How is sexual experimentation in youth seen by people in your country?
I am from Norway, here it is almost mandatory. My first time was when I wasn't even 15 with my best friend, even before I had even kissed a girl. I asked on Klaraklok.no, a norwegian site for childrens medical advice if it was normal and she was like "Yeah, sure! It is completely normal that age to be curious about each others bodies and experiment. Have fun!" Yeah, pretty much like that.
It's very normal here. Almost expected. Saying you haven't is like sayin "Guess who was the ugly duckling when growing up? ME!".
you got trolled by swj's, anon
And it isn't really gay. It is more like a bi-product of a strong libido on the rise. You're just a good looking handsome person, surrounded by other young handsome looking people. Just from an objective point of view. Full head of hair, no need for grooming to look well groomed. And you have really close intimate friendships, including sleepovers and all sorts of things.
I mean, it's not like you're alone. Full of acne, no friends, fat. You're young and popular, doing some cool hobby like football. Skin is skin. You can't just slap a label on that.
Almost everyone I know have had an early gay experience.
I mean, look at the OP pic, wouldn't you want to be part of that? Isn't that just part of a healthy normal youth?
>>29530342
Well, I doesn't have to be all gay and shit. The cutest one can take it up the butt. That makes it okay.
No idea if it's common or not here, (uk) but I never did anything. I'm still a virgin now. I am somewhat envious of them but never mind.
>>29530564
Wow dude...
How old are you?
Why can't you pull it off?
I don't know if having gay sex makes you more attractive or something. But I remember thinking, befor taking her hand and leading her to the bedroom "It can't be worse than when I 69 with my best friend and we both simultaniously swallowed each others load on a sleepover" The orgasm felt good, but the shame of swallowing was intense. Yet, sometimes I fapped to it.
>>29530298
discouraged which is wrong
I lost my virginity at 13.
>>29530430
>bi-product
i see what you did there
>>29530696
I'm 23, and gay of course.
The problem is that meeting people is quite difficult when you never leave the basement. Been here for years.
I had a friend years ago who I wanted to do those things with, but he was straight, so no dice.
Does anybody feel that it is okay to take it in the ass if you're a cute boy? Why is that?
I just feel that then it is okay. If you take it up the butt as a cute boy you're doing a great thing.
>>29530993
cute bois are feminine, it is feminine to offer yourself to a big cock.
>>29530961
>Gay virgin
How? Gays can't be robots. Us straight virgins are the true robots.
>>29530961
OP here.
I just want to clarify that I'm not gay.
I just accidentally had a lot of gay sex with my best friend, because we were both young and just discovering sexuality. So we had sleepovers, and basicly discovered that touching naked skin feels good. So we kinda went with it.
Also, I asked at several internet oracles if this was unnatural, they all said it was completely normal, and we didn't have to be gay. It was just good times and normal experimentation.
But you're actually missing out. Have you never felt someone elses dick in your hand? Just the erection forming in your palm?
I'm from Serbia, and the society's fairly homophobic.
Seems to me like this isn't that uncommon, it's just kept a secret.
>>29530298
>experimentation
two dicks = gay
No need to run experiments to reach those results.
I live in French and people here believe sex should never happen at such a young age
I experimented with my little sister when I was 12, but by then I was already pretty fucked up anyways.
Not a faggot like you, but fucked up nonetheless.
>>29531125
I visited family in Montenegro. Remember hooking up to hola vpn for my Netflix. One of the top used sites for the region was some gay website. Wouldn't be surprised if rates of depression are very high in the Balkans.
>>29531144
Ask the gay guy if he would like to have sex with this dickgurl then.
Dicks doesn't equal masculine. Just make sure the boy who takes it up the butt is cute enough, then it is okay.
>>29531241
Montenegro's a bit different, I think they're more into hookup culture, at least in some areas.
>Wouldn't be surprised if rates of depression are very high in the Balkans.
I think it's pretty bad, but I honestly doubt it's for that reason. It's more like shitty living in general, fag or not.
>>29530696
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>>29531298
Putting broccoli on a hot dog doesn't make it a salad.
>>29531103
Yes you are. You're seriously gay. Once, maybe exceptable, but multiple times and exclaiming excitement at an erection in your hand? Gay.
>>29531367
No man...
You have to evolve. Grow as a person. Accept her penis. If you are truly in love with a girl you will suck her penis and say "It is a part of you, and I love it. I accept you and accept your penis, this is me showing that I accept you" Then you suck that feminnie penis while she moans girly moans. Writhing around in bed so much that you hold her down, in your peripheral vision you see her hands clenching until her love juice shoots into your mouth.
Then you swallow, a part of her is inside of you.
>>29531635
Dude...
What do you want me to say? He was my childhood friend. We played together in kindergarden. "OOh noes, I feel that my masculine striaght identity is under attack from my actions not being fully congruent with my currently rising sensations of libido. It is all to much, the walls are closing in, bohoo".
The way I see it, we just have a closer relationship. What do you want me to say? That I jerked him off while crying? We just explored a little. Try having a naked hairless body on top of you, feels good man.
Sometimes you just got to have some sex with the nearest person. Usually that is gonna be your same sex best friend. Given that you're not in the ugly gang. Soft butt is soft butt. Naked body is naked body.
>>29530298
>I am from Norway, here it is almost mandatory.
>ah hello Andreas! nice to see you again. Gee wouldn't it be funny (but also healthy) if you had a little fun in private with my son? Did I mention that I'm leaving and you're going to have the house to yourselves for 3 hours? Now don't go looking in our bedroom for condoms! Those are for grownups only hahaha. Have fun playing video games boys!
>>29531847
>It happens at sleepovers.
>Both parents need to go to some party
>so why not let the children babysit each other.
>Game all day
>Watch porn together
>Suddenly gay sex
You live in a degenerate country.
>>29531813
Fucking Scandinavians man
you're clearly bisexual. Why else would you have all these pics on your PC? Did the website tell you that was normal too?
>>29531924
>why not let the children babysit each other (and suck each other's dicks of course)
>be good boys! don't forget to brush your teeth (and also have sex)!
Someone post a link to that one video with the cute trap wearing a pink wig
>>29531971
Its just normal here.
We have boys, but boys also have gender. It can be a boy who needs to do the penetrating, or it could be a boy who has to take it. You just have to accept your role and do your duty. It's not something you get to choose.
But you grow up, get a wife, have a nuclear family and a good normal life.
If you did some gay in your youth when you were top/bottom or whatever, that is just your past. Girls have a past too, what are they gonna say about it. It's good to have a past, it puts you on an equal footing.
She can say "I fucked a nigger, his dick was so thick and beasty. His black cock was deep inside of me" And I would go "You should have heard your little brother scream when I took his virginity. I went balls deep into his boipussy, I didn't even slide in, I just jammed in right in there! Grabbed his hair and forced him to the ground as I kept pounding him over and over!".
>>29532186
It's not a matter of normality. I'm not calling you a freak for having indulged in sodomy. I'm just saying it like it is: You're bi. You have all this gay porn on your computer, you enjoy the feeling of an erection growing in your hand, you find boys cute, etc.
Even if you get a wife afterwards, you're still at least a 2 on the Kinsey scale. And your friend must have been very attracted to you if he let you fuck him.
I also think you got the wrong idea from what the website told you. They said it was normal, not that it was more common in Norway (unless you have some sort of evidence pointing to that)
>>29532328
Bi is a stupid word. Everyone is bi, you've just not met the right one yet.
You can perfectly enjoy the novelty of experience of touching a dick. Because dicks move in mysterious ways, they can be throbbing, they can be soft, the can be hard or getting hard. Also, having a dick yourself you would be able to know what those sensations mean, every straight guy should have a minmum requirement of curiosity and openess to experience that enables them to appreciate that.
Besides, not all gay porn is faggy. Look at the OP pic, that is very straight friendly. If you're are a real person, you would be okay with being part of that pic. Either as a godly cute bottom boy, or as the dominant alpha top man! They're two parts of masculinity, men aren't just big gorillas punching their chest and pissing on stuff to claim it. We're thinkers full of passion and pure wonder.
Cute boys are cute, everyone finds them cute, hence the term. It is more of a distinction from handsome boys. Like, a boy can be pretty in a handsome way or a cute way. Like, someone you look at and go "Huh... I don't know if he is gay, but if he was he would probably always take it in the ass" would be a cute. And someone you look at and go "Stereotypical popular guy" is handsome.
That scale sounds like scientiffic bogus. The way I think of it is this: Meeh... common man, stuff happens, it is probably even healthy. Its just the way it has to be, it was pretty much in the cards, nothing we could have done different.
I don't know if it is equally common elsewhere. I do believe most people never talk about this. Yet, I've had many confess to having had similar experiences. And it is not common from the unpopular boys! Either very handsome boys confess to fucking ass, or very cute boys confess to having taken it. I think it is just a natural dynamic, opposites attract and for some reason this leads to huge amounts of boyfucking at a certain age, given that you're attractive enough to be able to go.
>>29533307
>Everyone is bi, you've just not met the right one yet
I only ever hear this kind of ridiculous claim from an extreme-left Scandinavian. You cannot speak for everyone.
>You can perfectly enjoy the novelty of experience of touching a dick.
You have your own dick you can touch. If you wanted to touch other penises, being attracted to them helps.
>Besides, not all gay porn is faggy. Look at the OP pic, that is very straight friendly. If you're are a real person, you would be okay with being part of that pic. Either as a godly cute bottom boy, or as the dominant alpha top man! They're two parts of masculinity, men aren't just big gorillas punching their chest and pissing on stuff to claim it. We're thinkers full of passion and pure wonder.
Where to start... it doesn't matter if the guy looks like a girl, it's still two guys fucking. A completely straight man, someone who is an actual 0 on the kinsey scale, would either avoid this, or be indifferent to it, period. That's not even debatable. If not, it would make them straight but not quite. You didn't need to mention the part about men not being cavemen, but again you're projecting. You have a "black and white" way of seeing things.
>Cute boys are cute, everyone finds them cute, hence the term.
Cute has several definitions. It can be used to describe someone who is sexually attractive, endearing (like a child or puppy) or just plain good looking with no extra sexual attraction.
>That scale sounds like scientiffic bogus
Nothing wrong with science. We need more of that and a little less emotion and insecurity, that brings us closer to truth although emotions should not be ignored entirely.
>I think it is just a natural dynamic, opposites attract and for some reason this leads to huge amounts of boyfucking at a certain age
it's understandable that the taboo aspect be the motivator for experience and such. But you've done more than experiment
cont.
>>29533307
cont.
you should look at the amount of words you've written, trying to convince yourself you are completely straight. You've just overthinking this. You may be mostly straight, but the things you've done + the pornography you like, is fundamentally gay even if the men aren't two hairy muscle guys. There's no point in arguing otherwise because it's the truth
Most people consider it a life-ruining degeneracy, so it's seen for what it is.
>>29530298
klaraklok is complete libcuck propaganda and will excuse any deviant behavior.
This is not normal unless you are some kind of nancyboy from Oslo.
>>29533679
>everyone is bi is riddiculex
Ehm, nope? Not if your foundation for calling someone bi is growing a chub for cute boys.
>Touch your own dick
No, and you can't tickle yourself either. There is to much noise, you need a third party penis to fully comprehend it.
>Black white way of seeing things
You're the one who can't even comprehend dickgurls. Sex is a lot more than organs, there is psychology involved. What if a straight man fucked a trap, but was to drunk to see the penis, then went on the rest of his life being straight? Is he gay?
>Cute
If you call it cute it is cute. Words convey meaning of concepts we share. So a cute boy is objectively cute or you wouldn't describe him as such.
>Muh science
We're not talking about an objective scale here. We're talking about someone named Kinsey made a scale, sitting behing their desk and publishing it in a paper for money and attention. That is basicly another prophet, same shit different ass. You should rather take the experience and make up your own mind.
>more than experiment
Well, I don't think experimentation is the right word either. But perhaps explore, explore flowering new sensations.
>Mostly straight
I am straight. I want a nuclear family, that is what I want. Listen, I know this is /r9k/, but doing something new sexually doesn't change who you are. If you had sex in missionary all your life and suddenly did it in doggy you would still be you. I've always wanted to be dad, mom and children. Since kindergarden. I'm straight, I just did some exploration.
>>29534177
You should take a look at the Kinsey scale instead of using prejudice as your rationale against it. The kinsey scale is not an end all thing, but it's perfectly logical
I don't know why you're so adamant in not being labelled bisexual leaning straight, because there's nothing wrong with it (like you suggested in >>29530538 ) and that's what we both are.
>What if a straight man fucked a trap, but was to drunk to see the penis, then went on the rest of his life being straight? Is he gay?
The man had no knowledge of it, so no. That's not a good analogy to be honest.
>So a cute boy is objectively cute or you wouldn't describe him as such.
you're grasping at straws here. Cute has different meanings. I can call a puppy cute and not want to bust a nut on it, same with an object.
>Ehm, nope? Not if your foundation for calling someone bi is growing a chub for cute boys.
What's ridiculous is that you're projecting your vision and your personal experiences with the entire human race, all so you can avoid being called bisexual. It's also worth mentioning that probably less than 5% of males are anywhere near as cute as what you've been posting
>Listen, I know this is /r9k/, but doing something new sexually doesn't change who you are. If you had sex in missionary all your life and suddenly did it in doggy you would still be you. I've always wanted to be dad, mom and children. Since kindergarden. I'm straight, I just did some exploration.
Let me put it another way. If someone is *completely* straight, that means they are exclusively attracted to women. That is the definition of heterosexuality and you can't change it. So why would that man seek out and enjoy pornography of guys having sex? If he just likes the look of cute boys why not straight porn with a girl that has short hair and a flat chest? That's easier to find. This theoretical exclusively straight man would also not enjoy having sex with a male so he would not do it multiple times.
cont.
>>29534177
>Listen, I know this is /r9k/, but doing something new sexually doesn't change who you are. If you had sex in missionary all your life and suddenly did it in doggy you would still be you
That's true, but sexuality is not set in stone either. It's been theorized that sexual orientation is influenced by many factors: testosterone doses in the womb, experiences, developmental stages of childhood, etc.
However I never argued that you "became" bi from experimenting. I'm saying you were bi to begin with *because* you went along with it several times.
How did you get unpermabanned?
>>29534177
>>29533307
it's heartbreaking to see such an insecure person argue against facts and logic and truth using emotions, rhetoric and denial, I hope you're trolling anon
>>29530298
what exactly is /pol/ doing
