Especially those of you who have an aversion to intimacy and/or sex, have trust issues, or have never so much as made eye contact with a girl. All of the above apply to me, I have some money saved up, no outstanding debts to pay off, and I'm getting desperate. I want to know what kind of an experience you had. Please give me any tips that you think I might need.
Did you enjoy it? How did it play out? Would you do it again or was once enough? As a sort of unnecessary bonus question born out of personal curiosity, what were your personal reasons for doing it?
>>27392003
I'm still a virgin but i have to wonder, why are you obsessed with sex so much?
I didn't enjoy the sex. I did enjoy the experience. It changed me a lot, I'm much more confident now even if it should be the other way around. I strongly reccomend doing it to anyone who's 18+ and still a virgin.
>>27392003
I did this tuesday.
I felt it was a great way to get over the hype of sex. It was good, but not great. It gave me the feeling that i should look for someone, for more than sex. a person that i could talk to, since the sex without love, is only good and not great. If you got some more questions, i've got some time to answer them.
I fucked my dog once
shh dont tell anyone
Meh for me it was meme.
I ordered some high-quaility treatment, payed for 90 minutes, ended up after two and went to bar drunk myself stupid.
Girl was nice, bit flagbastered when I just suddenly got up, sayed This is boring, I am going down to bar but didnt care in the end because I payed in advance.
Now I can at least laught at i want gf threads because there is literally nothing what women can offer me what I dont already have.
If you look for lovw buy big flufy dog, he wont run away taking half your money nor will kick you out of your house.
>>27392283
I also really want a girl to cuddle and make out with, but it's just not in the cards. I figure that doing this will at least relieve some of the tension and frustration that's been building up. Maybe it will exacerbate them, but at least I'll have had the experience.
>>27392320
That was alpha as fuck
>>27392332
I feel a little less uncomfortable around girls, knowing that sex doesn't mean that much. If you think that you could overcome some shyness, i would recommend that you do it.
>>27392320
Not buying it.
>>27392337
Maybe, I didnt care then, and sure as hell dont care now
From what I remember, she had nice green eyes.
>>27392362
On the other hand, I always wanted to go through my first time with another virgin who was just as reserved and tentative as I am, taking things easy and slow. If I lose my virginity to a whore, I might never have that.
>>27392367
As I sayed, dont care, it wasnt even my idea.
Met the son of the owner in college, he was local mafia or what, he was like damm man, come to our place we got nice girls if you have money.
I coudnt find prostitute or escort even if I tried because I am sperg.
>>27392003
my 18th birthday was of december 2015 and my family was gone for a week so I decided to get a whore for my birthday
first time I was too drunk to get an erection and nothing much happened, so I had her come over the next day
next day I fucked her but she was a bit too loose and it wasnt so great
we tried different positions but it ended with her riding me until I came, which took a while
at the end she was very tired of riding and asked me if it was really my first time
it was :^)
overall it was worth it just for the experience but I dont plan on doing it again
>>27392385
She will take it as slow as you want since thats what you payed her for, that way you don't have the pressure of thinking of another person at the same time.
But from what i hear most people had to get shitfaced in order to have sex for their first time, and have a pretty hazy experience.
>>27392003
>Did you enjoy it?
Moreso the second time with the same person since I wasn't so nervous.
>How did it play out?
Internet, hotel, small talk, foreplay, sex.
>Would you do it again or was once enough?
Twice was enough.
>what were your personal reasons for doing it?
Figured I might as well see how it felt since as a total shut-in I'm not likely to ever do it again.
>>27392450
That is great confidence boost. good job senpai.
>>27392493
>most people had to get shitfaced in order to have sex for their first time
Yeah, nobody even had to tell me that. I just played out the scenario in my head and realized that if I don't have some alcohol beforehand we would get no farther than lying on the bed with our clothes on.
Funny, I just did it today.
It was okay. Maybe it was the condom, but it didn't even feel very good. Pumping is really exhausting too and I couldn't make me or her cum. Ended up finishing myself off and shooting the hugest shot I ever shot into her boobs.
It wasn't bad, and I don't feel guilty or anything. I was just surprised how little I enjoyed sex (maybe gf sex is different though).
I guess I went because I want to be decent at sex in case the right girl comes along. I got her to show me the basics; doggy/missionary, eating pussy, kissing. Honestly, I probably didn't need it, because it really is simple. The hard bit for me was physical endurance in trying to make her come. I really need to do more cardio. Also, foreplay requires a lot of patience. Sucking and kissing shit gets old fast.
Would I do it again? Maybe not, it would be an expensive hobby. Although if I could learn to get better at sex, it could be worth it.
Tips? No idea, everything went smoothly. Tell her you're a virgin and she'll go slow if that's what you want. I didn't want to waste my hour though.
Don't really feel much different overall desu
Feel free to ask any more questions.
>>27392522
Seeing that way, doing it with someone who is comfortable with being nude, and are not jugdemental, could give a confidence boost, instead of having a really shitty time that could ruin your future sexlife.
Paid a stripper in her mid 30s for sex and despite her trying it wasn't anything special. I left the strip club confused. I've had sex with over 50 prostitutes some multiple times. I've lost count. There comes a time when you crave female touch so much you don't care if you pay.
Overtime sex with prostitutes got better and in some cases mind blowing but in the end I always feel empty. Can't help but get attached which is sad.
>>27392547
here
>>27392283
I had this feeling too. It made me realize I don't really care about sex, I just want a relationship.
>>27392547
The condom takes away alot of the enjoyment, i got a blowjob without one, right after, and it felt alot better.
>>27392580
Most of the jocks thinks that the more partners the better, but after my first time. I would be with someone I could tolerate for an extended period of time.
>>27392547
>Pumping is really echausting
Holy shit this. I jog 4 times a week and i felt like i was running out of breath when i did the escort doggystyle.
>>27392332
Are you OP?
I tried to hug her and stuff but it just felt weird.
Also, women's bodies are bigger than I imagined.
It's weird groping at their different parts, they're almost like sex dolls or something. At least with paid girls, you can't tell if they like it. I don't know how to explain it. Maybe because there was no emotion, but it didn't feel as satisfying or erotic as I imagined.
>>27392617
get her to ride you.
If you wanted cardio you would gone for a run.
Since you paid her, she should do the work.
>>27392647
Porn can fuck up your view on sex.
>>27392493
Eh, you end up realizing sex is no big deal and you got all worked up for nothing. The whole idea of virginity and that moment being important is pretty worthless, unless you're religious I guess.
>>27392656
She blew me once and i came in her mouth. So i was doing her semi-hard might be because of that.
>>27392701
Are you me, I did the exact same thing.
she also said afterwards
> keep it up and you'll be really good
>>27392617
>doggystyle
Fucking exactly where I tapped out. I'm not even fat either.
>>27392656
>get her to ride you.
I want to get good at sex, so that and blowjobs are worthless to me.
>>27392238
>>27392283
This pretty much. Not great but a load off your shoulders, I'd recommend it.
>>27392547
Also, I shoulda mentioned I was a 30yo KV before today.
Didn't get wizard powers so I decided to fuck away the pain.
Anyone knows how much a date cost compared to a escort?
Seeing it as a date with someone you would only like for sex.
>>27392647
I am OP. I have never watched porn before, as I'm pretty reserved, so I probably don't have your misconceptions. I really don't have any preconceived ideas about it at all other than it being disgusting.
>>27392674
Yeah, I guess that's what happened. Porn made me think sex was amazing and orgasmic, when it's really pretty mundane and mechanical.
>>27392003
>Did you enjoy it?
Yeah
>How did it play out?
I was at my uncle's bachelor party and we went to a strip club but found out the girls don't do private dances, they just fuck you. And one of my uncle's friends was like "Do you want to do that?" and I said yes. They paid for whatever girl I wanted. The girl thought I was underage because I look a lot younger than I actually am but she was enthusiastic.
>Would you do it again or was once enough?
Yea, sure.
>As a sort of unnecessary bonus question born out of personal curiosity, what were your personal reasons for doing it?
Opportunity.
>>27392216
Women detected, pls be my gf.
I could see myself going to one in the future. Not for the sex itself since I doesn't really get my attention but I've always felt curious about how it feels to touch the body of a naked woman and also curious about female masturbation.
>>27392547
>eating out a prostitute
You are a fucking retard.
>>27392003
man I thought this was going to be a bloodplay thread from the thumbnail
need me some blood covered titties
>>27392003
I used to see prostitutes alot. Stopped a few months ago.
Really, sex isn't THAT amazing, but after a couple of weeks without you start going crazy for it.
Prostitution is legal in my country, so I had my pick of cheap brothels, luxurious brothels or call girls at decent prices.
I stopped 6 months ago and I never want to go back to it because I know how much money I'm gonna throw away.
>>27393244
I'm more for the first one, but I can see where you're coming from. I'm just desperate for intimacy of some kind. I know I won't find it in a prostitute. I won't find it anywhere. I don't even have any illusions about a prostitute briefly filling the void. It wont' I'm going to go mad sooner or later.
>want a girl to ride me
>cringe hard when i imagine some dumb whore (read: any fucking woman) riding my dick and then it bends or snaps and thats fucking it man
JUST
SNAP
MY
DICK
UP
It was about two weeks ago for me. We met at a local bar through mutual friends and proceeded to the afterparty at friends' house. Nice fire in the back yard and playful conversation led to her taking me by the hand inside to her friend's bedroom. Proceeded to have sex for at least an hour.
>>27394332
That doesn't sound like a prostitute, chad.
>>27394274
I'm my personal case, I'm incapable of feeling atracted sexually or romantically to a person. So the only chance I could experience something is throught a professional.
I don't pay for sex.
I just go to Craigslist > Personals > Casual Encounters and find bitches in my area who are just horny and willing to have sex for free.
>>27396416
How can you tell if they're real though.
I've browsed Craigslist a couple of times and even after filtering it to find women in my area they all look sketchy as fuck.
>>27396476
*How can you tell if they're real though?
rip punctuation
>>27392003
I did it. She sucked me off for like 5 min then put a condom and my dick and we went into missionary. I barely lasted 3 min. It was a terrible experience. The girl had a good looking body like advertised but her face was ugly and there were a few tattoos that weren't there in her pictures (major turnoff for me).
I realize that what I wanted wasn't sex. It's just not sex without the emotion, kissing, hugging, flirting, and all that lovey dovey things that couple do etc. Few months afterward I was so scared of STDs even though I used a condom.
My view on women and attitude towards them haven't changed much. At least now I'm not "that" virgin guy in the group anymore. But it's still nothing to be proud of when you lost it to a prostitute. Would I do it again? Probably if I can find a REALLY good looking girl, otherwise no. If you have the urge to go to a prostitute, just fap once and decide. If your body still want to go, then do it.
>>27392003
I'm going to Montreal this summer, can any Canadabros tell me how the hookers up there are? I'm planning on losing my virginity to one but I don't wanna worry about getting arrested.
I'm also not fluent in French, so communication may be an issue.
was pretty enjoyable, I did it twice in a day
only do it if you have the expendable income and are mentally stable
>>27396861
Why do you include mental stability?
>>27392003
My dad took me to see one in our country when I was 15. She was fat, old and kind of ugly and I was too nervous to get hard but she sucked me and made out with me until I got hard. Her mouth tasted like toothpaste. So when I got hard, she put the condom on my dick and rided me until I came then she told me to ride her now and I did. Obviously, it didn't help me since I still haven't had a normal gf or had sex with any woman.
As far as I am concerned, I am still a virgin.
>>27396730
>I'm also not fluent in French, so communication may be an issue.
Montreal is barely French at all. More Lebs, Haitians, and Anglos than anything else.
>>27397382
What country was that?
>>27397401
Nicaragua.
At least I fucked a prostitute and not a donkey or mare like some farm people's dads make them do their first time.
>>27392283
why cant u just settle for good?
a mansion would be great but a house is good enough
>>27397545
>comparing having a gf to owning a mansion
what is the world coming to?
>>27396476
Calling/texting them
Asking for a pic
Reverse image search
Having a brain (This one is all you need really)
