference between just talking and being friends?
friends do talk don't they?
I don't feel awkward it was curious for me why someone would like to smell, again I am asking for grooming habits, I have nose problem that is why I don't have very good smell sense, I trouble to breath trough my nose.
you were nice to me.
>>28601482
Do you really feel that way, Anon? Even towards my own type? You see the scorn and derision I have gotten here, simply for being honest.
>>28601592
Why are you intentionally trying to needle me? And yes, I already do warn people.
>>28601626
I really wish I could have your viewpoint on life. I think you are great, and I think you are going to make some Anon someday very very happy. I hope you find t6hat 5gem in the rough you are looking for.
>>28600491
Have at least one shower a day, use a washcloth or loofah or something textured to scrub around asshole and taint and under the arms with soap, then rinse off and soap up again, also wash the fuck out of your hair at least 2 times a week and use conditioner.
Your ass stinks it's not a meme, most rank body odour is ass stench, use body powder on your taint and buttcrack to stop it getting sweaty and nasty. Start using wet wipes after you shit as well. Wipe long and wipe deep.
Use proper anti perspirant deodorant, if you sweat and smell a lot get a pharmacy grade strong one, axe is just a smell there's no sweat neutralizing.
Trim your nails and keep them clean, either commit to facial hair or go clean shaven, nobody likes wispy face pubes or 3 day growth slobface
Get your hair cut at least twice a month and actually figure out a style you can get away with, and do something with your hair every day even if it's just running a comb through it.
If you are already genetically blessed with good looks this will elevate you to get pussy, if you are like me and ugly and/or fat this will make you able to leave the house without a mob forming
>>28601702
>Why are you intentionally trying to needle me?
Because a waste of carbon like you once was in my life
How do all you robots get therapists? isn't it expensive?
>>28601728
>body powder on your taint and buttcrack to stop it getting sweaty and nasty.
is this different from foot powder?
>>28601702
>Do you really feel that way, Anon? Even towards my own type?
Yes, I do feel that way, although you're very different from myself. I don't really care what "type" someone is, though, or care about things in general. I just want someone hopeless and meaningless that understands things about me.
>>28601743
cry to a regular doctor
>>28601569
lol stop trying to act all overly sad for attention and sympathy you disgusting cheating roastie slut. Anyone with inherent tendencies towards cheating deserves whatever terrible shit comes to them and more
>>28601749
I use both so probably get both
>>28601764
THIS. sacks of shit like this one always bring out the crocodile tears to show you how theyre oh so sorry. this thing deserves no pity, it deserves everything it gets
>>28601765
what is the actual difference of foot powder and body powder?
couldn't I just buy either and use it for bot purposes?
>>28601734
I knew it. So you are using me as some kind of stand-in for them then. Well let's have it. Tell me all the shit you wish you would have told them.
For what it's worth, I would have at least TOLD you how I was. I wouldn't have kept it a secret.
>>28601750
>I just want someone hopeless and meaningless that understands things about me.
How can I get to know you better, Anon?
>>28600625
You fffucking whore.
>>28601790
I think you can use body powder on feet but maybe not the the way around? I mean it should be fine just check the package to see if it can go on both
>>28601764
>>28601787
I don't cheat. I ask for permission before doing anything. If things are impossible, the relationship comes to a mutual end. I am not fishing for sympathy. I was trying to commiserate, because for the most part we are all trash here, aren't we?
>nobody wants to save a mentally ill, ugly male
>girls only want troubled chad
>no girl will ever see how miserable you are
>no girl will EVER come and save you
>>28601866
nice dubs.
So there is no factual difference that you are aware of right?
>>28598723
attractiveness along with cute, ugly, hot, sexy cannot be measured by any empirical means. they're essentially subjective opinions and hold zero truth behind them except what the user decides to give to them.
before anyone decides to reply, know that i'm right and you can't prove me wrong, only shit post to the point where you nestle yourself into a nice delusional pillow fort.
>>28601883
>comes to a mutual end
how is it mutual? you gave them an ultimatum: "left me fuck who i want or im leaving you" wow you're so altruistic and kind... kill yourself
>>28601835
>Well let's have it.
fuck you. you're not getting shit from me but pure straight hate until this thread dies.
![abrookfields_138_1[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/wFYlJBj.jpg "abrookfields_138_1[1].jpg")
>>28601917
>attractiveness along with cute, ugly, hot, sexy cannot be measured by any empirical means. they're essentially subjective opinions and hold zero truth behind them except what the user decides to give to them.
>"TH-TH-THANKS T-T-T-TUH-TEAAACHER"
>>28601835
>How can I get to know you better, Anon?
I don't know what you mean by this, but I don't want to converse with people, I just want to have sex all the time.
>>28600584
Why would you ask your parents?
>>28601173
Am I doing this right?
Original saggy mantitties
>>28601854
Come on man don't post this shit. The whole reason normies and women post their pictures here is for the ego boost of us telling them they're too attractive for r9k.
>>28601888
You have to outgrow that hope eventually man, I thought that would happen back when I was like 15 or so, turns out you have to be really attractive for that to happen. It also turns out it's really easy to live in denial about your own level of attractiveness for a long time. It's much more freeing to just give up hope and start hating women.
>>28601921
You don't fucking know me! Don't assume so much. Would you want to be with someone who was constantly attracted to others and eyeing people up? Would you put yourself willingly through that hell? Or would decide "This person isn't for me" and break it off?
>>28601948
Do it then. Give me your hate.
>>28601957
I'm sorry. I misunderstood you. It seemed for a bit that you were looking for a friend. I like sex all the time too, but I don't think I'm your type.
>>28598723
>tell therapist i think im ugly
>she tells me she thinks i am attractive
>she is qt
>lying cunt
>>28601883
There are different kinds of trash. I'm trash because I'm physically ugly and too retarded to achieve any financial success in life, but I don't do anything that hurts anyone besides myself, so I would not consider myself as disgusting a degenerate as you.
>>28598723
Why does her fork only have three fingers?
>>28602025
Ask her for meaningless sex
>therapyisaspookyspook
>>28602041
shes married and kinda comes off as a turbo slut.
>>28601611
pls be there gay bro ;__; i want us to be friends.
>>28602035
I'm happy I make you feel better about yourself.
So what? Why are you so fixated on getting a girlfriend? Need for self-validation? Lust?
Unless you find pure love it's not all that great.
>>28602125
yeah I guess you do make me feel more grateful to be who I am so thanks
>>28601888
A girl actually tried to save me recently.
She was really attractive, and also a total slut(probably +100 fucked guys level slut).
I somehow managed to try and make a move and even though we kissed at first, she denied me sex. Then, she eventually grew bored of me because I'm a quiet, dull, uninteresting person.
I really can't blame people for finding me unnatractive. I'm not even bad looking but boy am I boring.
>>28602332
post a pic of her please.
Oregairu
>>28602313
You're welcome. We don't have to be enemies just because I'm a literal shit human being. I could be happy with you just treating me like I'm worthless all the time.
>>28602353
lol no. Who's retarded enough to do that.
>>28602594
how is it retarded?
>>28602631
I know people who browse 4chan.
She also does. This place hasn't been sekrit for a long time.
>>28601987
kek, 10/10 anon
>>28598723
It ain't easy to say it but you're just going to have to make your peace with being ugly.
>>28602992
Don't worry, I have in my own way
I've cut my face now and feel better. Got stitches in my face.
>>28600625
Wow, you I've seen ugly girls on here but holy shit you suck. Please kills yourself you low tier piece of scum attention whore.
`>hurr durr I am a woman, I could get sex everyday but instead I whine on /r9k/
Seriously, women have the easiest lives ever and even 1/10s can get laid regularly. Stop whining.
>>28601173
I wana set you on fire.
>>28603005
You made peace with being ugly by making yourself uglier? Hope it doesn't leave a scar.
>>28601173
>>28600625
honestly pretty cute would cuddle/10but THIS >>28601987 is just on another level
>>28598723
>>28603074
forgot the image i was going to post
>>28599000
negative comments from a bunch of robots. You understand that we'll hang shit on you to make ourselves feel better.
Also, shortness isn't always unattractive. Manlets go for shorter girls because if the girl is taller it's weird. How tall are you?
>>28603202
Shut the fuck up, you normalfuck
>Manlets go for shorter girls because if the girl is taller it's weird
Are you fucking retarded? Obviously. And every inch you lose your dating pool shrinks AND as a male your attractiveness overall shrinks since practically every girl list their ideal male as between 5'10-6'2
>>28599979
>tfw no one will ever see you as a treasure waiting to be dusted off ;_;
>>28601728
>use body powder on your taint and buttcrack to stop it getting sweaty and nasty. Start using wet wipes after you shit as wel
That's a lot more than most people do for their ass. It's more common to just wash it in the shower once a day
>>28598723
OP, have you ever had braces? If so, do you wear a retainer to maintain the braces' work?
>>28598723
post face no mean comments famalam
>>28601388
I happen to be looking for an r9k grill that would be down for an open relationship.
Pls email me at [email protected]
I am ginger, have a huge nose, uneven eyes and life sux.
I am thinking about getting fit to somewhat cancel the out the ugliness but every day I have to deal with people around me that are much more handsome and don't even have to try to get a gf.
posted my face on b one of the replies was "go back to your swamp"
>>28605315
go back to your swamp
