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25+ and no girlfriend EVER
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30 years old and I've never, ever had a girlfriend.

can anyone beat that?

How are you holding up?
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>>29364386
Lol hate to break it to you but you're a total loser lmao
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>>29364476
I've know that for a good while at this point.
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>>29364386

Norman here, it's not all it's cracked up to be.

>girlfriends since the age of 15
>some crazy
>abusive relationships
>others ok but we drifted apart
>still feel at least slightly attached to anyone i've been with
>wish i could be a NEET virgin again without the bitter memories

That one guy said it's better to have loved and lost than never to have love at all. It's not
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32. Had sex a few times in my early 20s with strangers at clubs my normie best friend from Uni dragged me to but I've never had a serious conversation with a girl, yet alone a relationship. The only time I ever speak to women at work is saying you're welcome after they thank me for holding a door open or something
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>>29364588
One thing I don't get though is there's slightly more girls than guys right? So how come you never hear about forever alone girls. Seems weird.
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im also 30 and no gf ever

im ok with that
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>>29364476
>Lol [sentence] lmao
>making fun of robots
>on /r9k/

Get out Norman
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>>29364633
If Anyone Tells Me "It's Better to Have Loved and Lost Than to Never Have Loved at All" I Will Stab Them in the Face

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbWYAmq2_go
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>>29364644
There are only more girls because women live longer. In younger age range there are more men than women.
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>>29364386
I've had a girlfriend in high school but never had sex. Am 25 now with no intention of ever giving a shit about sex and relationships. Not until the internet fries or something and I can't fap anymore due to it. I expect that I will become a wizard for life. For relationships I'd need to get fit and shit, but I'm far too lazy.
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>>29364633
>>still feel at least slightly attached to anyone i've been with

Wouldn't you say that it's better than having no memories, just a big void?

When I look at my past, there's nothing. I couldn't even answer someone if he asked me what I've been up to in the last 8 years.
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>>29364386
I'm a 32 year old kv male. Girlfriend please, I ever even been on a date. Or even had a causal conversation with a woman who wasn't family or a employee somewhere. Get on my level sonny boy
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>How are you holding up?

hope
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>>29364386

33 years old here, never had a girlfriend, never kissed, never hold hands.
Some years ago I had 3 dates with a girl tho. Once I understood she was looking for an orbiter, I stopped seeing her.

Probably it was my only chance ever, so I still have a little regret, but I'm proud of what I rejected
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>>29364386
25 here with no gf ever. I'm not that bothered by it. Women are horrendous and you'd have to be a cuck to want to date one in this day and age.
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29 year old approaching wizard levels

less than 250 days left until my mana reaches max level
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>>29364386
>can anyone beat that?
i beat it daily because no gf fuccboi
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>23 kv
Almost there
Hope I don't actually get there.
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>>29366138
you will, trust me
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>>29366138
24 kv here
It's scary, bros
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>>29364476
Kill yourself ill cum on your dead body shit stain
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>>29364386
27.I dont know how females breast feels.
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>>29364386
Same, I'm 32 years old and never had gf.

I have tried everything unlike the average passive robot as well.
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I only want a kissless virgin girl
So I will never have a gf

Beat that you cunts
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I wonder how many wizards I pass by when I go grocery shopping or when I go to work.
How apparent are all of your wizard powers?
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>>29364386
I'm 26.
It's getting easier apparently because I barely care anymore, but I need to find a way to shake this religious daily drinking.
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>>29364386
I'm 18, had sex twice but never actually been in a relationship. Is this normal? Probably a stupid place to ask this question
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>>29364386
I talked with a 24 year old girl that never had a BF.
She fucked only 5 guys yet :^)
Kill me.
She's chubby and ugly btw.
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Entering my 20's, the 10 years of making money to myself and that's it.
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>>29364386

35, no dates nor intimacy, appears I'm in the lead thus far.

>>29367166
I think I'm as near invisible as can be. I saw someone I'd guess was a robot in the checkout once tho. Guy in his early 40's, pulling the absolutely lamest and most embarrassing jokes I've ever heard, to the rather pretty female cashier and a "Sorry I'm just practicing my jokes" "send me an invoice" *pretends to walk away without paying*. Next guy was a huge lumberjack kinda guy, comments to the cashier "you sure get to hear a lot here" while the other guy is packing up his shit, guy hears this and decides to get hostile and spew nasty comments rather than just shut up and get out of there, shit got so awkward I don't think he ever went back there.

>>29368443
Super normal m8.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HZB0lkunWA
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26

Was nothing I ever concerned myself with. Never even tried asking a girl out, so I can't really complain. Always focused on other things. Finding that more and more lacking as I grow older though.

Have been approached once or twice at parties by girls looking for a drunken fling. I awkwardly declined as I didn't want that to be my first time with someone I don't know. Feel like it should mean something at this point. Though, I never let anyone close and never make the effort myself, so I don't know why I expect things to be different. Don't see that changing.

I no longer have the naive notion that I might meet someone and something will just click.
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34 no gf ever

fucked a few whores
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>>29368770
GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BOARD FUCKING NORMALFAG
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>>29364386
girlfriends are just crazy people you put up with temporarily for sex. have fun.
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>>29364633
Surprise surprise robros
>remember how basically everything else in your life turned out to be a lot shittier than the movies you watched as a kid made them out to be?
>having gf is EXACTLY the same story
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>>29364386
>can anyone beat that?

31 in a couple weeks here
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18 kv here

I don't really mind, probably just going to keep fapping instead of chasing girls
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>18
Come back when you are 28
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21 here, but in 4 years I'll get there.
I'm a virgin, but kissed a girl in a party once, we were both drunk as fuck, and that's the highest point I'll ever get. I really don't see myself getting a girlfriend ever.
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19 yo bi fag here
>lost KV status thanks to Grindr just earlier this year
>feel bad for strictly straight robos because guys are easy as shit
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Had one at 26 but she was such an ugly dum fat ass that every one I knew was like WTF YOU DOIN BRO.
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>>29369000
kill yourself, faggot

nice trips
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29 yo

I only just turned 29 so around a year until wizard

I refuse to fuck a whore and pay for sex, but I've considered paying a whore to kiss her feet and cum on them and maybe get a tit wank or something, anything but blowjobs or sex
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>>29368901
25 here. Been doing that pretty much.
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>>29369087
Considering Orlando someone will probably end it for me
>assuming that's not what I want kek
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20 year old virgin here

The mere thought of actually having a gf is becoming so strange to me
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>>29364386
>gf here, gf there

Seriously sob off.
You are no different than Normies, other than the fact you don't get any pussy.
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>>29365100
>but I'm proud of what I rejected
Nice.
I'm in the same situation except 3 years younger and I feel so bitter that I feel I would automatically reject anyone who tried to get close to me. I say would because nobody tries/has tried to even talk to me outside of business related conversations that are necessary to get work done.

It feels like the true power of a wizard is not giving a fuck anymore and being able to pursue talents/knowledge/whatever without wasting time on other people/relationships.

Life is good; thank god for SOL anime
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>implying I have the engery/money/will/even fucking want to fund and focus on someone's happiness and entertainment
>"but the companionship!?"
>bitch I hate people and they always se to return the favour
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>>29364386
40 kv and I am recently running out fucks to give. Sad but I accepted my situation.
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>>29364386

26 year old KHV, I haven't spoken to a woman in 6 years. I'm a NEET with no friends. Being ugly and fat is a deadly combo for sociability. I've already accepted that I will always be a friendless, sexless loser. Half my life is over and I've done nothing. No woman would accept me and I wouldn't be able to accept a non-virgin like myself for fear of getting an std.

I've never had a positive experience with girls and women and men hate me because I'm ugly and fat.
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Well there are women who never had a -formal-boyfriend at the age of 28

Of course they are total sluts
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27 but also hugless kissless. Not bad.
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>>29369266
You can fix the fat part, breh.
,,, but ugly itself can be a deal breaker unless you have confidence. Maybe you have confidence? Maybe losing weight would give you confidence?
I'm ugly but have also been fit so I don't have any confidence. I'm actually a little bit envious of your situation since the change from fat to fit could give you that boost you need to pursue what you want.
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>feel bad for no gf
>mom keeps calling me gay because I don't have a gf
>makes fun of me saying "nobody even wants you, you're a fag and you can't even get a man"
>tfw going to snap one day and stab her 54 times and be painted like I was the bad guy
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>>29369000
its a pretty bad feeling bro. i wish i was bi
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I once had a gf, i fucked her a bunch, it was great.
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>>29369322

Even if I lost the fat, I'm a manlet with a lazy eye, acne scars, and ugly facial features. It's just too late and too difficult for me to find a woman that would accept that. I'll just be a forever alone.
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Robros I am 47 and have had no contact with women at all, the most is an accidental bump on a bus, I never had a mom so never been hugged by one either, after you hit 30 you just don't care anymore
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>>29369323
My sides, so are you a faggot or what? She must be right though even with you not having a gf you must act gay or do queer shit to make her think you like cock, also if she is right dont take anger out on her faggot
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>be me
>tfw no gf
>hgv
>be 24
>get good income
>loads of fat single moms living on welfare are interested in me
>fuck them in the ass
>fuck them in the mouth
>never touch their pussy
>leave them hanging. They think they have secured me as their beta bux boy
>never spend a penny on them
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>>29369364
What about a short, fat girl with a lazy eye, acne scars, stretch marks, and ugly facial features?

I know I would love myself an ugly girlfriend... just not fat. I can't deal with fat.
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>>29369303
Any plans on suicide or what? I'm 28 and in the same boat, I keep occupied with vidya and anime I'm also a NEET, fapping isnt to bad
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>>29369423

She's got a whole line of men orbiting her that are better than me. No point in even putting in the effort. You're either attractive or you're not.
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>>29369409
No, not at all. I've even toyed with the idea of showing her my fap folder as proof but thats probably a terrible idea.
I guess normals think if you don't pull girls you must be after guys?
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>>29369414
Have you ever been fucked up the ass?
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>>29369414
You are legend, anon.

I took a single moms' anal virginity once, totally worth it. She used to buy ME stuff, sugarmomma is where it's at.
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>>29369461
Maybe you should give the guy thing a try then? When I was a teen many years ago my friends mom though we were gay cuz we played video games together all the time and didnt have gf, she was def wrong
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>>29369447
>She's got a whole line of men orbiting her that are better than me
I doubt this is true but I know you're going to believe what you believe; I do the same thing myself. In fact, that one hangup could be the only thing preventing us from getting into a relationship: believe that we have lost before even trying.

Oh well; too much effort to fix such a long-held belief.
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>>29369467
>>29369509
I love the /lgbtbbqlmao/ invasion
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Even if you get a gf and have sex she'll just leave you and then you'll have no gf and no sex again. Plus the pain of losing her.
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>>29369514

Yeah, it's easy to say that it's doubt holding me back but as I've said, I have never had a positive experience with a woman in my life.
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>>29369373
Christ 47? Get a hooker senpai
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>>29369434
Nah, I have a job and live a modest life not having someone leech off me. I'm good.
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Im about to be 25 in 2 weeks and no gf ever!the loneliness and depression is really getting to me,when I was back in high school I knew a girl that was so into me but I didnt find her too attractive I just thought nope I'll get someone better looking but now I wish I would of made her my gf to see how it feels like
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>falling for the "a gf will wipe away all my problems" meme

women have much more problems and will make your current ones even worse
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i had a racist hot skinny sugar milf for 4 weekends. her butthole didn't even smell! i'm so lonely now. fuck me.
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>tfw other people ktf
>tfw not truly alone
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>>29368795
Not all about sex. I want to watch a movie, go to a restaurant, go on holiday; it would be nice not to do these things alone.
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>>29369854
This, man
I'm just so sick of constantly being alone

I wish I could do things with other people instead of always being that guy who shows up to a traditionally social thing with no friends.
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>>29369220
>40 kv
Damn, I have no words anon.
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26 here

I don't even know how I am supposed to approach a girl.

I'm not dumb and not extremely hideous either, but I feel like a subhuman for not managing to do what 99.99% of humanity experienced before age 20.

Experiencing love and sex is so natural that you have more chances to win the lottery than be a KHV for all you life. In a sort of way it's extraordinary by itself
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>>29369956

15% of men remain virgins their whole lives and 98% of those people are white men. It isn't that extraordinary.
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>>29369956
>to approach a girl.
Have you tried online dating?
I'm just curious... I haven't tried it myself; it just feels too fake or maybe I don't want to realize that nobody is attracted to me.

>>29370018
Is it really that high? What is your source?
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>>29370018
It was closer to 4%
And of those a number of them are the severely mentally retarded and physically handicapped

>tfw below even some downies out there that end up getting laid
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>>29364386
Wizchan has rumored 50 year olds who never had a girldfriend, or are still virgins.

>tfw this thread got beaten... by accident.
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>>29364386
Women are garbage. Stay single and work on your career while living frugally. Buy a comfy house on a big piece of land and maybe get a dog. Eat well and enjoy porn, vidya, reading, weightlifting, hunting, etc. Develop skills like woodworking, painting, music.

Your life will be richer than you can imagine. Women will never be your intellectual or moral equal, so stop looking outward for fulfillment. True happiness comes from within.
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>>29370018
>15%

divide that number by 1000 and you'll be closer to reality.

Anecdotal evidence I know, but even the most socially awkward guys in highschool that I knew managed to get a girlfriend at some point at 20 or 21 max.

Even on this board, supposed to welcome to most desperate people when it comes to relationships, late KVH are a tiny minority, that says a lot.

>>29370055
>Have you tried online dating?

Actually tried tinder recently. I managed to get a few girls to like my profile (most of them below average in look, but Im not in position to complain about it). However as soon as the conversation starts, I simply don't know what to say other than platitudes and the conversation quickly terminates. I dont know how to seduce a girl, online or IRL. I never got normie friends for me to watch and learn, and obviously no one taught me how
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My friend got married to a woman when his grandma passed and he got 20k. They ate out everyday and basically lived the high life. When his money went dry she cheated on him with a pastor.
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> 25EV

Things are slowly changing for me. I've focused on my health among other things for a decade now, and the other day I caught myself miring my image in a mirror.

> inb4 typical /fit/ beginning homo
I don't lift. This is all via diet alone, plus healthy living with lots of sleep and cardio.

My skin shines, my bodyfat seems even lower than the 10% it was measured at years ago, I altogether have radiant health. Even thought my BMI says I'm severely underweight, I don't look auschwitzmode, and I'm in really good shape for my weight.

My voice is fully back, after years of chronic flu. Deep and with character.

Next, I'm going to work on my eyes. The glasses I have are somehow wrong, when using them I get bloodshot eyes daily. Can't afford new ones, so I'll see about having rest days with little/no computer use (I don't need glasses to read a book or normal life, just on a computer or to read far signs) as well as looking into eye diet.

> tldr
> anon focuses on health, surprisingly health improves
> no hope of gf ever, but I still have shit to fix
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>>29370318
Light-skinned or dark-skinned black?
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>>29364476

Fuck off, normie scum. Go back to plebbit and STAY THERE
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The sad truth of nature is that some people never manage to mate. I thought it was sad that I got my first real girlfriend at 20 (kissed chicks and stuff, but none of them were interested in being serious with me), but goddamn this place makes me feel slightly better.

Been with the same girl now for 3 years. She's putting on weight though, and I'm not sure what to do other than give her intestinal worms and then the cure for intestinal worms without her noticing.
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>>29368770
Do you live in America?
I've really been thinking a lot lately that since I'm getting closer and closer to 30 that I may actually have to really pay for sex. It just seems more difficult over here.
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>>29364386
How tall are you? If you're above 5'9" you have no excuse.
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>>29371684

"Necessary, but not sufficient", ever heard that phrase?
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>>29371703
ah, small dick. Just don't whip it out in front of her before you get to the bedroom. At that point she's kinda locked in, even if feminists try to say she's not.
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I'm scared guys, I'm turning 23 this year and I get the feeling I might never get a gf and get laid

I know myself, I could very well continue to be passive about this until I'm in my deathbed. Champion of melodram patheticism I am, couldn't save myself for my life
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damn now I feel sad about Yang
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>>29366213
>>29366238
>>29368333
>>29368486
>>29368739
>>29368901
>>29368967
>>29369103
>>29369140
>>29369266
>>29369283

You're almost there, gentlemen. The powers of a wizard must be gained at a price.
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>>29371969
Escorts, man. GFs are overrated, they take over the apartment, they don't do the kinky shit, they put on weight, cook like shit, and you have to deal with all the stages of their pubic hair between shaving. pick 3 of those to deal with for any given girl.

Escorts come over, do whatever you want, and then they leave. A lot of the time you can get a discount or even something extra if you smoke them out.
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18 years old virgin. I kissed once on a party but I forced a drunk girl to kiss with me. Feels kinda like cheating
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>>29370224

Sage tier advice.
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>>29372101
but I have been told escorts are pathetic since I was a child. Also, I feel sorry to exploit unlucky women that way
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27 in a few months and never had a girlfriend or been on a date. I tried a few times in high school but I was always made fun of. After that I stopped trying. As a teenager I started developing a real dislike for people that never subsided. I got bullied and made fun of so much I lost the ability to be comfortable around people, they always put me on edge. I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. I went through college without a social life and I've been working for 2 years without a social life. No friends, nothing really. I'm comfortable being around other people now but I still don't like them.

And to be honest I don't really care. I used to get worked up over it, but I just don't care anymore. In all likelihood I am gonna be a wizard.

I could turn it around as I'm "okay" looking and I make alright money. I just don't care. I don't like women, they strike me as entitled, and I don't like the dating dynamics wherein I take all of the risk and pay for everything in order to prove I'm worth some girl's time. Fuck that. It's a shitty deal.
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>>29372189
Pfft, unlucky women? nah man, not unlucky. Exploited by their family and scumfuck people trying to make money off of them. Exchanging money for services is probably the most honest transaction they've made with another human being.

The same people arguing that escorts are the ones molesting children. Pay them what they ask, be polite, and you'll be their favorite customer.

Women hate escorts because then they don't have any "pussy power."
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you guys, this can be really easy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRyVbuUDRM4
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>>29364386

I'm closing in on 40, and have only had one setup date. I slow danced with two girls at a church dance once, but I'm sure they cringed immediately afterwards. Never had female friends and most of my male friends were school-only. Was NEET for my 20s, and been a student most of my 39s. Still going to school on a masters track.
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>>29370088

Wizchan is full of 18 year olds just like r9k. They have a major superiority complex. It's a comfy place to hang out every now and then, but I just see it as a stricter /r9k/ where the fembots post incognito.
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>>29364386
30 here. it sucks. i don't think about it as much as I used to.
I've never made an effort though. I don't blame women for me not trying, like a lot of guys here seem to do.

I know that if I can figure out how to accept myself for who I am, that I can find someone out there for me.

But it takes work, and until I'm willing to step and face the fear of rejection, nothing will happen.
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>>29365268
Max Lvl? oh no my wizard friend the mana grows exponentially afterwards. im on lvl 33 and I can tell what people are going to say just by looking at their faces. the manual is on its way
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>>29369409
get a load of this low level normie getting his kicks.
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>>29372278

I respect you, in all honesty.
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>>29372278
I don't even have anxiety nor do I have a problem with people as I have a decent social life but I have decided to shun women for much of the same reasons as you do. It's simply not worth the effort. Why waste my time on making someone else happy and to make them feel important when I could instead be focused on improving myself?
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>>29370224
boom so glad I kept my wizardom who wants to be a filthy normie anyways
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>>29364981
Same here, no hands, hugs, nothing.
Life is a blur and I regularly can remember what I've been doing for the past week or month.
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>>29372278
let go of the anger. I was like that as well but now I just see everybody as victims to a fucked up culture that we where written out of a long time ago. what I am saying is dont let it get to you and keep your heart open. as much as people fall to stereotypes not all of them are. Id be your friend but then again you would probably think im up to something.
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>>29369373
That's good to hear. I've been trying to fight biological compulsions to no avail. Glad it takes care of itself.
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>>29372986
>I'm closing in on 40, and have only had one setup date. I slow danced with two girls at a church dance once, but I'm sure they cringed immediately afterwards. Never had female friends and most of my male friends were school-only. Was NEET for my 20s, and been a student most of my 39s. Still going to school on a masters track.

just wanted to say how impressive i think it is that you're still motivated to finish your degree. i'm only 24 and got to just over halfway to a bachelors in comp sci but i dropped and haven't been back in 18 months, basically given up on it.

to still be making strides forward and not giving up despite being much further along... props to you bro.
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>>29372986
I'm with that other anon. You motivation is admirable. Wish I hadn't dropped out and become a wage slave.
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>>29372278
Please be my bf. Skype anon?

I'm 24
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>>29372986
Goddamn anon. I was partnered with a guy who was 42 and working on his bachelors and he worked 100% harder than me on his course work. Good for you. I really hope life and love finds you well.
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>>29369935
>instead of always being that guy who shows up to a traditionally social thing with no friends.

I try my best not to give a fuck, but it's not that easy.

It's highly likely that I become a 26 year old virgin in august.
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>>29364386

go to europe or asia or south america, OP. theyre not spoiled princesses there and they appreciate an actual man
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>>29373813
>let go of the anger. I was like that as well but now I just see everybody as victims to a fucked up culture that we where written out of a long time ago. what I am saying is dont let it get to you and keep your heart open.
It's way too late for that. I'm too set in my ways. And I'm reminded almost daily why I don't like socializing at work. Even when I come across someone I can stand, they inevitably want to do something with OTHER people. I play online games, and I read websites like this, and that is just the right amount of talking to people that I want.

>>29374036
Trust me, you don't want to. And I'm not saying that as a way to make myself out as some special snowflake. I haven't had a social life in years, even the professionals would diagnose me as fucked up. I work full time in IT but I live with my parents because I literally never need to have people over. If I ever tried dating I would have to completely fake my entire life so they wouldn't run away. No one likes a recluse.

It's pretty much over for me and I don't give a shit. I'm going to buy a house in the middle of fucking nowhere and spend my time on the computer.
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Guys I'm 25 almost 26 and its finally dawning one me that it just isn't going to happen in this life time, unless I scrape the absolute bottom of the barrel. What the fuck do I do? I'm too pussy to kill myself, but focusing on "hobbies" only makes me sadder. I don't even have the drive to want to get a good career and make money, what would the point be? Be a slightly less poor virgin with a nicer car? Guys this isn't a joke here, you get one chance at life and its not looking so good so far. I see couples at my job a lot, most of the guys aren't even better looking or taller than me. But I just can't do it for some reason. Its like god is trolling me. Video games don't work as an escape, even getting stoned and drunk doesn't work now. I really do see why people kill themselves . I mean there is no hope for a guy like me.
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Is that physics instructor guy here? I'd love to take him for a drink.
no homo
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>>29374558

Socializing has turned into absolute hell at work for me. I work with a bunch of other 20 something year olds. Individually I get along with them, but when we're in a group things get awkward for me. And they banter with each other but always leave me out. And I know they talk about me.
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>>29364981
>>29373759

Hey fellow 32ers. We made it past 30 without killing ourselves!
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>>29364843
No because its not always a pleasant feign memory and often times your brain will fuck you over constantly with emotions
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>>29374672

Not to be a dick but I don't know how you survive. I'm a pussy but I really really really can't take another 5 years of this + wage cucking at the same time. I can't take 9 hours of work 5 days a week coming home to an empty house and my computer, I just can't do it. I might have to get really drunk and do something stupid.
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closing in on 25 HKV here had to drop out of school because of social anxiety and I know I have it bad because I blushed whenever someone talked to me in class it was embarrassing I scared everyone away,I am being a NEET at the moment living with my parents super depressed pls kill me I dont know what to do
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>>29374723

train hop through europe and explore north america by living in a van
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>>29374723
Well, I'm pretty much a neet who lives with my family so every day is a blur. I would have likely killed myself if I had to work and pay bills since I would have had no motivation due to crippling loneliness.

I have a bachelors degree and I volunteer, so in between neetdom I've done something. After age thirty, though, no matter what you're struggling to do, it's kind of like a no death run on a game that's getting increasingly more difficult to play.

If anything goes wrong and I'm forced to fend for myself, I'm pulling the plug unless I've found out how to integrate and become functional in society.
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>>29369103
So only Penis In Vagina invalidates wizard powers?
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>>29364386

>48 y.o. kissless virgin reporting in!

eventually, sometime after 30 and without any willpower, you just stop being obsessed by it.
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>>29375053

can't you get a prostitute ?
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I'll turn 21 soon

Still have hope
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I always figured it was just something that would happen naturally. But i see now that if you just live your life it is 100% possible to just drift along and never find love.
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28 year old kissless hugless handholdless virgin.

I usually ignore it but I'll have realizations of how alarming it is. I think it gauges how well one is doing with their social and emotional needs, not really the social stigma of being a loser.
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It's not really surprising

Something like 25% of Japanese males age 35+ are virgins.

The West (Europe and America) are just catching up, this generation and next.
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>>29364386
23, recent college grad.

I gave up a year ago. Online dating never worked for me and it feels like applying for a job. And I'm nearing that age where 'dating' doesn't equate to more casual meeting but formal dinner dates and talking about stupid normalfag bullshit that I have no interest in. If that's the only way I can get a gf, I'm content with dying alone.

Give me a small place to myself to live and a cat or dog. Fuck the rest.
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>>29375328
>dad keeps yelling at me about what a loser I am for being a 24 y/o virgin and how he was slaying pussy in his youth
>he doesn't understand I'm just a cool new age Japan-style herbivore male
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>>29364386
First 3 years is alright in a relationship but than I wished I could be single. Play vidya without nagging, meet friends without nagging, have more sex without begging, read a book without accused of being boring.
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>>29364386
If anyone is thinking of going gay post ur Skype ;)
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>>29375328

Asians once again ahead of the curve. This is just natures way of saying it doesn't need genetic garbage like us. So we retreat into our rooms and live in fantasy with video games/anime/movies.
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19 years old kissless virgin here, I actually did hugging and hand holding, and I talk to females on a tegular basis, bur that's because I'm boring an unthreatning, so I'm the perfect emotional tampon.
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>>29374631
I work with older people and for the most part I am left alone. I still get the occasional "SOMEONE needs a girlfriend" or I get made fun of for behaving like an autistic person. But for the most part, we get along, because I keep all conversations strictly work related.

My goal at this point is to get a fully remote job and remove all interaction with people out of my life. Obviously I'm not having a girlfriend much less getting married or having children. When I look at the state of the world, it seems pretty fucking shitty, so I don't really see any benefit in bringing more people into it anyway.

All my work is on the computer so it can be done remotely. I am buying a small house in remote Nevada, Arizona, or Colorado and working just enough to pay for the essentials. Other people always bring unwanted noise in my life, and never anything good, so I'm done with them. No more people. You can only shit on a guy so much before he decides he's finished playing the game.
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I am 24 and a half. Kissless virgin, never asked a girl out in my life. The reason for this, besides being ugly, is because I haven't had friends since middle school.

Because I haven't had friends (clearly due to a shit personality), I have not really gained many interests. Because I have not gained interests, I don't really get out there to meet people, let alone girls. Even when I do get out there, I'm alone, and no one wants to be with a guy who's alone. And now that I'm 24 with no experience and still no friends, I'm too afraid to even try either getting friends or a girlfriend because I will have no idea how to act with either of them
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Guys. If you want to fuck than go to the nearest hotel with a bar. In the evening The bar is full of business women and they are mostly easy to pick, because they want light talking and a little fuck. Get a nice suit or so, approach the lady and start talk about the day, be w bit of funny and sgphe want the d. Obviously most of this lady are a bit older and have a husband somewhere, so don't fall in love.
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>>29375624
>You can only shit on a guy so much before he decides he's finished playing the game.

Summed it up better than I ever could.
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>>29375624
>My goal at this point is to get a fully remote job and remove all interaction with people out of my life
My ultimate dream as well. I hope you make it, robot
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>>29375624

Oh I get the same thing from older female co workers. They constantly ask why I don't have a girlfriend, or when I'm getting one. They love putting me on the spot. I guess I can't suffer alone, the entire office has to know I don't have a gf.
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>>29365100
>Some years ago I had 3 dates with a girl
>never kissed, never hold hands.
how does that even work?
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I get that line mainly from the women. I think there is some kind of evolved psychology where older women (who aren't having any more kids) pressure young men to get with other women.

I usually laugh it off because I don't want to spill tons of spaghetti and start lecturing them about how much women have treated me like shit in school every time I tried to be friends, or how relationships nowadays consist purely of the man making sacrifices for the women until he croaks or they split up. That would just make an already awkward situation worse.

I think they see me, a young guy, reasonably healthy, fairly normal in appearance, making more money than most people my age, and they think I should obviously be dating. I'd much rather spend my time playing games because that way I don't have to subject myself to embarrassing rejections, spend my time trying to "impress" someone who has had countless boyfriends before, and I save my money. The first time I asked a girl out in high school she literally laughed at me and said I was too ugly for her. I'd imagine most women are more mature in their twenties, but I don't care. I'm not making myself vulnerable anymore just to please someone else who, in all likelihood, winds up being a total cunt. Fuck them.

I'm done playing the game, and frankly I finished a long time ago, when I was about 19 and starting college. That's when I realized I really didn't fucking like people at all, and even if I did it was irrelevant, because there's something innately fucked up about me that makes people love to utilize me as a plaything for their own amusement. I'll be a loser for the rest of my life but I'm not going to be a fucking schmuck on top of that. I've wisened up to how other people treat me, and I'm not giving them the opportunity anymore. I stopped talking to people years ago.

Going to buy a trailer in the desert and fuck off for good. All I need is an ISP and a grocery store within a few hours of driving.
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>>29376260
What do you think you do on dates?
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>>29376865
Is there anyone you like? Or is it you just don't like people in general? Do you have anyone you would call a friend or something like that?
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>Is there anyone you like? Or is it you just don't like people in general? Do you have anyone you would call a friend or something like that?
I don't like people because almost every single interaction I have with them wind up being negative. There's a few people I'm ambivalent about because they leave me the fuck alone and only talk to me about work-related things. Seemingly everyone else has to make comments about how fucking autistic I am or how I don't have a girlfriend. In high school I got beat up and called a faggot, but that's not work appropriate. I get the message, I don't need to be reminded.

There's one guy I play computer games with online. He's the only person I consider a friend. I haven't had any friends in real life for years. I had some friends in high school but they realized I was the loser you make fun of and distanced themselves.

So I'm done. I don't need additional negativity. I'm going to place myself far, far away from the sniveling assholes that comprise humanity. I'll be a loser, but I'm not being a fucking tool, and I'm not being a schmuck. Anyone trespasses on my property they're going to be removed pronto.

I'll have a computer for entertainment and that's all I need.
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23. Still a virgin too.
I'm not sure if I count though because I've rejected a few girls, mainly because of my neurotic delusions and self-loathing.
And partly because of unreasonable high standards.
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>>29377335
You don't sound like a loser at all to me. Sorry to hear you've had bad experiences with people. Best of luck.
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>>29370071
>a number of them are the severely mentally retarded and physically handicapped
Wow you robovirgins must be real losers then if that is who you share a bed with, so to speak.

me too...
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>>29364644
They aren't on 4chan.
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I'm 32 and recently went back to college. Never had gf. I try to date but it's hard and I get rejected constantly. I don't set my standards crazy high either but even single moms aren't into me.

I've been hanging out in a steam group/discord for a few years and those people are pretty much the closest thing to a friend I have (even if I don't talk much).

Recovering from PTSD (veteran) as well. I hope things work out someday maybe I just need more time. I don't know.
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>27 here had a good job, I'm fit and have plenty of hobbies been rejected all my life because of my height.
>The anger I hold towards western women is quite strong.
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>>29370224
Enjoy being alone forever kid.
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>>29364386
30 year old virgin. On a summer internship in dc. Its gotten really lame since I constantly see couples together to remind me of my failure.
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>>29369220
Can you summon the spirits of the dead? What elements do you command?
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35 years HKV. Never even tried. Always seemed like something that was for other people and not for me.
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>>29378705
What about you makes you not worthy of intimacy?
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>>29364981
>Or even had a causal conversation
How?
I've never been in a relationship/virgin but I've had conversations with women
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>>29370318
>he got 20k. They ate out everyday and basically lived the high life
top kek
$20k really isn't a lot of money at all.
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>>29364386
23 kv, high functioning autism.
I want to get a job but I cant even drive.
Parents wont let go, they wont let me learn to drive they dont want me to gt a job they want me to stay here forever and I just want out.

Im clinging to a glimmer of hope that there is SOMEONE out there that will love me. But the longer I live, the more lies I find I've been told. I dont even know if Women are humans anymore. They are so different I cant see myself ever having a conversation with one.
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>>29369724
This is why we should all just leave here. No gf here, no gf there. And then this virginity is special shit. just fuck if you can and dont if you can't. But don't fucking talk about this and only this all the time on here. There are so many things to talk about and yet every thread becomes a baww nogf thread.
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>>29370318
>cheated on him with a pastor

I mean, i love italian food, but that's just going too far
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>>29364386
>can anyone beat that?
29. two years shy, man.

>How are you holding up?
drunk on beer in mom's basement. could be better (motivate myself to have a life), could be worse (could be homeless
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>>29364644

Women live longer so that excess of women are a bunch of 90 year olds in retirement homes. That and women are more then happy to share top men.
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>>29364386
Ten more years and you're a wizard man, keep it up.

But really you're not missing much, sex is very overrated. I have a girlfriend and we hardly have sex as it's just not super great, it's much more fun to watch a movie together or play video games.
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>>29380447
Why can't you people just die?
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>>29369373
>after you hit 30 you just don't care anymore

Thank fuck. Just gotta wait for wizardhood.
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>>29371969

>Turning 23 soon as well.
>So ugly that people go out of their way to be hostile to me.
>Autistic with OCD.

I'm surprised I've only tried to kill myself once.
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25 and I don't have a desire for girlfriend or sex. I don't think I have the capacity to care for someone on that level, I don't even care about myself. Sure I find girls attractive and get all horned up but I just rub one out and I'm completely satisfied with that. The thought of being intimate with someone is unsettling, I think if by some miracle I was offered sex I would refuse.
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>>29364981
So sad it cant be real
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