Girl I like sent me this, wat do R9K
Also sent this
>>25733660
Get the fuck out you normie
>>25733660
Don't get down on yourself dude. Been through that myself. Don't let it end there though, what do you have to lose from trying?
>>25733654
>>25733660
you've been cuckzoned.
Try treating girls like shit next time, Garett.
You just said "thanks for letting me know", right?
Good. Now do not reply, block her number. Do it now. Do not ask questions do not fuck about, this is only going to get worse from here on out. Trust me I know I am in this situation and 5 years later it did not get better and I am still a bitch about it.
OP save yourself the trouble. END IT NOW.
The friendship, not yourself.
>>25733654
>>25733660
Condolences OP, if you told someone you liked her they definitely sold you out.
Straight savage of her to do it through text. You're not going to orbit her are you?
>>25733660
"Cool, I'll move on then. Thanks for being straight with me"
Then do that.
>>25733654
find another grill to obsess over
>>25733692
Is Garrett the new beta name?
>>25733660
the second she complimented you, i stopped reading
same old song
face me in madden
>>25733654
ghost that bitch
>>25733698
I think I might of given one of her friends a hint. I was actually thinking she sold me out.
Text her the following:
"Later, bitch."
Proceed to never talk to her again.
Do not text her back anymore. Not to be mean or petty, but so you can have a positive outlook going forward.
Unless you are 100% comfortable being friends.
>>25733654
Could be worse. Just found out the girl I like is pregnant with a nigger's baby.
should have texted back "k"
>>25733654
>>25733660
Here OP, I am going to show you what awaits you if you do not end contact with this girl NOW. Gimme a minute
>>25733660
You're really gonna fucking retreat back into your little beta hole like that? "Thanks for letting me know." Are you fucking kidding me? You're never going to get respected if you let girls trample you like a fat stinky blob of shit you are.
Go out in flames, ask her if she wants to bone, and if she doesn't, cut her head off and fuck it.
>>25733697
THIS. Last girl who gave me the speil about not wanting to date right now was fucking several people behind my back. "Figuring herself out" in this context means seeing whether she prefers Chad or Tyrese's appendage and whether she wants it in her ass or pussy.
>>25733654
>>25733660
You don't give her tingles OP
She's gonna go for someone who gets her giney all tingly. All this bullshit about "not looking for a relationship" is bullshit, you know she'll hop on a 9/10 cock the second she has a chance.
>>25733764
GET HYPE NIGGAS AND NIGGETTES.
>>25733742
Always remember anons, its HER friend, not your friend. They will sell you out. Sever all ties, there is nothing left for you with her except pain.
>>25733751
I mean I rather be friends than like cutting her out completely.
>>25733735
>girl hugs me all the time
>chooses to sit next to me
>push herself against me
>sticks her ass out at me
>find excuses to touch me
>have study session that ends with movie
>2 other people there
>put my arm around her after her excessive touching during study session
>she says no and moves away for the rest until she leaves
what went wrong
>>25733660
>I'm not interested in a relationship right now
ie you're not Chad so fuck off
>>25733748
Do this for maximum rep
>>25733660
aw man, the feels :(
>>25733660
>you're perfect and any girl would love to be with you
>except for me
AHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHA
Every fucking time. Women are such a meme.
>>25733787
You got yourself a cuddle whore. Or just a normal whore.
>>25733654
>>25733660
Go alpha and say something about infantile it is to relegate blokes into this friendzone schoolyard crush bull shit. You're just people, they're just feelings, I don't see why she has to turn it into some uptight thing by classifying everything.
Finish with "If you still wanna hang out, thats great, if you think things are too awkward now, that's fine too. I just thought you were cool is all :)"
Or be a beta faggot and fuck the whole thing up.
>>25733787
She could sense that you post pictures of cartoon frogs and little girls on imageboards.
>>25733660
Sorry OP, best to just do something like >>25733660 and not be her beta orbiter. She will probably see this as an opportunity to get you to do things for her because she's "unsure about her feelings for you "
>>25733660
>I'm not interested in a relationship right now
such a cliche phrase, it's like pottery, it rhymes
>>25733748
Don't do this, you come off as a whiny bitch. Be polite about how she missed out on you.
>>25733781
If you see her weekly, then fair enough. But dont try anything with her unless you sense an opportunity.
You'll learn some day to stop playing the 'nice guy' role. Disney movies lied to you son, girls say they want one thing then go pursue something completely different. All women want a partner who is greater than herself and if you as a man seem to only really care about her then she won't be interested. If you play the 'cool' detached card though she'll think you have other stuff going on and you wouldn't mind hanging out with her but don't care if you do. Fake it till you make it, I got some tinder dates out of playing a character, the hard part is keeping it up in person. Nice guy finished last every time it isn't a meme
>>25733816
HEY FUCKING BETA BITCH I DON'T BROWSE 4CHAN, my friends told me to do this. :)
>>25733689
HAHAHA trying what? fucking hell, you have the beta orbiter mindset, stop that shit. This is why girls do whatever the hell they want with guys; guys don't have a spine and crawl after women even after they make it clear that they are not fucking interested.
Just move on OP.
>>25733809
if she was a cuddle whore why wouldnt she want to lean against me for a movie
>>25733816
if having a gf means no frog posting, then fuck that
Lol I mean they mean well when they do the 'you're nice, any girl would be lucky to have you etc' speach , but like, its literally a copypasta, like girls are the best memers without knowing it.
an innate meme if you will, a copypasta hardwired in their genes... hmm...
That "youre a great guy and any girl would be lucky to have you but I don't want you" line and all its variations is the most annoying shit to me.
>>25733787
Should have tried again. If she didn't yield, then you really know she doesn't want it.
>>25733787
Extreme dominant and insecure about it.
>>25733860
If she's a cuddle whore, she probably would have. Or because there were people present, didn't want them to think you were together.
If she's just a normal whore, that would explain sticking her ass out and generally being touchy, but then declining anything that you initiate.
TIL as OP I am beta cuck who can't assert proper dominance like a real chad
>>25733818
Sorry, meant to put this one in
>>25733700
>>25733660
>anything along the lines of "A lady would be lucky to have you"
EVERY FUCKING TIME
>>25733815
Yeah, bitching about being friendzoned and arguing why it's so wrong is totally alpha behavior lol. "I just thought you were cool is all" passive aggressive lvl maxed.
>>25733764
Here OP. This happened to me twenty minutes into new years. I would have ended it once and for all but I was travelling and didn't need the feels ruining my fun. I havent' talked to her since and I think next time she talks to me I'm going to be straight with her.
Look at this OP. This is what a cuck looks like. This is the road you are going down. Please learn from my mistakes even if I couldn't.
>>25733660
"I'm not able to be in a relationship right now because I'm figuring myself out" = "I'm too busy having my holes ruined by Chad and Tyrone"
>>25733781
>I mean I rather be friends than like cutting her out completely.
NO
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
OP DO NOT DO THIS THIS IS THE SAME LOGIC I USED AND IT IS FUCKING RETARDED
DO NOT
>>25733936
For context, I don't give her money or anything. I don't even drive her places.... she actually is the one who drives half an hour to see me sometimes. Not in over a year though.
>>25733660
>OMG YOU ARE SO AWESOME AND NO GIRL WOULD PASS YOU UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>AND I TOTALLY MEAN IT, IT'S REALLY TRUE(tm)
>NOW AS FOR ME, I AM JUST """"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""" RIGHT NOW SO IC AN'T DATE YOU UNFORUNTATELY,.... BUT I AM SURE ANOTHER GIRL WILL DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ask yourself if she would say the same thing to Brad Pitt.
>>25733890
>If she didn't yield, then you really know she doesn't want it.
so if she lets me do it a second time, she doesn't want it? I don't get that
>>25733893
you may be right, she's pretty loud.
>>25733899
>didn't want them to think you were together
I did consider that, maybe it was too bold a move
Guess she's just a normal whore
OP, just stop fucking paying attention to her. There is no reason for you to give her a single second of your time in person or in thought.
For future reference:
If you like a girl don't drag it out. Find out if she likes you ASAP (hit on her) then act accordingly.
No girl who likes you will ask you so forthrightly if you have feelings for her.
>>25733787
She thought you were so harmless and unmanly that it wouldn't matter.
>>25733936
but this girl said she wasnt interested in you
sometimes people have emotional hangups over previous relationships, the girl in OPs post seems interested in him but it really is hard moving on especially after a tough breakup or something
having a relationship is also a lot of work and some people just arent up for it
>>25733936
>it coming from I'm drunk
made me chuckle
>>25733683
stfu with your normies reeeeeeeeee shit, it's tiresome and you aren't accomplishing anything.
Board cultures evolve, deal with it.
>>25733936
jesus christ damnn
>>25733660
only one option left op
good luck and god bless
>>25733961
K I will follow ur advice I guess. She keeps like smiling at me everyone so often tho so IDK what is up with that
hahaha grats op you are a pansy ass cuck
>>25733996
>She thought you were so harmless and unmanly that it wouldn't matter
fuck you're probably right
I mean I'm not mad about not getting her, I just want to know what's wrong with me
how do I into manliness besides lifting weights because I'm already getting into that
>>25733660
Don't you just love this? Why do women think telling you anyone else would be lucky to have you is even remotely acceptable? Sorry OP, I know how terrible that feeling is.
>>25733936
This somehow cuts deeper than a bitch straight up telling you she doesn't want you.
It's easier to hate, but you gotta deal with a whole different kind of bullshit. My condolences anon, I hope you maintain zero contact with her.
>>25733781
My friend, you'll be putting yourself through emotional and sexual hell. Don't. BAIL.
Everytime you see her your feelings will be reminded and you'll just feel bad she doesn't reciprocate. It's like getting your heart broken a little bit every time she texts you, calls, or wants to hang out as friends.
You gotta bail when she declines. I used to think it was a means to be a power player and maybe use the "absence makes the heart grow fonder" but I realized in my later years it just protects you.
>>25733961
If he plans on being friends he better have an alternative
Im still friends with a huge past crush of mine, my ex gf and im still smashing 9/10 girlfriend pussy, i have no feelings for either nor do i care about them, only for my gf
>>25733998
>the girl in OPs post seems interested in him but it really is hard moving on especially after a tough breakup or something
That's what she wants him to believe so he can keep being her emotional tampon and attention-outlet.
I may or may not have also said this before I posted.
>>25733781
>Friends with her
You stupid bastard, you should know by now that won't work. At best you're better off acquaintances who say "hi" every here and again. Keep her on your FB so she can see the good things you're doing and regret her decision. Listen to me. We're your friends, or at least I'm giving you advice like one. Let her go. If she messages you, cool, converse, but she turned you down. There's no reason to chase her for anything anymore.
>>25734011
> it's twenty six teeeeeen
>>25734022
Yep. I didn't mind being her friend but when she gets drunk and brings up painful shit like this when I did NOTHING to inspire it, I think I am done.
She already rejected me years ago and I ignored her for 2 months before she messaged me saying she missed me. Actually she said we could hang out and see how it goes then had a boyfriend a month later.
Then when she got another boyfriend she told me and I told her it was better we didn't talk anymore. She messaged me a few months later, again, we start being friends again.
It's time for me to break the cycle and stop being a cuck.
>>25734049
>This somehow cuts deeper than a bitch straight up telling you she doesn't want you.
What does? the "you're so great" part, or the drunk part?
I'm seriously considering going full-on "redpill" into her even when I don't believe that stuff, telling her she isn't attracted to me because I'm ugly as fuck, and that she ought to admit that, and that despite what she thinks me and millions of others will die alone no matter how "smart" or "kind" we are because that isn't the shit that matters.
Eh, enough ranting.
>>25734100
> force of habit
Top kekkerino.
>>25733654
C U C K E D
U
C
K
E
D
Loling @ u, OP.
>>25734100
"it was nice"
You're fucking pathetic OP. Don't endorse her fucking lies and make her feel good about what she did to you. Get revenge on her you cuck.
>>25734038
gotta be assertive, social and give no fucks about women.
>>25734100
>It was nice
You basically told her you liked getting walked all over on
>>25734100
don't be a fuccboi
>>25734100
Fuck you OP you fucking cuck, tell her it was nice to know this now so that you can cease contact and move on.
Then block her fucking number
Just DO IT already
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0
>>25734094
That is a completely different situation and you know it. Please STOP giving OP misleading advice, he does not have a vibrant love life like you do, as far as I know.
>>25734100
tell her straight-up what you think don't cover it with this wishy washy bullshit i'm tired of this same story over and over see >>25733747
>>25734130
thanks
I would feel bad but I want to get used to rejection
just kinda shitty how I have to resort to an anime imageboard for answers
>getting shot down before you even ask her out
is this what #wastehistime2016 is all about?
>>25734143
I actually haven't really talked to her in the last 3 days so it gud. IDK how to prove I am OP
>>25734143
Im flattered but i was pretty pathetic myself until a year ago.
Either way i guess you're right, maybe it would be better for him to end that shite
This is me by the way, I'm OP. I know its a goofy pic but I try to impress girls by being funny. Do you think this was a turn off for her?
>>25734100
>it was nice
Just cuck my shit up senpai.
>>25734163
>just kinda shitty how I have to resort to an anime imageboard for answers
Yeah especially when you won't listen to the fucking answers they gave you.
It isn't too late for you OP just fucking cut contact do it now do it COLD if you can so there is no chance of her coming back. Not something to inspire hot anger just something cold that will make her think you're a cunt and not want to talk to you again.
It is what is best for BOTH OF YOU. TRUST ME ON THIS SHIT.
>>25734176
>>25734178
I'm confused but whatever
>>25734188
Lol nice beta cuck no wonder she fucking rejected you
>>25734107
> it's twenty six teeeeeen
It's true faggot, and your bitching isn't going to change anything.
>>25734025
>She keeps like smiling at me everyone so often tho so IDK what is up with that
You know why she smiles at you OP? To keep that fucking thought in your head so you stick around and stay as her emotional tampon.
>>25733654
In the words of Bobby Caldwell, "please don't hesitate, as my love won't wait for you"
move on
>>25734202
I wasn't bitching... not even the guy who originally called you a "fukkin normie" but I was just mocking your comment and your unsubtle baiting attempt... please try harder next time, 3/10 you only got one reply......
>>25734100
>It's fine it was nice
You basically admited you liked being pushed over and humiliated. Man oh man op are you in deep or what.
Ahahahaha friendzoned fags. You do know she fucked Chad right after sending you that message? Beta uprising when?
>>25733697
Listen to this, OP. The fact that she bothered doing this is the first nail in the coffin.
Do whatever you can to sever the ties with her.
>>25734221
Yes. This is important. OP is being easily fooled by simple little shit.
>>25734100
Well if this is your first time around the "It's okay, I can be just friends with her" carousel, then have fun learning why it doesn't fucking work.
If you wish to stop degrading yourself further and learn from mistakes of others, explain to her calmly and politely that maintaining a friendship will be excessively difficult as you can't just choose to not have feelings for her,which will skew the relationship in a way where she gets all the benefits of feeling attractive and you get none of the reciprocation.
Or just "stay friends" and learn it the hard way.
Ima just go to the gym more often and get more ripped. going to /fit/ for tips
>>25733697
Wouldn't it be better if OP distanced himself slowly from her rather than abruptly?
Like to slowly stop hanging with her.
>>25734231
>Beta uprising when
Its already started.
>>25734299
Not really. He's kind of nuked this one. Like holy fuck. You really can't mess up much worse than this short of straight up raping a girl.
>>25734299
I was thinking this, but honestly I don't think I got too far. I got shut down pretty early
>>25734277
>explain to her calmly and politely that maintaining a friendship will be excessively difficult as you can't just choose to not have feelings for her,which will skew the relationship in a way where she gets all the benefits of feeling attractive and you get none of the reciprocation.
This is wrong. OP needs to learn this but telling the girl is just an invitation for her to work her magic further. He needs to cut contact RIGHT THE FUCK NOW and just not reply. She will get over it, she is used to be ignored by men after they have had their way with her.
>>25734299
No. Because OP does not have the discipline for this. His best bet is to just stop replying, right the fuck now, and just make shitty excuses when she asks why he hasn't talked to her, or just ignore it altogether.
>>25734315
Don't even delude yourself.
>>25734102
This.
After the initial rejection, it'll be hi or hi how are you then nothing of value. Cut her off, there is no friendship or anything that can benefit you here.
>>25734100
>Sorry I texted you an essay, force of habit
>force of habit
You dodged a bullet OP, now cut contact and forget about her.
>force of habit
I interpret this to mean that she has a pattern of befriending men she knows are into her (it's pretty obvious they don't want to be "friends," and every women knows this), leading them on and attempting to turn them into orbiters.
Although, it was pretty cool that she was so straightforward with you. Hell, she probably saved your awkward ass weeks of "should I say this, should I say that" by letting you know right away.
>>25734299
Fucking this. It's always best to do it this way. She'll probably think he likes someone else and missed out on an option, if OP isn't completely ugly.
>>25734321
Wait what did I do wrong with her?
>>25734315
Have we started started the fire?
>>25734328
OP if this is you, STOP TALKING TO HER. JUST END IT. DELETE HER FUCKING NUMBER
>>25734338
This.
>>25734347
Kek, I didn't pick up on that. I figured the kek at force of habit was for some other reason.
You should've just been like yeah I think you're pretty attractive.
It stops all that feels nonsense and if she's not into relationships just FWB her
>>25734369
>>25734347
As far as I know she has only been in a single relationship
>>25734361
>She'll probably think he likes someone else and missed out on an option, if OP isn't completely ugly.
Why the fuck does what she thinks matter? Fuck off, you're as much of a cuck as OP.
>>25734364
OP you did nothing wrong. Well, maybe you were slightly autistic, but here's the thing: she did not and does not and will not want your cock. There is fucking NOTHING you could have said or done about that. You started sperging out after her shit essay which is understandable. Completely 100% understandable.
You've done nothing wrong yet; we are trying to prevent you, however, from DOING something wrong.
>>25734367
calm down mister billy joel
What should you do if you make friends with a girl who you had no intention what so ever of trying to get it on with but overtime after hanging with them and seeing how they act you fall for them? Do you still drop all contact with her or just remain a beta desu for someone that doesn't feel the same for you? I need to know now
You can't be friends with a female.
>>25734404
The force of habit was not in relation to the amount of relationships she was in, but the amount of guys she had to regularly reject, because of the mixed signals she was sending.
>>25734347
>Although, it was pretty cool that she was so straightforward with you. Hell, she probably saved your awkward ass weeks of "should I say this, should I say that" by letting you know right away.
Do not make OP think she is cool or anything. Also there is nothing "cool" about any of her actions. She should not be trying to be "friends" with him if she really was "cool"
OP, you should really never let things get to this point. First of all, you should start practicing on girls who you don't actually have feelings for because feelings will only complicate the issue. Secondly, never let it get to the "I heard you had feelings for me" point. That means you're fucked mate. Always ask the girl out first, do it fairly quickly, and do it casually. Never romanticize this shit. Just keep it cool. Or try, at least. Might want to hit the gym too. Girls prefer guys who aren't super fat. That would probably help your odds a lot.
By the way, don't date any girls your friends know until you're competent at this.
>>25734422
The dubs rise brother!
>>25733660
you should of said, "Ok no relationship, let's fuck though,"
>>25734427
>remain a beta desu for someone that doesn't feel the same for you?
Why would you do that?
>>25734404
That doesn't matter because it won't be with you so it does not matter if she fucked one guy or zero guys or 3200 guys, NONE OF THEM WILL BE YOU. And you are not doing any favors by continuing to text her. Delete her fucking number. Now. I want to see a screenshot of you doing it, OP. It's the only fucking way.
>>25733654
>>25733660
> sorry OP I'm "figuring myself out" ie. you're not Chad so kindly fuck off ;)
holy shit how fucking typical
hey help me out boys >>25733747 i'm in need of advice, op doesn't stand a chance, i do
>>25734460
Or do this.
>>25734478
OP here you even worse beta cuck than I am why don't you just kill yourself kk beta? You will never get her you bitch your not a chad.
>>25734477
That's exactly how I read that too
>>25733936
My new years one went along the lines of her telling me she was in good hands cause her new bf was there to watch over her drunken stupor. Cut contact right there. She didn't stop bothering me so I BTFO'D her. Feels undecided man.
>>25733654
>>25733660
She's basically saying she doesn't like you because you aren't attractive for her right now so she wants to go to the clubs and fuck a bunch of dudes then come crawling back to you after some Chad punches her because you're a nice, funny guy who can provide for her and give her stability that she wants after taking a mile of dick,
>>25734501
at least i'm not tryna fuck what I can't
> not sending her this as a reply
>>25733660
>>25733654
>It's not you, it's me
>You are such a nice guy
>Let's stay friends
Cliche as fuck.
>>25733773
kek same thing happened to me, but we actually dated for about 2 months then she said she "wasn't ready for a relationship" and needed to "get [her] life together"
Guess what she did?
She became legal drinking age in my country then went on a slut rampage and got passed around by every douchey guy at the clubs and now has a new boyfriend who looks like a beta cuckold
>>25734514
>then come crawling back to you after some Chad punches her because you're a nice, funny guy who can provide for her and give her stability that she wants after taking a mile of dick,
STOP
GIVING
OP
FALSE
HOPE
JUST
FUCKING
STOP
You people whine and whine about this shit about women havingbeta orbiters then you fucking perpetuate it with this shit.
You people are all such fuckign retards. I cannot even type properly I am so pissed right now.
>talking with girl a lot
>new years eve send her my number and tell her to call me
>we talk for about 6 hours
>tell her I'll come visit her over Easter
>she says she can't wait
Pretty good, I have high hopes.
>>25734510
I need to know more details.
>>25733762
>>25734547
this to be honest familia fami
>>25734591
> I have high hopes
That is literally the worst thing you can do.
Not even joking.
I'm 20, never had a gf, and I feel reading this thread has been unhealthy for me. Don't mind me, carry on.
I am honestly not gonna listen to half of these guys cus like I feel like they are beta cuck neckbeards. Ima just stop talking to her and thats it.
>>25733660
Absolutely destroyed lad
Literally preemptively cucked
>>25734547
>replying with images is totally not something that fits fhanny normal fags so random XxDdddDD do
You made me cringe, stupid fuck.
>>25734100
keep up the facade that you dont really care but stop messaging her
occasionally reply with one one word answers
>>25733773
>>25734554
HAHAH AHOLY SHIT FUCKING WOMEN
>>25733936
>needs to be purely friendship
why did this roastie even need to say this? I have female friends and not once did we sit down and tell each other it needs to be PURELY FRIENDSHIP. The fuck that just seems so strange.
>>25734591
watch her cancel at the last moment to spend time with Chad you little cuckerino
>>25734335
>He needs to cut contact RIGHT THE FUCK NOW and just not reply.
This, a lot of guys will tell you not to do this but that's a crock of shit. This route will lead to you being known as "the guy who just wanted to get in her pants," and this is why some dumber men will tell you not to do this, but consider the alternative.
You are either known by other men and OTHER WOMEN as "the jerk who wanted to get in her pants," or you are known as the "weak nice guy who still gets crushes.'" Neither are particularly good, but at least the first option allows you to still be seen as a man.
>>25734579
I'm not giving him hope, I'm giving him a sobering reality.
She will ONLY be interested once she has been used up and needs to get stability in her life. If you think that's hope then you're fucked.
>>25734626
Good. Don't.
>>25734591
>having hope
Dont do it man, im seeing a girl right not and still have no hope. Not only does it make you come off as a Chad (i.e. you dont give a fuck about her) it makes it all the easier when she ditches you
>>25733660
Abort, it's a shit test, ignore her for awhile OP
Lol. Don't make a big deal about it. If you like her as a friend and can bare seeing her being with other men then just keep talking to her, but don't make anymore advances, it won't work, focus your efforts on finding someone else. Otherwise, just stop talking to her and chilling with her, easy.
Iv'e had way worse situations and this girl is a saint compared to the brutal rejections you could have got. The fact that she let you know early rather than wasting your time is nice of her.
>>25734626
thats honestly the only mature way to handle this
good job
>>25734626
Thats exactly what you need to do. If she contacts you act whatever about, dont get excited, dont get your hopes, dont anything.
When a girl says no she means no. You have zero chance. Move on.
>>25734674
She said it because I told her I liked her 3 years ago and a year ago I told her I still had feelings and cut contact because of them.
Since then I haven't done shit, I've NEVER done shit. I haven't made a single move, the only time I planned to was at a movie we didn't end up going to because she told me she had a boyfriend.
I read my convos back like a month to see what might have set this off. Fuckin nothing. She just wanted to rub it in for some dumb reason. Still wondering whether I should confront her about it next time I talk to her. I have not talked to her since that conversation, almost two weeks ago.
Fortunately I think about her much less now. I just don't look forrward to the feels that will rseult whenever shit does hit the fan. I deflected in that conversation because I didn't want to ruin my goddamn vacation which she knew I was on.
>>25733654
How does it feel to know that this girl will be fucking Chad on valentines day ?
Do you guys know where did it all go so wrong?
>>25734714
>She will ONLY be interested once she has been used up and needs to get stability in her life. If you think that's hope then you're fucked.
She will never be interested in him. Stop. I know being a cuck faggot I am one and I would love to be betabux for the girl I like, do not feed OP this shit he will spend YEARS waiting for something that will never happen.
Anyone want screenies of what she sent before all this happened?
>>25733825
>pottery
Let me tell you something, when a girl that you talked with tells you ahe doesn't like you back or whatever you just stop talking with her.
You don't stay her friend and even if she tries you should just be cold and stay away. Ypu don't nned her to be around, constantly remind yourself of your rejection
>>25734843
a meme
u dip
>>25734439
Shit, good point anon.
OP probably has oneitis, and he isn't thinking straight. I should've chosen my words better. What I should've said was "at least she didn't string him along and get a bunch of free shit from him."
But for what it's worth, nothing you say is going to change his mind anyway. Despite anything he reads in this thread, tomorrow morning he will probably wake up thinking he "loves" her.
>>25734834
Yeah famalia
>>25734695
The best thing to do is just not talk to her at all anymore. I agree. I am still waiting for OP to delete her number and post proof. I know he won't because he is a beta kuck but still.
To be honest, my familiar, you are passive throughout the entire exchange. You are still passive now as you ask /r9k/ what to do. Women don't want passive men. They want active, engaging and unsettling men who challenge, pursue and dominant them. Now that clearly isn't you, quite frankly, so in 20 years time you can raise the bastard offspring I sired when I spurted my hot sticky load all over her ovaries. This is nature's lottery, and you are a loser.
>>25734754
Fuck off Reddit.
OP needs to cut contact with her now.
>>25734803
Also this.
>>25733654 normies doesnt have a chance here
>>25734834
Obviously.
fambloxsmh
>>25733660
> I'm still figuring myself out
She means that she's to busy getting ravaged by more sexual enticing men. Stop orbiting her, and move on brobot. Jesus, like clockwork.
>>25733660
>I'm still figuring myself out
Slut for
>I'm still still not done riding the cock carousel
>>25734631
did you stop to consider they were saying just to write "ok" then send one punch man
>>25733936
>I feel sick
Lol dude so fucking beta, if you're going to be rejected take it like a man
I'll give you my scenario
>Anon you're really sweet but I already like someone else.
> Alright
>I hope you're not mad or anything I feel really bad
> I'm not, and don't be
> We can still hangout tomorrow if you want
> Nah
FIN
Never talked to her again, I never actually had feelings for her though just wanted to bang but you should be like this all the time unless you genuinely would enjoy being her friend.
>>25734811
I don't know but I will tell you for a lot of guys the moment was where OP is right now and the choice they made is why they are fucked up. Or at least part of it. OP needs to make the right choice here which is instant cessation of contact. Nothing more nothing less.
>>25734867
Thank you, I am glad my pain means somethng.
I understand what you mean. It could have been worse.
> But for what it's worth, nothing you say is going to change his mind anyway. Despite anything he reads in this thread, tomorrow morning he will probably wake up thinking he "loves" her.
I know. This is what fucks me up the most reading shit like this on r9k, because I am in the same situation and I am nearly as much of a beta cuck bitch about it.
>>25734957
I'd already been rejected. But yeah. I was mostly just shocked and pissed that she brought it up to rub it in again, I thought I was hinting at her that I didn't want to talk about emotionally painful shit during new years, but I guess I came across as even more of a cuck.
It's why I am telling OP to cut contact because anything he says will just make it worse, there is no right answer, you are a naked man with an erection in a pitchblack room full of running chainsaws, the only way forward is out the shortest path.
What you did is pretty good, I will remember it for when I never talk to women again.
>>25734100
>it's fine it was nice
Everyone else thinks this was bad, BUT, if this is the very last message you write it will actually be perfect. After about a week of ignoring her that comment will become sarcastic
IDK screenies of random convos will post 1 more
>>25733747 help me, op is lost in his own world of rejection and consciousness, i still have a glimmer of hope and i dont wanna drive thru
>>25735012
I agree with this. Do this OP. I wanted you to cut contact anyway, but this is a good final line
>>25735032
No one gives a single fuck shit about your problems. Kill yourself.
>>25735021
What the fuck is this shit? OP no one cares, stop going through your fucking chat archives, just delete her number.
Please tell me you are not still replying to her?
>>25735021
Here is the other you can read my beta responses.
>>25735032
> was playing hella blackops (zombies ofc) and unjustice and watching movies such as timmy jimmy power hour,
Hoping this is a troll.
>>25735058
REEEEEEEE
REEEEEEE
REEEEE
REEEE
REEE
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RES
RESP
RESPE
RESPEC
RESPECT
>>25735058
Idk people asked for screenies of other stuff so I gave it.
>>25735012
it was the last message
>>25735021
>>25735065
pretty beta OP, tbqh
say, did she ever message you first or is it you or what?
>>25734905
>This is nature's lottery, and you are a loser.
I disagree with this "nature's plan" bullshit. No sentient, all-knowing earth mother "chose your role" when you were born. You evo-psych people are the first to criticize religion, yet you treat "mother nature" just like a deity.
OP CAN change and not be passive anymore, he can even get to a point where he does well with women, but it's going to take a lot of effort, soul-searching and discipline on his part, and a lot of it is going to suck.
>>25733787
your cat just doesn't want to be cuddled unless it's the initiator anon.
>>25735117
Eh she started, but apparently it was some weird prank that her friend convinced her to do. She pretended to be someone else. I ended meeting up in the school library to confirm it was her. Then I kinda started it up after that
>>25734631
you don't send the picture you faggot he just means answer with
Ok.
>>25735161
But what about daily messages, who begins texting each day, usually?
>>25735087
Keep it that way. I've been there and sounds like a few others in this thread have too. You will never get this girl.
You weren't even that beta, man. You hold conversations well. Don't listen to these guys talk down to you. You didn't do anything majorly wrong. She's just not that into you.
Move on to your next viable option
>>25735184
She started most of them, I was too beta to start them up most of the time.
>>25735021
Is "Hey I should get to bed" code for "Hey Jamal is here I gtg".
>>25735065
Kek I love how sick of talking to you she is and how she says "time for bed" so she can stop talking to you and go back to netflix n chill.
Wanna prove you're alpha?
Rape and murder her.
>>25735087
>it was the last message
Good. Don't send any more. Ever.
Please dont make me have matched all those street signs and mountains for nothing OP.
>>25735259
I won't, am smarter than most Beta OPs
damn this bitch cold as ice, making you express your feelings so she can reject on them.
>>25733660
I really don't get why people mock the concept of the friend zone. Good job being a beta and/or being in love with a girl who's obviously being jammed full of black dick.
>>25735236
it could be
it could mean shes bored of talking and wants to watch spongebob
or she really wants to go to bed
it could fucking mean anything
it's a lost cause OP, abandon ship before you go down with it. believe me there is no greater waste of time than being an orbit beta that just is always there. just forget about her and move on, easier said than done but at least start going in that direction.
don't talk to her, that just prolongs the inevitable and makers it tougher than it has to be
"you shouldn't have to set your self on fire to keep everyone warm"
>>25735244
this, send her a text with "wrong move, bitch", and then do her
it's the only way
Man people really have to learn to stop himhawing with girls. It's better to be told no with your hand down her pants than to do this pathetic text shit.
>>25734100
>It was nice
ya blew it hard kiddo
Should have just said "ok"
>>25734107
That's not what redpill means anon. Redpill is just recognizing that women are simple and heartless creatures. They pursue exactly what makes them feel the best, and have no consideration for other people. I don't blame them, it's just their nature. This is why going to the gym pays 1000% higher dividends than being 'nice'. Women simply project 'nice' onto guys they want to get with who give them attention. If you're a beta to them, acting nice is just 'creepy'.
2 weeks from now.
Karen is now in a relationship with Chad Thundercock.
Oh he helped her find herself alright, specifically her womb
>>25733747
can i get some more help kids, deadpool is a good idea right? thanks
>>25734107
>I'm seriously considering going full-on "redpill"
Don't. You're not a man of petty anon. Just cut the bitch off. She's obviously using you as an emotional tampon. Block her.
>>25735467
Is this guy still trying to get attention? lol
>>25735482
>She's obviously using you as an emotional tampon.
But she isn't, that's the thing. I don't see ANY benefit that I give her at all. Literally none. I think at best she pities me but that doesn't explain why she messages me months after I ignore her.
I don't want to be petty, I just want to tell her the truth. Not redpill shit, just... the truth, as bluntly as I can put it.
>>25735442
I know. That's why I put it in quotes, I meant the "uncomfotable truth" redpill shit. Maybe that's blackpill. I can't keep the fucking colors straight anymore....
>>25735317
I don't understand the constant references to black dick and black men when talking about women.
>>25735561
Girls love to have attention. We all know this. They love to drip a little attention to guys so they reap 10x the attention back. They make you into a beta orbiter. The beta orbiters are there to give her ego boost (lots of likes on FB, lots of comments and likes on insta, lots of texts blowing up her phone all the time). Some of the better guys in her orbiter group are there for branch swinging. A girl in a relationship will set up the next one before she leaves the one she's in, like a monkey grabbing branches. Don't drop the one you're hanging onto until you've got a good grip on the next one.
Based on what I've read here this girl has 0% chance of ever hooking up with you. She's using you for one-sided attention. You're wasting your time and hurting yourself. You should instead focus on improving yourself by lifting and working hard in school so you become successful. That's how you get women.
>>25735766
truth. orbiters who think they're "lucky" or "cool" because they have female friends are so embarrassingly deluded.
take it from me, an ugly beta fuck who had slightly more attractive orbiter friends: if she's not fucking you, there's like a 99% chance she doesn't take you seriously. you just haven't seen it yet because nothing serious has happened in your life where you NEED a friend by your side. she won't even give you a handjob. wake up.
>>25735766
Good point. I don't like any of her FB shit though. And she does occasionally initiate FB conversations with me, like she did a few weeks ago saying she was coming home for a few weeks and wanted to hang out.
You are very correct though and you are only giving me more fortification to cut contact once and for all, and to actually block her this time so i don't see her messages begging me to talk to her again. thanks anon.
>>25735828
>you just haven't seen it yet because nothing serious has happened in your life where you NEED a friend by your side. she won't even give you a handjob. wake up.
> times in life when you need a friend by your side
> handjob
What... the fuck
>>25733654
There's worse ways to get rejected desu senpai
Preemptive rejections like the OP girl is a low form of cowardice. She didn't have the stomach to wait for you to make a move and reject you in person, so she's pulling a breaking-up-by-text tier middle finger. She doesn't care about you, OP.
>>25733654
>not telling her you don't like her and that she shouldn't be so conceited as to think you do
>>25734100
Send her an essay describing your appreciation of National Socialism.
Then cut all ties.
>>25733692
But Garrett has a gf.
>>25734695
desu this, and no you won't be known as the weak guy who still gets crushes. it tells women you down for the fuck.
what all u fags need to remember is that bitches are literally not shit but hoes n tricks
>>25733654
>Uh why?
hahahahahaha
i like how you pretended to be totally confused... like you had no idea where she was coming from
then you just totally admit that she's right in your next message
>>25736331
Kek kek kek kek kek kek
DO IT
>>25736426
+1.... this nigga got it rigght
>>25736426
Get your nigger ass back to the fields
>>25736163
I've become so accustomed to this kind of thing from women that it didn't even register when I read it.
>>25733654
ask her to introduce you to one of her nice friends.
>>25733936
honestly can't tell which one's the girl. not even making a joke.
Stereotypical female reply.
>Wow, you're basically perfect... for someone else! I wouldn't touch you with a fifty-foot pole.
>I'm really more looking for friends right now!
>I'm figuring myself out!
I find dishonesty incredibly repulsive, and whenever a girl inevitably pulls this exact same shit to "spare my feelings", I just give them the thousand-yard stare. I would much rather they tell me how their vaginas really feel - something to the effect of "You should not have been born." or "The last thing this planet needs is another copy of you."
>>25735065
You shouldn't have said it costs money. You should have offered to pay for her to go. She wouldn't have an excuse not to then.
>>25733787
>what went wrong
you arent chad
>>25733660
kek
can't stop laughing
>>25733654
>>25733660
>you're an amazing guy and any girl would be crazy to not see that
>I'm just not interested in a relationship right now
She honestly should have just said she's not interested in you. I'd rather have the truth than some gentle let down.
Notice how she didn't even say she's not interested in you for a relationship. She's keeping the door open for whenever she decides she feels like settling down
>>25733660
Wew. Maybe you shouldn't try pursuing her.
>>25733719
Holy shit that's my bro's name
Probably not him, I don't know if he knows anyone by the name of Karen
Trying to comfort someone ater you breakup with them is seriously the most cunt thing a person can do.
taking a bullet in the chest would feel better tbqh familia.
The first time this happened to me she caught me rolling my eyes and got pissy.
>>25735065
>>25735021
Post more you faglord
>>25736905
There's a difference between comforting and flat out lying
>You're such a fantastic incredible guy, any girl would be crazy to not want you!
>But uh I'm not looking for a relationship
She's treating him like a child who can't handle rejection
>>25734100
WHY DIDNT YOU RESPOND WITH K
THE ONE LETTERIN THE ENGLISH ALPHABET THAT WOULD EASILY HAVE GOTTEN THIS BITCH BACK
DAMNIT
1. don't make a move
2. get friendzoned.
>>25736775
where's this shit from?
>>25735021
Is her name really Karen? I think I know her.
>>25734188
And lets see how many we can hook
>>25734201
You don't actually believe that do you..
>>25733654
You got cucked anon, post one picture pf here at least
Look how I play it. Watch what happens next. I literally word for word told her I am too preoccupied to show her attention.
>watch
>you play viddyaaa why not women
>>25737425
Fuck!
Forgot img
>>25737164
I hope not. I rather stay more anonymous.
>>25737148
Inbetweeners
Holy shit i thought my board (/b/) was sad but god damn are you faggots pathetic?
>>25737656
Yes, now go back to /b/.
>>25737425
>>25737439
An I winrar.exe
Fuck roasties
Will tell you easy way to get bitches who friendzone you while you orbit to physically need you as well. Kinda fucked up though desu familyfamazamalam
>>25737748
Again with the img... Android wins how again?
>>25737656
>my board (/b/)
lmfao
/b/ isn't anyone's board, faggot. It's the tutorial board for edgy teenagers.
>>25733660
I'm afraid she just doesn't want to be with you, OP.
When someone is interested or feel in love it doesn't matter in what situation one is, on the contrary it makes you feel better
Plus it's a poor excuse
