I just want a gf man. I deleted my Tinder because I felt like chasing leads wasn't going anywhere, and I know that a gf won't just plop on my doorstep, but...I just want a gf so bad...
I have the EXACT same feeling. I want a real girlfriend, not tinder roasties. BUT HOW DO I MEET NEW PEOPLE WHEN I DONT KNOW HOW
>>24707653
Why do you need a gf?
This is the one thing I don't understand about /r9k/
I am just as beta as any of you guys, and I understand, hey it might be nice to experience a relationship
>But the relationship will end anyways anon
>Why waste your hard earned cashed on some relationship for 2 or 3 years, when you could be buying a cool new computer with an oculus rift
Idk man, I understand that it might be cool to have a gf and all, but then I realize to my self, I would hate being in a relationship since I would have to leave my house, and have to start interacting with her/her friends
>Just stay indoors bro, and if you want sex go on backpage and hire some slut
>>24707701
I'm just such a helpless romantic. Every time I see a cute girl, or a girl says something I agree with, I think what if they liked me, and what if we could be all lovey-dovey. I have dreams where I have vague gfs, and when I wake up it hurts so much. I just want someone to love man, I don't care about virgins or racemixing, i just want a gf man
>>24708492
>I'm just such a helpless romantic
you'd be miserable with a gf at this point because you've weighted yourself down with a mental image that can't possibly live up to reality, a gf will not fix you or your life, you need to level your self up to a point where you are happy with you first.
>>24708616
nah man, i just wanna cuddle and watch comfy shows, i don't expect some perfect human being, i just want someone, anyone
i'm happy with where i am, i'm a cynical ugly faggot, but i'm working on changing 1/3 of that
>miss out on prime middle/high school dating because shy motherfucker
>start to get over it and stop being as self conscious
>connect with girls finally to some degree
>"my boyfriend did X or Y"
>"I have a bf"
>blah blah boyfriend
It's all I fucking hear anymore i swear to god
>>24707701>>24707701
I'm not him, but I want a gf because I am bored as fuck of playing video games all the time.
>>24709175
All the girls I really click with are already taken, but hey, if they're so great of course they have bfs. I'll always be too late.
>>24707701
>Why do you need a gf?
Not OP, but how can you question human instinct? We are human and need to be loved, just like everybody else.
>>24708492
Dreams. Fucking worst.
go on a shooting spree that will probably help I bet
>>24707700
>I have the EXACT same feeling. I want a real girlfriend, not tinder roasties. BUT HOW DO I MEET NEW PEOPLE WHEN I DONT KNOW HOW
Google it. Lots of resource on this shit.