I can't become erect what do I even fucking do with my life. I'm only 22 and I can't even get an erection what is the point of even getting into a relationship when I've got a soft dick.
>>27206744
Just find a girl with a nice feminine penis to pound you with. Yours can just hang there, limp.
>>27206777I've considered this but when it comes down to it it's basically removing all my masculinity and to me that's suicide worthy
>>27206744
your g-spot is in your ass, try fingering it really deep and see if that does anything for you
>>27206744
Do you watch porn a lot?
Go to a doctor (not the kind of doctor who will be like "22!? No way you can't get an erection) and get a prescription for Cialis.
The 5mg version ought to be plenty. They make a 20mg version but the 5mg will most likely be sufficient for your purposes.
Problem done, OP. Don't suffer in silence.
Also, try to figure out the causes of your impotence. Are you on any medications that affect circulation? Do you have anxiety issues (when you're anxious your blood vessels contract, which stops the blood flow to your penis--unlike what most people think though, you can't really just will the anxiety away; it's not that simple)? Do you spend lots of time riding a bicycle? (The bike saddle can compress your pudendal nerve, causing damage overtime. They make special seats to prevent this).
This isn't something to be so upset about, in and of itself. It's very treatable.
>>27206822
I used to but when I started meds I couldn't fucking feel anything anymore. I still get aroused but nothing happens down there.
>>27206808
Just become a feminist. Then it won't even be unmasculine for you to get buttfucked.
Just get a wheelie gf.
depression can cause this. youre a young man and i highly doubt this is a permanent thing at such a young age.
dont go to a doctor it would just list you as mentally unstable and thats worse than having a criminal recond.
try doing things that you have always wanted to do. stop buying every meme of the month game on steam and start doing things that include other people. for example i was the same way, depressed. but some good ole philosophy, theology and political books shaped the man who i am today. you need to make and set a purpose for yourself.
of course this is all assuming you are depressed as fuck
>>27206848
>meds
You still on them?
Which meds?
>>27206843
I have Generalised anxiety disorder and I'm on 20mg of Prozac and 40mg of Edronax. I get really nervous during the act and I just can't get even near erect and with masturbation Iuse some weird technique to jerk off. It's just upsetting me because people talk about how important sex is and I can't even participate properly.
>>27206907
>dont go to a doctor it would just list you as mentally unstable and thats worse than having a criminal recond.
This is absolute bullshit, man. You're talking out of your ass.
No doctor is going to label a man as mentally unstable just because he says he can't get a woody. You could sue him for malpractice. It's way out of line.
He might refuse to help you but most likely he will write a prescription for a PDE5 inhibitor.
No one's going to get listed as unstable JUST because they complain that it's hard to get a hard on. Come on.
And if he mentions he was on medication with sexual side effects in the past, the doctor will probably consider that as a possible cause.
>>27206948
Isn't Prozac well known for causing impotence?
>use some weird technique to jerk off
What kind of technique?
>>27206986
Look up prone masturbation.I've always done it this way I think I'm fucked. I didn't realise there was another way.
>>27206744
After reading the post my first thought is you have anxiety about being gay, maybe if you let a real man fuck you up the ass it could give you that boner, you are so worried about being strait you cant get a boner
>>27206848
What meds? C'mon man we need details and getting them out of you is like pulling teeth.
>>27207014
I like both so it's not my sexuality.
>>27206948
This post describes the meds
>>27207022
>>27207031Sorry blox
>>27207008
>Look up prone masturbation.
I already know what that is, and pretty much all the information against it comes from unscientific polls and untrustworthy web sites. There's very little scientific evidence whatsoever that it's any more harmful than using your hand.
A lot of this hysteria started like 10+ years ago when this guy started a web site, healthystrokes.com
It's full of unscientific polls and baseless claims. Don't worry about it so much.
There is pretty much no credible evidence that it's worse than using your hand or a pocket pussy.
>I've always done it this way I think I'm fucked. I didn't realise there was another way.
Are you circumcised?
>>27207068
Nope, still got my foreskin. My concern is that I've never really been able to do it with my hand even before the meds.
>>27206954
if you read my post it was mostly discussing that his ability to not get a erection is symptom caused by a very real mental disability, depression.
this would very well get him listed as mentally disabled and put him on neetbux and make many things harder to achieve.
i reported i was depressed on a suicide line and i was placed into a mental asylum for 3 months. i wasnt even that fucking depressed. and now because of thing i have to pay all the services that they forced on me and i have to pay for the counseling. none of which helped me. im not even depressed. we all have our sad moments and it went away.
a doctor can ruin your life faster than you can commit a crime
Well op, it seems like your erection issues stem from prescription drug use. The obvious solution to your problem is to cease taking the drugs.Maybe get a prostate stimulator too
>>27207165
I'm (OP) in Australia and it's not like that here. I've been suicidal and all that and they take a softly softly approach with it. I work and have been diagnosed, it's not really put against you from what I know.
>>27207117
When you try to use your hand, how do you do it? There are a lot of different masturbation techniques.
>>27207165
He's already diagnosed with depression. Telling the doctor he has trouble getting erections isn't going to do anything else to his reputation.
>i reported i was depressed on a suicide line
That's a suicide line. Not a doctor's office. Pretttyy big difference.
>>27207218
I mean I've tried everything, I do full strokes, I try and rub the head and just using my palm but apart from a tiny bit of stimulation I can't fucking cum from it.
>>27207236
>I try and rub the head
The head is primarily protopathic. It's normal for rubbing it to not do that much for you. It has a few complex nerve endings but most of the nerve endings in the head are nociceptors.
Does your foreskin go back and forth easily?
>>27207205
well thank goodness youre no american.
>>27207232
and yes youre right. i thought he was in burgerstan
>>27207286
Come to think of it, not really. kind of around the base of the head if it's touched it kinda hurts so I don't really stretch it back too far. I can but it doesn't really stay back easily.
>>27207170
Never tried it but it looks fun.
>>27207320
So a technique like this wouldn't really work for you, would it? Or can you somehow do this?
This is perhaps the most common way for intact guys to masturbate. Not everyone can do it, but most guys can.
>>27207440
I've tried that and I don't feel anything for whatever reason. Basically ever since I can remember I've never been able to do it.
>>27207459
Hmm, I see.
When you're flaccid, does your foreskin form an acroposthion?
That's when the preputial orifice is in a form kind of like a nozzle or water-spout. Some have likened it to the snout of an anteater.
>>27207543
Very slightly but not to the degree of phismosis. From what I can tell I need a lot of pressure pushing underneath or on the side of my cock to cum.
>>27207543
Found a pic illustration just what I mean. Although it looks like this guy has a semi going.
>>27207609
That's almost exatly what it looks like.
>>27207630
Try pulling it with your fingers (gently--don't hurt yourself).
Anything?
>>27207674
Yeh a bit more than usual actually.
>>27207705
Nice, we're getting somewhere.
Pulling the acroposthion stimulates the ridged band, which is one of the most sensual parts of the penis. The ridged band is rich in specialized sensory end organs, primarily tactile (Meissner) corpuscles.
The late Dr. Taylor reckoned that the tactile corpuscles in the ridged band were specially adapted to detect stretch and transmit the stimuli as a pleasurable yet hard to describe sensation.
Have you heard of Glen Callender's web site, CAN-FAP? He showcases a lot of gentle masturbation techniques, including those which also stimulate the ridged band's tactile corpuscles. Give the videos a look-over and try some of those techniques.
>>27206862
>those legs
She needs to do SS + GOMAD
>>27207995
I will thanks anon. It's at least calm me down a bit and not make me feel like such a freak. Realistically I probably still can't get hard but I'll try.
>>27208041
You're welcome, man. Good luck.
