What were you parents like during your childhood? Mine were
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What were you parents like during your childhood?
Mine were very overprotective and encouraged me to play video games instead of going outside.
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>Fed me shit tier food.
>Terrible cooks
>Dad wouldn't play catch with me
>Never taught me anything
>Constantly yelled at over petty shit
>Never saw my parents talk to a single friend on the phone or spend time with any friend
>Never learned social skills
>Dad worked at walmart and was hoarder.
>Entire house filled with worthless shit he bought for 90% off
>>29077243
Mine were the same way, except they didnt horde. Wouldnt let me outside though so no friends and I was morbidly obese
My mom grounded me for the entire semester if I got less than a 95 in any of my elementary classes.
She also studied me to death. She made me sit until I could answer every question in the chapter the test was on in order without missing one. (Same for spelling/vocab)
By the time she stopped i had no idea how to study and got shit grades and didnt give a fuck
She then forced me to go to college and I limped out with a 2.8GPA STEM degree.
Ironically I now make $40k a year as a Database Presorter (Company that wants to do a paper mailing sends us a big database of say 10million clients with addresses and all that shit, as well as specs for what the mailing will be) I format the data and run it through a program called Satori Presort so that they get the best postage rates.
I now make more than my parents have combined at any point in their life and they fucking hate me for it
>>29076858
Pretty much non existent.
Not sure if this makes sense, but the best way I can explain it is they were trying to raise a different son than they had, and when they realized it, they gave up. They sort of expected me to be a successful extrovert like my brother, but I wasn't.
Then I got diagnosed with autism and OCD and they tried to go overprotective, but by then it was too late. So I still was treated like I'm incompetent and didn't get any freedoms, like an overprotective child, but they didn't really help me or anything either.
At family events I'm always mistreated, somewhere between the autistic special needs child, a major joke and an invisible being (the last is the best but it never lasts long).
I fucking despise them (parents and extended family) as well, because they're always mean/rude as fuck to me, but since they give me money for my birthdays or whatever they think I should love them, and so they always say shit like
>anon you never call
>why do you avoid us, we're your family
>we barely even know what you look like anymore
Also my older brother used to bully me, but they were always on his side because he is the successful extroverted one that everyone prefers (with good reason to be fair, but that doesn't mean they have to mistreat me).
>batshit
>incompetent
>possessive
and a single mom
>>29077722
I hate autistic people for existing on the same planet as me. I hate you.
>>29076858
have 2 sisters and my familie bought a camping trailerin the netherlands, a upper middleclass thing to do in the 90's
>be me
>never had a "traditional" father son relationship
>go fishing with him from time to time
>we made plans where to go, he even bought my own root
>be fucking happy and excited for the first time in a long time
>than there was this boy...
>in the next trailer there was a familie who had a son
>my father took him on the trip, ditched me for a boy he didn't even knew who fucking stole from him
i have a shitty familie
>>29077842
Cool. Thanks for pointing that out.
>implying ANYONE outside of your little world gives a fuck about what you think
>single mom
>overprotective
>let me do as i wished
>never confrotational
>afraid of everything
>depressed
>mind games
In HS i was the exactly definition of a beta cuck. 4chan helped me a bit, now i'm edgelord but at least people respect me.
>mom was/still is an alcoholic who used me to get back at dad
>dad was never home, always at bars or work
kill me
The only good thing about having overprotective parents was when they made my maths teacher cry.
Apart from that it was unpleasant.
>>29077865
Something similar. Before 4chan i was a human doormat. Now I'm lonely edgemaster but dear God it is the better fate.
My parents wanted me to go out more and not play videogames so they started buying me alcohol and took me to get drunk with their friends.
If I didn't reply to my parents texts when I was out with my friends within 15 minutes, my Dad would come out in his car looking for me and return me to my mother who was probably crying and hyperventilating.
>>29076858
my father beat us up once a week and my mother was overprotective. i got the jackpot guys.
>>29077722
are you me?
my parents broke me and my sisters have ben more than happy that they managed it
i won't say i was a fucking wonder child or something
but i was pretty smart and everyone i knew made sure i knew that im smart friends familie teacher, i was that kid who was constantly correcting the teacher
but my parents would like to have a better son so they send me outside most of the time literly kiked me out and only let me in if it was about to get dark
they wanted me to make friends and i fucking did but i couldn't manage school along with 'em
father tells me i should kill my self for being worth less than shit
sisters kept throwing me under the bus for stupid shit telling me i was worthless to and i only could be a rapist or murderer and i opted out on life at this point, like i literly don't give a fuck till today
eventualy i broke down at the age of 16 i was mentaly destroyed i was just waiting to die sitting in school and playing vidya in my room in my free time was the only thing i've done in the past 8 years with the occacional high payed job
ditched all my friends because fuck'em
ditched my familie because they never give a fuck about me in the first place now im all alone....
but im happy this way, if i could define "happienes" anyways
these digits tho
>>29076858
>never let me go over to friends houses never let me have anyone over
>verbally abusive to the point were I would cry then they would mock me for crying
>would make fun off the way I dressed and the way I looked
>would call me dumb all the time and compare me to others
>never let me participate in school activities
>called me a shy loser because I always got nervous around others because I never developed social skills.
>would always talk about how their lives would be easier without children
>would call me a lazy bitch and selfish when I said I didn't want to have kids
>would beat me when I was younger till I cried then they would tell me to stop crying or they would give me something to cry about
>In pre-school I had a crush on a qt3.14 and I told my parents. They laughed at me and mocked me for years. They then told my relatives and they mocked me as well
My shit is fucked up senpai
>>29078140
How old are you. Do you not talk to your parents at all?
>>29078096
What was his preferred weapon of choice.
>>29077821
sounds about right
Oreganalli
>>29078297
24 and no
the last 2 years i lived there i didn't say a single word to my father no greetings no nothing left the house on birthday christmas and other "festivities" so i can get away from everyone
>>29078379
Have they ever tried contacting you.
>>29077722
Iktfb
I know that feel bro
>>29076858
very over protective but poor so no vidya
Good parents, dad did boy scouts and shit with me and practiced sports with my bro and I. He drank a lot but he was never abusive, worked a lot too but it was for us.
Mom was a bit overprotective but not painfully so. She let a lot of dumb shit I do slide but still raised me well. It was my own fault I became a fuck up.
>>29076858
Dad was physically abusive and mom was extremely emotionally abusive
>>29078254
sucks to be you m8
i don't know what or if i could say something uplifting
>>29078397
sometimes, yes but i don't care
last time i saw my mother i told her why i am who i am
how hard they fucked me, and i told her that i don't want to see her ever again nor talk to her or my father again
not gonna lie, it was hard to tell her the honest truth because i do still care about my mother but done with this shit now
>>29076858
> it's a "It was totally my parents fault I'm a pathetic sack of useless shit" thread
Nice. Kill yourself.
overprotective, i remember going out with friends, one of them were calling me i need to be home.
when i did have a car, they asked me where i was going what time i was coming home.
>>29078525
>implying throwing a kid on the streets would make him a millionaire
>implying years of abuse won't go by unnoticed
>implying if hit someone often and hard enough he becomes steven hawkins
>>29078319
belt. i became a sadist myself thanks to it. also he's feeling sorry for it and apologized so it's all cool.
>>29076858
Mom was overprotective and she wouldnt allow me to do anything on my own, dad was a manipulative and violent dick to us
>>29078519
So are you planning on never talking to them again?
>>29078525
Normal fags are so solipsistic. They seem to think everyone who has ever lived has the same life as them. News flash some parents are complete shit and cause serious damage to their kids. I've seen Chad Tier dudes fail miserably because of how bad their parents were.
>>29078634
thats the core idea of my plan, yes
Mine too. How so I learn to be a normie? or is it too late
>>29078719
Honestly those who are robots as kid/teens never fully recover. Those are your formative years. It's where you develop who you are. Most of the "successful" robots I know just learn how to put on a normie mask, but they are still miserable.
>>29078254
You are a female, and therefore you are exaggerating things in order to sound like the victim. I bet your parents were fine.
>>29078895
I'm a dude. Why do you think i'm a female.
>>29078895
lol what are you? gay? hahahaha
My mum was always smoking pot fighting with my siblings, throwing shit around, screaming like a toddler. My dad was cold and probably on the down low, always working didn't see much of him except the weekends when he would put me in the car and he'd just drive for hours through the countryside.
>tfw your single mom was so overprotective she didn't let you go to pajama parties
>>29076858
Very controlling. They're one of the reasons I have never had a gf. Now that I'm studying away from home, they keep calling me twice or three times a day. Whenever I go out for drinks or something they always keep nagging me until I go back.
>19 and still living with mom
>yesterday she yelled at me for not telling her about my personal life, things I buy, what I do when I go out etc.
>threatened to ground me
>can't just move out because the only job I have is her own business
>>29076858
A piece of shit who only did things to make herself look good.
Basically just because she took us on vacations, only half of which I liked, is only used so that she can use female rationalization and say "because I did x c and y with my kids I game them a good life I'm alright".
I hear her say it on the phone every day.
Meanwhile when I was choosing my first high school my single mom couldn't be assed to get off the phone and pick it with me. She verbally abused me throughout my entire fucking childhood. When I want to get out of the house for college and talk about living in my own she berated me, tells me it'll never happen even with a min wage job and says I don't have control over my life.
2 years later she's bitching about how I need to get out of the house and live on my own with a min wage part time job. As if her disability AND pension checks covering her for the rest of her fucking life makes her life so damn hard. Bitch doesn't even clean this place. I don't ask for anything, maybe some good here and there, use whatever internet and stuff she provides. Note: I wouldn't be in this situation if it wasn't for her. I WANT to leave but not be irresponsible about it.
So here I am, 20 years old, autistic and have an appointment for a special doctor to work on fixing my life, and my mother wants to claim her right to be angry because I've been horrible sick after work for 2 days in a row and she can't but me some FUCKING aspirin while she's hanging out with her boyfriend.
Aspirin. I asked for aspirin and being an adult means nobody gives a shit, but because she's a "mother" i am required to give a shit when she's sick, buy things she needs and even accompany her to the hospital for absolutely nothing.
I couldn't get help from the cunt when I was a kid and I can't even get it now. She knows I'm not mentally stable, but can't make a phone call for me so I can be at ease until I get proper help.
Females. Not even fucking once.
Mom
>was addicted to painkillers
>had post-partum depression
>would sleep all day, eat only chocolate, and play online games on the computer (early 2000s) at my elementary through high school age
>she wasn't fat either, surprisingly
>didnt really teach me much until I reached adulthood
Dad
>never seen him drink in my life
>rarely saw him though, he's a truck driver
>hed be gone for sometimes 3 months
>only thing I knew how to relate to him was to be interested in trucks
>basically was his mini-mechanic and he taught me as much as he knew
>he really didn't teach me a lot either of life though, he was my Disneyland dad
>at least he's perked enough interest and head start for me to follow a career in diesel mechanics.
My parents divorced when I was 5 mostly because my mother cucked my dad with his own brother lol. Until I turned 13 I lived alone with my mother. She suffers from major depression and is incapable of functioning normally without a daily intake of Lexomil or Prozac.
I've always been a daydreaming, lonely kid that disliked school and she wanted a top performing child. My grades weren't that bad but I became increasingly rebellious, she had enough and shipped me to my father. Other than that, she did her best and was well meaning.
My father is a controlling, highly charismatic self made man with some kind of savior complex. His work was top priority and since I didn't get along too well with his new girlfriend I went to live with his business associate which I knew since I was a kid. I spent my teenage years living with this man, next to their workplace in this godforsaken industrial area. I hated those years. I can't stand my father either and moved out as soon as I turned 18.
>>29079262
Living with toxic parents and being unable to move out is terrible.
