Why do I struggle so much to form meaningful social contact? Everyone around me seems to do it so effortlessly, it seems even most people on this board have at least one friend or a gf/bf, but whenever I seek out some sort of social interaction or relationship it's like trying to touch opposite ends of a magnet. It's a painful feeling.
It's not that hard anon! Just BZZZZZZ
It's not that hard, but if you're completely clueless it'll take time.
I learned how to do it researching through the net, then applying what I learned to everyday social interactions. Since I don't have many "everyday social interactions" it took a good while.
When you've been alone for too long you're kinda fucked in the sense that you may be able to behave a certain way after finding the formula for social interaction, but it's not genuine, so the people who genuinely consider you a friend/lover, are just a tool you use for your own satisfaction by behaving a certain way. Which means that, in the end, you'd just rather be alone.
>>29779944
I'm the same way OP.
I literally don't understand friendship. It makes absolutely zero sense to me.
