>know a nice girl, literal virgin till marriage, good upbringing, basically extremely rare today
>decide to better myself to meet the standards of such girl
>ask 4chan
>/fa/ told me to dress sharp
>/fit/ told me to be ottermode not to intimidate her
>/r9k/ told me to appear traditionally masculine as well raised girls go for that type
>login to facebook
>first fucking thing I see is SHE is in a relationship
>with an ugly douchebag who looks like a gay porn actor and wears purple clothes and leather necklaces
How the fuck did this happen? Has the dating market come to this? Do I have to become more extreme version of this to get her? I just lost all hope in women, please advise so i don't kill myself.
>>25076209
He's rich and you aren't. You're probably ugly and non-influential.
>>25076209
L-legochan?!
he probably just moved quicker and told her what she wanted to hear
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>>25076209
Can you blame her? Hes hot.
>>25076209
KEKED
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He's t4ll and muscular. He will destroy her just like she wanted.
>Listening to 4chan
You were doomed from the beginning
>>25076209
After a certain age, everyone who is desirable will be in a relationship. The only way to get with a great girl is to snatch her after her and her bf of 6~10 years and her realize that they have developed in different directions. Most girls who are past their early twenties but have been single for a long while, are only single because of severe issues.
>>25076209
maybe he's actually a good person with an interesting personality?
while you're a boring pathetic faggot whose just as ugly and barren on the inside as you are on the outside, you judgmental fuck
I hope she marries him and lives a happy life
>>25076342
By "interesting" you mean "obviously abusive and will make her life hell"? Look at him, roids, flamboyant clothes, psycho look in eyes, this guy has basically written "domestic violence" on his forehead.
There's really no universal advice r9k can give you because women do have a diversity of interests in men, although practically all these interests are based around female narcissism.
This guy looks like a complete douche, she's probably attracted to him for that reason. You should try to remind yourself of this constant, I mean she wants to sleep with THAT douchebag, and probably have him act like a douche to other men - do you really want a woman like that? Do you really want to waste your emotional and life energy working to support and love a woman who'd be into that sort of guy?
The advice you say you've received was generally good, but it won't get all girls.
Also, what are her reasons for waiting till marriage for sex? Are they good ones, or is she crazy or controlling? Do you even know she's actually maintained her virginity, or how she defines virginity?
Just let her go, keep working on yourself. You're still going to be fighting an uphill battle against hypergamy and the inevitability of being cucked.
>>25076383
>man looks like a man and not like a frail faggot or fat sack of shit
>h-he surely is an abusive psycho, s-she would be sooo m-much more happy with me
This is what robots truly believe.
>>25076410
Not that guy, but he almost looks a bit queer to me. As the OP said, he looks like a gay porn actor.
>>25076383
Your delusions and shitty outlook is why no one will ever want you.
>>25076389
I had a long lesson like that before on this same board: don't waste energy on sluts and shallow girls.
And finally when i meet a nice girl from religious family, who doesn't even drink or stays outside after 11pm so she doesn't get into bad surrounding, who is cute as fuck and all the sluts hate her because she has selfcontrol, basically a unicorn, she does this. fuck, i guess i should not waste my energy on anything.
The other guy has a huge dick. It's obvious
>>25076383
keep proving my point, you fucking autist
>>25076440
>when i meet a nice girl from religious family
You're falling victim to stereotypes here. Being "religious" is not a good thing in itself. The guys who shot up the theatre in Paris were "religious". If she's a Christian then she's likely from a Christian Church which (falsely) teaches the doctrine of Hell - that is that if you don't believe in x, y, z you're going to suffer and burn for eternity. You can dismiss this all you like, but accepting such a thing says something about her, and the belief itself has effects on these people. They have no real faith in God, they practically worship a demon.
Frankly she looks "problematic" with those glasses, the look on her face, and the fact that she's covered in makeup.
>>25076209
>>25076245
>>25076383
Another delusion & autistic thread, brought to you by /r9k/!
At this point you guys are living memes.
You've decided this guy is a douchebag based on ONE PHOTO. He's not even doing anything in this photo; he's just standing there and smiling. You have no idea who this guy is, but you've decided that he must be a douchebag because he's dating the woman you like and has muscles.
Maybe you just don't deserve her.
>>25076565
No "maybe" about it, OP is a grade A faggot
>>25076565
>Maybe you just don't deserve her.
Nothing uncertain about that!
>>25076482
Fine then, lets say all of you are right. I'll buy a shitload of steroids tomorrow and become a chad. There's no other way in 2015 I guess.
>>25076656
Don't forget to buy a less shitty personality while you're at it anon!
>>25076209
Erm idk what do you fail to understand. He looks kinda bulky, is 15-20 cm taller than her, shouts security idk. All that really matters is the first impression. After that she can justify his behaviour with ANYTHING. Basically women are like animals - they check for the same 3 things - a bit taller, a bit bulkier and a bit confident. Thats all you need.
P.S: /x/ here ^_^
>>25076656
You're a fucking idiot if you think steroids are a reasonable solution.
You're also a fucking idiot for thinking that this one girl like this one particularly beefy guy means that all girls like super beefy guys, or that she wouldn't have gone for a thinner guy if he'd asked her out.
You can improve your dress, physique, and surface-level behavior to some extent, but if you continue to be this much of a hateful drooling retard on the inside, you're not going to get anywhere in the long term.
>>25076209
>If you do exactly this in that exact order you are guaranteed a girlfriend
Nice guy syndrome.
>>25076209
>get wild hair in me bum
>decide to crossboard to /r9k/ for the first time
>first thing I see is this
Dear god op, you dun goofed hard.
>going after a virgin
>asking 4chan
>LISTENING TO 4CHAN (the advice being sensible has no bearing on this matter)
>Normiebook
>too slow to get the girl
>forming an opinion of a dude you never met off of a single picture
I'm suddenly missing /x/ and all the roleplayers. They're less cringeworthy.
>>25076864
Everyone has facebook now, no need to demonize it.
>>25076209
That the girl you talking about?
No wonder she fell for the purple bowling pin, she exudes an aura of normalfaggotry and whorishness.
I see this a lot with dumbasses who want to settle down for the long haul- they choose completely retarded women to settle down with.
OP the average girl isn't worth your time in all honesty since they're mostly vapid whores with no real interests past TV and drinking/drugs and I seriously don't see why anyone would bother with them, even if its just for sex.
>>25078317
I don't have a facebook, my gf doesn't have a facebook.
Facebook is very commonplace nowadays but that doesn't mean it is a positive influence, same could be said for any form of social media.
Do you really think your time on 4chan has enriched you, for example?
Course not, you're a tourist that needs to fuck off this board and go back to facebook.
>>25076342
there's that Just World Syndrome again :^)
>>25076310
This, what and idiot
This is a victory to all Baldkind.
She's into traditional southern European life style and sothern islander life stlye. The men dress gay but , hold traditional values and love the beach.
