Is lolita a redflag?
what's wrong with dressing in qt frilly dresses?
As a cosplayfag who enters range of these harpies often. Yes. Utterly spiteful cunts, vain, and gold diggers
>>27003884
But they are so cute!
>tfw no tsundere lolita gf to go to cons to
depends. there's a slight line between the cosplay community of it and the fashion community of it. cosplay community of it can have very noticeable cancer. also unless the girl is from a high population asian city, be careful of western girls into the style. asian countries community seems mostly mentally stable/alright girls for the most part in dedicated scenes. though i'm basing this off the two girls lolita girls i've barely talked to online (one japanese, other american)
>>27003704
probabbly a strong indicator of autism or cildhood sexual abuse
or both
from my experience these girls are far more unlikely to date chads and assholes and go for actual nerds (at least the ones who dont do lolita for attention and style, your pic would be an example of one prob to avoid) but they would probably be pretty difficult in relationships, im projecting on the last part. just seems like they would be super girly and feminine and expect you to treat them like princess
>>27003704
lolita a super cute
As a lolita myself , i'll tell you,i hate the entire lolita community.
>stuck up
>greedy
>body issues/shaming
>twats
I love the clothes, they are lovely but holy shit i want to rip most other lolitas' throats out.
>>27003704
Love the clothes. But they are just greedy gold diggers.
Most with daddy issues.
>>27004532
>GIRL HERE XDbe my gf
>>27004532
this is me >>27004432
do you have a kik by any chance
A group of catty women that define themselves on the money spent on the conspicuous consumption of clothing. This is not your 2D fantasy world where cute girls have good personalities.
I would avoid any of these cosplayers, but I'm a wizard so what do I know?
Absolutely.
I have not met a mentally stable lolita. Materialistic, narcissistic, histrionic, basically all your hated Stacy characteristics rolled into a $400 frilly bow.
>>27003704
Yes, but for every rejection they'll get 5 other guys willing to dive into their crazy.
>>27004612
take it to /soc/ or /cgl/ you oblivious orbiter
Do I love lolitas? Fuck yes.
Would I marry a lolita? Fuck no.
Lolitas are basically the girly/children version of high maintenance women. If you have money to take care of a doll go ahead, otherwise stay the fuck out.
>>27004532
>I'm not like the other girls
Robots, never, ever, ever believe this.
>>27004588
1. never said i was a girl, for all you know i could be a brolita
2. naw i tried dating a guy from r9k once...didn't go so well..for him.
>>27003704
>marry a qt lolita grill
>deletes all women from my facebook
>deletes all friends from my facebook
>deletes my facebook
>throws out my phone
>not allowed to see friends or family
>no longer allowed free time
>have to spend all my working (I work from home)
>finally get rescued by older brother who possesses a spine a week ago
>can finally shit-post on 4chan again
Lolita attracts a specific kind of crazy. Avoid at all costs.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder
>>27003704
One of the largest
>>27004676
>for him.
explain
>>27004432
>these girls are far more unlikely to date chads and assholes
Yes, because they will literally expect you to be a fairytale prince and become aggressively volatile when faced with reality.
>>27004677
>Borderline personality disorder
All the symptoms describe your average woman.
>>27004666
>them trips
But naw i'm just as bad honestly anon, in some regards.
>>27004711
I'm fucking bat shit insane, takes meds everyday, suffer from BPD, etc.
Any one who gets in a relationship with me is fucked.
Anything that praises the infantilization of women are redflags. ie. ddlg, lolicon. You can like things for nostalgia purposes but actually pursuing it shows they probably have issues.
>>27004747
>they will literally expect you to be a fairytale prince
no its more that chads repulse her because she was made fun of them all throughout elemntary middle and high school
>>27004764
>I'm fucking bat shit insane,be my gf
>>27004633
I gotta agree with FujoshiBot here. Who has that kind of money to spend on clothing you only wear a couple times a month...?
>>27004778
You're thinking of fujoshi.
>>27004764
Do you live inCanadaspecifically Edmonton
NO
What's red flag about cute dresses? Kys.
>>27004778
>Implying they wouldn't bend over for chad in a heartbeat
>>27004797
When they're not literally prostituting themselves they have boyfriends and/or orbiters to buy them things. It's no different from women who like other types of expensive clothing.
The whole "they don't like chad, but they love nerds and nice guys!" thing is carefully crafted bullshit to paint an image that does not exist in the 3D plane of existence.
>>27004788
You are desperate aren't you or you want to get broken.
>>27004862
Nah americfag here
>>27004907
Was just making sure you around my other lolita friendunless you live in Portland, Oregon, Pizzacat.
>>27004907
>You are desperate aren't you or you want to get broken.
both
>>27004932
Naw i'm a southern state lolita.
>>27004933
Cute, i bet it would be fun to fuck you up.
>>27004973
>Cute, i bet it would be fun to fuck you up.pls do
>>27005000
Honestly anon you don't want it.
Get help.
>>27005175
>Honestly anon you don't want it.I do
>>27005199
give me a throw away and we'll talk more
Women have no pressure to improve themselves because of faggots like this >>27005248
He is just one of many. Lolitas are scum and they are enabled by sycophants like this.
Please kill yourself.
>>27003884
Depends on the person and their age. Most older lolitas that I know all have good jobs and are really successful. I even know one who is a chemist and make new medicines.
2/2 "lolitas" I've met we're absolutely a shit, that's all I can say.
>>27004797
Most women who like fashion spend way more on clothing than a lolita dress costs. I know this southern girl who buys $400 jeans and don't even get me started on shoes.
Lolita dresses are like $40-$1000 depending on how rare one is.
I don't think being able to afford a $250-$300 dress once in a while is unreasonable if you have a good job or don't have children.
There are plenty of other hobbies that cost much more.
vvhat do u think of this one
It's one of the biggest red flags.
Never, ever date one. Trust me.
>>27005371
Okay but buying clothing I wear every day for years on end is a lot more practical than a frilly dress I'll only ever wear a handful of times.
Yes.
Wanting to be a dawww qt little girl! XD is utter mental illness for women, princess complex in the absolute.
Any women dressing as a lolita is trying to make herself physically become younger, like an autist who is trying to create a magic potion that makes him cool but for women it's "MY PAST DOESNT MATTER SO ILL JUST GO BACK"
>>27005520
By golly, I'd ravage the arse off that fruitcake
>>27003704
Who is this jizz wizard
Origami
Only if they're not underage.
>>27005599
Most people who buy expensive clothing don't wear it every day though.
Also there are people who wear lolita every day.
And there are people who can afford to buy normal clothing and spend money on a hobby.
I have a dress I bought for $300 at release that I can now sell for at least a grand if I want to because the value and rarity went up. Lolita is a collectors hobby.
You don't talk about people who spend money on anime figures and things like ball joint dolls. And what about an avid /k/ fan? I wonder how much they spend on their hobby.
>con coming up in 3 weeks
>not even close to done with cosplay
>had an interview last week
>interviewer kissed me on the cheek afterwards
>he was homely and short
>tfw I absolutely need to report this but I also really want this job
>tfw I don't have time for this shit right now
>mfw received a call from his office asking me to call them back
literally just grabbed this from /cgl/
red flags, lad
>>27005807
Attractive females experience sexual harassment on a daily basis. This is nothing new.
>>27005807
>reposting boring blogshit
who fucking cares desu.
Who gives a fuck, muh dick
>>27003704
YES IT IS A RED FLAG
>>27003704
And you guys complain why you're virgin.
Being picky is one huge red flags.
As long she doesn't go Tumblr furious. It doesn't matter much to me.
>>27006039
These women are shit because they have faggots like you ready to worship them for existing.
Don't forget to visit their wishlist!
>>27003704
>identifies as female
yep, there's a red flag
>>27003704
Lolita is a great read.
Highly suggest it.
>>27003704
first off is there porn of this, second, no, its only a fetish unless someone takes offense to it being labeled as such and women are crazy regardless of the brand.
>>27006190
I don't actually worship female. I just tell you that being picky will lead you to nowhere on the relationship thing.
Beside I'm not buying a goddamn thing for anyone. You as an adult buy your own thing. your own responsibilities. Stop being a children and talk to people.
Just saying.
>>27003901
Kill yourself my man, just kill yourself.
>>27004907Where at in america? I want a crazy gf to scold me for having hobbies
>>27006551
As previous stated i'm from the Southern States.
Don't date lolitas we are crazy and horrible.
>>27006600
The question would be who isn't horrible and crazy today ?
>>27006600I'm also from the south, where are you located?I want to be made into your dogI'm only asking for what state so I know if I'm wasting my time, I'm 100% about letting you take over my life if we can physically be together, I've had too many LDRs to go through that again
>>27005807
>modifying the post to fit your meme agenda
Wew lad.
>>27006657p-pls respond
mootblox
>>27006657
I'm in North Carolina.
>>27007161Oh, alright. That's too far north for me, I was hoping you were at least in Louisiana. :(Thanks anyway for entertaining my wishes, good luck mindbreaking the other anon
>>27006600
Speak for yourself because I'm not. I have a fiance and I have never once even asked him to buy things for my hobby.
>>27005371
I always found that the "loli is expensive cuz muh brand loyalty" viewpoint is bullshit, Rarely do any dresses (full sets including matching accessories) go in the 4 digit range, and they typically stay in the low to mid $1000 range & are reserved for the high tier lolitas not the fresher faces. The hobby/fashion is pretty affordable if the wearer paces their spending and doesn't just set sights on the aforementioned high dollar dresses.
>>27006657
I'm from Louisiana, not from shit hole north Carolina where all the lolitas dress like fucking pathetic dogs.
>>27006652
Very ture, but some "embrace" it more than others.
>>27007223
Willing to bet your still a fucking stuck up bitch. All lolitas are. You judge every other girl in this fashion as much as the next.
>>27003704
more like a white flag because girl I surrender
>>27004612
Wow...how pathetic.
>>27005520
Cute, but how many people did it fuck and take money from to get that dress?
>>27007431
Forgot to mention that my everyday pair of shoes cost more than 99% of lolita, and lolitas hate being outvalued. The angry stares and attempted sharp tongues are both hilarious and sexy.
>>27007223
Of course you never ask because your type fucking demands
>>27007433
GET THE FUCK OFF THIS BOARD YOU FUCKING ROASTIEEEEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>27007433R-really?How do you feel about me being a hamplanet typical /r9k/ beta faggot? I go to the gym and am trying to better myself after a lifetime of being a fat fuckDo I disgust you or would you constantly berate me until I bettered myself for you?Where at in Louisiana? I'm really considering this if you're serious. or do you want to talk on a throwaway?
>>27007433
Well I'm an adult and most people I met always say I'm really chill. I have always had a more quiet/reserved personality. I mean I judge people like other people do but I don't put people down and try to help them get better at something if they want my help.
I don't even come into contact with newer lolitas much anyway because I'm in my mid 20s. All my lolita friends are already well established in the fashion.
I don't really see how judging someone's lack of fashion sense makes you stuck up anyway. It's called having an opinion. People have opinions about what others wear, say, do, etc on a daily basis. It only makes you stuck up if you're also an asshole to the person about it.
>>27007543
Actually he's never bought me anything related to the fashion other than cute little accessories from like sanrio or something. I buy him car parts so all of our gift giving is on equal basis.
He doesn't even know how to buy lolita dresses.
>>27007621
The other half never knows how to place orders, they typicaly just hand the credit card over. So if you two basically do even-exchanges what is the point of it?
>This thirsty retard trying to get laid
Give it up you pathetic cunt the guy pretending to be a girl is just baiting you you moron
>>27007577
You know for a fact then no lolita says anything straight out to another. Lolitas like to seem sweet and lovely but we all are judgmental twats, who are petty for dress.
>>27007560
You sound more like a reddit numale feminist
>>27003704
what's the term for opposite of a red flag? something that makes it go from 6 to midnight
>>27007827
I actually despise modern feminism and most equality/lgbtlmnop/black lives matter bullshit
I'm just also very desperate and heavily into femdom
>>27007850
Green flag you retard
>>27007786
You aren't close enough to the lolitas you know then. I know plenty of adult lolitas who will tell their friends when something looks like ass straight up. We don't get butt hurt about it because we are friends and adults.
You need to find lolita friends who like the fashion plus hang out with them outside of it and become close to them.
Lolita is just a hobby not a religion. Stop hanging out with little kids.
>>27007667
I have my own money and no kids. He spends money on his car hobby and I spend money on mine. Then we equally spend money on our joint hobbies.
>>27007951
I don't even hang out with other lolitas i rather stick to myself.
And i wasn't talking about friend to friend lolitas, im talking about the entire community in general.
Not all of us want to look like big woman children with fluffy dresses I sware.
>>27007786
Maybe if you know a bunch of little highschoolers spending daddy's money on burando, yeah.
Girls in my comm/my online friends ask for crit on their coords a lot, and everyone gives actual genuine advice.
Sorry you only know shitty people.
>>27007951
>you buy lolita
>guy buys car parts
You sounds like my future senpai, I hope everything is going well for you.
>>27007668
You haven't heard ?
r9k secretly worship women unironically by posting thread about femanon and stacies everyday.
>>27008035
>I don't even hang out with other lolitas i rather stick to myself.
Then stop talking about things you don't know about.
>And i wasn't talking about friend to friend lolitas, im talking about the entire community in general.
People online aren't the entire community. There are also a lot of private lolita groups online for people who don't like associating with the toxic part of the community.
There are assholes in any type of hobby community
>>27008115
You honestly sound like a stuck up cunt
Get off my board roastie
>>27008264
>someone says something that doesn't align with your narrative
>resort to ad hominem
>>27008264
I sound like a stuck up cunt because I don't like when someone trash talk things and people they know nothing about?
I guess people who don't like racism are stuck up then.
>>27007951
Telling close friends is pretty typical, even moderate ribbing amongst the circle but outside of that circle is when they start putting on the fake smiles and using pretend compliments.
>>27008437
Plenty of people fake being nice to others on a daily basis. They just don't want to offend someone because some people are more sensitive than others. I don't really see the problem with this.
If you like a hobby why wouldn't you want to become closer with people who also like the same hobby? That's why there are lolita communities outside of the internet.
>banged one of them once.
>started crying cause i wouldnt choke her.
>choked her
>passes out
>cries when she wakes up
>fucked her again
>asked her to pay for room service
>doesnt.
>>27009826
>choking #1 fetish
>like lolita style too
Fuck yourself with cucumbers. I don't need this boner.
Chicks into lolita are fucking insane
They do it for the same reason classy "gents" wear fedoras and poorly tailored suits
And they clearly have a hard time distinguishing between fantasy and reality
Jesus fucking christ lolitas are crazy ass shit. They're all deluded into weird fuck fantasies or are on the extreme scales of weebism.
>>27004370
>unless the girl is from a high population asian city
Hahahajhaha no no nononono im from a high population asian city (asian-asian; not the canada meme)
ALL lolitas are crazy drama whores and are fucking weirdos. Im a fucking weirdo myself, i dont have real life friends and waste away on r9k all day while failing my university modules one by one.
Also every lolita is a tumblrcore feminism genderacceptance liberal sjw. I seriously think im the only one who isnt.
